Saturday, November 23, 2019




JELLO

“Jello”, what an interesting name -
for a dog - white, fluffy, a non-stop -
high energy poodle. Even as a puppy -
I thought she should have been named
“Snuggles” or “Sadie” but never,  “Jello”.

Then came the insight scene for me.
Some cousins came for a kid’s birthday -
along with their 2 dogs - Ralph and Rogaine -
Rogaine - no hair - and Ralph - half pit bull.
Surprise, surprise,  Jello stood her own
in a fight for a lamb chop bone. “Grrrrr!”

Didn’t know it was in her?  Wondering:
What’s in these kids? What will we see
in them down the line - on some day
like today? Certainly, they are going

to have days like gentle Jello. “Grrrrr!”

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019




November 23, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 

“My  children  insist that I introduced the word ‘No’ to the Western world. It’s a distinction I don’t deserve though. I am sure that I’m not the first mother in North America to use the word ‘No.’  In fact, there is no doubt in my mind that when historians decipher cave markings of pre-historic cave dwellers and discover etched in a rock a plaintive ‘Mom! Can I eat the leftover bear!’ her response chiseled below will translate into, ‘No! I’m saving it for lunch!’”


Erma. Bombeck



THREE  TIME  PERIODS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Three Time Periods.”

There are 3 time periods - 3 time zones - 3 states  that we can be in.

Sometimes in our life we have stood on the edge of 2 states or even 3 or 4 as in Four Corners in the south west. There are kids games like “potsy” - a New York City term - where kids jump from box to box marked with chalk.

So the title of my homily is “Three Time Periods”.

They are the Past, the Present and the Future.

They are Before, After and Now.

They are Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow.

WHERE AM I NOW?

To be human is to have the ability to choose where we want to be.

To be human is to have the ability to be in all 3 in a moment.

To be human is to have the ability to be in all 3 at once.

To be human is to have one period predominate - as an “It all depends.”

To be human is to get stuck in a state where we might not want to be.

To be human is to use verbs like, “remember” - as in, “I remember when we used to” or the verb to “hope” - as in, “I hope we have an easy winter.” or “want” - as in, “I want what I want when I want it - like right now.”

Consciousness of where we are at any given moment is an awareness skill that is worth having - and worth reflecting on - as in this short sermon.

ANIMALS

I wonder about animals at times.  I haven’t taken courses on animal psychology - etc. etc. etc.  How does time work with animals. I’ve never seen dog or cats with watches on.

How does memory work with animals - as in elephants heading for a water hole of 25 years ago - when they are in a drought season right here, right now - and can’t find water in their present surroundings.

TODAY’S READINGS

Today’s 2 readings trigger these thoughts about wondering where people are in their time zones. King Antiochus is wandering around like a scavenger - hoping to rob a Persian city.  That’s future looking. He’s also pondering about his past - the destruction he did -  but also worried about dying in his future -  because of what he did to Jerusalem - in his awful past. He’s a mixed up guy.

Today’s gospel is all about worrying about the future - which some people who get married again - worry  about when they die and are “uh ohing” about their future - if they meet their earlier spouse.  It tells this fun story and attack story about life after death - when 7 brothers die and all married the same woman.

LEARNINGS ABOUT TIME

So there are learnings and wonderings about time that we can consider.  For example, here are a few:

People can get stuck in one period of time  to the detriment of another time.

The hereafter is not going to be what we expect it to be.

We can try, but we can’t change the past.

Forgiveness is a better skill to have than regrets.

Wars are always happening if we look at enough time periods - like there will always be wars in the middle east. Here’s a  few going on in today’s first reading.

THREE QUESTIONS:

How am I right now?  What happened. Next?

CONCLUSION: A QUOTE

Someone said: “You are younger today than you ever will be again. Make use of it for the sake of tomorrow.”

Friday, November 22, 2019

November 22, 2019





Thought for today: 


“Music  is  what  feelings sound like.”   


Feast of St. Cecilia



GOING TO  MASS - BUT

I dropped into church just for Mass -
not to sing, not to hear a sermon - but
actually to hide myself in God or quiet -
just to be for 45 minutes or so, but the
priest, the music, the sermon, got in
my face, into my mind, into my being -
and I couldn’t hide behind the back pole
in the Church - as I planned. God was
there, Oh no! God was everywhere in
that moment. Oh no! Oh yes, I AM.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
Happy to note, this is the 7000
piece on this blog - that I
started with the help of
Norm Constantine back
on June 17, 2007.

Thursday, November 21, 2019

November 21, 2019


UNSPOKEN  QUESTIONS

Oh, I know, you’re sitting there with
unspoken, unasked questions - and
quess what? You have questions
you don’t even know you have.
I’m seeing question marks on your
face. I’m hearing questions in your
voice.  You have, “What ifs?” But,
better, if you can quiet down your
inner anger and persistent scream,
then the questions you should be
asking and eventually answering
might be surfaced and then surprise!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


November 21, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 

“An idealist is one who in noticing that a rose smells better than a cabbage, concludes that it will also make a better soup.”  

H.L. Mencken, page 149 
in Points to Ponder, Reader’s 
Digest, March 1990


PRESENT:
JUST SHOW UP!

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Present: Just Show Up!”

Today is the Feast of Presentation of Mary in the Temple.

This feast shows up every year on November 21st - unless it’s a Sunday.

I was wondering last night - when I read up about this feast - what it entails - I was wondering what preachers will do with it today around the world.

My first reaction - to be honest  - was, “I wish one of these other guys here had this mass.”

I imagine a lot of preachers will stick with the other readings - the ones for the 33 Thursday in Ordinary time - but those readings are not too grabby either.

In the readings I choose - those for today's feast - here's Mary in the first reading from Zechariah 2: 14-17  - coming to dwell among us - and Mary has been present to the Church from the beginning. And here's Mary in the gospel - Matthew 12: 46-50 - standing at the edge of a crowd of people trying to access the presence of Jesus.

IN THE LITERATURE

I noticed in the literature about the feast it has a really mixed history - mainly after the year 1000. Some popes pushed it - some popes dropped it.

When the legend - when the apocraphal  literature - says it’s the story of Mary being dropped off in the temple when she is 3 years old - and she is kept there till she is 12 - I found myself saying, “Wait a minute.”

Some of us as seminarians to the priesthood are kidded about going to the seminary when we were 13 year old  high school freshmen, here the story is when Mary was 3.

Check it out. Type into the Google search box: “Presentation of Mary” and go from there. Give it your own thinking - your own Googling.   I heard people telling people in these impeachment hearings, “to Google it” - great word, great verb..

I would suggest to myself to be sensitive - because there are congregation of nuns with the Presentation of Mary in the Temple in their name.  There are also parishes and churches with The Presentation of Mary in the temple in their title.

SO FOR A SERMON  WHERE I WOULD GO?  BEING PRESENT!

Once more, the title of my homily is: “Present: Just Show Up!”

I had Father Denis Sweeney - as my pastor and rector 2 times - in Lima Ohio and St. Mary’s Annapolis. One of his messages was: just show up.

I had heard the same message from Father Joe McManus - a former rector here at San Alfonso.

Just show up. Just be present.

So we visit the sick. So we show up at the funeral if possible. So we go to the party.

So parents and grandparents are there for the Spelling Bee or the dance recital, the play or the soccer game - of their kids and grandkids.

So we go to the wake and we don’t have to say anything.

Sometimes just presence is just enough.

CONCLUSION

I think a great morning prayer is simply the word we say at many a meeting - the word we said in classrooms as kids: “Present!”

Then we say to God, “Okay God, help me to fill in the blank with my best today?”

Wednesday, November 20, 2019

November 20, 2019



WINTER’S  COMING

The sound of shovel scrape
on the hard cold sidewalk ….

Finding both your gloves
in your jacket pocket ….

Snowflakes falling around 9 PM -
looking up into a street light….

The squeak and scrabble of
tires parking on a snowy street ….

Getting inside - hot chocolate -
warming up - butt against the radiator ….

Then - when winter is too much -
planning on a week in the Islands ….

  
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019




November 20, 2019 - 



Thought for today: 

“I don’t much like the notion of passages, of predictable cycles in adult life.  I doubt that there’s anything predictable at all about the stages of life.  I know too  many people, now in their seventies, who haven’t changed since they were 12 years old, and others who change every two years in quite fundamental ways.  So many things come about through accident, chance or outright mistakes.  At least, that’s certainly been true for me.”  

Lewis Thomas, in a column 
called, "Turning Points” 
in Quest / 80, May 1980, 
Volume. 4. Number 4. 3

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

November 19, 2019



BEEN  THERE,  DONE THAT

I was just sitting there
thinking, talking, being
with Jesus - not in prayer,
but just thinking with Jesus.

I’m 80 now - so my ways
of being with Jesus are not
the way they were when I
was young and 40 to 50ish.

I was talking to him about
all these young people who
buried him after feeling
they were crucified by life.

“Relax,” Jesus said, “Been
there, done that” - I’ve been
buried millions of times. Relax!
I rise ever time.” Just wait ….”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
Christ, by Rembrandt


November 19, 2019 


Thought for today: 

“You are the  deep  innerness  of all things. The last word that can never be spoken. To each of us, you reveal yourself differently: to the ship as a coastline, to the shore as a ship ….” 

Rainer Maria Rilke, 
to his God.

Monday, November 18, 2019



A  KEY  TO  GOOD 
MENTAL HEALTH:
ARE YOU SINGING?

In the shower, when alone -
in the car - alone and with others,
are you singing?  If you are,
that’s a sign of good mental health.
Feel your face - sense your skin -
your chest - your neck - your voice -
your sense of self - your well being!
Halleluia. Halleluia. Halleluia!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



Reflection
November 18, 2019 -


Thought for today: 

“Bagpipes (n): an octopus wearing a kilt.” 

Sunday, November 17, 2019



CRUNCH TIME

INTRODUCTION

Today I’d like to talk about time - not just any time, but judgment time, crunch time. If I had to give a title to this homily, it would be called, “Crunch Time.”

CRUNCH TIME

Crunch time is judgment time.

It’s when a game is coming down to the wire.

It’s when there is one second left in a football game and the field goal kicker is lining up for a long field goal - in hopes of winning the game.

Or the basketball player has two foul shots to tie the game.

Sometimes this is the time the other team calls, “Time out” if they have one, to make the kicker or the shooter feel the pressure.

Crunch time.

In sports the game teaches us about time - and about life. We’ve practiced - but the game is what counts - and the game within the game -  whether it’s the first game of a new season - the playoffs - the regionals - or the championship game at the end of the season.

It’s crunch time.

END OF THE YEAR READINGS

Today’s readings contain these strange images of danger and doom. We have these end of the world type readings this time, every time, at the end of the year.

Next Sunday - November 24th -  we’ll have the Feast of Christ the King, the last Sunday of the church year. Then on the following Sunday,  December 1st, we’ll have  the beginning of a new Church year, the First Sunday of Advent.

Time - as well as the Church’s Liturgies gets interesting at this time of the year.

MALACHI

In today’s first reading from Malachi, the prophet, we have the image of the oven. The oven tests the cook. The proof is in the pudding.

But Malachi is using the image of an oven or a refinery that burns stubble and tests metal. There are things we need and want to get rid of and there are precious things we want to save.  We’ve all heard the phrase, to test one’s metal. The fire burns off the impurities. We find out what we really got when we put the metal to the fire, to the test.

GOSPEL

In today’s gospel Jesus and his disciples go down to the big city of Jerusalem. His disciples are fascinated by the temple, the jewelry in it, the gold, the bigness and vastness of it all. But Jesus says that it’s all going to be destroyed. It’s not going to make it in the test of time.

I’ve only been to a tiny bit of the Middle East: parts of Israel, Turkey and Greece.   I’ve seen a few ruined temples. If you go to Israel, to Jerusalem you can go to the wailing wall, the wall of the destroyed temple.  But the world has plenty of places that have not passed the test of time and time is a great tester.

You can translate today’s gospel into many examples. We’re driving down the road in a not so fancy car. It has lots of miles on it. A fancy, very expensive, brand new car goes flying by. Envy. Fascination. Wow. Then we see a tractor trailer truck of crushed old cars go by.

Fascination. What are we fascinated by?

Time tells us where the really valuable is - to us.

TIME IS FUNNY

Time is funny. Time is relative.

Take a minute.

A minute is 60 seconds every time. Look at your watch, clock or cell phone, and take a minute to check it out - if I right about that.

I remember a digital watch I once had: a Timex.  In time - after a lot of use - the little buttons on the side were not working too well. I took some WD 40 and sprayed it into the buttons on the side. Well, I ruined the watch. The face became a sea of black liquid. Ugh.

So I had to go looking for an old watch. It’s a wind up watch. It still works. It’s passing the test of time. I can see the second hand.

A minute takes a minute, 60 seconds every time.

But time is also relative. I love the old saying. I use it every time. “How long a minute takes depends on which side of the bathroom door you’re on.”

How long a minute takes depends on who’s speaking or who’s preaching.

How long a minute takes is whether you’re the one who spilled the coffee  on the restaurant table and you’re hoping a waitress shows up any minute now.

How long a minute takes depends on whether you’re watching the last minute of a football game or you’re playing Jeopardy.

Time is funny.

The nurse or doctor’s assistant puts you in one of those small rooms at the doctor’s office and says, “The doctor will be in to see you in a minute.”

Time is relative.

TIME TELLS THE TRUTH

Time tells the truth. It might take time, but the wheel of justice eventually balances.

Time tells whether what we bought was really worth it.

Time tells us the truth about whom we work with, whom we marry, whom we spend time with.

“Time will tell” as the old saying goes.

A NEW HIRE

How many times have we heard this? A person is hires a person who looks great on paper. He has a great resume. He had a great interview. The person was hired. A few weeks later the boss or the person who hired this new person says:  “Wow did we make a mistake.” The guy was horrible with women. He couldn’t stand having a woman as his boss. They had to buy him out to get rid of him.

MARRIAGE

It’s the same with marriage. He seems great on a date. He’s so good looking. Wow. She is gorgeous. But can she cook as they used to say?

“The glances over cocktails that seem so sweet, don’t seem so sweet over shredded wheat.”

What is he like after the honeymoon?

People forget they are marrying the father or mother of their kids. They are marrying a companion for life.

Time tells all.

POEM

I like a poem by John Crowe Ransom. It’s a tough poem. Woooo! Tough stuff. Judgment stuff. Truth stuff. Time will tell stuff.  Ugh stuff.

It’s about a man and a woman. It’s about a man seeing a group of beautiful school girls with beautiful hair. They are playing or running in their blue school uniforms in a playground. There are a few words in the poem that we don’t hear too often.

A sward is a grassy patch.

A fillet is a ribbon that holds one’s hair in place.

A seminary here is the girls’ school.

BLUE GIRLS

          Twirling your blue skirts, travelling the sward
          Under the towers of your seminary,
          Go listen to your teachers old and contrary
          Without believing a word.

          Tie the white fillets then about your lustrous hair
          And think no more of what will come to pass
          Than bluebirds that go walking on the grass
          And chattering on the air.

          Practise your beauty, blue girls, before it fail;
          And I will cry with my loud lips and publish
          Beauty which all our power shall never establish,
          It is so frail.

          For I could tell you a story which is true:
          I know a lady with a terrible tongue,
          Blear eyes fallen from blue,
          All her perfections tarnished -- and yet it is not long
          Since she was lovelier than any of you.



CONCLUSION: CHURCH TIME

Let me make a conclusion.

Sunday mass is church time. Different time. It’s one hour out of the 168 hours of the week. It’s judgment time. We come to church and we look at the rest of the week.

How are we doing on our job? Putting in time or really doing a great job.

How are we doing as a member of our family? Presence. Listening with each other. Meals. Etc.

How are we doing in our primary responsibilities?

If I am a teacher, how am I doing?

If I am a student, how am I doing?

At Sunday mass time we take the time to review the week -- to check things out.  Things might look good on paper. A person might have lots of promise. But in the crunch time of everyday life, we see reality. The proof is in the pudding.

Church time is often like that time in the doctor’s office. We’re in the room waiting for the doctor. We felt a lump or our left side is numb or we’re not feeling right. We sit there doing some serious thinking.

That’s judgment time. That’s crunch time.

We take tests and a few days feel like ages as we look at the phone waiting.

Time will tell what is going on.



LEASH

Does every dog hate the leash -
that leather prison around one’s neck?
Does every human hate the leash -
that holds us back from running free?
Does anyone want government or
gulag or God to pen or hold us in?
Doesn’t everyone want  be like the dog -
head out the car window - enjoying the breeze?
Doesn’t every kid long for the day to
have the keys to one’s car and freedom to be?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


November 17, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“I have  noticed  that people who are late  are often so much jollier that the people who have to wait for them.” 

E. V. Lucas, Reading, 
Writing and Remembering.