Saturday, August 31, 2019

August 31, 2019 
ACHE

She saw his ache …. It was in his face ….
Mothers often spot their child’s pain.
They know when something’s not
going right in their life. They know
when something is going wrong in
their marriage - like lately ….
She has watched her daughter-in-law’s
eyes scanning - another man - his
shoulders - his car - his house - his wallet ….
What’s wrong with my son? Have you
forgotten your vows and your dreams?
What about the impact of divorce
and division on my grandkids?
Have your forgotten  the old wisdom
about the color of grass in another’s yard?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



August  31, 2019,  

Thought for today: 

“Should we all confess our sins to one another we would all laugh at one another for our lack of originality.” 


Kahil Gibran, Sand and Foam, 1927

Friday, August 30, 2019



BUT  HE  CAN’T

I know someone who always wants
the remote - the clicker - so he
can change the channel whenever
he wants - to whatever he wants.
I watch his face. I can tell he wishes
he could mute me - change my
channels - shut me off - but he can’t.
I really don't know about him or his other
channels, but I don't want to be remote.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


August  30, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“To my mind the most poignant mystical exhortation ever written is ‘Be still and know that I am God.’”  

Arnold Bennet, 
Journals, 
December 1929. 
[From Psalm 46:10.] 

Thursday, August 29, 2019


OFF   WITH  THEIR  HEADS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Off With Their Heads.”

Today - August 29th - we look at the beheading of St. John the Baptist.

Oooooh,  Messy.  Horrible.

Shakespeare in several of his plays has someone say, “Off With Their Heads.”

Shakespeare  was historically accurate - because that’s what happened many times in British history. Many people had their heads chopped off and stuck on bridge spikes for all to see.

Two of Henry the Eight’s six wives  were beheaded: Anne Boleyn and Catherine Howard.

So too many other people in many other places. 

So too in France - especially with the French Revolution when many were guillitoned. King Louie XVI lost his head on January 21st, 1793 and Marie Antoinette faced down at the guillotine on October 16, 1793.  The number I read last night who were killed in the French Revolution was 40,000.

Off with their heads.

Capital Punishment is the phrase for all kinds of official killings by those in charge - for all kinds of reasons. Capital has that Latin word “caput” in it.  It’s the word for “head”.  And the slang word  “Kaput” - means finished, worn out, dead, broken, the end.  It’s often pronounced with a hand to the                       neck as if a knife is cutting one’s head off.

SILENCED

The idea is to silence - put an end to what we don’t like - especially if it’s another. Want silence: cut off the voice box - mouth and all.

“Beheading”: how did that word evolve.

“Off with their head” and that means their mouth - their words - that means to silence another.

Alice in Wonderland in Lewis Carrol’s famous book screams out: “Off with their heads.”

We read it here in our scriptures - with John the Baptist being silenced - because Herodius harbored a grudge -  as Mark 6: 17-29 - tells us in the gospel for this Mass.

Grudges - held onto bad moments and memories from another seems to be one of the main reasons people are beheaded.

Silence - shut them up - off with their heads.

MODERN TIMES

Horror continues.

Terrorists use television and video clips of beheadings to horrify us.

I think of the horrible silencing that took place in the Bosnia-Herzagovina’s war - when libraries were burned - when town records of birth certificates and property ownership  were destroyed.

The Serbs and then those who reacted and retaliated in kind knew that if you want to destroy a people - if you want to silence a people   -  burn their birth certificates. Burn their deeds.  Destroy their books. Make them non-existant.

HOW DO WE SILENCE THOSE WHO’S VOICES WE DON’T WANT TO HEAR.

We look at our watches.

We yawn.

We cut them out of our conversations.

We cut them with stabbing comments.

We ignore them.

We destroy their capital.

CONCLUSION: THE OPPOSITE

How do we build relationships? How do we build community? How do we receive communion with Christ and each other? It’s with our heads - our capital - our brain center. It’s through our mouth and our   words and our ears with our eyes - all processed in our skull. 

So instead of beheading - hopefully we behold each other - will big time respect for one’s head. Hopefully we spend time seeing each other eye to eye -  and hearing each other All part of our heads - eye to eye - talking heads.



August 29, 2019

SOMETIMES

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to get to where we want to get.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to figure out what we really want.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
for another to figure out we love them.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to say what we really want to say.

Sometimes it take a lot of  times 
to hear what another is trying to tell us.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to know there is a God who knows us.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to write what we really want to write.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


August  29, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“To the puritan all things are impure.” 

D. H. Lawrence, 
Etruscan Places, 1927

Wednesday, August 28, 2019

August 28, 2019


AUGUSTINE

Augustine - let me tell you something -
there is no way - you have to confess -
there is no way you would have known -
that you’d be the patron saint of us
procrastinators - of lust - of  those
searching for God in the dusty places
of a thirsty mind and heart - okay -
you knew you had a mom like
so many moms - wondering if you’d
ever find rest  in this restless world -
till you found out God is like us:
a restless and ever waiting God ….

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


August  28, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“Several years ago, however, when I was moving my dad to Texas, I came across one of those diaries from when I was 12 years old.  One entry indicated that I had gone to hear Dr. Harvey Ironside, the famous pastor of Moody Memorial Church in Chicago. And in my diary I’d  put: ‘Some men preach for an hour and it seems like twenty minutes, and some preach for twenty minutes and it seems like an hour.  I wonder what the difference is?” 

“I think I’ve spent my life trying to answer that question.’”  

Bill Hybels, page 19, 
Leadership Spring 1990, XI, 
Number 2, Pepperish: 
A  Practical Journal ….

Tuesday, August 27, 2019

August  27, 2019


Thought for today: “The test of a preacher is that his congregation goes away saying, not, ‘What a lovely sermon!’ but ‘I will do something.’”  

St. Francis de Sales

August 27, 2019


SOME  SOUNDS

The sound of bacon “ouching”
on a frying pan at 7:07 in the morning ….

The sound of a baby in a side row
seat 27 minutes into a Sunday Mass ….

The sound of a screen door on the porch,
sort of like sweeping the floor, opening
and closing, bedroom windows open
around 12:39 on an August hot night ….

The sound of a shy “Hi” after a fight -
but hoping to repair the hurt - please God ….

The sound of a flag being folded tightly
by 4 marines at a burial - just before it’s
presented to a widow at the grave ….

The sound of the crowd when a home run
just goes just foul in the ninth inning and
our team loses by just one run ….

The sound of an aluminum can releasing
its spray of air and bubble - freedom - finally ….

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

August 26, 2019

Thought for today:

“A priest sees people at their best; a lawyer at their worst; but a doctor sees them as they really are.” 

Proverb


August 26, 2019


PERFECT  CIRCLE


They reported that Da Vinci
could draw a perfect circle
every time. Nice. Good story.
But few of us can avoid being
distracted in a sacred moment
or cutting someone off in a
good conversation because
we have to tell what the other
triggered in us and then the
other does the same back to
us and neither of us knew
what we doing at the time.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

August 25, 2019



Thought for today: 

“Better a thousand enemies  outside the house than one inside.”  


Arabic Proverb

August 25, 2019



BEFORE  AND  AFTERWARDS

Sometimes because of before
and afterwards,  we can miss
what happened in the in between.

Anticipation and  failed expectations
can do that every time.  Regrets
and hopes can ruin reality. Sorry.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

August 24, 2019


Thought for today: 

“Don Marquis, a humorist playwright and columnist who die in 1957, said, ‘I get up in the morning with an idea for a three volume novel and by nightfall it’s a paragraph in my column.’”