Saturday, June 22, 2019

June 22, 2019



DEAD  BUG

I saw a dead bug
on a window sill.
It bothered me
more than a dead bug
caught in  a spider’s web
or one that hit my windshield.

I wondered, “Why?”
Maybe because
I didn’t know how
or when it died -
but those other two
deaths made more sense.

Is that the way it is
with death? Old age,
cancer, tough but
they make sense.
But to die alone like
a fly on a window sill?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 22, 2019



Thought for today:

“Not everybody trusts paintings but people believe  photographs.”  

Ansel Adams


Friday, June 21, 2019

June 21, 2019


AT  EVERY  SABBATH


At every Sunday service,
at every Sunday Mass,
every person present
is either
one of two persons:
the one who sits 
and watches and judges others,
or the one who sits in the back
with and needing God.

Each of us is 
either the Pharisee 
or the Tax Collector?
  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
Cf.  Luke 18: 9-14





June 21, 2019




Thought for today: 

“A photograph is a secret about a secret. The more it tells  you  the less you know.”  

Diane Arbus

June 20, 2019



WHY  NOT?

For every act of selfishness,
anger, hostility, the finger,
not holding the door or a
space or place for another,
why not show some love,
an act of kindness, a smile,
a song,  a gathering with
others and to enjoy this
great gift of life. Amen.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 20, 2019




Thought for today: 

“The camera is an instrument that teaches people to see  without a camera.” 

Dorothea Lange

June 19, 2019

GIVE  GOD  THE  GLORY 
NOT  ONESELF 

The title of my homily for this Wednesday in the  11th  Week  in Ordinary time is, “Give God the Glory, Not Oneself.”

This will be a one minute homily.

“Give God the Glory, Not Oneself.”

We’ve all seen the following while watching a baseball, football or basketball game. An athlete makes a great catch or play and raises his or her index finger to the sky - to give God the Glory.

This the message that Jesus is giving in today’s gospel - Matthew 6: 1-6, 16-18

“Give God the Glory, Not Oneself.”

I am trying to remember a scene from a novel about a Boston politician.  He went to Mass every Sunday. He would come down the main aisle - always one minute late - genuflect up front - near the 3rd of 4th row - reach into his pocket -  for his rosary - which would fall onto the floor - to the notice of everyone.

He wasn’t doing all this for God’s glory - but for himself.

“Give God the Glory, Not Oneself.”

That’s what Jesus is getting at in today’s gospel and we get that message.

47 seconds. Thanks for listening.

June 19, 2019
QUESTIONS?

Does Jesus prefer questions?

The gospels are loaded with them:
Where do you stay?
But who do you say, I am?
Who is my mother
and who are my brothers?
Do you love me?
What were you arguing about?
Which of the two sons did his Father’s will?

Does Jesus prefers questions?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 19, 2019



Thought for today:

“Photography takes an instant out of time, altering life  by  holding it still.” 


Dorothea Lange


June 18, 2019


CONSCIOUS

I was in a nursing home
21 days before I realized
that Tim - this other guy  -
was just staring - yet  he
was conscious of everything -
but he couldn’t talk. He
couldn’t communicate.
It was then I realized
he was all eyes - totally
aware and I missed out
on 21 days of life with him,
but today things changed.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 18, 2019


Thought for today: 

“Even in our sleep pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart, and in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God.” 

Aeschylus.  
Quoted by David Brooks 
in an New York Times, op. ed. article, 
“Harvard’s False Path to Wisdom,” 
page A. 21, Tuesday June 18, 2019

June 17, 2019



CAN   DO

Can can -
that ought to be our tune -
not can’t can’t!
For life ….
For all people ….
For the little people,
for the old people,
for all people….
To bring the best out
of each other ….
To clap for each other
To rejoice in what each
of us can do.
Surprise!   Can! Can!
  
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 17, 2019


Thought for today: 

“Moral formation is not like learning math. It’s more cumulative; it’s inverse.  In a sin-drenched world it’s precisely through the sin and ensuing repentance that moral formation happens.  That’s why we try not to judge people by what they did in their worst moment, but by how they respond to their worse moment.  That’s why we are forgiving of 15-year-olds, because they haven’t disgraced themselves enough to have earned maturity.”  


David Brooks
New York Times
June 18, 2019, 
“Harvard’s False Path to Wisdom,” 
A. 21, Tuesday, June 18, 2019

June 16,  2019

IN  THE  OTHER  CHAIR


If you could sit down
with one other person
on an afternoon porch
who would that person be?

Well, it all depends on what
we were going to talk about -
what the topic of conversation
was going to be - if I had a choice.

For happiness it would be _______.
For relationships it would be  ­­­­­­­____ .
For an ideal job it would be  _____ .
For religion it would be  _________.         


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
June 16, 2019


Thought for today: 

“Concealment makes the soul a swamp; confession is how you drain it.”  


Charles M.  Blow,
 in a New York Times, op. ed. piece, 
“It Got Better. That’s my testimony.” 
Page A. 19, June 17, 2019.

June 15, 2019



RINGS  AND  THINGS

Wow!  There are lots of rings and things.

Pins and pendants;
Postcards on refrigerators;
Held with magnets from Bermuda;
Flags and bumper stickers;
Death memorial cards;
Wedding favors;
10,000 photos on iPhones;
Ball point pens borrowed from hotels;
Souvenirs from 1,000 places.

Wow! There are lots of rings and things.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 15, 2019

Thought for today: 


“Because you cannot see God, God is everywhere.”  

Yasunari Kawabata, 
Quoted by Susan Cheever, 
Home before Dark,
Houghton Mifflin, 1984
June 14, 2019



DID YOU EVER NOTICE?

Did you ever notice that every
silent piano just sitting there
seems to be whispering,
“Touch me!” “Play me!”

Did you ever notice that every
silent human being just sitting there
seems to be saying,
“Ask me!” “Call on me?”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 14, 2019

Thought for today:  

Departing guests leave The Word and grab the words.”  


William Safire, 
On Preference for Dictionaries 
over Bibles,  New York Times
April 12, 1987
June 13, 2019


ONLOOKERS

Who are your onlookers -
those who are  watching you?

They have their list of
expectations for you.

Did you know that? They don’t tell you,
but they tell others behind your back.

Guess what?  You’re doing this as well.
You have expectations of others.

It’s called “Life”. It’s called, 
“Hope.” It’s called, “Community”.

However, when there are walls,
it's also called, "Loneliness."

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 13, 2019

Thought for today: 

“One  day I asked my father for find me a master who could guide me in my studies of Kabbalah.  ‘You are too young for that.  Maimomides tells us that one must be thirsty before venturing into the world of mysticism, a world fraught with peril.  First you must study the basic studies, those you are able to comprehend."  



Elie Wiesel, 
page 4 in Night.
June 12, 2019

PRESENTATION 


As Shakespeare put it, 
“All the world’s a stage ….” 
And there we are every day 
presenting ourselves - with 
our entrances and our exits - 
with our gifts and our talents, 
with our presentations to each other. 
But as Walt Whitman put it, 
“To have great poets, there 
must be great audiences too.” 
May we be just that each day: 
great audiences - clapping 
and present for each other. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 12, 2019


Thought for today: 


“Dust is a protective covering for fine furniture.”  


Mario Butta, quoted by John Taylor, 
“Fringe Lunatic,” Manhattan Inc. 
July 1986

June 11, 2019


EVOLUTION

There are still people who
don’t believe in evolution.

“Hello!”

They miss seeing people
learning to play the piano.

“Hello!”

They miss people learning
to change their opinions.

“Hello!”

They fail to see how having
children change their parents.

“Hello!”

They miss God at every Holy Water
font and every swimming pool.

“Hello!”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 11, 2019

Thought for today: 


“A  committee  is a group that keeps  minutes and loses hours.”



 Milton Berle, 

News Summaries, 
July 1, 1954
June 10, 2019



FAITH  CALLS  
FOR  MOTION

Faith calls for motion, movement,
not just mouth and words.  It calls
for steps towards the hurting brother
or sister, child or nursing home folks.
It calls for study and then going down
into the river and coming up from the
depths a new creation - a beloved
daughter and son of God - and
treating everyone else the same way.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 10, 2019


Thought for today: 


“Having served on various committees, I have drawn up a list of rules.  Never arrive on time; this stamps you as a beginner.  Don’t say anything until the meeting is half over; this stamps you as being wise.  Be as vague as possible; this avoids irritating the others. When in doubt, suggest that a subcommittee be appointed;   this will make you popular; it’s what everyone is waiting for.”  


Harry Chapman, 
Greater Kansas City 
Medical Bulletin, 1963

June 9, 2019

CANDLE  GOING  OUT 

When does someone, anyone,
get what a candle going out means?

Watch little kids around a birthday
cake when the candles are blown out.

One kid stops and stares at the smoke
rising towards the ceiling and forever.

The others just see the cake  
and wish it was their birthday.

The one who wonders about the smoke is
the one who wonders about mystery forever.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 9, 2019


Thought for today: 


“A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.”  


Winston Churchill, 
News Summaries, July 5, 1954

June 8, 2019


SABBATICAL

Without realizing it,
I was given a Sabbatical
in my 79th year of life.
I got sick.
I felt fragility with my triple by-pass.
I realized there are time limits.
In the Washington Hospital Center
I asked myself in the middle of the night,
“Is this it or will I have more time?”
I didn’t know.
The side effects of the anesthesia
and oxycodone unhinged my reality.
Time - and  I hope recovery
will give me answers.
I had the all already -
but why not more?   Why not?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


June 8, 2019

Thought for today: 


“When  she  started to play,  Steinway came down personally and rubbed his  name off the piano.”  



Bob Hope, 
on comedian Phyllis  Diller,  
WNEW TV,  May 7, 1985
June 7, 2019



GRACE

There are nights - darkness - death -
and there are mornings - light - grace -
and the consequences of our decisions.

There better be a God. There better
be grace. There better be justice in
the long run - because sometimes ….
  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 7, 2019

Thought for today: 


“I have treated  many hundreds of patients …. Among [those] in the second half of life - that is to say, over 35 - there has not been one whose problem in the last resort was not that  of finding a religious outlook on life.”  


Carl Jung, Time
February 14, 1955
June 6, 2019



THE  FIRST SCHOOL HOUSE

The first school house is the home
we’re brought up in - where we learn
love and language, laughter and how
to butter our bread - sweep the floor -
mirror our parents smiles - dance, sing,
pray and play cards - all those life
learnings before we go to school.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 6, 2019



Thought for today: 

“The motto was ‘Pax,’ but the word was set in a circle of thorns.”  


Rumer Godden, 
on a Benedictine motto, 
In This House of Brede
Viking 1969

June 5, 2019

THE GOLDEN CUP


God handed me the Golden Cup -
to take a taste of God’s Precious Blood.
I did - as well as a piece of the
Sacred  Bread. I did - as I realized
God without pause accepts me as is.

Wait! Stop! Pause! I just realized
God wants to taste of my precious
blood and my sacred body - but I
cannot fathom why God would  want
to be in Sacred Communion with me.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
Chalice on top commissioned by
Catherine the Great in St. Petersburg
in 1791, Designed by Iver Windfelt


June 5, 2019



Thought for today: 

“Knowing  your  own  darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other  people.”  

Carl Jung, in a letter to a former student 
on reassessing religious values outlined 
to Sigmund Freud a half century later, 
quoted in Gerhard Adler, 
editor of Letters, Vol I, Princeton 1973

June 4, 2019


HE  DECIDED 

He decided on dropping church -
out of his life. How long was this
decision  on his mind - in his heart? 
Being a priest, should I have asked?
I didn’t - but  he did say he was fed up
with his parish priest blasting gays and
getting into politics from the pulpit.

I sense  this dropping out is on the
increase. It adds to the pressure on a priest
to be light and salt - example and inspiration -
hope and challenge - Christ and Church -
to the many. It  makes me want to scream,
“What are you  doing to make people want
to be here? What’s your example like?”


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 4, 2019



Thought for today: 

“Being with an  insanely  jealous person is like being in the room with a dead mammoth.” 



Mike Nichols, 
New York Times, 
May 27, 1984


June 3, 2019

TRANSLATION



We didn’t know it, but we have
the ability to translate from
any language - just by watching,
just by listening - just by working
on figuring out what people are
feeling, singing, saying. to each other.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

June 3, 2019


Thought for today: 

“A  lie  can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoe.”



Mark Twain