Saturday, February 4, 2023

 February 4, 2023





HUNCH  HUNTERS

 

Poets are hunch hunters.

What are you talking about?

Well, poets are trying to get

glimpses into what’s going on.

What are you talking about?

Well, poets listen. They watch.

They spend their time trying to

figure out motives and meanings -

and sometimes put it into words.

Doesn’t everybody do that?

You got it. You got it.

Well then, am I a poet?

You are. Yet you have to

figure that out for yourself.

Sometimes you have to try

to put it into words and images

that nobody seems to understand -

especially yourself. You can do it.


© Reflections, Andy Costello


 February 4, 2023









Quote for Today

"The thing that eats the heart is mostly heart."


Stanley Kunitz

Last line of The Thing that Eats the Heart [1938]



Friday, February 3, 2023

 February 3,  2023




THE MOON A-RISING

 

The moon doesn’t ask. It never does.

She just comes up out of deep black

of the ocean – up into the night sky –

bigger than an 18 wheeler – rolling

down the highway of night. What a

neat blessing to live on the edge of

the Atlantic – and watch this happen

most months. Sometimes it’s cloudy

or rainy and the show is called off

that night – but then the orange moon

nights – make up for the rain outs.

Sometimes I wish you’d get the

message: I wish you’d be like that.

 

© Reflections, Andy Costello

 


 February 3, 2023




Quote for Today


'If the devil doesn't exist, but man has created him, he has created him in his own image and likeness."


Fedor Mikhailovich Dostoevski [1821-1881]

The Brothers Karamazov  [1879-1880]

Thursday, February 2, 2023

 February 2, 2023




GROUND  HOG  DAY

 

Some of the same things

happen to us every day.

We are repeat performances.

We all have our  same shadows -

whether we notice them or not.

We repeat  ourselves.

We deceive ourselves.

We meet ourselves on

the back staircase trying

to avoid what’s happening

on the front staircase.

Humility is being honest

to ourselves about ourselves.

Better: to laugh at ourselves.

Now that’s a key to get.


(c) Reflections, Andy Costello

 February 2, 2023




Quote for Today


"Ten years after your death

I meet on a page of your journal,  as never before,

The shock of your joy."


Ted Hughes [1938-1998]

Visit, [1998]

Wednesday, February 1, 2023

 February 1,  2023

 



LOST  KEYS

 

Unknown and unmarked keys

hang around much longer than

the keys on our key ring. We

know the keys we use every day.

In the meanwhile, we find these

unknown keys in desk drawers –

on medicine cabinet shelves –

tool boxes and in dishes. We

have no clue what they are for.

In the meanwhile, we lose

our known keys. They are somewhere –

so I guess that’s a key to how life

works – lost and found -

the known and the unknown.

 

© Reflections, Andy Costello

 

 


 FEBRUARY 1, 2023




Quote for Today


"There is no greater love than this   - than to lay down one's life for one's friend."


Jesus, John 15: 13




Tuesday, January 31, 2023

 



PRO  OR  CON  COMMENTS ON THE  NUMBER OF CATHOLICS

The  title of my comments is, “Pro or Con Comments on the Number of Catholics.”

 

25 years from now – I’ll be dead – but I’d like to know what the comments will be about Catholic Church numbers around the year 2050.

 

We all have heard about Catholics who have dropped out of our church because of the priest abuse cases. I think we need some more distance to be able to make clearer statements about that. Obviously lots of horror stories.

 

Then there are the dropouts because of the Corona Virus.

 

Time will tell some answers about that as well. Once the obligation of having to go to Mass was announced to prevent the spread of the virus we lost membership. People are coming back now. Are they coming back because they want communion – and community and they want to worship with congregation?  Zoom Masses are neat – probably better homilies – because and you can click your remote around till you find a great church and preacher in Colorado or Atlanta or where have you.

 

In the meanwhile I would suggest  making pro comments about the church.

 

We are called to be evangelists.  So instead of just listening to family members and others tell us about why they dropped out of church – with good reasons – the bad stuff they see in our church – mention good things.

For example, talk about Catholic schools and their gift to the world and to the nations. Villanova, Boston College, Bishop McDevitt, Regis High School where Doctor Fauci went in New York City, Red Bank Catholic, CBA, and Our Lady of Sorrows and a thousand other Catholic grammar schools.

 

How about mentioning Catholic hospitals, St. Jude’s, St. Rita’s, St. Joseph Hospital and Medical System in Phoenix.  Then there are hospitals and health care systems run by the Mercy Sisters, the Daughters of Charity, the Sisters of Providence, etc. etc.

 

How about mentioning food pantries, work for the poor, counseling places, retreat houses, spiritual direction ministry?

 

How about finding out about great parishes?

 

How about doing funerals, visiting nursing homes?

 

Today’s First Reading begins by saying we are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses.

 

Today’s gospel talks about Jesus healing the daughter of Jairus and the woman who touches his garments and is healed of her bloods problems.

 

Today we celebrate the feast of St. John Bosco who did all kinds of education work for kids in Italy. At a time - 1855 – 331 houses affecting 4540 religious – were closes.  He figured on ways of working around the government – so boys  - especially the homeless could get an education and training.

 

Talk about the good stuff our churches do!

January 31, 2023


 


JANUARY

 

I love it when January comes to its end -

like today, January thirty-first - finally.

It has its holidays - good - but it's over.

February is so much shorter, January

comes from the name of Janus, the

Roman god meaning a new beginning.

It has new beginnings - but it's over.

February means we’re heading towards

March – which was once the first month.

February is the shortest month. We’ll

probably get some snow and some cold –

but Spring will be on its wing. I’d never

want to live in Florida or warm places.

I want 4 seasons – weather reports –

and the variety in the unexpected.

What does February the 1st look like?


© Reflections,  Andy Costello


 January 31, 2023


Quote for Today


"How inappropriate to call this planet Earth when it is clearly ocean."


Arthur Clarke [1917-2008 ]

in Nature, March 8, 1990

Monday, January 30, 2023

 January 30, 2023



 


TOOL  BOX

 


Sometimes I like to open a tool box

and one by one take out the tools.

I’m all alone in the basement or the garage –

alone with the gray and the cement floor.

I like to hold for a moment – to  look

at a hammer – always first a hammer –

just two pieces - metal and wood –

simplicity and purpose and strength.

Next a screw driver – Phillips or regular –

then a pair of pliers, then a wrench, tools –

invented long ago – around for years –

basic, necessary, the same – hopefully like friends.

 

© Reflections,  Andy Costello

 


 January 30, 2023




Quote for Today


"Jazz music is to be played sweet, soft, plenty rhythm."


Jelly Roll Morton [1882-1941]

Mister Jelly Roll, [1950]

Sunday, January 29, 2023

 




8  BEATITUDES

 

The title of my homily is, “8 Beatitudes”.

 

In today’s gospel from Matthew we have the 8 Beatitudes of Jesus.

 

Beatitudes – ways to be happy.

 

In some Catholic grammar schools – way back – we had to memorize them.

 

Some say there are 9 beatitudes here in Mathew’s gospel that we just heard.  Some say there are 8.  The last one is a bit longer – so it can be listed as 1 or 2.

 

I get  the meaning or the gist of 6 of them.  2 of them don’t have that big a grab for me – but they all have a good message.

 

The Gospel of Matthew begins with the Infancy Narratives – Christmas stuff -  2 chapters – a bit different from the Infancy Narratives and stories in Luke.  In Matthew next come 2 chapters – some stuff on John the Baptist – then the temptations of Jesus in the desert and then the  calling of the different disciples by name.

 

Then in Chapter 5 of Matthew we have the Sermon on the Mount.  It’s 3 chapters of sayings.  This is the Year of the Gospel of Matthew. So if you want to get and to know Matthew get to know the Sermon on the Mount for starters.


Some think the Sermon on the Mount – these 3 chapters – 5, 6, and 7,  were an early short Christian document – called Matthew Q – now lost – but used by Matthew as an early part of his gospel – which became 28 chapters – almost as long as the gospel of Luke.  

 

The Sermon on the Mount has Jesus gathering folks – sitting down – and then giving them quick brief teachings – darts of thought. Starting with the beatitudes, then messages  like:

You are the salt of the earth or you are the light of the world….

Keep the Law and the Prophets ….

Don’t kill, don’t be angry, don’t be cursing each other ….

When you come to the altar – first go to your brother or sister and forgive and be forgiven – whatever needs to be forgiven ….

No adultery – even adultery in your eye – and in the mind only ….

And on and on and on …. Including stuff on prayer – no showing off – stop judging – go the extra mile - keep the golden rule – be a good tree – producing good fruit in your life.

 

That’s some stuff on the Beatitudes and the Sermon the Mount.

 

We have them now in the early part of the Christian year – then comes Lent and Easter – then we jump back to Matthew – till the end of the church year.

 

A SUGGESTION

 

For this year pick one of the 8 Beatitudes and make it your own.

With your rosary say that beatitude  59 times on the 59 beads. Try them all till one becomes your favorite.

For example: “Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God.”

 

Or, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.”

 

Or pick out one of Jesus’ messages from the sermon on the mount.

 

For example, “Go the extra mile.”

 

Or this one, “When you pray, go into your secret inner room, shut the door, pray to your Father who is in that secret place, and your father who sees all that is done in secret will reward you.”

 

Rosary beads are great for these one liners.

 

Or make up your own personal beatitudes, secrets of happiness you have come up with, and try them out on your rosary.  59 of them  or just 10 of them. Take a few minutes saying or praying to thinking of one of them while driving  - or just sitting alone in a Lazy Boy Chair.

 

For personal beatitudes I like these two I came up with – probably stolen from someone: “Be who you is, because if you be who you ain’t, then you ain’t who you is.” Or, “Learn to listen – especially by asking further questions – to  the person you’re listening to.” Base the question on what they said. It’s a great way of telling the other person you’re listening to them.

 

Enough already……

 January 29, 2023


 



REMEMBERING THE MISTAKES

 

Why do we remember what we remember?

That I don’t remember. I really don’t.

Next question: how do I learn to forget?

To forget the mistakes that weigh me down.

To forget the hurts that still hurt me.

I remember mistakes more than the good moves.

Next question: what do I want to remember?

One answer: The learnings that I learned

from the dumb things I have done.

Those things I want to remember.

They are the big blessings in my life.

 

© Reflections, Andy Costello


January 29, 2023




Quote for Today


"The first hole made through a piece of stone is a revelation."


Henry Moore [1898-1986]

Listener, August 18, 1937