October 9, 2021

A  PRIEST?

 

Great question: ask people
their take on Catholic priests.
 
I’m a priest. I have my take.
What’s your’s? People have met priests.
 
You might get a negative response.
But you could also get a great take.
 
Someone might tell you about a priest
who made a big difference in their life.
 
You never know till you ask.
You might even call and say, “Thank you!”
 
You might even take  the time
to think about “How you did  life so far?”
 
You might even decide to become
a priest yourself. Hey you never know.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

October    9,  2021

 

Thought for the Day

 

“Good books don't give up all their secrets at once.”

 

Stephen King

 October 8,  2021

A  GLASS OF WATER 

It’s great when it’s cold.
It’s wonderful  when I’m thirsty.
It’s a blessing when the other says, “Thank you!”
It’s neat when it evokes “Perfect!” sounds.
It’s been around since the beginning.
It’s a free gift 7 times a day.
It shows God’s sheer imagination.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

 

October    8,  2021

 

Thought for the Day

“Lack of something to feel important about is almost the greatest tragedy a man may have.”

 

Arthur E. Morgan

 October  7,  2021

ROSARY  MYSTERIES

  

It’s never that simple: life.
 
There are mysteries.
 
It’s never black and white.
 
There are shades and differences.
 
It’s never simple.
 
There are decades of nexts.
 
Annunciations and assumptions.
 
Presentations and findings.
 
Ascensions and decensions.
 
Births and weddings.
 
Deaths and births.
 
And back and around the mysteries again and again.
 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

October    7,  2021

 

Thought for the Day

 

 “A human being’s first responsibility is to shake hands with himself.”

 

Henry Winkler

 October  6,  2021

Reflection

 October    6,  2021

 

Thought for the Day

 

“The man who goes alone can start today;  but he who travels with another must wait until the other is ready.”

 

Henry David Thoreau

 October 5,  2021

WE’VE  GOT  A  PROBLEM

 
We’ve got a problem: spending
billions and billions for bombs
and weapons compared to what
we pay for bridges and better jobs
for the poor and under-employed.
 
We got a problem: a whole
political party marching in
lock step with a person of lies.
And you can’t talk with them.
You just can’t talk with them.
 
We got a problem. People throw
distraction after distraction back
at those who speak the truth -
truth that could set us free – and
sometimes throw in a nasty as well.

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

October    5,  2021

Thought for the Day

 

“When we cannot bear to be alone, it means we do not properly value the only companion we will have from birth to death – ourselves.”

 

Eda LeShan

in Newsday

(Long Island, NY)

October  4,  2021

KISS

What would happen if she said,
"I just want a simple wedding."
"Well then," he said in reply, 
"we better make this work.
We better have a happy marriage!"

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

October    4,  2021

Thought for the Day

“Ideas are like rabbits.  You get a couple and learn how to handle them, and pretty soon you have a dozen.”

John Steinbeck

 

TWO

 
The title of my homily is, “Two.”
 
T – W – O.
 
I wasn’t too sure on what to preach on – so I wrote this story – this morning. And I figured it has to have the theme of unity – the theme of our retreat this weekend.
 
Two sisters married two brothers.
 
The two marriages worked.
 
But they worked very differently.
 
Both sisters were school teachers.
 
Both brothers were accountants.
 
Jack and Marsha had 6 kids.
 
Mildred and Max had 2 kids.
 
Mildred and Max moved out west in the early years of their marriage – San Francisco. It was because of a job offer.
 
They would see Jack and Marsha from time to time – at weddings – funerals – and a few other major family get togethers.
 
All 6 of Jack and Marsha’s kids got married.
 
Both of Mildred and Max’s kids got married.
 
Those 8 marriages produced 28 kids – and as of now 11 grandkids.
 
Marsha and Mildred would talk on the phone once a month – and in time – every week – and without knowing it – without planning it – both decided on moving to Naples, Florida in their retirement. The men without knowing it, went along with it.
They bought houses next door to each other.
 
It worked.
 
Every evening  - well not every evening – but many evenings they began walking together – after supper.
 
They had a whole lifetime to figure out – to talk about – to think over.
 
They had their surgeries and their surprises – their stories and their secrets – their successes and their failures.
 
They had parents both of whom they knew.
 
They would say, “It’s not supposed to go this nicely.  It could end up being problematic – but it looks like it isn’t.”
 
The oldest in the family married the youngest in the family – on both sides.
 
They explored how blessed that was.
 
They explored their work history: school teachers and accountants. High school teacher and pre-K teacher, Big school and little school. East Coast – West Coast. Big company-small company.  Interesting.
 
Max and Mildred had stopped going to church a long time ago.
 
Jack and Marsha didn’t say anything. Two of their kids went to church. The other 4 were drop outs – but all 6 were married in church. The two marriages in the next generation. No.
 
One of Max and Mildred’s kids goes to church.
 
After 1000 walks together – in the evening - in Naples Florida – both couples figured out how lucky they were. They figured out that time and talking and walking together – were the secret of a good marriage.
 
In their second year down in Naples – Max started to go to Mass on Sunday mornings – the early Mass – but not with Jack and Marsha – then Midred started to go with Max – then all 4 started to go to Mass together – with Sunday Morning breakfast afterwards -  together – which became as sacred as the Mass.
 
Food together.
 
Family.
 
Friendship.
 
They lucked out with good health. “It’s the walking!”
 
They figured out the secret of life: using time well, presence, listening, accepting people as they are – not as we wish they were.
 
They noticed the little things: how mom and dad had special chairs, how they had special chairs, how life has both sacred searchings and trivia pursuits.
 
They learned the importance of passing things down – in family – and how to make the transfers work.
 
They knew death was in the wings  - because they did their parents deaths – very taxing and troublely at times – but they did it.
 
They know the importance of photographs – everywhere.
 
They invite their many friends from the east and west coast – to Florida – on a regular basis.
 
They learned the meaning of the words in Genesis – new translation:  “It’s not good for people to be alone. Partner up.”
 
And one Sunday there – at breakfast after Mass – Max said, “Tough readings today on divorce. Wow have we been blessed!”
And they clinked their coffee cups together.”

 October 3,  2021

IF I CAN,
IF I COULD,
WELL,  I CAN 

I can give a little kid a soccer ball
or point to a bird flying high
in the sky above us and laugh. 

I can buy ice cream for the kids
or do a 1,000 piece puzzle or
jump rope on a Sunday afternoon.

I can fly a kite or ride a bike
or make a few extra batches
of pop corn or buy green grapes.

I can learn to play a flute or
drums or put together a
great collection of old records.

If I can, of course I can.
If I could, of course I could.
Then I know, of course I can.
 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

October    3,  2021

 

 Thought for the Day

 

“All blessings are mixed blessings.”

 

John Updike