Saturday, April 27, 2019

April 27, 2019


OCHOLOPHOBIA

Fear of crowds ….

Get a night job ….
Don’t have a favorite team ….
You can’t go to church ….
Take the subway outside the rush hour ….
Be careful of weddings, wakes and funerals…..
Die on a day nobody else dies ….
Or start to receive Holy Communion with everyone.

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


April    27, 2019 

Thought for today: 


"There is something odd about the weakness which irreligious men feel for religion.  Almost invariably it becomes their favorite topic."

Philip Guedella,
A Gallery, 1924

Friday, April 26, 2019

April 26, 2019


HAVE  YOU 
CAUGHT  ANYTHING?


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Friday after Easter is, “Have You Caught Anything?”

Today’s gospel has Jesus asking his disciples, “Have you caught anything?”

They were fishing all night long and they caught nothing.

Jesus tells them to throw their net to the right side of their boat and they catch a great number of fish: 153 to be exact.

At that moment they realize it’s the Lord.

In a way it’s a variation of the story in the early part of the gospels where they fill two boats with fish - thanks to the Lord, Jesus.

A GREAT QUESTION

I think that’s a great story. I think that’s a great question: “Have you caught anything?”

In the gospel  for today, Jesus says, “Let’s have breakfast.”

If Jesus invited you to the Double T Diner  or Eggcellence and asked you, “Have you caught anything?” what would you answer?


Shakespeare in one of his sonnets - Sonnet 2 -  talks about hitting 40. He feels like he’s aging and sagging and wrinkling - and he’s wondering about what he’s done with his life - and he doesn’t know what to say - till he sees his kid running towards him in the yard - and he picks up his kid and says, “This child stands for me.”

If anyone should feel his nets are full, it should be Shakespeare - with his plans and poems.

Sitting there at the diner having breakfast with Jesus would you take out your wallet and show Jesus pictures of your kids.  I think a lot of people would feel even prouder of their grand kids.  If it wasn’t for you they wouldn’t exist.

WHAT STANDS FOR YOU?

What stands for you?

Kids obviously.

Before  I came to Annapolis I worked out of our parish in Lima, Ohio.  Most Thursday evenings - after the last service of a parish mission, we would meet in the church hall or basement with those who made the mission - to socialize.

There was usually the table with 15 women in aprons and faces.  It was before I had diabetes 2 and I would walk the cookie gauntlet.  The rule for smorgasbord was always to survey the whole field before taking a first of anything.  Well I couldn’t eat 15 cookies - on a paper plate - so I had to face the face of someone who didn’t get my vote that her cookies weren’t my first or second of fifth choice.

Before going to sleep that night did 5 of those women thank God for having caught 35 cookie selectors in the church hall that night?  What about those who had no takers.

Life: what have you caught?

Life: whom have you caught?

Life: who has caught you?

Life: has God caught you?

Life: does God want to have breakfast or lunch or what with you?

CONCLUSION

As I was thinking about all this - priests get the thought at times, “I hope someone out there will think, ‘Being a priest is a good way to serve and use the gift of life - especially since most priests in the Western Church don’t have kids.’”

Thinking further about that a good memory hit me. Back in the 1970’s I was giving retreats in San Alfonso Retreat House in New Jersey.  One weekend a guy asked to talk to me about life.  He was around 45 years of age. He had helped raise his sister’s kids with her - after her husband died.

In the conversation he said, “When I was young I got the thought at time to become a priest. Now it’s too late. The kids I helped raise are in college, etc.

I said, “Too late. It’s not too late.”

Then I added, “Do you want me to contact our guy who knows all about this?”

He said, “Great.”

Well was how this wonderful  - 5 by 5 - short chubby guy from Jersey City, New Jersey - with stubby short fingers - former Marine - became a wonderful Redemptorist priest - gave over 20 years of his life as a priest.

Someone gave him the nickname, “Trixie” and it fit him perfectly.

The title of my homily is, “What Have Your Caught?”

Did I catch this guy? No. God did, but I might have supplied the net.

April 26, 2019



AMATHOPHOBIA

Fear of dust…. 

If you have this fear, 
don’t visit cemeteries….

Or when you die, 
don’t ask to be cremated....

Or if you have this fear,
wear rubber gloves and sunglasses....

If you have this fear,
don’t go to church on Ash Wednesday.


 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

April    26, 2019 -




Thought for today: 

“You can have either the Resurrection or you can have Liberace.  But you can’t have both.”  


Liberace, On Billing 
with Easter show 
at Radio City Music Hall, 
New York, September 15, 1986

Thursday, April 25, 2019


April    25, 2019 - 



Thought for today: 

“To communicate through silence is a link between the  thoughts  of  man.” 


Marcel Marceau, U.S. News a
nd World Report, February 23, 1987

April 25, 2019


GAMETOPHOBIA

Fear of marriage
Yes, it seems that some people
have this fear.

They have seen their parents
or their married friends fighting
and they say, “No more games.”

But a good marriage, 
a good family,  can take away
gametophobia or fear of marriage.

   © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

Wednesday, April 24, 2019

April 24, 2019


AIPIOPHOBIA

Fear of bees ….
Their buzz and their
quiet silence - make
for one scary creature.
Yet,  they give us honey, honey -
flowers too, honey.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

April 24, 2019


Thought for today: 


“Don’t wait for the last judgment - it takes place every day.”


Albert Camus, 
The Fall,  
Knopf 1957

Tuesday, April 23, 2019



TEARS TELL SECRETS


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily this morning is: “Tears tell Secrets!”

When was the last time you cried?

What was going on?

LITANY

Tears give us information.

Tears tell us about family and various kinds of relationships.

Tears give us the mood people are in.

Tears bring out the tissues or the handkerchiefs.

Tears tell us what we love and what we value and what is important.

Tears tell us whom we love and whom we value and who is important in our life.

Tears tell us about our joys and sorrows.

Tears tell us about our fears and hopes.

Tears tell us what tears us apart.

Tears tell us what we can laugh about and what we can cry about.

Tears show up at funerals and weddings. I was at a funeral yesterday and the son - talking about his dad - stopped - and started to cry. A daughter had a reading. She began to cry.

Tears tell us that something deep is going on here. Sometimes we know what it is; sometimes we don’t.

So as we wipe away our tears, bottle them. Take them to prayer. Then look at them. They will tell us a lot about ourselves.

Tears tell secrets.

THE GOSPELS

When we read the gospels, we hear that Jesus cried.  However, people seem to have a thing for trying to find scenes in the gospel where Jesus is laughing or where anyone is laughing.

I was wondering about this.  Is it important to find people enjoying life—laughing?

Is it important to find others joyful, happy, laughing, peaceful .

We also spot it, when we see people sad - mad - and not glad.  

I’m sure you have seen a particular painting or picture  of Jesus where he is  laughing. It’s a best seller, popular picture of Jesus. It’s a gift shop best seller.

Today’s gospel has the question: “Who are you looking for?” “What do people want or need? What are they getting at? What are they looking for?

Are people looking for emotions, feelings, affections?


If we can laugh, we can cry. If we can cry, we can laugh.

So Jesus laughed! 

Better, Jesus cried.

Jesus cried and cried and cried. Everyone does. Read his life. Read your life. Read anyone’s life. Let us listen to each other’s tears. If we would only shut up. We could hear each other’s tears falling on the wooden floors of our souls. Let us listen, let us feel, let us hear our each other’s tears. Let us begin by hearing our own.

Tears tell secrets.

JESUS

Jesus cried over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41). Jesus cried when Lazarus died (John 11:36). In mid-afternoon, hanging on the cross, Jesus cried out in a loud voice (Matthew  27:46).

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel, Mary cried.

Tears tell secrets. She loved Jesus. She finally met someone who gave her unconditional  love. Jesus was her value system. Jesus was her life. She finally met someone  who saw her as a person —someone—not something—not a role—not just a sister—not just one more person on the planet or in the village. She was Mary!

She knew!

She knew Jesus!

She could cry!

She shed tears.

His death was tearing her apart!

Today’s gospel opens with prayer words, “Mary stood weeping beside the tomb. Even as she wept, she stooped to peer inside.”

PRAYERS

Prayer is about tears.

Prayer is about getting to our deepest values—the stuff we can cry about—the stuff we fear—the stuff that we fear losing.

Then somewhere along the line, we discover that prayer is about a WHO and not a WHAT.

The what’s and the where’s and the how’s and the when’s can all be replaced. The WHO’s can’t.

Thank God for resurrection.

Prayer then is about the question the gardener asks in today’s gospel, “Woman, what are you weeping? Who is it you are looking for?

Prayer is about responding: “Rabboni”

Prayer begins with the “Who?” question before the “What are we praying for?” question

Then we’ll go forth telling each other with tears of joy, “I have seen the Lord!”


April 23, 2019



AILUROPHOBIA

Fear of cats.
Not everyone has ailurophobia ….
Scratch …. Scratch ….
Meow …. Meow ….
Cats  can be so playful,
so fun filled - while on the
other hand, we can’t  figure them
out at times. Do they meow a big,  
“Hey!” when someone calls someone,
“catty?”

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

April 23, 2019


Thought for today: 

“When I grow up I want to be a little boy.” 

Joseph Heller in 
Something Happened, 1974

Monday, April 22, 2019



A  NEW  HEAVENS 
AND  A  NEW  EARTH 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “A New Heavens and a New Earth.”

Today - April 22, 2019 - is Earth Day. 

The call is to take good care of our earth - not just today - but every day.

Today is Easter Monday - and Easter in this northern hemisphere is tied into Spring - a season when nature shows up in bursting beautiful  new life.

COLOSSIANS

It’s not today’s one of today’s readings,  but check out Colossians 1: 15-20

He is the image of the unseen God
and the first born of all creation,
for in him were created
all things in heaven and on earth:
everything visible and everything invisible,
Thrones, Dominions, Sovereignties, Powers -
all things were created through him and for him.

Before anything was created, he existed,
and he holds all things in unity.
Now the Church is his body,
he is its head.

As he is the Beginning,
he was first to be born from the dead,
so that he should be first in every way;
because God wanted all perfection
to be found in him
and all things to be reconciled
through him and or him,
everything in heaven and everything on earth,
when he made peace
by his death on the cross.”

There is a spirituality and a theology in Christ’s resurrection - that ties into creation.  Christ came to bring resurrection not just to humans but to all of creation.

I don’t have my hands or my mind on this creation nuanced theology.

I know what to avoid:  pantheism - or “all is God!”

Some stuff - some places - some sounds - are heavenly.

However stuff is not God.

Yet, there is a call in scriptures to see the call to sacredness in all people - and all life.

Each of us needs to ask: “How well do  we humans take care of our plots in nature’s fields?”

I kill mosquitos and swat flies - but I feel some hesitation when I do so. I hear a tiny voice: “Come on give this fly another chance to dance to fly.”

I know some religious teachers give a warning about killing any kind of life - yet I eat hamburgers and corn on the cob - after it’s cut down.

A COUPLE OF RANDOM  COMMENTS

We were just over to Japan in February. When our English speaking guides spotted Cherry Blossom trees - then mentioned the Cherry Blossom trees  which the government of Japan gave to Washington D.C.

We went to a tea ceremony - that took about an hour.  I now have a new series of thoughts about having a cup of tea. 

We saw people washing their hands at washing stations before going into the temple as well as sort of washing their hands in smoke outside the temple.

Look into Irish Spirituality and you’ll get some glimpses about creation centered spirituality.  Read Irish blessings and you’ll catch an awareness of trees and mountains, shamrocks and roses, salmon and homes.

I just received the following  prayer in an e-mail the other day from Martin O'Malley, our former governor, who was big on caring for our earth. It’s a poetic prayer by Patrick Kavanagh:



Sometimes when the sunlight
comes through the gap,
These men know God the Father
in  a tree.
The Holy Spirit is the rising sap,
and Christ, the green leaves at Easter
that will come
from the dark and sealed tomb.”

I just had a funeral this morning and the prayer on the back of the memorial card for Philip J. Maher had the following Irish Blessing that  we all know.  Notice the earth stuff.

Irish Blessing

May the road rise up
to meet you,
May the wind be
always at your back.
May the sun shine
warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft
upon your fields,
and until we meet again
may god hold you
in the palm of his hand.

It’s Easter - don’t forget to see and smell the beautiful flowers at the altar and the beautiful earth and flowers outside.

We’re at Mass - right now - close your eyes and see the evolution and the path of bread and wine - becoming bread and wine and then becoming Christ.

April 22, 2019


EARTH  DAY

Well, everyday is earth day.
It  doesn’t check a calendar. 
Yet, okay, give it a day, if
that means we’ll all pick out
one place, or one moment,
or one thing about the earth
that amazes us - that evokes
a wow - a wonder - or a “Wooo!”

How about the round globe
tummy of an about to give birth mom?
How about the sounds of a
rain forest in nowhere Brazil?
How about a pasture with a
dozen cows in Wisconsin?
How about water running down a
cobble stone empty street at night.

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

April 22, 2019




Thought for today: 

“To make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent the universe.”  


Carl Sagan, astronomer, 
Cornel Universe

Sunday, April 21, 2019

April 21, 2019



LAYERED  LOOK

Everything has layers,
upon layers, upon layers.

Every story has back-
stories, and background

Every song has notes and
melodies that trigger memories.

Everything you say, gets
woven into everything you say.

Everything, well, dementia
eventually, has its say.  Wait ….
 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


BAPTISMAL  CERTIFICATE


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Easter Sunday  is  "Baptismal Certificate".

One of the key themes for Easter Sunday is Baptism.

Last evening thousands and thousands and thousands of people around the world were baptized  - and became Christians.

How many I don’t know.  I’ll do my homework.

Christians:  meaning the Anointed Ones.

Anointing with sacred oil is part of the ceremony - as well as for those who were confirmed.

Baptized: meaning the Dipped - dipped into  the waters.

Today at all Masses we renew our baptismal vows.

MOM AND DAD’S BAPTISM CERTIFICATES

I’m the youngest of 4 kids.

My sister Mary and I are the last 2.

My sister Mary is sorting out family papers - saving some - getting rid of others.

Who has and where are your family papers?

When couples bring their babies to St. Mary’s for Baptism they are handed a baptismal certificate and I always say, “Do you have a fireproof safety box for your sacred and significant papers?” 

Where are your significant family papers?

For the sake of transparency I have stocks in Office Depot.  Just kidding.

Some files are saved somewhere electronically.

Father John Harrison when he was stationed here put all of St. Mary’s Baptismal, Marriage, Confirmation and other books into our computers. It took him a few years, but he did it.

The Archdiocese of Baltimore have all our books right now and are electronically storing them.

I keep wondering when we are going to get them back.

I have heard that records in some Catholic Churches in Ireland have been lost - through fires.

So when my sister Mary showed me about a month ago two baptismal records - my dad and my mom’s - handwritten - quite fragile and quite beaten up - from 1904 - I knew I was holding something  sacred in hand.

[SHOW AND TELL]

I XEROXED them and put them on my computer and hope to get copies to my nieces and nephew - with the secret agenda for all of them to think and feel the importance of their and their parents and their ancestors baptismal records and then hopefully they will look within and wonder about their baptism.

PAPERWORK - DEGREES - DIPLOMAS - CERTIFICATES

From time to time one hears that we are moving towards a paperless society?

I don’t know.  I still see copies of Doctor’s Degrees and certificates on office walls. Graduations are coming towards us soon.  What will happen to all those diplomas and degrees that people will walk up steps to stages to receive in hand? What about Marriage and Birth and Baptismal certificates?

Do you ever notice inspection papers on elevators?  How about clipboards in turnpike rest stops - that the bathrooms were cleaned 2 hours ago?  Aren’t  there  FDA rules and regulations on paper about food and medicines inspection?

What’s in your glove compartment?   License and registration please?

I remember reading in a newspaper years ago - during the horrible wars - in Bosnia and Herzegovina - how in some places,  the different sides would invade a small town and burn the town records - birth, marriage, what have you.  I remember thinking, “Now that’s a sin!”  I save newspaper clippings that grab me, but I don’t know if I saved that. Next time I have time, I’ll try to find that on computer. Google is great - but so too actual paper copies of our records.

CONCLUSION: EASTER HOMILY

Question: but is this the stuff of an Easter Sermon or Homily?

I wondered about that. A sermon is all words - that disappear pretty fast after it is given. Hot air …. Cold air …. So so words - that slide under benches and out of people’s thoughts.

I’m the only one with a copy of my homily - and I find lots of these old sermons folded in sixes - and then tossed out next week or so.

But I do put them on my blog - along with quotes and reflections - knowing that papers are tossed - but not all. I showed you two baptismal records from 1904.

Why not scan or photo your degrees and certificates - and send them on line to family members?  Maybe someone will save them without knowing it - and then future family researchers will go to your grave and say,  “Thank you” - facing your name and numbers in stone?

And maybe someone will look at their baptismal certificate and reflect upon being certified, “Hey I’m a Christian. Hey I was baptized 33 years ago in Topeka, Kansas.  Hey I got to wake up and really  walk this and really live this way of life. Amen.”


April    21, 2019 

Thought for today:  

“The entire character  of  a man’s life depends on whether he answers ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ to the historic fact of the Resurrection.”  


John E. Large, The Small 
Needle of Doctor Large, 1992