Saturday, August 26, 2023

Friday, August 25, 2023

 August 25, 2023




Quote for Today


"If you can't love yourself,

how in the hell are you gonna

love someone else."


RuPaul Andre Charles

 August 25, 2023


Reflection

Thursday, August 24, 2023

 August 24, 2023


Reflection

August 24, 2023




Quote for Today


"Romance fails us and so do friendships, but the relationship of parent and child, less noisy than all the others, remains indelible and indestructible, the strongest relationship on earth."


Theodor Reik (2002)

Love and Lust: On the

Psychoanalysis of 

Romantic and Sexual

Emotions, p. 166

Transaction Publishers

Wednesday, August 23, 2023

 Homily - August 23, 2023



IF YOU WERE A TREE,

WHAT KIND OF TREE

WOULD YOU WANT TO BE?

 

INTRODUCTION

If you were a tree, what kind of tree would you want to be?

The other night at a Major League Baseball game at the Little League Baseball Game in Williamsport, Pennsylvania kids were asked to ask their favorite baseball player a question – or the other way around.

The question chosen a bunch of times for the kids was, “If you were an animal, what animal would you want to be?”

It was an ice breaker question. One kid said he’d like to be a dog. Another kid a fish.


TODAY’S FIRST READING

Well, when I read today’s first reading about The Parable of Four Trees, I thought of a good question: “If you were a tree, what kind of a tree would you want to be?”

In this first reading the people wanted a king – but what kind of a king?

One like an olive tree – oozing rich oil on given situations.

One like a fig tree – giving food to the people.

One like  a vine, giving grapes and wine to the people.

Or to be like the buckthorn – giving a hiding place and safety to folks – but maybe not much more.


LOOK AT OUR OWN LIFE

Each of us could look at our lives. What are my characteristics? What are my gifts? What do I bring to the table?

That could lead to further questions.

Do I do comparisons? Am I envious? Do I blame God for being unfair – like the folks in today’s gospel blaming the vineyard owner for paying the workers unfairly?

 

CONCLUSION

If I were a tree, what kind of tree would I want to be and why?

Maple tree? Sycamore? Redwood? Oak? Weeping Willow? Palm? Bamboo? Magnolia?

Do yourself with this question? Ask others how they see you, if you were a tree? Be ready for interesting insights and learnings – and maybe an “Uh oh!” or two.

 

 

 August 23, 2023



GRUDGES

 

When I see people – sometimes….

Sometimes I sense they are carrying

grudges in their heart, in their mind –

or wherever people put their grudges –

most probably in their everyday memories.

I sense them in their skin – on their face –

In their hands – in their sounds….

They have grudges, gripes and grievances

about a family member or someone

they were friends with way back when.

The gripe or grudge or grievance

is like a dog that keeps barking:

"Bark! Bark! Bark!" "Grr! Grr! Grr!"

And nobody wants to give up a dog

they’ve gotten used to – a dog they love.

What do they have to do? To do? To do?

 

 

© Reflections, Andy Costello

 

 August 23, 2023


Quote for Today


"Nothing said to us, nothing we can learn from others, reaches us so deep as that which we find in ourselves."


Theodor Reik (1956)

The Search Within:

The Inner Experiences of a Psychoanalyst;

from the Works of The Theodor Reik



Tuesday, August 22, 2023

 August 22, 2023



 August 22, 2023



Quote for Today


I SEE HIS BLOOD UPON THE ROSE


I see his blood upon the rose

And in the stars the glory of his eyes.

His body gleams amid eternal snows.

His tears fall from the skies.


I see his face in every flower:

The thunder and the singing of the birds

Are but his voice - and carven by his power

Rocks are his written words.


All pathways by his feet are worn,

His strong heart stirs the ever beating sea.

His crown of thorns is twined with every thorn.

His cross is every tree.


Joseph Mary Plunkett

Monday, August 21, 2023

 August 21, 2023




THE  GREATEST  SIN


Is the greatest sin

cutting God's tongue out

and off - trying to make 

it disappear - trying to silence God

out of our lives?



© Reflections, Andy Costello




August 21, 2023


Quote for Today

"In our civilization, men are afraid that they will not be men enough and women are afraid that they might be considered only women."

Theodor Reik,

Love and Lust

 


Sunday, August 20, 2023

 August 20, 2023


Reflections





© Reflections, Andy Costello


 August 20, 2023


Quote for Today


"The secret of human happiness is not in self-seeking but in self-forgetting."


Theodor Reik

Love and Lust: On the

Psychoanalysis of

Romantic and Sexual 

Emotions, page 194