Friday, February 3, 2017


RUBBING  OUR  THROAT 


INTROUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Rubbing Our Throat.”

Today, on this feast of St. Blaise, throats are blessed.

Supposedly St. Blaise helped a kid who had a fishbone stuck in his throat.  Maybe he did the Heimlich maneuver method long, long before Henry Heimlich.  I thought I read that Henry Heimlich only used his method once - and that was near the end of his life - but it’s estimated that at least 100,000 people were helped with his method in his lifetime: February 3, 1920 Wilmington, Delaware to Dec. 17, 2016.

So I thought for a homily to say a few ideas about the throat - touching and rubbing our throat.

So do some thinking about the throat during this  mass and then at the end accept the blessing - at large or one to one - and hopefully, you’ll have some key thoughts about your throat for this mass. 

BODY LANGUAGE

How many times in a given day, do we put our hand to our throat?

In sign language, besides using fingers for letters, some folks short cut with regular signals. Like cup of tea is [cup] with one hand and move one’s other hand up and down, as if one is trying to get the t-bag to do its job in the hot water. Or rubbing one’s chin - is a sign language symbol for professor. That fits. We can see a teacher - a professor - rubbing his chin before giving a profound answer.

So is there a meaning in sign language for rubbing one’s Adam’s or Eve’s apple? Do people who are deaf pick up body language much better than those of us who can hear?

SIGNIFICANT PART OF OUR BODY

I would assume that one’s neck - the Adam’s apple area to be specific - is more important than the skin on the back of our knee or under our big toe.

The neck is very significant. It’s a key major highway - a key passage way.

Food and drink pass through our neck.

Air passes through our neck.

Words work with our throat and sound system.

Coughs come jumping out of our chest - up through our throat - and out through our mouth. It’s winter time and we all know this very well.

When someone gets a throat tickle, they say, “I might be coming down with a sore throat.”

Blood goes to our brain through our neck.

The thyroid gland is in here - and there is more and more information on how key the thyroid gland is to people.

It can affect our metabolism, hormones. Specialists have to do tests to see how our endocrine system is working.

We get stiff necks when we’re nervous or up tight.

Paul talked about fellow Jews who were stiff necked [Cf. Acts 7:51.]

Detectives when questioning people and asking questions notice neck swallows. Parents when they think kids are lying,  watching their Adam’s apple as well. They want to know if they should swallow what the other is saying.

Sometimes someone is a pain in the neck.

So when communicating with someone, calmly keep your eye on the other person’s hand - and see what questions get them to rub their neck.

Body language experts say the other is comforting their nerves down - when they are rubbing their necks - or pausing to gather their thoughts - so they don’t say something stupid.  

I was wondering why the first anointing in baptism is to put oil on the other person’s Adam’s apple - or the top of their chest. Why that anointing - and why there?

CONCLUSION

Enough words out of the mouth.


Chew on some of this - rub your neck - digest some thoughts and when you get the Saint Blaise blessing at the end of the Mass, you’ll have specifics to pray for.

Thursday, February 2, 2017

February 2, 2017



 NOTIONS

I have notions, assumptions, echoes
about life, about people, about God,
as they move across the floor and wall -
like shadows - in a room - on a February
late afternoon - but like Paul, Christ has
set me free. I’m no longer chained to a wall
in a deep dark cave. I have learned to  know
the difference between shadows and reality.
Okay,  sometimes, I find myself wanting
to return to the fixed security of that cave -
those chains - those dark shadows - to be like
Plato in his rocking chair looking at the walls
of his cave - but Christ - the risen Christ -
the Easter Christ - the fire, the dawn has
dawned. The rock has been rolled back.
The mouth of the cave screams, “Come out.
Come out. Come out! Come follow me!”


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Wednesday, February 1, 2017

February 1, 2017



WALKING 
TOWARDS THE PODIUM

Walking towards the podium, the pulpit,
the microphone, the stage - what is she,
what is he, going to say? What is he 
going to sing? Something I hope that 
tells me about me, that she understands 
anger, frustration, goodness, mistakes,
relationships, life in my shoes, slippers,
mocasins, sins, skin, that she knows
herself, therefore she, he, knows me.
And tell me about God - your experiences,
your moments, your meetings with God?
Now that’s the talk I want to hear. Sing!

 © Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

WISDOM: BE  ATTENTIVE! 
WHERE  DID  THIS  MAN  
GET ALL THIS? 


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Monday in Ordinary Time is, “Wisdom: Be Attentive. Where Did This Man Get All This?”

It’s kind of a long title. And I was even tempted to add the next line in today’s gospel: “What kind of wisdom has been given to him.”

PART ONE: WISDOM BE ATTENTIVE!

In today’s two readings: Hebrews 12: 4-7, 11-15 and Mark 6:1-6 - we hear about wisdom.

In the Greek and Byzantine rites of the Christian - as well as the Catholic Church - the priest at the pulpit says, “Wisdom: Be Attentive” as he holds up the Scriptures for the Faithful.

I must have heard that message chanted 25 times before I got that.

“Wisdom:  Be Attentive.”

I mention in homilies at times: Make that your prayer.

When the priest  or the deacon reads the scriptures - and preaches a homily - I think it’s a good inner saying to say to oneself: “Wisdom: Be Attentive.”

Listen up!

Lord, give me some wisdom today - an insight - a challenge. Pour some new wine into this old wineskin. Break open some new ideas and ideals for me.

So that’s message # 1 for today.

“Wisdom: Be Attentive.”

SECOND MESSAGE: “WHERE DID THIS MAN GET ALL THIS.”

Have you ever found yourself saying about something Jesus said, “Wow! That’s a great insight. Where did Jesus get that insight? What triggered it?

However, I have found out that some people never ask that question, because they see Jesus as God - Divine - and all his wisdom comes from being God - and he had it all from Moment One.

They ignore, leave out the message from the gospel of Luke, “Jesus grew in wisdom, age and grace before God and people.” [Luke 2:52]

I’m glad I was taught to read the gospels and then ask, “What triggered this comment by Jesus.”

So I picture Jesus in the carpenter shop. Some kids come in with their dad. He’s watching them as they start playing a game. I picture Jesus looking at the beautiful feathers of a bird - or beautiful flowers in the field and - who walks by - but someone who is a clothes rack or the front window of a store - screaming, “Hey world, look at me!”

And Jesus laughs comparing humans with birds and flowers. Who are more beautiful?

CONCLUSION

So there are 2 suggestions on what to do when you’re here for the Liturgy of the Word.

First to pray before hearing the readings and the sermon to say, “Wisdom: Be Attentive.”


And secondly: when listening to the readings, ask, “Where did Jesus or the writer of this text, get this wisdom.”  Like today’s first reading talks about bitter roots.  If you are bitter or don’t like better tastes, pull out the bitter roots in your soul.

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Painting on top: John Everett Millais, Christ in the House of His Parents [1849-1850]

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

January 31, 2017

FRAGILE

Eggshells, fluorescent tubes,
some high heels, some insect legs,
the second year of marriage, hey,
it used to be the fourth year of marriage.
FRAGILE - that word should be stamped
in red - on the naked skin of every marriage.
It’s a covenant.  Regular checking out
how things are going…. bending, adjusting,
sacrifices, many sacrifices - and working on
about 5 other specific awareness’s
and a marriage can make it to 50
and 60 years - till death do we part - 
that is, if a couple really want 
a lifetime of great love -
to write a great story together.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2017

Monday, January 30, 2017

January 30, 2017

NONLINEAR

Life is nonlinear - a scribble
at times - unlike the two numbers
and the dash as they call it
on the tombstone. No …
life is bumpy and broken
at times - finally coming around
and coming apart at corners
and there are Frosty roads
not taken which would have made
all the difference. It’s when
I write a poem or look at photos….
It’s when I’m at airports or in planes
I see some of this - and the
rest will take years to figure out.
Sorry. That’s what I know for now.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2017
WHAT SOME PEOPLE 
GO THROUGH


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Monday in Ordinary Time is, “What Some People Go Through.”

TODAY’S READINGS

Last night when I read today’s readings I  said to myself, “Oh no, these are tough and rough readings.”

In the first reading from Hebrews - Chapter 11 - verses 32 to 40 - we hear about women experiencing the death  of loved ones -  hoping for resurrection. We hear about people being tortured, made fun of, mocked, beaten, chained and imprisoned. Some had stones thrown at them. Some were sawed in two. Some were put to death by the sword’s point. Some had to crawl and wander the earth wearing just the skins of sheep or goats. Hebrews says, “They wandered about in deserts and on mountains, in caves and in crevices in the earth.”

The only thing that helped them was their faith - still they were in horrible situations.

So in reading that, that’s why I thought about what some people go through - and I don’t know if we can stomach some of that horror at 6:45 in the morning.

Then in the gospel - Mark 5: 1-20  - we hear about this man who lives in the midst of tombs - and he screams out at night - beating himself with stones.

He’s filled with demons - a legion of demons - till Jesus enters his life and sends the demons into a herd of pigs who  run down a hill and dive into the Sea of Galilee.

Ugh! So that’s why I thought and I kept thinking about what some people go through.

I also kept thinking, “I don’t have it so bad. I don’t have it so bad.”

ON THE CRUISE

Two weeks ago some of us were on a cruise to South America for 17 days.  When we were off the ship and on buses for excursions,  I noticed in the big cities people lying against walls or under trees in a park. As Jesus said, “The poor are always with us.”

Seeing the homeless triggers lots of thoughts in me - including guilty - doubly so - when on what I call a “fat cat cruise” - and we visit a city.

When we were on the big wide muddy La Plata River going into Buenos Aires,  I found out this was the river the government took some protesters and opposition leaders up in a plane and dropped people to their death in that river. The so called “Madres de la Plaza de Mayo” - are still pushing and struggling to gain access and information - about what really happened to their sons especially. This happened between 1976-1983.  The numbers killed go from 9,000 to 30,000 kidnapped and killed.

TV AND RADIO

Next ….

When I watching public TV the other day - the day before the Right to Life March in D.C. I heard Representative Chris Smith from New Jersey speaking about the millions of babies killed, ripped apart, murdered just here in the United States - when aborted. Ugh. He’s been a voice for the voiceless in the womb since the 1981.

I was also listening to public radio the next day and I heard about a Hungarian woman in her 90’s - one of the last of the survivors of Auschwitz - who as a little girl - got off the train in Auschwitz with her mother and family.  Her mom was sent immediately to the gas chambers - and this young girl at the time said, “I didn’t cry.”

I didn’t see these things personally, but these moments trigger thoughts about what others had to go through - and still go through around the world.

WHAT TO SAY

What to say about any of this violence that people go through?

I don’t know.

Today’s gospel tells me Jesus came into our midst and walked with us in these horrors - and experienced them himself as well - with his death on the cross.

Hopefully, the pain and suffering of others hopefully helps us to become more compassionate and understanding.

Hopefully, we will not add to the cruelty of people towards people.

There is a famous American Speech, called, “The Cross of Gold Speech.”

It was about a time in our country when people fought over having gold and silver backing our paper money.

There is a line in that speech that I have thought about at times. The speaker, William Jennings Bryan, says, “I shall object to bringing this question down to a level of persons. The Individual is but an atom; he is born, he acts, he dies; but principles are eternal; and this has been a contest about a principle


Hopefully when it comes to health care, immigration, abortion, prisons, people’s sexuality, basic human respect, we will be much more concerned for people while at the same time that will be our main principal in life. Amen.