Saturday, October 24, 2020

 October 24,  2020


BOWLING  BALL

 

It ended up on the bottom rack –
unused for 7 months now – 7 months.
It loved the game. It loved the whack
of smacking into pins – to send them
flying – to laugh – to roll – to play 10
hours some days – afternoon into the night –
but for some reason all seemed to stop.
Nobody told it about the Corona virus.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020






 October 24, 2020

 

Thought for Today


“Reformer: One who insists on his conscience being your guide.”


Someone

Friday, October 23, 2020

October 23, 2020


HURT

 

Suddenly, without warning,
the little kid starts to cry ….
 
Everyone looks around at
each other – wondering why?
Is that everyone of us – with a hurt
within us – that nobody knows about?
 
It’s just inside us …. Someone won’t
talk to us …. and just don’t know why?

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020




 



October 23,   2020


Thought for Today

 

 “It is not so much what we have done amiss, as what we have left undone, that will trouble us, looking back.”

 

Ellen  Wood, English
playwright and journalist







October  22, 2020



HMMM!”
 
The whole room was filled
with his paintings – maybe
30 – and he sat there in
the center of a big gallery
room wondering what people
thought of his work. “Hmmm!”
 
The whole world was filled
with his creations – maybe
30 trillion gazillion works of art -
and as He walked through the
garden God wondered what people
thought of his work. “Hmmm!”

 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 202

 October 22, 2020


 

Thought for Today

 

 “If at first you don’t succeed, try reading the directions.”

 

Anon


Wednesday, October 21, 2020

 
ALREADY AND   NOT YET
 

 INTRODUCTION
 
The title of my homily  for this 29th Wednesday in Ordinary Time  is, “Already and Not Yet.”
 
I remember hearing the slogan or bumper sticker type message: “Already and Not Yet” – a bunch of years ago. I don’t remember doing much or enough thinking on just what they meant.  I got glimpses – but not enough.
 
I don’t remember preaching a sermon on that topic or theme.
 
TODAY’S READINGS
 
Today’s readings triggered this theme.
 
The gospel – Luke 12: 39-48 - talks about the not yet – the waiting – an advent theme as well as an end of the world or Second Coming theme. And the first reading – Ephesians 3:  2 -12 is filled with the already – the mystery of Christ is already unfolding in our midst. We are coheirs with Paul – with the Gentiles – copartners in the promise of Christ.
 
Paul tells us here in Ephesians we have already received this grace.
 
We have been given the inscrutable riches of Christ.
 
The light has been turned on to us.  We see because of the light.
 
GLIMPSES
 
Next – a question hit me.
 
Come up with an image – that would clarify – give me a glimpse of the already and the not yet.
 
I do poetry – so I figured I should or could come up with an image and a glimpse of these 2 realities – the already and the not yet.
 
How about a person going to a car dealer to get a new car?  I don’t know if they still do it this way. A person looks at different cars – likes one – and the dealer hands the possible buyer the keys and they go for a drive.  I would think that’s an already and a not yet experience.
 
7 kids are in the dining room – friends of Joey – who’s celebrating his 6th birthday. Mrs. Joey’s mom walks in with the birthday cake – 6 candles – lit. 14 eyes are on the cake. Their tummies and their taste buds are already tasting their piece – and they have not yet had a plate with a big piece of triple layered cake on it yet.
 
One more example. In my last assignment – St. Mary’s Parish, Annapolis, Maryland, I had a lot of weddings. I heard many times – at wedding times – brides started looking forward to their wedding – picturing it – imagining it – as well as their moms – for their first daughter to get married. Those dreams – triggered by movies – friend’s weddings – being in wedding parties – or maid of honor – have been fermenting all their lives.
 
CONCLUSION
 
The title of my homily was, “Already and Not Yet.”
 
Paul in Ephesians calls his already – the why of his being called -  a grace given to him, the least of the holy ones. He had a taste of Jesus in the here and now – while alive.
 
Today’s gospel was all about the not yet – and the message is to be ready for the yet when it comes. I don’t picture God beating us – but I do picture each of us beating ourselves if we get lazy and don’t prepare for the Master when he comes   when we least expect.

 October 21, 2020


BUTT   CALL

 
 
“Hello!”
 
“Hello!”
 
“Who’s this?”
 
“Who’s this?”
 
“Oh!  What can I do for you?”
 
“Why did you call?”
 
“I didn’t.”
 
“Well, this must be a butt call.”
 
“Oh, okay, maybe!!”
 
“Well, now that we’re talking,
how are you? What’s happening?”
 
"Well, we talked for 35 minutes,
but we didn’t plan it? Great talking
to you. Next time give me a call."

 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


October 21, 2020

 


Thought for Today

 

“The finale of Mozart’s  Jupiter Symphony is like the Cathedral of Cologne.”

 

Dmitri Shostakovitch,   Testimony


Tuesday, October 20, 2020

October  20,  2020

 


MANNERISMS:  HOW TO ….

 

We arrive with them: our mannerisms.
 
They are as visible as our nose –
perhaps not to us – but to others ….
 
Yes ….
How we eat our food ….
How we walk ….
How we talk ….
How we leave things around ….
How we are ….
How we frustrate others ….
How we make noises ….
How we drive ….
 
We leave with them:  our mannerisms.
 
They are as invisible to us as our eyes –
perhaps not to us – but to others ….
 
Yes ….

 


 October 20, 2020

 



Thought for Today

 

“There are no beautiful surfaces without a terrible depth.”  

  

Friedrich Nietzsche

Monday, October 19, 2020

 October 19, 2020

 




Thought for Today

 

 “The more you talk, the less people listen.”



Someone and a 

lot of other people.

 October 19, 2020

                        ON  PAGE  67

 
It moved.  I thought it was a period.
It moved and ran down the page.
From time I see these tiny bugs
in old books. Do they have hearts,
hands and feet? What do they eat?
Did it think I was looking? Did it think
I was going to squash it. No way!
I too like to read books just like you.
 
 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

Sunday, October 18, 2020

 

CYRUS:

A CHERISHED MEMORY

 

The title of my thoughts for this 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time [A]  is:  “Cyrus:  A Cherished Memory.”

When we studied the Old Testament in the Major Seminary - when we came to Cyrus – probably when we came to today’s first reading from Isaiah 45 – Pete Ellis described Cyrus as a good guy.

I still remember that sense of who Cyrus was – according to Pete Ellis – when I first heard it in 1963.

Good stuff – a good cherished memory – stuck to his name – once more when I heard it last night.

Cyrus -  590 to 530 – around then and around 60 years of life – is the guy who let the Jews back to Jerusalem – out of their Babylonian Captivity days – in 538.  

Babylon – Nebuchadnezzar – is the country and the general and king – who attacked and destroyed Jerusalem in 570 or so.

He was a bad memory – along with all Babylonians and as the psalmist – in Psalm 137 -  put it – bang their babies heads against the rocks.

Cyrus was a cherished memory.

So that’s the title of my thoughts: “Cyrus: A Cherished Memory.”

When we hear the Redemptorist Cherished Memories read out at evening prayer down through the years I’m sure two things happened:  we hoped we will make it and we wonder what they will say about us.

We hope we will be cherished – at least by the people we lived with and by the people we served.

Cyrus did a lot of conquering – and one of his policies was to try to let a place keep its gods and its culture.

Isaiah calls him the anointed one of Yahweh.

Well historians said he did that for the various places he conquered.

He did for Babylon what he did for Israel.

The statue of one of the gods of the Babylonians was Marduk.  Cyrus took him by the hand and said, “You’re still it”

He did this in various places.

Isaiah says that Yahweh took Cyrus by the hand and helped him bop off Babylon.  That one wasn’t too difficult – because Nabonidus was very unpopular.  When Cyrus army attacked the Babylonians – their soldiers took off and ran the other way.

Since the Israelites had no statues, Cyrus had their sacred vessels restored. They had been looted back in 587.

Last night when reading up on this stuff, I noticed the following:

Two centuries later Alexander the Great [356 – 323 B.C.] came to the grave of Cyrus.

It was a small stone building.  It had a plaque that said: “I am Cyrus, the son of Cambyses.  I founded the empire of the Persians and was king of Asia.  Grudge me not this memorial.”

When I read that, I got the thought, “A cherished memory is our greatest memorial.”

May that be our legacy – to be cherished - not in stone – but in the memory of those who knew us – that we were good and decent to each other.

 

 

 October  18, 2020

From Norm Constantine - a first time in my blog - but on the masthead since June 2007!

Reflection

I have been thinking about what it means to be a Catholic as I try to figure out how to help Father Costello update his Blog. I am not having any thoughts that make any sense nor an I figuring out how to help Father Andy.

Everything seems to have changed. I do not know what I am going to do,



 October  18, 2020



Thought for Today

 

“Learn to say ‘no’;  it will be more useful  to you than to be able to read Latin.”


                                                                                   Charles Haddon Spurgeon


 October  17,  2020



ECHOES



If we echo our parents all our lives,
without realizing it 99% of the time -
then when we get together with 
our brothers and sisters at a funeral
or a wedding or family gathering,
     our parents long gone,
we ought to be listening to each other
and hear our parents perhaps for the first time.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

 


 October  16,  2020



WAS  GOD  SURPRISED?

 

Was God surprised when they beat
on Jesus?  Was God surprised when
they spit on him and cursed him and
crucified him? Was God surprised
when the Son came home with broken
hands and thorns still stuck in his
matted hair and bloody skull?
 
Jesus talked about banquet halls and
homecoming celebrations. When the
Father saw him coming up the road,
did he wince and ask, “What were
they like?” And what did Jesus answer?
Did he cry? Did he say, “Like fig trees
they need more time. They need more time.”

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 October 17,  2020


Thought for Today

 

 “The one thing harder than sticking to a diet is keeping quiet about it.”

 

Someone


 October  16,  2020


Thought for Today

 

“I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure – which is,  “Try to please everybody.”   


Herbert Swope


 October 15,  2020

BECAUSE?

 

“They are talking about him behind his back.
But nobody is taking to him. Why not?
Why won’t they come right out and tell him?”
 
“Because?”
 
“Well,  because you just can’t go right up to
a person  and say, ‘You can’t do what you’re
doing. You can’t be the way you are?’”
 
“Because?”
 
“Well, because – you know – you just can’t
be that way. Besides, what would it be it be like
if everyone did whatever they wanted to do?”

“Because?”
 
“Well, I don’t know. It just causes stress.
It makes things queasy and uneasy. It allows
agita to be sitting in every seat in the room.”
 
“Because?”
 
”Because!” “Because!” “Because!”
You keep saying, “Because. Because!
Why do you keep doing that?”
 
“Because …."

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 October  15,  2020


Thought for Today

 

“Words can destroy.  What we call each other ultimately becomes what we think of each other, and it matters.” 

 

Jean Kirkpatrick, 1982, Speech


 October  14, 2020




             LONELINESS

 

 Loneliness, it hides in back seats
of buses – or in school yards when
someone makes fun of us for acne
or being fat.  It has friends – but
they are  not people but feelings –
feelings of jealousy – or dismissal –
or nobody is really listening to us.
Loneliness – the cure is eye and
ear contact with another – who is
on the same dark bus with us
as we travel through the night.

  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


October 13, 2020

 

MISTAKES


The mistake is not to accept - there are mistakes.

The mistake is not to learn from mistakes.

The mistake is not to grow in understanding.

The mistake is not to become patient with each other.

The mistake is not to realize trees are crooked.

The mistake is to accept that sidewalks crack.

The mistake is to know that cars get dents.

The mistake is to learn to laugh at oneself.

The mistake is to not accept leakage and crooked legs and arthritic hands.

The mistake is to forget to say, “Sorry. Next time I’ll try to give you a better me and mean it."

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 October  14, 2020


Thought for Today

 

“A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.”

 

Jessamyn  West,

The Life I really Lived,

1979

 


October 12, 2020

 

NOW THAT’S A  GOOD  QUESTION

 

Question:  “How do I know when I’m praying?”

 
It’s when we don’t ask that question.
It’s when there is only one present –
and it’s both God and you.  What?
 
I repeat: It’s when you don’t ask 
that question. It's when your two 
hands are one and you don't know
which hand is which: right or left?

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


October 13,  2020


Thought for Today

 

 “There are words worse than curse words, there are words that hurt.”

 

Tillie Olsen,

Hey Sailor,

What Ship?


October 12, 2020

 Thought for Today

 

“A word is dead when it is said, some say.  I say it just begins to live that day.”  


Emily Dickinson 1872 

in Mabel Loomis Todd, ed. 

Letters to Emily Dickinson, Vol. 2 (1894)