Saturday, March 28, 2020

March 28, 2020



MONARCH  BUTTERFLIES


Too bad monarch butterflies
don’t write journals – because
it would certainly make for
interesting reading. These
Tiffany glass beauties grace
our landscape with color.
They all don’t travel, but when
they do, they can do a 4,000
mile trip from Michigan to Mexico.
No wonder they’re called monarchs.
Would that all kings had the
ego of a monarch butterfly – 
silence, working with the next 
generation to keep the family 
going and to get the job done.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


March  28, 2020 

Thought  for  Today 

 “People need love especially when they don’t  deserve it.”


Someone said this,
hopefully everyone
does this.

Friday, March 27, 2020

March  27,  2020



STILL  BREATHING


God You breathed life into me,
when you moved me out of my 
mummy’s tummy, more than 80 years ago -
and I’m still breathing ….

God You breathed life into me
when  I was a kid running
in Brooklyn - in parks - on streets -
and I’m still breathing ….

God You breathed life into me,
learning reading, writing,
not ‘rithmatic - and then life,
and I’m still breathing ….

God You breathed life into me
while dreaming sermons and poetry,
while driving Routes 80, 95, 97, 195,
and I’m still breathing….

God You breathed life into me
as I journeyed into a thousand
places and a thousand lives,
and I’m still breathing ….

God You breathed life into me
as I stand here on the edge
of the Atlantic for a second time
and I’m still breathing ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020



March  27,  2020



Thought  for  Today

 “Speak  kind  words and you will hear kind echoes.”

Someone, 
hopefully 
everyone. 

Thursday, March 26, 2020


UPPITY

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Thursday in Lent  is, “Uppity.”

U P P I T Y – uppity.

It’s not a word that appears in today’s two readings: Exodus 32: 7-14  and John 5: 31-47.

It’s not a word or a theme or an issue that appears in our scriptures, but in another way, “It’s appears all over the place.”

I think a weekday homily – especially when talking to each other – and who we are – is a chance to just throw some meat – not to get some growls – but to trigger some thoughts – from something to chew on – cook up – maybe get some nourishment from.

Hope that doesn’t sound “uppity”.

EXODUS

It’s a long road from Egypt to the promised land.

It’s a long Lent – those 40 years in the desert – for the sand blasting conversion of the Israelites.

In today’s scene from Exodus the people have turned away again from God and started to worship the Golden Calf.

And God describes them as stiff-necked.

In looking up the word “stiff-necked,” I spotted the word “uppity”.

I also found the words inflated, snobby, ignoring, arrogant, pompous, condescending, smug, egocentric, patronizing.

I liked “uppity” the most – with snooty in second place.

We can slip into those attitudes – about and with others.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel Jesus is sort of in the same situation as Moses is in – in the first reading.

Verbal arguing – nit picking conversations – conflict  is going on. Who and how God is – is pulled into both conversations and verbal wrestling.

In today’s Gospel it’s  Jesus and the Jews.  In today’s First reading it’s  Moses and the People in the desert with the golden calf gleaming.

UPPITY

Uppity behavior takes place especially neck upwards – starting with stiff necks.

Noses go up in the air.

Eyes are closed.

Heads shake.

Jaws tighten.

Minds get closed.

Ears don’t work.

When we have a good case of  uppityness – we have stopped listening. We look down on others as wrong, stupid, stuck in positions,  atrophied, unread, low IQ, etc. etc.

Thinking about this I have never in my life wanted to be someone else. I have heard that some people wish they were someone else. Nope, not me, but  I would like to have a better musical ear – not for the sake of contributing to the choir – but just to not hear digs for having  a poor ear for music.

Thinking about this I realized, “Okay I don’t want to be anyone else – but there are people  whom I know I don’t want to be.

Now that might be the best learning in these first  draft thoughts about the theme of “uppity”.

That’s where  sins of pride can poison me and I then use my tongue to put down others.

I assume I would do that to make myself look taller – not to others out there – but to myself  in my inner conversations.

But I’m not sure about this yet.  I only started thinking about uppity last night.

I have thought about sins of pride – modern Pharisaic thinking.

I have never had any desire to wash other’s feet or have my feet washed by them.

So, there are people I have practiced social distance from – for years now.

CONCLUSION

I don’t like myself when I put others down in my mind.

I suppose the goal should be some learnings from the John the Baptist and Jesus Christ interplays in the gospels.

I need to decrease and Christ must increase.

The Father needs to increase.

John can be difficult, but I notice Jesus is often referring to the  Father -  this One – this other Presence whom Jesus is always pondering about.

Go back and read today’s gospel from John and notice the Other.

Then there are the others – all these other people I know – some of whom I write off. I need to change and accept  others who  have lights – who have tassels I need to touch -  I need to get some of their light to bop off on me – like the light that jumped off John the Baptist – in today’s gospel which others delighted in for a while.   

March  26,  2020


IN  THE  AIR

Still there is a chill in the air …
But this year there is more:
the bug – C19 – causing great
frustration and inconvenience.

But still there is more:
Hopes. Spring. Rain. Buds.
Green. Birds. Flowers, Warmth….
And  April is coming. Slowly ….

Then there is the mystery
of how to deal with God
with closed churches and
this long dark tunnel.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 March   26,  2020

Thought  for  Today

"Phyllis McGinley in her poem, The Day after Sunday, comments of the perception of God she's given by sermons coming from the pulpits of the land every Sunday.  She says, 'Always on Monday morning the press reports, "God is revealed to his vicarage in his various guises, benevolent, stormy, patient, or out of sorts.  God knows which God is the God God recognizes."'"


Eric Butterworth
Phylllis McGinley,
1905-1978, in The

Day after Sunday


Wednesday, March 25, 2020

March   25, 2020


ANNUNCIATION

What’s new?
How about you?
What’s new?

What’s  new?
This dang bug.
That’s new?

And watching the
different ways people
deal with inconvenience.

And patience -
and how folks don’t like
loss of control.

Yeah. Mark me
down for that one
especially.

And Mary …. Her way?
Questions and then,
“Okay God.  Let’s do this.”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

Painting: The Annunciation
by Henry Ossawa Tanner, 1898

March  25,  2020


Thought  for  Today

“At the bottom of his shaft the Mexican Miner has a shrine of the Blessed Virgin, dressed usually in overall with a miner’s hat cocked over her head. Here, when he goes to work, he prays for a day free from accident; and before leaving, many a peon prays again, this time that the high-grade ore he has stolen and hidden about himself will not be discovered.” 

John van Steen 
Tolman in “Travel”

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

March 24, 2020


DELAY 


Some people don’t do delay. 

They want immediate. 

They want right now…. 

“Where’s the waiter?” 

“I can’t wait.” 

Some people can't  do delay. 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


March   24,  2020 

Thought  for  Today 

Gallup  Survey,  “The Woman’s Mind”, Ladies Home Journal, February, 1962.  “Only one woman in ten recognizes her husband as the same man he was before she married him. Nine out of ten say he’s changed.  One in three says he changed for the worse.”

If they did this survey today,
what would be the numbers?

Monday, March 23, 2020

March   23,   2020



INSIGHTS

We should have at least one good insight
before we’re 45 – one - and then at least
two or three more after that before we die.

Now this is not written down anywhere but
it’s an insight. It’s something  we realize
happens in life.  It’s the big eye opener.

Insights can  come after a hurt, being ignored,
being fired,  being  used, cheated on - or taken
for granted, or we have made a major mistake.

The last insight is what we do after the crash,
after a bad Friday – or Tuesday or Thursday -
and we too have our Easter Monday or Saturday.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  23, 2020

Thought  for  Today


“Learn to say ‘no’; it will be of more use to you than to be able to read Latin.” 


Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Sunday, March 22, 2020

March  22,  2020


“THE  WHOLE OF LIFE 
CAN  BE FOUND IN THE 
VERB ‘TO SEE!’” 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Sunday in Lent [A]  is a quote from Teilhard de Chardin, “The Whole of Life Can Be Found in the Verb ‘To See.’”


Sometimes quoters leave out the “of” – and say, “The Whole Life Can Be Found in the Verb to See.”

What do you see – what do you hear – what do you sense when you hear today’s readings, today’s gospel, today’s words – especially: blindness, seeing, light, darkness, judgment, appearance?

What do you see – when you see what you see?

How long into a marriage do husbands and wives realize – “We don’t see the same.”

When do parents notice – find out – see – that their kids don’t see the same way they see – or the same things they see.

How old is the average age when we begin to realize that all people see differently?

Perception is reality – but we all see differently.

TEACHERS

However, for starters, we learn to see as our parents see. They are seeing us – protecting us - tutoring us – bringing us up.

When I spot an article on how the human eye develops in a baby – how they recognize mom, dad, brothers and sisters, dogs, cats, familiar territory – as opposed to the unfamiliar, I read it.

Who have been your teachers – besides family members?

JIMMY  LOVER

As I was preparing this homily I remembered something I heard in a homily from Jimmy Lover. This happened when we were at Mt. St. Alphonsus Seminary, Esopus, New York. He was a Canon Law professor.

He gave the example of a teenage girl saying to her dad, “I lost one of my contact lenses.”

Her dad asked, “Did you look  at every inch of your bedroom?”

She said, “Yes, and I still can’t find it.”

He went into her bedroom and came back in less than 5 minutes, “Here it is.”

She said, “How did you find it so fast?”

He said, ‘You were looking for your contact lens.  I was looking for $123 dollars.”

TEDDY  MEEHAN

We all remember Teddy Meehan – who taught us history in the major seminary. Everyone imitated Teddy who was forever  saying, “Do you see?” He asked that over and over again. We  used to mark every time he said, “Do you see?”

I remember the highest number was 267 times in one class. That  was the record.

He wanted us to see what he was trying to get us to see. He wanted to be understood. He was every one of us to grasp what he was trying to say.  He wanted to be understood.

Do you see that?

CHARLIE KOERBER

I remember Charlie Koerber. To me he was  our best teacher.  We had him for First Dogma.  I remember that he wanted us to see what was in the four volumes of Herve. He was the author of our dogmatic  theology text books. Then Charlie said, “There is a library down the corridor with lots of books and magazines and there will be a lot more coming out on all the issues of Dogmatic Theology in the years ahead.  You have the rest of your life to open up those articles and books and come up with new answers to old questions.

THIRD EYE

So, how we see comes from our parents, our schools, our teachers.

I also learned a lot in life from workshops and lectures – in the years after we got out of the major seminary.

One workshop thought me about “the Third Eye”.

We see not only with our physical eyes – as well as our minds – but in Eastern Thought we can learn a lot about the Third Eye – our inner eye. In the Chakra, this is the 6th one.

Hindi, Buddhist, Taoism, and many Asia, spirituality methods  center on the Third Eye.  It refers to spirituality, consciousness raising – learning to see better from inner levels.

TODAY’S READINGS

Here is where we can understand today’s 3 readings.

In the first reading from the 16th Chapter of 1st Book of Samuel for today we hear about how God sees: with the heart.  Listen to the great comment from God: “Not as man does God see, because man sees the appearance but the Lord looks into the heart.”

In today’s second reading from the 5th chapter of Paul’s Letter to the Ephesians Paul says, “You were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord.  Live as children of light….”

In today’s gospel from the 9th chapter of John we hear about a man blind from birth.

We can see that as physical blindness  - or we can look at that as spiritual blindness.  We can see that eye as the third eye – and Christ gives us many eye openers.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily has been, “The Whole of Life Can Be Found in the Verb ‘To See.’”

The prayer for this 4th Sunday in Lent is that we learn to see all that is of God – especially what  we’re missing.

March  22, 2020


LORD, I WANT TO SEE


To see your strength
in solid rock and crashing waves.

To see your eye
in mothers watching crawling babies.

To see your mystery
in every birth and every death.

To see your surprise
in grand canyons and snaking rivers.

To see your reaching out
in tree roots and leaf veins.

To see your sense of humor
in broccoli and hippopotami

To see your vastness
in night sky and endless oceans

To see your love for life
in chirping birds and people’s “Hi’s”

To see your presence in my heart
As mine continues to heal from last May 22nd…..


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  22,  2020 


Thought for Today 

 “Do good and disappear.”

Motto of an order of nuns
whose work was nursing.
Quoted by Kathryn  Hulme,   
The Nun’s Story
Little  Brown, 1956