Saturday, July 4, 2020

July  4,  2020



  
“HURRY”


"Hurry." I'm filled with too much hurry.

“Hurry …. Hurry .…”  is my inner sound.
Sometimes I add an “up” – as in “Hurry up!”

“Hurry …. Hurry….”  I keep watching my watch –
which doesn’t seem to go faster…. “Faster!”

I hear an ambulance getting closer. Good!
“Hurry!”  as I inwardly scream.  It gets past
me as I assume it’s heading for whatever
is causing this traffic jam – on this road
that is blocked. I sit back in my stopped
car – close my eyes. I had put my car
in park.  Traffic will start flowing again.
It always does. I’ve been in dozens of
traffic stoppings – dozens of conversation
jams – supermarket check-out wrong
choices. I breathe. I meditate. I let go of
this need - this scream to “Hurry – hurry up!”  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July   4,   2020





Thought  for  Today

 “The one thing to do is to do nothing.  Wait …  You will find that you survive humiliation and  that’s  an experience of incalculable value.”  


T. S.  Eliot, 
The Cocktail Party, 1949








Friday, July 3, 2020

July   3,    2020



PAST

My past haunts my future ….
Can’t shake it off. It’s like
a sliver  of old scotch tape –
stuck to my left hand –
which my right hand doesn’t
know what it’s doing.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July  3,  2020

Thought   for   Today

 “Old age is … a lot of crossed off names in an address book.”


Ronald Blyth in
The View of Winter  1980

Thursday, July 2, 2020

July  2,   2020


 SPONGE

The pale blue sponge
on the sink still held half
of its grey dish water
till the next morning.

Its smell as well –
mushroom and meat fat ….
“Oooh!” Then and there,
I realized this is me.

Then and there I resolved,
“Never again!” And I’m
the one who hated the sink
rag face wipe as a kid.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


July  2,  2020



Thought   for   Today  

“To   my  mind the most poignant mystical  exhortation ever written  is ‘Be still and know that I am God.’” 

Arnold Bennett  Journals,
December 1929
Cf. Psalm 46:10

Wednesday, July 1, 2020

July  1,   2020



OUTLOOK 

To understand another’s outlook, 
we must take an inlook at where we 
got our outlook on the same situation. 

Check it out with our parents if they 
are still alive  - or with our brothers 
and sisters if we have them – or others. 

Then see options – different opinions – 
and last – but not least – if possible – 
talk to the other person – and listen. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July 1, 2020


Thought   for  Today


“In  Japan  we have the phrase,  SHOSHIN,  which means ‘beginner’s mind.’  This does not mean a closed mind, but actually an empty mind and a ready mind.  If your mind is empty,  it is always ready for anything.  It is open to everything.  In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities;  in the expert’s mind there are few.”

Shunryu Suzuki, in
Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind.

Tuesday, June 30, 2020



PIERRE  TOUSSAINT: 
PATRON  SAINT  OF  HAIR DRESSERS 


The title of my thoughts for today is, “Pierre Toussaint: Patron Saint of Hair Dressers.”

I noticed in Give Us This Day for today - a piece on Pierre Toussaint whose anniversary of death is today, June 30th,  1853 – at the age of 87.

He was born June 27, 1766 in Haiti.

I noticed  a bit on current stuff that could trigger reflections  for today.  For example here’s three:  1) Black lives matter; 2) while in New York City Pierre moved around town helping a lot of people dealing with a cholera pandemic and a quarantine; and 3) a lot of folks have been crying for hair dressers and barbers because of their establishments being closed with the corona virus.

So instead of the First Martyrs of Rome, I decided to do  some homiletic thoughts about Pierre Toussaint and end with a short prayer for Hair Dressers [or barbers]  that I also wrote last night.

I noticed in the literature a push for Pierre’s canonization – around 1990 - when John Paul II and John J. O’Connor and Rome and others showed interest.  Since 1996 he’s a Venerable. However,   It seems that interest has slowed down. I say that noticing the last dates and articles about him being a few years ago right now.

Kevin might be interested to hear that Rome has 15 volumes of letters by and to him.

His life is interesting.  He was born a slave in Haiti – to the John Berard Family – rich plantation folks. When the natives got restless – the Blacks in Haiti were some of the first to revolt – John Berard took Pierre and his family and a few slaves to New York City.  Pierre was about 21 at the time.

John Berard keeps Pierre as a slave till he’s about 45 and Berard is dying.

He apprenticed him to a hair dresser and Pierre became one of the top hairdressers of women in New York City – making about $1,000 per customer per year. With that money he supported the Berard family.  He was a specialist – the best – in those big high hair pieces for high class women in New York City. One of his rich customer’s husband supplied the pistols for the famous Alexander Hamilton vs. Aaron Burr duel in Weehawken, New Jersey.  Conjecture is that Hamilton didn't aim directly at Burr - because his son was killed in a duel  a few years earlier [1801].

Pierre's wife Juliette

When he got his freedom he married a younger Haitian woman buying her freedom. They adopted a girl – but I didn’t spot if they had children of their own.

Details to add: he was Catholic and went to daily mass for 66 years.

He had orphan black  kids in his home and started an orphanage for white kids.

He helped the poor – blacks and whites.

He helped raise money for the old St. Patrick’s on Mott street.

He started credit unions – an employment agency – and helped emigrants.

He was buried in the cemetery there at old St. Patrick's – but in 1990 his body was moved to St. Patrick’s Cathedral – where he is buried - a lay men buried with bishops.


HAIR   DRESSER’S  PRAYER


Lord,  may this person bring You joy today.
May I help make her look her best today.
May her brain under this hair be a sanctuary
May her ears hope only for good news, no gossip.
May her eyes see only the nice in others.
May her mouth be kind or be silent.
May her thoughts be of You, O God as well as
the best for all those she meets today.  Amen.

June  30,  2020



SOMETHING  ELSE

It hurt – losing his pet gold fish.

So as a little five year old boy
he prayed his first real prayer to God,
“God, I wish I was something else other
than being this hurting human being.”

But nothing happened.

This same hurting little boy
prayed that same prayer to God
many, many times all through his life,
“God I wish I was something else other
than being this hurting human being.”

But nothing happened.

This hurting human being lost his dad,
then his mom – then a son in Vietnam.
His wife left him for another man. That was
the toughest loss of his life as he prayed,
“God, I wish I was something else other
than being this hurting human being.”

Then it happened. You’re not going to
believe this – but one morning he
woke up something else. He had become
a solid one piece cast iron frying pan.

No more tears. No more needing to explain.
No more need to feel. No more being able 
to complain. No longer able to pray, 
“God wish I was something else other  
than this damn frying pan.”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

June  30,  2020

Thought for Today

“An optimist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds – a view also shared by the pessimist.” 

From Today’s Chuckle, 2-4-98

Monday, June 29, 2020

June  29,  2020



EXPLAINERS  OF  THE  PICTURES

You have to have time ….
You got to take the time ….
You have to ask the right questions ….

Then you might find four or five
in every nursing home who has
the great photos – in a drawer within ….

As I said, “It takes time.”
“It takes putting yourself out of the picture
or placing yourself in a bottom drawer.”

It takes a compliment.
It takes a question or two.
It takes follow up questions ….

Then they show you a picture
and you find out the reason for their
smile and how they got their wisdom.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

June  29, 2020 




Thought  for  Today

Conservatives: "They define themselves in terms of what they approve.” 

George Will

Sunday, June 28, 2020

June  28,  2020


WATCHING

There has been a lot of watching
going on since the beginning of time.
I’m sure cave men – and women –
sat on rocks – outside caves –
watching the world – going on.

Then comes the Evening News –
the reporting on what we’ve seen
that day. I assume that’s where
evolution really takes place – where
brains develop and learning happens.

It’s still happening – people hanging
out windows all around the world –
I'd guess women more than men -
but I don't know - watching, figuring out
what’s happening– what’s evolving –
what’s developing – learning happening.





June  28,  2020

Thought  for  Today 

"A doctor's door should never be closed; a priest's door should always be open."

Victor Hugo