Saturday, December 15, 2018

December 15, 2018




IT’S  A  WONDERFUL LIFE

Every Christmas hopefully we watch
one of the 25 movies that make up
the gospel of film - those movies that
move us and get us to realize, “It’s
a Wonderful Life” and life is not a
Groundhog Day” - we don't have to 
keep repeating ourselves - or “Casablanca” -
we don’t have to lose each other.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018





December 15, 2018 

Thought for today: 



“E=mc2” "[Energy equals mass of light squared.]  The original statement is: If a body gives off the energy L in the form of radiation, its mass diminishes by L/c2.].”  



Albert Einstein, Statement 
of the mass-energy equivalence 
relationship. It can be found in 
Ist die Tragheit eines Korpers 
von Seinem Engegieghalt 
Abhangig? [1905]

Tuesday, December 11, 2018

December 14, 2018





ROLE  REVERSAL

Parents and children gradually switching  roles -
all so slowly - first childhood - second childhood -children becoming adults - adults becoming children - kids  learning words - adults forgetting names - diapers - Depends - learning to walk - learning how to use a walker - all right before our eyes. Parents and children - both denying these realities.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


December 14, 2018 

Thought for today: 


“Important  principles may and must be inflexible.”  


Abraham Lincoln, 
Last public address,  
Washington D.D. [April 11, 1865]

December 13, 2018


MERRY  GO  ROUND

Looking back, I’ve never seen an
unhappy face on a merry-go-round.

Yet, so much of life is repeated
sounds, words, motions, illusions,
in and out of cars, the opening and
closing of doors and jars and boxes.

Looking back I’ve seen unhappy
faces in churches and on their jobs.

Maybe seeing life as a merry-go-round
might be a metaphor for having to do
life  - listening to the music, enjoying
life and seeing the circle of life together.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018










December 13, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“When asked by an anthropologist what the Indians called America before the white man came, an Indian said simply, ‘Ours,’” 


Vine Deloria, Jr.

December 12, 2018


FREEDOM

Freedom at 13 is so much different
than freedom at 33  - but the real live
freedom we all long for should be 
happening by 73 or 83 - when we have no 
fear of  heaven or hell - when we put the
rest of our life in God's pottering hands -
and we start to really enjoy looking back
at all our wonderful memories and roads
and we're ready for what's yet to come -
and here we come - ready or not. Amen.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018



December 12, 2018 


Thought for today: 

Be yourself is the worst advice you can give to some people.”  


Tom  Masson



COMFORT


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Second Tuesday in Advent is “Comfort.”

Today’s first reading from Isaiah begins with the word  “comfort” and with that theme: “Comfort, give comfort to my people.”

THE COMFORTER

Growing up we had this neat big down - light brown - blanket - which was called, “The comforter.”

After the radiator, It was the most important thing in the living room - from  December till March.

First come, first serve, unless my older brother could grab and steal it from us. It was one of a kind - and hung around our living room on the couch - rarely folded - because everyone wanted it and used it all the time.

There were also two big dull yellow white wool blankets that were second choices. Besides that they were itchy - but on a cold evening - they were a good choice. We’d be there with the radio on. This was before TV - black and white TV.

PROVIDING COMFORT FOR OTHERS

Providing comfort for others is a specific - non-verbal - act of charity.

Isn’t it neat to see an airline steward or stewardess providing blankets to folks - after 11 PM - 30,000 feet up - even tucking a dark blue blanket on an old man or old lady in the night?

So too in nursing homes or for  babies in carriages - on cold winter days.

So too hot chocolate in winter or ice cream on summer nights.

Isaiah is saying, “Comfort, give comfort to my people.”

I wonder if the concentration camp bullies - and killers - at Auschwitz - and Buchenwald - never had  parents and grandparents - or families who provided comfort to each other when they were growing up.

How could they make life so horrible for the Jews, the gays, the misfits - made to sleep on wood slats in the concentration camps.

BENCHES HERE AT ST.  JOHN  NEUMANN

The benches at St. Mary’s are rather uncomfortable.  The pillows here at St. John Neumann have improved. The pillows you’re on now don’t have buttons on them like the ones that we just replaced

Speaking of benches and uncomfortable chairs, I’m waiting for airlines to provide more chair room - rather than less - bigger bathrooms - and then using  those two factors in advertising for that airline.  “Our seats have 37.6 % more seat room than any other airline.”  “Our bathrooms - you can’t take a shower in them - but they have 42.6% more comfort room than any other bathroom in any other airline.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL - THE LOST SHEEP

Think of the lost sheep in today’s gospel. That lost sheep was the 1 in 99 - who has disappeared - and the Good Shepherd - leaves the 99 and goes in search of his lost sheep.

I notice Father Tiz has several doggie blankets for Wilbur.  I don’t know if Wilbur his pug appreciates that TLC - more than treats  - but I would sense that the dog or cat owner - who takes good care of their pets - that that care carries over to how they see homeless and people in the cold.

I hope that carries over to providing hot chocolate in cold weather and oreos and chocolate chip cookies - year round.

CONCLUSION

My theme has been comfort. I talked mainly about human everyday comforts - but hopefully in doing them for each other, they will  carry over to doing more comforting and caring of each other.

December 11, 2018


BELLS

Bells ringing….  Phones ringing ….
Someone wants someone ….
Or sometimes it’s church bells and
someone has been called to a new life -
please God - heaven -  on the other side
of this life - and sometimes their voice -
remains on someone’s phone - heaven ….
sometimes for a long, long, long, time….
Reverberations can last a long, long time.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


December 11, 2018 

Thought for today: 

“Sometimes I think just not thinking of oneself is a form of prayer.”  


Barbara Grizzuti Harrison

Monday, December 10, 2018

December 10, 2018


A  STORY

I was doing something else 
when a story came to me. 
I liked it.  It will work. 
Stupid me didn’t stop to  
write it down or type it out. 
Now I can’t remember it. 
Is it gone forever?  
I’ll never know because  
I can’t remember what it 
was in the first place. Does 
this ever happen to you? 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018

December 10, 2018




Thought for today: 

“Stories are medicine.”  


Clarissa Pinkota Esters


SIN  AS  PARALYSIS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 2nd Monday in Advent is, “Sin As Paralysis.”

Sin can paralyze us. Sin can cripple us.  Sin can cause spiritual strokes and misses.  Sin can weigh us down. 

Say the wrong thing. Do the wrong thing. Don’t do the right thing…. Well then when these things happen we can feel the nag of sin and dumb for days, weeks, and for years….

TODAY’S GOSPEL

This is a message from today’s gospel - Luke 5: 17-26.

This man in today’s gospel is paralyzed.  His buddies hear about Jesus as a healer and they bring him to Jesus for healing. They get to the house where Jesus is - and the crowd is blocking them from getting to Jesus - so they climb up on the roof - remove some tiles. Then they lower him in his stretcher right through the hole in the roof into the presence of Jesus.

It’s quite a scene.

Luke makes the story even better and more dramatic by connecting it with sin - as well as the Scribes and the Pharisees - who have no use for Jesus.

PENANCE SERVICES

This gospel story from Luke 5 is often chosen for Penance Services.

We just had the kids making their first confession last Saturday - and the text every year is the story of Zacchaeus being invited into Jesus house by Jesus himself.

And the crowd whispers: “This man dines with sinners and eats with them.”

I prefer today’s story that describes sin as paralysis.

SIN AS STONES


I like to talk about sins as stones which we can hold onto by putting them into a pack on our back.

We can even ball point pen what our sins are.

They weigh us down. They slow us down. They are heavy.

At times we can throw them at others.

We can throw them at the Lamb - who takes away the sins of our world.

Jesus said, “Let him or her without sin cast the first stone.”

Our sins can hurt others - as well as ourselves.

Yet Jesus can take them away.

CONCLUSION

Today’s gospel tells us this basic message.

Ooops …. Better give some good news as well.

Today’s first reading from Isaiah 35: 1-10 gives us the opposite.

Instead of gathering sins, we can gather flowers. We can  become a beautiful orchard. We can bloom.  We can then run better. We can then be better as a human being. Amen.

Sunday, December 9, 2018

December 9, 2018


MOSAIC

The colored stones
touched and touched,
glued together -
forming a picture,
but like everything in life,
I was too close to see
what I was missing.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018

On top - Roman mosaic of Ulysses
from Carthage, 2nd century AD, 
now in the Bardo MuseumTunisia








RE-DO

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Second Sunday in Advent - Year C -  is, “Re-Do”.

It’s spelled, “re-hyphen-do” or simply “redo”.

I think it’s a good word and a good theme that can sum up today’s first and third readings.

Re-Do.

FIRST READING

The first reading is from the scroll called Baruch. It’s a Jewish document, but not in the Jewish Bible, but it was in the Septuagint - the Greek Old Testament from the Jewish community in Alexandria and our Bible comes from that. So it's in that Bible - which the Catholic Church uses. [Cf. Baruch 5: 1-9.]

Commentators place it the Babylonian Captivity or Exile [586-538 B.C.] - where Jewish leaders - were talking about and hoping from a return to Jerusalem.

They wanted a re-do - a return - a restoration - a re-beginning -  of Jerusalem and their country.

The mountains will be leveled and the gorges will be filled up.

I’m sure parts of California - that were burnt big time - want a similar re-do.

GOSPEL

The Gospel for this Sunday - from Luke  - Chapter 3: 1-6 -  talks about John’s Baptism - which John proclaimed was to be  a moment for repentance - a starting all over again.

John brought all those interested in renewal to the river. He brought them to the other side of the Jordan - to the spot - to the  moment - to the reenactment - the crossing - the re-crossing of the Jordan River. Their ancestors coming from Egypt had just spent 40 years  in the dessert. They crossed over to the other side of the Jordan river - into the Promised Land - to begin a new life.  They were to be a new people - ready for a re-do - a new start - a new beginning.

Notice Isaiah's images in this gospel reading: every valley shall be filled - every mountain will be made low - the rough ways will be made smooth. 

It’s the same hope as we heard in the first reading from Baruch. In other words - traveling will be much smoother. Life will that much easier from now on.

RE-DO’S

Think about re-do’s in life.

Sometimes marriages don’t work.

Sometimes relationships don’t work - jobs don’t work - investments don’t work. 

Sometimes kids pick the wrong college for them. So too homes or a neighborhood. They take a loss and move on.

Sometimes people try again from where they are; sometimes people make a fresh start elsewhere.

I’m willing to bet if you walk down to waters here in Annapolis, you’ll find a boat or two, with the name, “Second Chance” on it.

I love stories about people who get a second chance - and they re-do their lives.

I hope prisons offer  courses and training for people who want to start all over again. Others just  do their time and finally get out - no different than the day they went  into prison.

Advent - Lent - are seasons preparing us for re-do’s.

I spent 14 years of my life in two different retreat houses: 7 years in Tobyhanna, Pennsylvania, in the Poconos and 7 years  in Long Branch,  New Jersey, on the ocean - where people came for a weekend or longer to ponder a re-do - a retreating - a renewal of their lives.

I spent 8 ½ years of my life in my last assignment in Lima, Ohio - giving parish missions - out of there, mostly in rural Ohio. A Parish Mission is a Redemptorist hallmark - with the idea of challenging people to look and re-look at their life - and see what has to be re-done.

EVERY DAY REDO’S

Or take everyday re-do’s in life.

Haven’t we all had the experience of walking into a room or a situation and all goes wrong. We say something - or someone says something - and it’s a disaster.

How many times in such a moment - have we been tempted to say, “Wait a minute. Let’s redo this moment? Let’s try this again?”

So we step out of the room - take a deep breath - and then come back into the room - as if the last coming into the room didn’t happen.

We could even say, “It’s a redo.”

It’s a do-over.

And we say out loud, “Let’s try this again.”

In football, I’m sure Navy can’t wait till next December for another re-do.  Besides that it sells t-shirts.

In baseball, it’s a rare game, it’s a rare day, when someone goes 4 for 4 or hits 4 home runs.

Hitting .333 ain’t bad - that’s one for three.

Why can’t we say,  "That’s not bad - that’s life."  

Can’t we realize that re-do’s are part of life.

I like it when I have at least 2 Masses on a weekend. I can straighten out my homily and get it right - or better - the next time.

It’s not as easy in conversations - especially when we say the wrong thing the first time.

CONCLUSION

The message and the  hope of this sermon is: forgiveness, conversion and trying again.

The message of this homily is saying and hearing, “I’m sorry.”

The message of this homily is  second chances, 7 times 7 chances, coming home with the hope someone there saying, “Welcome” - even though often there might be someone who is older who won’t forgive.  Whenever that happens, please re-read the Prodigal Son story and notice that the forgiving father went out and tried to get the unforgiving brother a second chance to forgive his younger brother. 

In golf - miniature or on grass - the others might not give us a re-do - but hopefully in life - God and others give re-do’s - do-overs - lots of mulligans.

This will be a successful sermon or homily if someone here says to their spouse or family member - in the coming week - in the coming year.

“Let’s do a re-do!”


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P.S.  If Father Tizio was giving this homily he would make the following comment.  As you know you’re allowed 16 marriages - 16 re-do’s: 4 better, 4 worse, 4 richer, 4 poorer.


December 9, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“I remembered in a speeding BMW in Boston one spring evening, that whatever spirituality is, it is not something to be discovered. It is something to be recovered - something you misplace and   recover a thousand times in a lifetime.”  

Renta J. Weems