Saturday, July 18, 2020

July  18,  2020




FOR  A  MOMENT

Something is always moving – if,  if 
we  keep on watching. Pause as you 
sit there on the porch or at the window 
or in the house or at the ocean. 

Stop and watch the baby breathing …. 
Watch grandpa’s chest as he snores …. 
The cloud is creeping cloud creep …. 
The leaves love the drip drop of rain …. 

Close your eyes and your ears …. 
Watch your monkeys go to sleep …. 
Your cows sometimes stop chewing …. 
Your inner orchestra takes a break …. 

Maybe I’m wrong …. Maybe sometimes 
nothing is moving …. sometimes there 
is peace – stillness – rest – pause …. 
Be still and know there is still God. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July  18,  2020 



Thought  for  Today 

“Now, were you to ask me what are the means of overcoming temptations, I would answer: ‘The first is prayer; the second is prayer; and should you ask me a thousand times, I would always repeat the same.’"

Friday, July 17, 2020

July  17,  2020




HEZEKIAH 
PUT  YOUR  HOUSE  IN  ORDER 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 15th Friday in Ordinary Time  is, “Put Your House in Order.”

That’s what Isaiah says to King Hezekiah in today’s first reading.

It would scare me to have someone come up to me and say,  “Put your house in order, for you are about to die.”

It wouldn’t be putting my room and stuff in order – I’m a slob – but someone else would have to take care of that.  It would be the thought of, “Well, that’s it and I don’t know about the next.’

This scene appears in almost identical words and details in both Isaiah 38 – today’s first reading – as well as 2 Kings 20: 1-11.

So that means we’d hear this story more frequently. Yet,  I’ve never used it or heard it used for a funeral.   I think we say, “Obviously” to that  - but a funeral can have the same effect at times.  Death can get us thinking about our death.

Or think of the daily reading of Cherished Memories – that long list we have of all the Redemptorists of the Baltimore Province from our beginnings. We know the thoughts we have when we hear that today is the anniversary of some guy we were stationed with – or someone who died at an age much younger than we are today.  It can make us think about  ourselves – that some day our name will be read out  -  but we add, “Not yet!”

Isaiah tells Hezekiah to put his house in order – now - for you are about to die. “You shall not recover.”

Hezekiah turns his face to the wall and prays. He weeps bitterly.

Surprise!

Isaiah is told to go back to Hezekiah  and to tell  him that the Lord has heard his prayers and seen his tears – and he’ll be healed in 3 days and get 15 more years of life.

He’s given a remedy for his boil as well as a sign  - the strange sign of the shadow of the  sun going backwards ten steps. Commentators think it’s referring to a sun dial.  I think it’s simply the shadow on a certain set of steps that one can see every afternoon.

So that’s something to reflect upon this morning and today.

GOOD FRIDAY 1984

This story about Hezekiah triggered a memory.  I remember going down to see my brother in Laurel, Maryland on Good Friday, April 20, 1984.

The front door was open, but nobody was home.

He had told me that he had a doctor’s appointment for a fatty lump on his shoulder – so if you get there early, just go in the house.  They were going to cut the fatty lump.  I made a joke, “What are they going to do cut your head off?”

He didn’t laugh.

I’m standing there all alone in his house and  the phone rings. It was Gloria Goldberger - a good friend of our family. She asked if my brother or sister-in-law was there. I said they are at the doctors.   She said, “I know.”

Then she said, “You heard, didn’t you?”

I said, “Heard what?”

She blurted it right out loud: “Your brother has 18 months to live at the most. He has melanoma – cancer.”

Silence.

Realizing what happened, she said, “I’m sorry. I figured you’d know.”

My brother and sister-in-law came in about 10 minutes later.

Somewhere in there I asked my brother how will he be able to handle all this.

He said that he’d let me know.

They were on the money. He died around 18 months later.

Just before he died, he said to me, “Remember that time you asked me how I’ll  be able to handle all this and I said I’ll let you know?”

“Well,” he said after a pause, “Thank God for mom and dad – for giving us the gift of faith.”

Then he added, “I learned two other things. Think of others. That made it easier – and you better have a sense of humor.”

I remember he used a magic marker a few  times to draw a monthly calendar on his chest – and then he’d put an X when he took chemo that day.

He said the doctors and the nurses really got a kick out of that.

SO THE SAME QUESTION FOR ALL OF US

Us ….  What are our wonderings about this human reality called “life and death”?

The story of Hezekiah gets me thinking thoughts like this. It triggered the memory that my brother had a  Hezekiah type moment.

Last year I was in a hospital for the first time overnight.  I had a Hezekiah type experience partially last year with my heart surgery. That first night I thought would be my last night.

And like you I’m sure – we’re all  having our personal thoughts – in this experience with this virus – seeing and hearing about the numbers dying.

What are our 2020 thoughts?

CONCLUSION

Like Hezekiah we might want signs – but the only signs are  those personal faith stories – hopefully we all have – on how we’re doing life – and thoughts at times of death.

At times I’m sure we’ve been like Pharisees  in today’s gospel – and we would like some kind of control over life and what happens with death.

They used keeping the Sabbath as a sign they are doing what is right . It gave them some control of the narrative of how to guarantee salvation when death comes.  

I’m sure that so many of these gospel stories about the Pharisees trying to control their God and our destiny  gets us laughing.  We know we don’t know our date on the calendar – so we better have faith.

July  17,  2020 




IT’S  NOT  A  MOVIE


Sometimes we get the impression
that the other thinks: “This is a movie!”

It isn’t and there isn’t any popcorn.
It isn’t and sometimes others are talking.

Sometimes we’re late when we come in
and we don’t know it, but The End is coming.

Sometimes the other is only acting and
we don’t know they think they have the script.

It’s not a movie. It’s life. Some days it’s
a comedy and some days it’s a tragedy.

Some think the secret is to sit back and
keep watching - then take the lead and lead. 



©  Andy Costello, Reflections 2020



July 17, 2020



Thought  for  Today


“The issue of prayer is not prayer; the issue of prayer is God.”

Abraham Joshua Heschel

Thursday, July 16, 2020

July   16,  2020




IT  ALL  DEPENDS


We know the difference 
between  fresh bread and stale bread, 
a word of reconciliation and a word 
of hate or disgust, between swords 
and plowshares, between kindness 
and a kind of passive aggression that 
comes with a smile or a ploy, between 
assembly and asininities, between a 
good relationship, a good marriage 
and the cold putting up with each other 
for years because of the children. 
It’s our move. It’s our choice. It’s our 
making the difference. It can be love. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July  16,  2020





Thought   for  Today  

“I have been driven many times to my knees by  the  overpowering conviction that I had no place else to go.”   

Abraham Lincoln


FOOTPRINTS  OR  FINGERPRINTS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is “Footprints or Fingerprints.”

Some time back there I had the job of novice master – 1984 to 1993 – 9 classes. At the end of the year I would hand out 30 questions – one of which was, “Looking at your life, a sermon you remember.”

I never made anyone's list. 

However, several times someone would mention a sermon by a classmate that was very short: “God is love. That’s all you need to know.”  

It was only 9 words.  

Is there a message there?

SAINT BONAVENTURE

Somewhere along the line I heard someone give a sermon about Saint Bonaventure. Today is his feast day.  The preacher said that Bonaventure liked to talk about God’s footprints or fingerprints. God’s fingerprints are on everything.

I forgot who gave that – but I never forgot the message.

Bonaventure’s word was “vestigia” – meaning traces – marks – indicators – footprints – fingerprints.

He loved to say God’s fingerprints are everywhere on creation.

His footprints are in the garden.

Then Bonaventure added: “When you spot them, realize they are a ladder. Climb that ladder and you’ll meet and find God. Embrace that God who is utterly desirable.”

Every July 15th I remember this. I also remember this  when when I hear the name St. Bonaventure mentioned – as well as when I see footprints or fingerprints.

LOOKING AT YOUR PROGRAM

Looking at your handout  program for today: The Vision Still Has Time # 3,  I see the message about seeing Christ in the soil, in the earth, in the souls, in the bellies of those around us.

Christ is the pearl, the treasure that everyone is seeking.

We’re all pilgrims.

Dig, find, proclaim, show and tell – especially to those hurting, wounded and those with tears – those needing a field hospital in our midst.

THREE FOOTPRINTS – THREE FINGERPRINTS

Looking at Bonaventure’s message about tracing the vestigial – the footprints and fingerprints - all around us,  I want to ask three questions.

FIRST: GOD’S FOOTPRINTS

Looking at our life – where have we seen God’s fingerprints or footprints.

Be specific.

When I’m in Manhattan and I drop into St. Patrick’s Cathedral – I walk up the avenue about a block or so and drop into St. Thomas’ Episcopal Church. I meet God there – Christ there. I walk up the few front steps. I open up the big heavy doors.  I walk into that quiet, dark church – and take a seat off to the side in the back. It's one of my sacred places.

What are yours?   Be specific.

SECOND: OTHER’S FOOTPRINTS

We’ve all had a Robinson Crusoe moment – when we spot another’s footprint – another who had a great impact on our life.

Robinson Crusoe spotted Friday’s footprint. There is another person on this island besides me – on this planet besides me.

A retreat is a good time to name those persons for us.

At a preaching workshop here at San Alfonso, someone asked us to name those who influenced our preaching.

As I listened to others I began to name Bill Jamison and Charlie Wilkinson and Sal Umana.

During this time of Pandemic I have found myself catching up on my reading. I read at two volume book by Robert Emmet about Robert Emmet and it got me in touch with my Irish footprints and fingerprints. The book was dated 1903.

Next I picked up a tiny print – 746 word book, Wherever Green Is Worn. It’s The Story of the Irish Diaspora.  The author Tim Pat Coogan takes  a reader all around the world. I’m  on page 487 now. I just arrived in New Zealand.

On page 250 I read about someone I never heard of – but I said to myself “The Marists are coming here soon for retreat and maybe I’ll be asked to do a homily.”

Well, it happened .... Hi.

This is what I spotted: 

Quote: “I can’t leave Scotland without touching upon the great symbol of the Irish presence in Scotland – and of Orange and Green divisions through its clashes with Glasgow Rangers – Glasgow Celtic Football Club. The club owes both the inspiration for its founding and its name to an Irish Marist, Brother Walfrid from Sligo, who announced the formation of ‘The Celtic Football and Athletic Club’ on 6 November 1887.  The reasons behind the club’s formation were explained by Brother Walfrid and a Committee of fellow Catholics in a circular issued the following January:

“The main object of the club is to supply the East End conferences of the St. Vincent de Paul Society with funds for the maintenance of the ‘Dinner Tables’ of our needy children in the missions of St. Mary’s, St. Michael’s and Sacred Heart.   Many cases of sheer poverty are left unaided through lack of means.  It is therefore with this object that we have set afloat the ‘Celtic’.

The author, of the book I’m reading, concludes, “Brother Walfrid and his collaborators would have been thunderstruck if they could  have looked into the future to see how the good ship Celtic altered course from those early charitable objectives to achieve a commercial reputation worth nearly L200 million at the time of writing – and a cultural reputation of being one of the two principal lightning rods of Scottish sectarianism, the other being the Protestant club, Glasgow Rangers. The teams' legendary encounters, known as the Old Firm games,  diffuse and distill all the ancient rancours of the Orange and Green traditions."

That's a long quote - dangerous to do in a homily - but I use it because you are Marist Brothers and Brother Walfrid would give credit to your fingerprint and footprint on the planet.

THIRD: OUR FOOTPRINTS AND FINGERPRINTS

That leads to ourselves.  It’s good to hope and it’s good to believe that our lives touch and have touched the lives of so many.

We have hands and we have feet and we’ve been in many places.

Take some time and take a look at where you've been and what you've done.

Praise the Lord. Thank you Lord.


            



Wednesday, July 15, 2020

July  15,  2020


BANG  THE  DRUMS  SLOWLY!


Sometimes the only sound in our soul
is drums – the slow banging of the drums.

That’s one of the sounds that we can’t put
into words: like the bugle and the bagpipes.

A significant one has died. A horror has happened.
All we can do is march with one another into the next.




© Andy Costello,  Reflections 2020



July   15,  2020




Thought  for  Today

"Take a little time for fun - for even on a dark day  we can find time for an hour of pleasure."
Saint Bonaventure

Tuesday, July 14, 2020

July  14,  2020


SHEBANG!

I don’t know what's the hope
of every person. Is it to be holy?

To be happy, yes, but to be
holy, I my doubts about that.

Even to be a success, not so
sure about that one as well.

So what do we really want
down deep in our belly?

A good meal – hot in winter and
mashed potatoes – with good gravy.

Laughter, seeing cousins playing,
and seeing a drinker not drunk.

A wedding, a baptism, Thanksgiving
afternoon and Christmas morning.

Caring for a sick dad or dropping
into seeing a senile single old aunt.

The first day of vacation, a graduation,
fishing, playing miniature golf, the ocean ….

Popcorn at a good movie, a hot dog at
a picnic, ice cream on a summer’s night.

Come to think about it, maybe we all want
to be holy, whole, enjoying the whole shebang.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


July  14,  2020

 



Thought  for  Today

“It’s  Not  What You Say, It’s What People  Hear.”

Subtitle  to  the  book: 
Words  That  Work
Frank Luntz says  
 his subtitle is 
 the single  
most important line
 he ever wrote.

Monday, July 13, 2020

July  13, 2020


PLACE

Place, geography,
a mountain, a river, the ocean,
seeing whatever we see when
we look at the window each morning
or walk and see when we walk
out our front  door each day – sculpts
how we see and how we feel and are.

Most Sundays
as a kid our dad took us to
Owl’s Head Park, but we
knew it as Bliss Park.
With a name like that you’d expect impact –
especially looking out of the
New York Harbor at its top.

My Mom
told us she grew up on
Galway Bay in Ireland
and every morning she could
put her big toe in the water
from her back door and my dad said
he grew up only a rock throw away.

Place, geography,
parks, the city, country,
water, desert, farms,
noise, soot, smog, sirens,
all impact us within and without,
how we see and how we feel
and then there are people, you and me.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


July  13,  2020




Thought  for  Today  

“A  steering  committee is four people trying to park a car.”

Someone

Sunday, July 12, 2020



SEED

INTRODUCTION

The title or headline of my homily is, “Seed!”

Obviously ….

TODAY’S READINGS

Seed is central to today’s Psalm, Psalm 65 – as well as to today’s first reading from Isaiah 55, but especially to today’s Gospel – Matthew 13.

Seed ….

REFLECTIONS

At different times in our life we saw lawns being seeded and reseeded – watered and cared for – and then we noticed they flourished “a hundred or sixty or thirtyfold.”

Maybe we were the one who cut the grass….

Maybe sometime as a kid we had watermelon or a honeydew melon and we asked what those beads inside were and we learned they were seeds and that’s where watermelons and honeydew melons come from.

I remember putting them in some soil in a red clay pot and I watered them and watched them and waited and all I got was neat green plants.

And I got tired of watching and waiting for melons.

Seed ….

Then we discovered – later – about our own masculine seed – that  it can bring children into the world.

Then we discovered – therein lay the great mysteries of life – earth and birth – relationships – the down deep inner call towards relationships and marriage – love and family.

Then – looking at who we are – we went an odd way – celibacy – yet hopefully we discovered in time what it meant to be called a “Father”  - that many people are in on - the growth and development of every human being.  We read Erikson talking about generativity following intimacy.

Then we saw in each other’s lives – especially in community - what he meant by Intimacy vs. Isolation,  Generativity vs. Stagnation.

In time – hopefully -  we also appreciated our mom and dad for having us: seed and mother earth.

In time – hopefully - we discovered more and more the mysteries of life.

In time – hopefully -  we discovered the central questions.

How would we have been  - how would we have become – being married – having a family – being a husband and a father?

We thought these thoughts listening to someone tell us about their marriage or their father.

We saw classmates leave – and some get married – and those realities really got us thinking.

Did they see our communities  - our rectories spelled wrectories – and it was a rocky path – hard ground – little soil for growth – not deep enough for them?   Did they feel they were scorched and became withered for lack of roots – or too many thorns were pricking them or  they felt choked?

Did they feel nobody was listening?

Did they stop listening to the mysteries of the kingdom of God that was given to them?

Did they look elsewhere for eyes that saw them, ears that heard them, minds that understood them?

I’ve often wondered about Jesus – how he dealt with the deepest longings and urgings of every human being – for love and for marriage and for children.

For Jesus, did today’s parable come out of a preaching gig where only 1 out of 4 seemed to be listening?

Did little children besides women tug at the tassels of his cloak – because they saw in him a husband who seemed to understand – or a possible father who was present to them?

Experiencing them – did that produce in Jesus more and more love – 30, 60 and 100fold.

What was his favorite parable?  Did Jesus  see tears in a far distant father’s face – in the crowd -  when he told the story of the prodigal son? Did he see a woman make a silent “Wow!” when he told the story of the woman who lost  a wedding coin from her wedding head band – searched everywhere and did just what the woman in Jesus’ story did. Celebrate – when she found it!

What was his favorite saying – insight – his babies – that he loved to plant in the minds around him?

What was his most telling moment: when the woman washed his feet and perfumed them – when he came home to Martha and Mary with Lazarus – when he heard his Father’s voice on the mountain say, “This is my beloved son”?  What was his favorite moment?

Did Alphonsus ever have someone come up to him – in some small village – and ask him to sign a copy of his Visits – telling him he uses them every afternoon in his old age – in their little church?

Did Sarnelli ever have a confrere come up to him and say he met a lady – who had been a prostitute – and you saved her – and he said back to her, “I know Sarnelli – up close and personally. He’s a Redemptorist like me.”

Did anyone ever say to Clement, “I don’t know where you get your energy to hear all these confessions. There’s people from all over Vienna who brag about you?”

Did anyone ever call up George Wichland and say, “I have a ton of food left over from a picnic. It rained. And you were the first person I thought of who would get  this food to a lot of hungry folks. Great cookies. No Oreos.”  What was it like to live with George Wichland?

Did anyone ever say to us, “Lucky you – having some great guys to go through a pandemic with?”

Do we appreciate as well as tell others the little things as well as the big things people do here for each other – make scrambled eggs, get the mail, plus pizza and salad and Entenmann’s, etc. etc.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily has been “Seed”.

Looking at the field – called “Our life” – what’s  growing there?

We have eyes – we have a sense of what has been good and what has been bad – wheat and weeds.

At this Mass taste – just the tip of the delicious bread and wine – our life – and say “Thank You Father – Eucharist” – knowing there are weeds as well – the put downs of life – or the hurts we put up with – and then get into the same boat Jesus got us into – like the one in today’s gospel – and then continue to set sail – in an intimate friendship, relationship – with him and each other. Amen.





SUDDENLY

Now that’s a mystery -
sometimes – why a bird
or a fly suddenly takes off
and I notice it – but I didn’t  notice it
when it was just sitting there.

Like you – when you
just got up and left –
leaving no notice – just taking off
and I didn’t see this coming
when you were just sitting there.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


July 12, 2020



Moon:  Thought   for  Today

“Before going to the moon, how about visiting your neighbor next door?”

  Someone