Saturday, January 26, 2019

January 26, 2019



TRAPPED

Sometimes freedom is an option -
if only we pause to see a way out.

But we can be stupid. We can try to
kick and fight those who can save us.

Our Redeemer lives. He/She comes
with saw or crowbar - to set us free.




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 



January  26, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“Don’t stay away from church because there are so many hypocrites.  There’s always room for one more.” 


Arthur R. Adams

Or  John  8: 7

Friday, January 25, 2019


CONVERSION:
CONVERSION OF ST. PAUL


INTRODUCTION

Today the Church celebrates the feast of the conversion of St. Paul. This is quite interesting. Most of the time, when we celebrate a Saint’s Day, we celebrate his or her whole life, but today we just celebrate a moment: the conversion of St. Paul.

OUR CONVERSION MOMENTS

For a thought for today, I ask you to look at your life. When were the moments of change? When were the conversion moments? 

Hopefully, all of us can pick out some significant moments when we changed.

ONE OF MY CONVERSION MOMENTS

I remember talking with a friend of mine once -- talking one to one. He was a bit overweight and he said to me, “Did you ever notice how many people who are overweight are always giving tips to other people who are overweight, on how to lose weight?”

I said, “No!”

He continued, “Did you ever notice how many people who are not overweight are always needling overweight people about being overweight?”

I said, “No!”

He wasn’t trying to correct me. I was thinner at the time. He was just sounding off. 

Well, after that I became more conscious and more aware of what he was saying.

We were all living in a big community, and sure enough, he was right. I began to notice people who needled him, grabbed his love handles, and often gave him suggestions on how to lose weight.

I reflected even more. I realized how much the weight comments hurt him, that he was quite sensitive about his weight. Well, from that day to that day I never again kidded this guy about his weight. I was converted. I have also been working on not kidding  other people.

That conversation by him was a conversion moment for me.

What are your conversion moments?

THE NAGGING HUSBAND

I remember a father telling me once that it took a good 25 fights with his wife for him to finally see that he was constantly on the case of his oldest son, but his youngest son was getting away with murder. 

He was the oldest son in his family. While growing up he was constantly being nagged by his father and hated it. 

He didn’t see he was doing the same thing to his son.  He didn’t realize history was repeating itself. 

Finally, he saw the light. Finally, he saw what his wife was trying to tell him all the time.

He was able to laugh at himself, when he finally saw the light.

CONVERSION – MAJOR ISSUE

Today, then, we are celebrating a moment or an event in the life of Paul. It’s a major moment, a major event, a major experience, in the life of a great person.

Conversion is a major issue in life. 

Conversion is the major issue of the upcoming second session of Renew. 

Conversion time is significant changes in our lives time.

Conversion means we make major shifts, major changes within us. So today’s feast day is a significant feast day.

CONVERSION OF PAUL

T. F. Manson said that Paul was a missionary and preacher and prophet like Ezechiel, Isaiah or Jeremiah. He was less like a philosopher, like Aristotle or Plato. 

Paul was a preacher. Today is a preacher’s feast. Redemptorists preach conversion, so this is a significant feast for us to study.

In many paintings of this moment, Paul is pictured as falling off a horse. We don’t even know if he was on a horse. The scriptures just tell us he fell to the ground.

In conversion conversations, as in AA, we get the phrase, “to hit bottom”. Paul hit bottom – the bottom of himself. Paul hit the ground, the ground from which the God of Genesis scraped us together. Paul hit the dirt – towards which we’re all going to eventually crumble into.

MAJOR ELEMENT OF CONVERSION

The key ingredient in any conversion is the death of self. The major element is the emptying of self – the thing that God did when we became human – described so dramatically in the great hymn of God’s self emptying in Philippians 2:5b-11.

Conversion for starters means self-emptying – death to self.

Isn’t one of the best scenes where we see this meaning of conversion in the great message of St. John the Baptist? It describes Paul’s conversion perfectly. “I must decrease. He must increase.”

Basically that’s what conversion is all about: the emptying of oneself.

As John McCall put it, the air has to be let out of our tire. We are filled with hot air. We are inflated with self. John McCall says, “In psychological terms, it’s called ‘ego reduction’.”

Swami Sachannawanda said it almost the same way. He said that the “I” must go. As he liked to say it, “E Go. Let it go. Go.”

In Philippians 3: 4-10, Paul gives his credentials. He says: I am a Hebrew. I was circumcised. I grew up a Benjaminite. I was a Pharisee. I was righteous. Notice it was all I’s. I, I, I,

In his conversion, the I went. His eyes went. He became blind. He who thought what he saw was right, became blind.

He really hit bottom and down there in his deepest darkness, he saw the light. He saw that Christ was the light of the world. He began to know Christ.

As he continues in Philippians 3: 7, “But because of Christ, I have come to consider all these advantages that I had as disadvantages. Not only that, but I believe nothing can happen that will outweigh the supreme advantage of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For him I have accepted the loss of everything, and I look on everything as so much rubbish if only I can have Christ and be given a place in him. I am no longer trying for perfection by my own efforts, the perfection that comes from the Law, but I want only the perfection that comes  through faith in Christ, and is from God and is based on faith. All I want is to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and to share his sufferings by reproducing the pattern of his death. That is the way I can hope to take my place in the resurrection of the dead.”

That’s a conversion. A person who was dead, has come back to life.

That’s what happened to Paul. That’s what we celebrate today.

CONCLUSION

That is enough, there will be plenty more on another day.


January 25, 2019

COLD

Cold January day….
Dark, too dark on
both sides of the day….
Morning and evening ….
Grey cold controlling the
hedges on both sides
of our house ….

Winter sometimes can
be annoying - unwelcoming -
causing crankiness in my nose,
in my throat and in my soul.
Florida, Arizona, the Caribbean
would be so much easier
and comfortable and colorful….

Radiators, a fireplace, help,
so too tea, hot chocolate,
even chocolate chip cookies
in cold milk - so too
a big blanketed bed.
Better: this year, February
don’t show. Come March 15th.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


January  25, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“It is a test of a good religion whether you can make a joke of it." 


Gilbert Keith Chesterton

Thursday, January 24, 2019

January 24, 2019



IT  WAS  RAINING  AGAIN

It was raining again -
and I heard various people
complaining: “Enough!
Enough with the rain.
Enough with the pain.”

But ever since I read
about aquifers - those
big groundwater collectors
of water underneath us,
I welcome rain - lots of it.

I was hurting with hurting
people  again - and I heard
various people complaining:
Enough! Enough with the pain.
Enough with the rain.”

But ever since I heard about
our inner reservoirs - our inner
Living Waters - flowing from
Christ - those big absorbers
of pain within us - I’ll  be okay.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



ST. FRANCIS
 DE SALES


INTRODUCTION

Today is the feast of St. Francis de Sales. He’s the Patron Saint of Retail Stores, “de Sales”. Joke. 

Here are a few thoughts coming out of the life of this saint.

Saint’s feast days are usually the day they died. However, St. Francis de Sales didn’t die on January 24. He died on December 28, 1622, but that is the feast of the Holy Innocents, so they moved his feast to today -- the day his bones were moved to his present tomb or something like that.

If his feast is moved again, he wouldn’t mind. That’s the kind of personality he had. In fact, that would be my thought for the day.

St. Francis de Sales was known for his calmness -- his gentleness.

FREDDY

That’s the message I found out about St. Francis de Sales some 58 years ago in the seminary.

In the major seminary we had this teacher, Freddy -- Fred Prenatt. We had him for one class in preaching every week for six years. I remember very little from what he said in class, but I remember him for something he would always say in confession and in sermons, “Omnia suaviter.”

And when asked where that came from, he would say, “St. Francis de Sales”.

And when asked what  “Omnia suaviter”  meant, he would say, “All things sweetly.”

For some reason I never forgot that. I ended up making it sort of a prayer and sort of a motto all through the years, “Omnia suaviter.”

Translated into Italian, “Con calme” or “Reposo”.

Translated into English, “Take it easy”, “Calm down”, “Count to 10”, “A drop of honey does more good than a barrel of vinegar.”

Translated into AA-ese, “Nice and easy.” I’m sure you have all seen that on a bumper sticker. It’s a good thing to remember whenever we are feeling road rage or church rage or classroom rage or shopping line rage or in the house rage.

Nice and easy.

Easy does it.

Omnia Suaviter, Con calme. Relax.

CONCLUSION

Relax. That’s a good message to remember from the life and spirit of St. Francis de Sales.

Take it easy.

Calm down.





January  24, 2019 

Thought for today: 


“Whom the gods would make bigots, they first deprive of humor.”  


James P. Gillis

Wednesday, January 23, 2019


WITHERED


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Withered!”

I spotted that word in today’s gospel - early on Mark - Chapter 3: 1-6.

I would like to reflect upon healing: helping the healing process and blocking the healing process.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel we have this moment when Jesus goes into a synagogue on the Sabbath and he sees a man with a shriveled up hand.

And the Pharisees whose minds had become shriveled up kept an eye on Jesus to see if Jesus would heal the man on the Sabbath. He was doing that sort of thing. Now if Jesus did it, they would be able to accuse him of breaking the Sabbath.

Jesus wanted to heal both the man with the shriveled hand and the Pharisees.

Jesus likes to heal people who are withered -- especially, people whom others want to remain withered.

Is it I Lord? Do I do that Lord?

CONVENT

Take for example, a young woman who enters the convent. She enters full of life and discovers that the convent is full of death.

In fact, it’s hell. Everyone is stuck in the past. It stifles her. She suggests change. She is cut down. She begins to wither up. She wants to leave. They want her to stay -- to stay and wither some more -- to become like them.

GEORGE WALD

One of my favorite lectures was given by the Harvard biologist, George Wald. In the talk he said that there have been religions that chose death. He calls them religions of death.

Christianity and Judaism are not.

He quotes the great text in Deuternomy, “Today I put before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. Therefore choose life.”

JESUS

Jesus said that he was the life. He said that he was the way, the truth and the life. He said that he came that we might have life and have it to the full.

CONCLUSION: ME

Where am I?

This morning ask Jesus to heal you where you are dying, withered, where you feel like a withered rejected branch, on the vine. Ask Jesus, the Vinedresser, to prune you, to cut you, where you need to be healed.

This morning, also ask, where am I killing others, draining them, dragging them, suffocating them, hindering them from deeper living.

This morning ask, where and whom, I don’t want healed and why.

In AA one hears stories about people who keep on enabling another to be an alcoholic. There are also stories - better stories - about withered people being healed.


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PAINTING ON TOP: Crow on a Withered Branch by  Kawanabe Kyosa. 

January 23, 2019


THE  ESSENCE  OF  ANOTHER

From time to time we realize we
don’t know the essence of another.

We come to a wall around that person
built by themselves or by others or both.

We try to figure them out. We label them.
They are selfish! They are givers.

They are lazy - all lust - all envy -
all pride - all greed - all need.

Then we realize we don’t even
know the essence of the me I am.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


January  23, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“When people are free to do as they please, they usually  imitate each other.”  

Eric Hoffer

Tuesday, January 22, 2019



OH, NOW I GET IT!


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 2nd Tuesday  in  Ordinary Time  is, “Oh, Now I Get It.”

GETTING A JOKE

Have you ever heard someone tell a joke - and everyone laughs - and you say, “I don’t get it.”

Like Father Tizio’s puns in the bulletin.  Has there ever been a pun and you don’t get it?

It’s smart not to lie.  There have been instances when a group of people make up a joke - that’s not a joke. Then someone tells it and the group in on it all laugh. Then those not in on it - laugh. Next one of the group in on it asks someone who laughs. “Did you get the joke?” and the person says, “Oh yeah. It’s a good one.” Then they bust the person - and tell that person it was a set up - like Candid Camera.

And sometimes  there’s a joke and we don’t get it. We feel stupid  that we don’t get it. One of our priests, Joe Austin, had a joke that he told 1000 times and I didn’t get it till a year later. He would say to people, “How long is a Chinaman.”

And people would answer, “I don’t know.”

And he’d repeat himself, over and over again, “How long is a Chinaman.”

Finally I got it, when I heard him tell a frustrated other person. “It’s not a question. It’s a statement. “How Long” -  is the Chinaman’s name. It’s like saying, “Anthony is an Italianman.”  Or “Pat is an Irishman.”

Finally the other person says, “Oh, now I get it.”

Then they add, “Horrible joke!”

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel - Mark 2: 23-28 -  Jesus addresses one of his pet peeves.

It’s the question of the Sabbath. He saw too many people obsessing about the Sabbath to their detriment.

As priest I’ve heard thousands of time  - people feeling quilty for missing Mass. They were on vacation - on a cruise and there is no priest on board the ship.  Or they broke their leg - or they are in the  hospital - or the weather is horrible - and they can’t get to Mass.

Jesus is saying in today’s gospel: you are not made for the Sabbath - the Sabbath is a gift for you.

He saw his fellow Israelites being off on being perfect - no work - no extra whatever - on the Sabbath. People can forget that the Sabbath is a day of rest from the rest of the week.

It seemed that they wanted to give God every second of the Sabbath - forgetting that God was giving them rest  the time of the Sabbath

CONCLUSION

Then at some point, someone gets what Jesus is saying about the Sabbath - and they realize the purpose of the day and they say, “Ok, now I get it.”

They get the whole purpose of the Sabbath as a day of rest - and not only do they stop worrying about getting to Mass when they can’t - but they stop working on the Sabbath - and it becomes a day of rest for them.

Wonderful. 

Amen,







Another animation from the Anam an Amhráin set, this hauntingly beautiful piece is sung by Mairéad Ní Mhaonaigh.

HOME

Om is a wonderful chanted sound ….
Om - Ooooommm - Ommmmmmm ….

Home is a wonderful chanted sound ….
Home - Homme - Hommmmmmmme ….

Home in the arms of my wife and kids ….
Home in the warmth of my sacred walls ….

Home with the smell and scent of out
there and my missing in my coat and in hair.

Home from work - home from war - home
from being alone - home - Hommmmmme.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


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Background Song in Gaelic to Cartoon on top:


Dun Do Shuil

Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
A chuid den tsaol, 's a ghrá liom
Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
Agus gheobhair feirín amárach

Tá do dheaid ag teacht gan mhoill ón chnoc
Agus cearca fraoich ar láimh leis
Agus codlaidh go ciúin 'do luí sa choid
Agus gheobhair feirín amárach
Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
A chuid den tsaol, 's a ghrá liom
Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
Agus gheobhair feirín amárach
Tá an samhradh ag teacht le grian is le teas
Agus duilliúr ghlas ar phrátaí
Tá an ghaoth ag teacht go fial aneas
Agus gheobhaimid iasc amárach
Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
A chuid den tsaol, 's a ghrá liom
Dún do shúil, a rún mo chroí
Agus gheobhair feirín amárach



One English Translation:

Close your eyes, my love
My worldly joy, my treasure
Close your eyes, my love
And you will get a present tomorrow

Your dad is coming from the hills
With game and grouse in plenty
So close your eyes, my love, my joy
And you will get a present tomorrow
Close your eyes, my love
My worldly joy, my treasure
Close your eyes, my love
And you will get a present tomorrow
The summer sun shines bright and warm
And potato stalks grow greener
A bracing breeze blows from the south
And we will have fish tomorrow
Close your eyes, my love
My worldly joy, my treasure
Close your eyes, my love
And you will get a present tomorrow

January  22, 2019



Thought for today: 

“I believe in the forgiveness of sins and the redemption of ignorance.”  


Adlai Stevenson