Saturday, February 13, 2021

February  13,  2021



A  JOB
 

Every kid needs to get that first job –
then the second and third and so forth –
making pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters –
learning how to be and how to deal with others –
delivering papers, washing dishes, waiting 
on tables, cutting grass - doing this and that.

Like learning how to sing - how to play
the guitar, violin, drums or piano. You
have to find your skills, your interests,
your song, but above all - you have to
practice practice, practice if you want as
they say to find your way to Carnegie Hall. 

Like learning how to box, how to fight,
getting in the ring – lasting ten rounds –
learning to get up when knocked down –
gaining skills, doing the footwork, dancing,
jumping rope, practice, practice, practice,
till I can hold my own with my own. Amen.

 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


February 13,  2021 


Thought for the Day

   

"Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes."

 




F. Scott Fitzgerald

Friday, February 12, 2021

 February 12,  2021


 


NO!
 
Your opinion?
Do kids learn to say, “NO!”
long before they learn to say, “Yes!”
 
They know what they want
and don’t want – when it comes
to food and awful smelling wash cloths.
 
They learn to hide and put off
what they don’t like or don’t want
to do with homework and home chores.
 
The enemy:  parents, teachers,
bullies, older kids, older people
bark out orders and they resist.
 
Folded arms …. Passive aggression ….
Hiding  …. or learning to say, “NO!” –
that simple two letter tiny word.
 
Your opinion? Would this world be
a better place if we could all say,
“Yes” or “No” when want to say, “Yes” or “No”?

 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

 

 


 February  12,  2021



Thought for the Day

 

“I never blame failure – there are too many complicated situations in life – but I am absolutely merciless toward lack of effort.”

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald


Thursday, February 11, 2021

February 11,  2021


THERE  IS  A  MOVIE 


There is a movie being made,
a documentary, a drama,
a comedy, with tragedies,
stories, surprises, twists and turns.
It's me. 
It's you.
It's all of us.
It's filled with lots and lots of people.
It’s  being put together – cut and paste - 
slowly - - -
being gathered from the scattered
scenes and stories of our lives.
We are figuring  out our life....
Slowly.
It’s playing up there on a tiny screen
in the right hand corner of our mind.
It’s like a tiny TV in a diner. We watch it
while eating - especially when the others
go into the kitchen for a moment. We watch
it while waiting in a waiting room in a hospital. 
We stop to watch in from time to time 
in church or at the beach, or in bed at night. 
Yes.
Yes we do.
- - - -
Years later 
we see so much more when we re-visit the places
we’ve been to or when we look at pictures 
from way back when - 
where we’ve been -
what we've done.
We do.
We are in the stories  of our life
and the lives of so many people in our lives –
and on the planet. We have regrets
in the desk drawers of our lives.
Secrets....
Yes we have secrets
and sorrows....
We are holding "bags of sand and shells". 
We are "injured sea gulls at times".
We are the people we go by every day. 
So it’s good to stop and look at.
It's good to put and pull together 
the movie of our lives.
It is
and it's good to talk to each other.
It is.
It's good to show each other - each other.
It is.
It has been.
It is - - - - - good.

 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


February  11,  2021

Thought for the Day

 



“No matter how low you go, there’s always an unexplored basement.”

 

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald


February 10,  2021


HOME

 
It’s no accident that "home"
has such a comforting sound.
 
Home ….
 
A favorite chair …. knowing just
where the refrigerator door handle is.
 
Home ….
 
A broken-in-bed – my side is
my side – great for sleeping here.
 
Home ….
 
No dress code – it's where I can
be I and you can be you. Thanks.

Home….

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

 



February 10,  2021


 

Thought for the Day

 

“Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.”

 F. Scott Fitzgerald


Painting by George Bellows
Dempsey and Firpo
1923-24
Firpo knocked Dempsey 
out of the ring
but Dempsey won 
the fight that lasted 4 minutes.



Tuesday, February 9, 2021

February  9,  2021 


VIEWPOINTS

 
Do we all see life
from different viewpoints?
 
Do we ever talk to each other
about what and how we see?
 
How would a grandmother in a rocker
see her  grandchild with a big dark dog?
 
How does a person in a wheelchair
see the world as she rolls by?
 
How does the kid who couldn’t make the
team feel at a Friday night football game?
 
What does a dad feel when he buys his son
and all his friends ice cream on the way home
from the game?
 
What does a mother-in-law feel when she
sees her son cheating on her daughter-in-law?
 
What do their kids feel when they find out their
mom and dad – now in their seventies – go  out
for a walk every evening holding hands.
 
Do we all see life
from different viewpoints?
 
Do we ever talk to each other
about how we see and how we feel?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

 


February  9,  2021

 


Thought for the Day

 

“The world only exists in your eyes.  You can make it as big or as small as you want.”

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald

Monday, February 8, 2021

February 8,  2021




BROKEN  PRAYERS

BROKEN PEOPLE

BROKEN  GOD
 
 
Who in the world came up with
the comment that we can’t have
distractions when we pray?
 
Then they add the whammy:
"It’s a sin."  As priest I have heard
that too many, many times.
 
We talk to each other on broken
and shaky chairs at times. We get
phone calls during supper.

David, a thief of another man's wife
sang his broken Hallelujahs, and sang
his lonely Hallelujahs to the Lord of Song.
 
We’re not God. We get distractions
and 5 cents says that God gets
interrupted over and over again.
 
So “Hallelujah” - God here I am
as I am -  “Hallelujah!” And thank
You for being You, every time.

And "Hallelujah" for your broken
prayers from your broken body
on a bloody, broken cross. "Hallelujah!"
 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


February  8,  2021


Thought for the Day

 

“Life plays the same lovely and agonizing joke on all of us.”



F. Scott Fitzgerald


 February 7,  2021


NEED A THEME 
TO THINK ABOUT?

 
Youth and aging jump off the page.
You can hear it in many a song as well.
It sells clothes and hopes and fantasies.
It sells shoes and styles and dreams.
 
The young want to look older.
The older hope they look young.
The young talk about weekends.
The old talk about health.
 
Clocks tick. Calendars turn.
Too many tomorrows and yesterdays
have come and gone and it’s smart
to make today to  make sense.
 
The young get stuck in the future;
the old get suck in the past; and
surprise, Shakespeare’s sonnets and
Willie Nelson finally make a lot of sense.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


Sunday, February 7, 2021

February  7, 2021


Thought for the Day

 

“I hope you make the best of it.  And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view.  I hope you live a life you’re proud of.  If you find you’re not,  I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald