Thought for today:
"A kind word
never broke anyone's mouth.
But many times
a man's mouth
has broken his nose.
Irish Proverb
Saturday, March 17, 2018
March 17, 2018
A TRIP THROUGH IRELAND
Trips and dips -
down dirt roads -
embraced - by low lying stone walls -
embraced - by low lying stone walls -
sheep and cows and
rugs - of green grass -
covering - dark brown - fertile earth -
covering - dark brown - fertile earth -
a cart - a car - a
truck - every now and then -
and big solid strong rocks - standing there -
in the middle of a field - sacraments of God.
and big solid strong rocks - standing there -
in the middle of a field - sacraments of God.
It’s a silent St.
Patrick’s Day Parade -
in the
middle of nowhere Ireland - that is - till -
a dozen freckled faced kids start waving -
and oh yes three have Irish red hair - and
two are dancing in front of - a white cottage
- with a black wooden door - and a barking dog..
a dozen freckled faced kids start waving -
and oh yes three have Irish red hair - and
two are dancing in front of - a white cottage
- with a black wooden door - and a barking dog..
© Andy Costello, Reflections
2018
Friday, March 16, 2018
March 16, 2018
MARCH
Here in the north - March is often
an enigmatic month - cold, warmth,
snow, rain, a weather guessing game.
Then there's March Madness, Spring Training, Spring and the Ides of March.
March begins as a dark barren tree month.
March has Purple Lent - with lawns
that will soon be green - with buds
and crocuses - signaling new life.
Resurrection is about to arrive.
The winter of death never wins.
Christ is with us all days.
that will soon be green - with buds
and crocuses - signaling new life.
Resurrection is about to arrive.
The winter of death never wins.
Christ is with us all days.
© Andy Costello, Reflections
2018
Thursday, March 15, 2018
March 15, 2018
HIGHER MATH
The Life Cycle: Learning how to add,
more toys, candy, experiences,
education friends,
geography.
Next there is multiplying all that
till middle age -
then discovering
life also calls for subtraction -
learning how to let go.
Then there is a reality called,
“division”. Sorry:
it too happens.
It's part of every family and every life.
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018
Wednesday, March 14, 2018
March 14, 2018
You have that March cough
again this year. Bummer!
But it tells me you're here, you're
breathing, you're continuing. Good ....
At times it seems to rip your ribs,
as you put your hands to your chest.
It seems to wince your face as well. I see
the stress and strain on your jaw and chin.
Cough .... Uh .... Cough .... Aaaah.....
Cough .... Uhhhh .... Cough .... Aaaaaah ....
COUGHING
You have that March cough
again this year. Bummer!
But it tells me you're here, you're
breathing, you're continuing. Good ....
At times it seems to rip your ribs,
as you put your hands to your chest.
It seems to wince your face as well. I see
the stress and strain on your jaw and chin.
Cough .... Uh .... Cough .... Aaaah.....
Cough .... Uhhhh .... Cough .... Aaaaaah ....
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018
Tuesday, March 13, 2018
THE THIRD SIGN:
THE HEALING OF THE PARALYZED MAN
AT THE POOL AT BETHESDA
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 4th Tuesday in
Lent is, “The 3rd Sign: The Healing of the Paralyzed Man at The Pool at Bethesda.”
As you know John gives us 7 signs, 7 special miracles. in
his gospel.
Yesterday we had the 2nd sign, the Healing of
the Royal Official’s Son and yesterday’s gospel also mentions the first sign:
Cana, where Jesus changed water into
wine..
Today, let’s concentrate on this 3rd sign in
John: the healing of the paralyzed man at the pool of Bethesda.
38 YEARS
It’s an amazing story: the man has been ill for 38 years.
And Jesus asks him a key question: “Do you want to be
well?”
Before that question, I began wondering, “Does anyone
have a sickness or a problem that lasts for a long time - like 38 years?”
I remember hearing someone say of a relative, “She talks
too much.”
I never noticed that before - but every time after that -
I began to notice she talks too much - giving comments on every subject that
comes up.”
Is that two problems: telling or making comments about
others - and second, talking too much?
38 years is a long time.
Do we all have our lifetime patterns or problems - some
of which paralyze us at times?
Like overeating - or drinking too much.
I pick raised skin - usually on my lower arms. How long have I been doing that? Sometimes someone seeing that says, “Stop
picking!”
Wondering was I doing that in my high chair as a kid
after finishing my Cheerios.
I hear someone say of someone, “She’s been picking on her
sister all her life - especially giving her sister diets or making comments
about her behind her back - forever.”
Could someone be an alcoholic or a picker or jealous or
feel inferior for 38 years or 58 years or more
of course?
I knew a guy who was born deaf - and at 24 he got a
procedure that helped him hear various sounds - and wow did his face become
different. He had to wear a devise at
his hip and a wire in his ear - but he began to hear - and then laugh and his
face became an ongoing smile.
I heard a psychologist say once: “The earlier the
problem, the bigger problem.”
Do we all have lifetime deafness in some areas of our life?
Is the oldest, the youngest, the middle child, different
because of where they are in the family tree?
Are we different for 38 years or 68 years of life because of what was
going on in our family at a certain time of our life? Is a brother or sister different because they
had or had not the benefit of a grandfather or grandmother - and then she or he
died or moved or what have you?
Could a mistake or something someone said or how one is
treated paralyze a person for 38 years?
Can a death kill us.
CAN I BE HEALED
- UNPARALYZED?
Today’s first reading is flooded with water. Jesus said he was living water.
Could / can I be flooded, Niagara Falls washed, healed,
by the flood waters of God and begin to produce fruit on all sides of my life -
as today’s reading from Ezechiel puts
it.
SHAWSHANK
REDEMPTION
This man in today’s gospel who is sick for 38 years
experiences the ocean - the living water - of
God that day.
Something to think about today - and whenever you take a
shower or a bath or go to the ocean or a pool.
March 13, 2018
WATER
The earth is almost 80% water ….
Rain …. A morning shower ….
A drink of cold water on a hot day ….
Lake Superior …. Lake Erie ….
The Mississippi and the Hudson Rivers ….
The Aral Sea and the Salton Sea ….
Water, water. everywhere with lots
and lots of drops of water to drink ….
So why Lord, did your people spend
40 years in the dessert and why Lord
did you spend 40 days in the dessert
and why did you ask us to spend 40
days of Lent in the dessert when
we can get in the car and get ourselves
we can get in the car and get ourselves
to the water - to the bay - to the Ocean?
© Andy Costello, Reflections
2018
Monday, March 12, 2018
A REQUEST
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this Fourth Monday in Lent is, “A Request.”
If you heard Jesus was nearby, and you could approach
him, and make one request what would it be?
It’s like the old, “You got one wish” stories.
If you had one wish or one request, what would it be?
MAKE A LIST
Don’t blurt out your immediate response. Take your time.
Make a list.
Be like a kid standing in an ice cream store - and all
those flavors are in those big round containers - right in front of you -
behind glass. Pick one.
FOR FAMILY,
FRIENDS, OR WORLD
What would be your request?
The royal official from Capernaum - comes to Cana - where
Jesus was and asks Jesus to heal his son - who was near death.
And Jesus heals the royal official’s son from a distance.
And the gospel of John for today says, “Now this was the second
sign Jesus did when he came to Galilee from Judea.” [Cf. John 4: 43-54]
I don’t know what I would ask for - if I had one request.
For beginners, I would pick some family stuff where
people are not talking to people.
Then again, there are people with cancer, who asked for
prayers - for healing. But why not pray
for those doing cancer studies so a lot of people will be healed?
I think of one of our priests, Father Dennis Billy, who
had bad cancer a few years back - but is doing very well - is teaching, giving talks, writing books and is doing good priestly
stuff.
I prayed for him and a bunch of people like my niece
Margie who is in remission from her cancer.
Or should I pray for so and so that he wake up and
change? How does that work?
WHAT ABOUT THE
ACTION SIDE - THE WORK SIDE OF PRAYER?
One of my favorite sayings is, “Pray for potatoes - but
pick up a shovel.”
The royal official got in his chariot or however he got
to Cana - to make the request in person.
Today’s first reading from Isaiah 65: 17-21 has the Lord
talking about creating a new heavens and a new earth.
That triggered the Woody Allen joke comment: “God created
the world, except certain parts of New Jersey”
Aren’t we making God’s prayer come true if we do our part
to make our world beautiful. I know I have always been nudged by Buckmister
Fuller’s comment: “Whenever you use a public bathroom, make it cleaner than
when you walked in.” I know I have been
doing that ever since. Fuller’s comment
always triggers the Golden Rule. I like
a clean stall and sink in a bathroom - so why not make it happen for the next
person? I can do that - and wash my
hands afterwards.
CONCLUSION
!
March 12, 2018
© Andy Costello, Reflections
2018
OPINIONS
Everyone has different opinions,
perceptions and understandings
about everything.
Everything ….
Everyone doesn’t realize this so
we keep on talking and eating
with each other.
Everyday ….
Everyone has disagreements
now and then and we sense
we’re different for a few moments.
Everyone….
Everyone is different - and to prove
my theory - remember the saying
about no snow flake is alike.
Every snow flake….
Sunday, March 11, 2018
NOW
THAT WAS DUMB!
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this Fourth Sunday in Lent [B]
is, “Now That Was Dumb.”
How many times in our lifetime have we said to ourselves,
“Now that was dumb.”
We said the wrong thing. We did the wrong thing. We thought
the wrong thing. And when that’s our
pattern, we continue doing the wrong thing over and over again.
That’s dumb - but we still do dumb things.
We could have got gas at that last exit - but we didn’t -
and we run out of gas on this next ramp
on the New Jersey Turnpike. I’ve done that two times. I thought I learned from
the first time I did that.
I did learn from the second time - so I could only say, “Dumb….
Dumber…” but not “Dumbest.”
But in other things, I can be a repeat performer of dumb
things.
TODAY’S GOSPEL
Today’s gospel triggers these thoughts. Jesus said to a guy named Nicodemus that when
Moses was in the desert people were being bitten by poisonous snakes, so he
grabbed a poisonous snake - nailed it to a pole - gathered the people - pointed
to the snake and said, “This is what is killing you. Avoid these
creatures. They bite. They’re poisonous”
That’s my basic message for this mass: “Don’t do dumb!”
Yet we do dumb many times.
Name your poison.
Anger - procrastination - laziness - booze - not
practicing - not thinking - jealousy - comparisons - not getting enough sleep -
eating too much junk food or sugary,
sugary drinks - etc. etc. etc.
Name your poison.
Know the 7 Capital Sins.
St. Paul in his letter to the Romans talks about the same
thing. I say to myself, “I’ll never do
that again.” Or “I am going to do this” and
then I go out and do just the opposite.
Now that is dumb.
St. Augustine read St. Paul and said the same thing in
his classic book, The Confessions.
Before you die you better read that book every 10 years -
and each time you’ll hear something new.
St. Augustine said, “I tell my right hand I’m going to do
this and then I do the opposite with my left hand.”
In today’s gospel Jesus says that we do this. We prefer
darkness to the light.
Listen to Jesus again: “And this is the verdict, that the
light came into the world, but people preferred darkness to light, because
their works were evil.”
It’s dumb when we overeat dessert. There on the table is
endless ice cream and cake and we take too much. Then we can’t sleep because we’re having a sugar high.
It’s difficult to turn off the TV - get enough sleep -
especially when it’s late and we have a busy day in the morning.
And funny - sometimes we remember the dumb - for the rest
of our lives.
For example, I’m around 32 years of age. I’m in Connecticut.
It’s early Sunday afternoon. Some guys asked me to join in a pickup basketball
game - 3 against 3 - and I say, “I gotta get back to New Jersey - and finish a
paper for school Monday morning.” I was going part time to Princeton
Theological at the time working on another Master’s Degree.
“Okay,” I said - and one game ran into a second game -
into a third game.
Dumb me. I don’t know if we won or lost. I’m sure we had a good time. But Sunday
traffic and a long trip from Suffield Connecticut - above Hartford - to Long
Branch, New Jersey - had me home around 11 P.M.
The result was a C-Paper - staying up late - half asleep
- and being very tired the whole next day.
Now that was dumb.
But I’ve been doing that my whole life: Dumb, dumber,
dumbest.
I say it every time, “Now that was dumb.”
How about you?
EGGS AND A GUITAR
We can also do smart.
It’s work.
It’s difficult.
But we can do smart.
It takes practice, practice, practice.
I remember a baseball player, Howard Johnson, who played
for the Detroit Tigers. They moved him
from the outfield to third base in Spring Training.
The manager, I think it was Jim Leyland, who had him
catch fresh eggs.
The first few dozens broke - but once he learned now to
go with the flow and the throw - he was soon a very smooth catcher of hits to
third base.
Practice, practice, practice.
The result was a good third baseman.
Eggs - practicing with eggs…. Someone might have said, “That’s
dumb. That’s stupid, stupid, stupid” and never become a regular third baseman.
That’s sports. Let me switch over to music. I remember a guy I met in my first parish on
the Lower East Side of Manhattan. He
practiced his guitar 6 or 7 hours a day - and eventually he got a good job in a
record recording company in New York City. The practice paid off - and this became
his life - getting better and better and better. Practice. Practice. Practice.
LIGHT OR DARKNESS,
SMART OR DUMB
So we have a
choice.
We can walk in the light or crawl in the dark.
There are 2 kinds of people: smart or dumb.
The dumb person when things go wrong, they start blaming others, blaming parents, blaming
teachers, blaming coaches, blaming the wind or the grass for an errors or
a mistake.
It’s called scapegoating. It’s called killing the
messenger.
CONCLUSION
We’re moving through Lent now. the major sign and symbol for Lent and for
Christians is the cross.
Jesus got blamed by others - for challenging others.
He was scapegoated.
He was killed for s0peaking up and out on how to do life
lovingly..
He spoke up on what is right and wrong.
He was crucified on a cross.
On one side was the Good Thief and the Bad Thief on the
other side
The bad thief starting making bad comments to Jesus instead
of taking responsibility for his crimes.
Now that was dumb.
The other guy, the so called Good Thief, said, “Hey knock
it off. We’re here because we know what we did wrong. but this man did nothing
wrong. He is innocent.”
So Jesus then said to the Good Thief. Today, you’ll be
with me in paradise.”
Translation:
honesty, admitting we made a mistake is the key to paradise. Now that’s
being smart.
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