Saturday, March 21, 2020

March  21,  2020



WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON

Cold – so invisible, so too heat ….
Cold -  so felt – so too heat ….

Love – sometimes invisible, so too heat.
Love – sometimes felt – so too heat ….

Indifference, respect, desires, screams ….
Same scenarios – same scenarios ….

Awareness – sometimes, sometimes ….
We know what’s going on within – sometimes.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 March   21,  2020 

Thought  for  Today  


“Hatred  watches  while  friendship  sleeps.” 


French proverb

Friday, March 20, 2020

March   20,   2020


AN  ORANGE

The cut, the slice ….
the peeling of orange skin ….
Great packaging ….

The slight slippage of juice ….
The pulling apart ….
Then the taste ….

An orange ….
If God has a favorite,
is it the orange?

I  don't know,
but I'm sure it wouldn't
be gold or the shark.


 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  20,  2020 




Thought  for  Today 

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes  unhappy  marriages.”


  Friedrich  Nietzsche

Thursday, March 19, 2020

March 19, 2020


SKATEBOARD

Rolling down Newman Street ….
It’s a great hill for skateboarding ….
Hopping the curve at the bottom ….
Another kid filming the show
all the way down the hill.
We clapped. He bowed.
I walked away wondering,
“Is this narcissism
or kids just having fun?”
Further thought: “Is this
this kid for the rest of his life?”



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020



March   19,  2020


Thought   for  Today

“Sometimes  people  don’t want to hear the truth because they don’t want their illusions destroyed.”


Friedrich Nietzsche

Wednesday, March 18, 2020

March 18, 2020



A  MARRIAGE


Yes, there are the big scenes,
the “Where we first met?’
and  “How we met?”
and the decision moments,
the “Yes”,
the wedding,
the honeymoon,
then births and babies –
and the raising of the kids.

Ooops better bring in
the mistakes,
better the recovery
from dumb moves
the hurts, the insensitivity,
the cries of pain and
the cries of passion,
in the recovery and then the knowing
there is more – the best that is yet to come.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  18,  2020



Thought  for  Today

To prejudge other men's notions before we have looked  into them is not to show their darkness but to put out our own eyes.” 
From John Locke,
in An Essay Concerning
Human Understanding

Tuesday, March 17, 2020

March  17,  2020



IRISH  BLESSING  2020


May you have a wonderful 
St. Patty’s Day today – filled 
with blessings of all sorts - plus: 
  - a big Irish breakfast, 
     - a lunch with good  friends 
  - an afternoon tea and Irish soda bread 
       with cold yellow butter – 
  - and a corn beef dinner, 
       no fat, no gristle and boiled
       mashed potatoes and a pint 
       of deep dark Guinness. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


March   17,  2020 

Thought  for  Today 

“If you want praise, die. If you want blame, marry.” 


Irish saying

Monday, March 16, 2020



KNOWING ST.  CLEMENT  HOFBAUER -
KNOWING YOURSELF IS TOUGH ENOUGH


INTRODUCTION

Our Redemptorist General Government recommends that we say something about Saint Clement Hofbauer today – since yesterday was the actual anniversary of his death – but it was a Sunday.

Moreover,  it’s the 200th Anniversary of his death in Vienna, Austria, March 15, 1820.

So,  I began reading up and thinking about St. Clement Hofbauer a bit yesterday. After St. Alphonsus – San Alfonso in Italian – St. Clement is our second founder. Without them we wouldn’t be here together this morning.

After a bit of thinking, I came up with a title for some thoughts: “Knowing St. Clement Hofbauer – Knowing Yourself Is Tough Enough.”

KNOW YOURSELF

Most of us have heard the old Greek saying, “Know Yourself.”  In Greek it’s “GNOTHI  SEAUTON.” It shows up in literature and in advice columns and on the wall of the temple of Apollo in Delphi. It’s been in Greek and then Western thought since at least the 10th Century B.C.

GNOTHI SEAUTON”!   Say those Greek words a few times and you’ll be begin to hear the English word, “know” in the Greek word, “GNOTHI” and “auto” in “SEAUTON”.

We spend much of our life trying to figure ourselves and others out – and much of the time, we scratch our head in frustration.

In a divorce and in a hurt how many times have we said of another, “I thought I knew him or her” as well as, “I didn’t realize I could be so stupid.”

A SAINT WALKED INTO A BAR

I was reading in a book on St. Clement Hofbauer yesterday that the number one story about St. Clement is the story about him going into a pub.  It’s in all the biographies of Clement.  He’s running an orphanage and he needs money so he goes into a pub and asks for money.  A guy - seeing he’s a priest spits in his face and ridicules him and gets a laugh.  And Clement says, “Okay the spit is for me. Thank you. I deserve it. What I want is money for my orphans.” And he gets a hat full of coins.

Well, Otto Weiss,  the author of an article, “The Changing Image of Clement Hofbauer,”   says it’s a common story and is told about  different  holy people.

Otto Weiss then says that he checked it out and the odds are good that this actually happened to Clement – based on his track record of helping kids, raising money, and his great concern for the poor. [Confer page 166 in “The Changing Image of Clement Hofbauer,”  in the book, Saint Clement Hofbauer, His Writings and Spirituality, edited by Raymond Corriveau, CSSR

A LOT MORE

Then I read an eyeful and a mindful of information about Clement.

Otto Weiss, the author of article I mentioned, said that authors used the life of Clement in various ways based on their theology and their agenda – and how they saw the church in Europe from 1820 to our times.

My knowledge of who St. Clement was is based on how two writers presented him: Jim Galvin who wrote Listen Vienna and John Hofer who wrote St. Clement Maria Hofbauer: A Biography.

I realized last night – once more - that I can say of Clement Hofbauer what the authors of a biography of John F. Kennedy said, “Johnny, We Hardly Knew Ye”.  That’s a 1972 memoir of JFK written by David Powers, Kenneth O’Donnell with collaboration help from Joe McCarthy.

Every time I have done a funeral I ask people about the deceased. I get details about their life. And that’s only one part of biography. Character – personality is another. I love eulogies – because I know so little about the person who died.

I know there are jokes about eulogies at times:  People say things like, “Are we at the right funeral?”

CONCLUSION

If we read the live of St. Clement Hofbauer or St. Alphonsus or how the Redemptorists came to the United States, we hear about their plans for starting in a certain place, but that plan doesn’t work – and we start somewhere else.

This March 15th – plus today Monday March 16th – we celebrate a saint named Clement Hofbauer – who came down to Italy – gets ordained with a guy named Thaddeus Hubl – and is sent immediately back over the Alps to Austria – but ends up in Warsaw.  However, if all else fails they say we might go Sweden.

Life has many broken plans and many conflicts and different chess moves. Isn’t that true in most lives?  

We hear about saints, so we might become saints – and do the good they did – hopefully.

Redemptorists never did get to Sweden – but I did. Surprise!

March 16, 2020


A POET, A PAINTER AND
A SCULPTOR


A poet, a painter and a sculptor -
all 3 - were commissioned to do
a work on God – and after a year
all 3 gave back their $50,000 check.

The poet said, “The WORD already
became flesh.” The painter said,
“The sidewalks already have their
fill of poor people in doorways.”

And the sculptors said, “It would
take too long to sculpt the
mountains into  oceans and only
God has that kind of time.”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  16,  2020



Thought  for Today

“If  I  were given one hour to save the planet, I would spend 59 minutes defining  the  problem  and 1  minute resolving it.”

Albert Einstein

Sunday, March 15, 2020

March  15,  2020




YOUR  WORDS


So sophisticated,
so serious – but I still don’t know
what you’re saying to me – as if
your words were huge blocks that
are becoming a wall between us
and I’m going to have to pay for
all this – and I’m not even Mexican.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


March  15, 2020

Thought  for  Today 

 “If the only prayer you say in your whole life  is ‘Thank you,’ that would be enough.”  


Meister Eckhart