Saturday, December 14, 2019



ST. JOHN OF THE CROSS

INTRODUCTION

Today is the feast of St. John of the Cross - Juan de Cruz.

His dates are 1542 - 1591. So, he lived in the time after the discovery of America by Christopher Columbus – and that burst of energy that must have erupted in Spain after the discovering a whole new world.

But I don’t know how much that experience affected his life – in the places in Spain where he lived.

·      He was a delving Spanish mystic.
·      He was an intriguing Spanish poet.
·      He fits in as  a December Saint.

He has been labeled a genius as a writer.  More important, he is a Saint.

Fortunately, we have his 3 great books:
·      The Ascent of Mount Carmel
·      The Dark Night of the Soul – The Spiritual                    Canticles
·      The Living Flame of Love.

To be read slowly. To be read very slowly and with commentary. To discover, he might not be your cup of tea.

Along with St. Teresa of Avila he is considered the founder of the Discalced Carmelites.

MESSAGE

What I take as a message from his life is the Cross and Rejection - but not just the cross and rejection, but how he dealt with the cross and rejection.

His father’s family had wealth, but when his father married someone in a class much lower than his – his family rejected him.

Then after kids came, the father died. Ugh. So, the mother was left homeless and in poverty.

At some point, John got a job as a servant in a hospital and then he entered the Carmelites. Someone spotted his talents and he ended up receiving a good education.

He meets Teresa of Avila who is trying to reform the female branch of the Carmelites and he joins with her in this reform of the male branch.

He is rejected – in fact, he’s imprisoned in the Carmelite monastery for 9 months – and is brought to the dining room at times and beaten publicly. The Redemptorists don’t do this.

CHOICE

He could have become as someone said, “a cynic or a compassionate mystic.” He became the mystic.

His life theme could be: seek God because God seeks us; desire God, because God desires us, and in the pursuit, we will meet God, often in the cross.

He is famous for his use of the theme of “The dark night” – as in the Dark night of the senses and the dark night of the soul.

F. Scott Fitzgerald and many others used that phrase, as in Fitzgerald’s line, “In a real dark night of the soul, it is always three o’clock in the morning.” That was in his book, “The Crack Up” (1936), not “Tender is the Night” (1933) or "The Great Gatsby" (1925).

2 PERSONAL STORIES

I have two personal stories concerning John of the Cross.

Years ago, I used to write a spirituality newsletter entitled, “You” – for the Thomas More Association out of Chicago. I would write  an issue, send it to Chicago, and it would be printed.

Well, I had just finished one issue on the theme of night, and it featured John of the Cross. Just at that time a classmate dropped in to visit me. 

I said, “Hey, Tom, read this and let me know what you think of it.”

Tom read it and said, “Where did you get this?” 

I said I made it up. 


He said, “It’s not  the way he put things. This is not what John of the Cross was saying.”

I said, “Oh!” Then I added, “Why do you say that?”

He answered, “Well, down in Santo Domingo we read a section of his writings every morning and then talked about it for reflection.”

I said, “Oh!”

The moral of the story is this. Reject everything you read. Don’t believe it. Give it a cross examination. If Tom hadn’t shown up, it would have been printed as is and some people who might read it, would  figure it’s true, because it’s printed.

So, I am critical of what  I read. It’s a good practice. It could be mish mash, unprepared something, made up by someone who didn’t do the research.

The second experience was a book of Night Prayers I wrote from my encounter with John of the Cross’ stuff. I finished the book and it was rejected. It’s sitting in my room, so I took it out last night and grabbed two short prayer poems.

The first one is entitled, “Presence” and the central image is bone. Did you ever have the experience of seeing someone – being with someone and you start to meditate on their skull – thinking, “This person is going to be dead, a skeleton, one of these years.”

I don’t do this all the time.

Presence

The bone
beneath the skin,
and You Lord,
present within me
throughout the night.

The second prayer poem is entitled, “Empty In The Night.” The central image in this short piece is trees without leaves against a night sky – a cold winter sky. Haven’t you ever stopped to look through empty branches and see the moon or the stars on the other side.

Empty In The Night

Barren black branches
against a December sky,
the cold and empty arms of the cross,
my wooden soul cries out
for You, O Lord.


CONCLUSION

It’s morning, but John of the Cross can help us get through the night.

December 14, 2019




KEEP  DANCING

Keep dancing ….
Keep sweeping ....
Keep watching ....
Keep moving ….
Keep singing ….
Keep planning ….
Keep learning ….
Keep teaching….
Keep reaching ….
Keep serving ....
Keep praying ….
Keep appreciating ….
Keep reading ….
Keep listening ....
Keep talking ....
Keep laughing ....
Keep on keep on ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019







December 14, 2019




Thought for today: 

“What I am looking  for … is an immobile movement,  something which would be equivalent of what is called the eloquence of silence, or what St. John of the Cross, I think it was, described with the term ‘mute music’.”

Joan MirĂ³

Friday, December 13, 2019

December 13, 2019


 RADIATORS

Radiating heat - warming everyone -
20 to 30 feet away - warming the house -
slowly - but some days the heat is off.
It’s cold. Everyone is cold. Why?
Why do we do this to each other?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

December 13, 2019

Thought for today:

“I respect faith, but doubt is what gets you an education.”  


Wilson  Mizner

Thursday, December 12, 2019



THE LITTLE  GUY – THE   LITTLE  GAL


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, ‘The Little Guy! The Little Gal.”

Today – December 12 - is the feast day  of Our Lady of Guadalupe.

We all know the New Testament question - Nathanael’s question - when he asks Philip about Jesus: “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?”

Answer: Yes. “Come and see!”  [John 1:43-51]  It’s Jesus the Messiah.

We can also ask that question of Mary – a young teenage girl out of the Nazareth – and the answer again is, “Yes!” Reread today’s gospel again: [Luke 26-38]

One study says Nazareth – not that far from the Lake of Galilee -  had about 400 people and one public bath at the time of Jesus.

JUAN DIEGO

Can anything good come out of Tepeyac – a hill close to present day Mexico City – but way back on the morning of December 9, 1531?

Answer: Yes. Juan Diego. I’m glad we go by that name instead of Cuahtlatoatzin – or “The Talking Eagle.”

Juan Diego was a native American – an indigenous person – who becomes the hero in the Guadalupe story.  He  ends up with an image of Mary on his tilma or outer robe – a poncho like garment.

And Mary appears with dark skin and Indian features – speaking in Nahuatl - his native language.

ANAWIM

We’ve all heard preachers talk about the “anawim.” That’s the Hebrew term for the poor slobs of the land.  The best explanation of the “anawim” I heard was from a preacher who talked about the bread flakes and particles that get stuck in the bottom of a toaster. That’s the anawim – the throw aways – the crumbs. And God spots them on the floor – on the bottom of the heap of history.

The “anawim” are central to understanding the Old Testament – especially the prophets – and their concern for folks.

JESUS – NO WALLS

We all know that Jesus didn’t accept  walls. He came through walls.  He reached out to all. He knew those who touched his garments. They were those with bad skin – those who were rejects – those who were looked down on: Samaritans, adulteres, sinners.

US AND THE LITTLE GUYS AND GALS

So, we Christians were brought up hearing about the little guy – the little gals – those who were not getting a good educational deal – a good life deal – women – the handicapped – the different oriented – the Matthew 25 folks.

The call is for churches to help and bring communion and community to all.

How many religious orders were founded for the purpose of the helping the Little Guy?  Study the charism statements of religious orders. They began to do something to help the neglected.  It was the immigrants, the poor, the sick? Check out the background of colleges, hospitals, orphanages, churches, food pantries.

I was listening to the congressional hearings last night. Those  who made it to congress – if their parents were the little guys or gals – they were proud to tell the listeners about their roots.

I too am proud that my mom cleaned hotels and houses in Boston and my dad never made over 100 dollars a week doing heavy lifting in Nabisco.

We religious are proud of our brothers and sisters who were there for the Little Guys and Little Gals.  My dad had 3 sisters who joined the Mercy Sisters in Portland Maine. Two died in their 20’s. Sister Mary Patrick made it to her 70’s working in the basement kitchen at the Mercy motherhouse. I’ve heard from Mercy Sisters about my dad’s sister.

We had a great St Vincent de Paul at St. Mary’s Parish in Annapolis Maryland.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily was: “The Little Guy! The Little Gal.”

Whatever room you enter check the edges of the crowd and the corners. We the Little Guy and Little Gal – we’re here.





December 12, 2019




ONE  BLADE  OF  GRASS


Come on now, we’re all worth
more than a blade of grass – even
though there are millions of us.

But sometimes, the way we
treat each other, the way we cut
each other down,  I’m not so sure!

But then again there was that
blade of grass he used to tickle
his girl friend’s left ear on the lawn.

And then there was that blade of
grass she use to mark a poem
on page 63 in a book of poems.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 12, 2019




Thought for today:


“I said to the man who sat at the gate
of the year,
‘Give me advice that I may tread safely
into the unknown?’ 
and he replied,
‘Go out into the darkness
and put your hand into the hand of God
and that should be to you better than light,’
so I went forth and found the hand of God
and walked gladly into the night.”
Minnie Haskens

Wednesday, December 11, 2019




ONE IN A MILLION

I looked up into the dark night sky
and saw millions  and millions
of stars  so far, far, far  away.

I looked down at the ground
and saw millions and millions
of grains of sand on the beach.

It was then that it dawned on me
my toes were touching a star and I was
blessed to be - just one of the billions.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 11, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“There are no  unsacred places; there are only sacred places and desecrated  places.”  

Wendell Berry

Tuesday, December 10, 2019

December  10, 2019



PIANO  BAR

Once he had a piece down
he was able to watch the room –
watch who was who – and watch 
who just came into the piano bar.

These two – obviously not married.
These two – obviously married, but
they are not going to last. Their    
eyes are too around the room.

Then he saw these two  come into the Inn….
Different …. Disturbed…. She obviously
pregnant – he deeply worried when he heard,
“There is no room tonight in this inn.”

No way? No room? Inn?  Christmas Eve?
The piano player, without missing a beat,
began playing, “Silent night!” “Adeste Fideles.”
Then, “Go Tell It on the Mountain.”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 10, 2019 

Thought for today,  


“Your must is the father of my 'I won’t.'” 


“Se caithfidh tu an athair do ni dheanfaidh me.” 


Irish proverb:

Monday, December 9, 2019




RECKONINGS


Many deny there is a hell,
sometimes heaven as well.
Many say that’s an after I die worry,
so why worry about that now?

Many deny consequences,
afterwards and reckonings.
They deny reckonings could  be just
10 yards away from the present moment.

Many deny that reckonings are
creeping into our afterthoughts
after every bite we take from the tree
of good and evil, life or death.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 9, 2019 



Thought for today: 


“I meditate every day.  That’s sort of a can’t-live-without-it-thing.  I do it for 20 minutes a day, sometimes two times a day.  I’ve been doing that for 30 year.  It’s an essential thing,  especially working as hard as I’m working right now.  There’s no way I could  do it if I didn’t [meditate].  I put a sign on the door that says ‘don’t knock for 20 minutes.’  I’ll even do it on airplanes, or I’ll pull my car over to the side of the road, wherever I have to.  I’ve  also been walking a lot.  Right now I walk and learn my lines at the same time.  So that’s a workout. I like yoga, and I go to a class when I can.” 


Helen Hunt, Spry Live, 
Parade Magazine,  Spry 
Interview, December 2019

Sunday, December 8, 2019




DON’T  TRY  TO FLY SOLO -
DON’T  TRY TO GO IT ALONE 



INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Don’t Try to Fly Solo - Don’t Try to Go It Alone.”

Today’s second reading from St. Paul to the Romans 15: 4-9 begins, “Whatever was written previously was written for our instruction, that by endurance and by the encouragement  of the Scriptures we might have hope." 

So last night I read today’s 3 readings for instruction, for hope, for words of encouragement.

And the theme for today’s 3 readings that came up off the pages was the theme of community. We’re not in this to go it alone.

The first thing that hit me was the importance of welcoming one another, accepting one another. Then as I began to reflect, I realized that is not enough, so a second point came up: the need for growth and development, change, conversion, after the welcomes.

The doormat at the door that says “Welcome!” is not enough. Coffee and cakes, the “Hi John” at 12 Step meetings, they are not enough. They aren’t even the first step.

So my reflections in this homily will attempt to stress  two points: # 1) Welcoming and then more, # 2) Conversion.

Perhaps if I had more time and stayed with these readings a third and fourth point would emerge. But enough for now. 

Let me begin.

1) HOSPITALITY AND WELCOMING ONE ANOTHER

After telling us that everything in scripture is for our benefit, for our instruction, etc., Paul in today’s second reading from Romans 15: 4-9 says: Welcome one another. Accept one another.

It’s a basic principle in life that where there are “No Smoking” signs, people are smoking. Where there are “Quite Hospital Zone” signs, there is noise. Where there is “Please Pick Up After Yourself”, people are not picking up after themselves.

So if Paul is telling his listeners, “Welcome one another!”, people are not welcoming one another.

And we know from the letters of Paul, from Acts, from the four gospels, from life, people often don’t welcome one another. We shun those we don’t like. We don’t like people of different colors or religion from us.

I remember a woman named Ruth Duffy telling us in an Enneagram Workshop, that we are different fish and different kettles of fish.

There always seems to be restrictions – laws – rules and regulations.  The circumcised didn’t like the uncircumcised and if they wanted to be part of the New Covenant, they better get cut and snipped fast.

We need one another, so we better learn how to live with one another.

It’s not good to fly alone. It’s not good to go solo.

We’ve all read newspaper stories about pilots in small planes who have had heart attacks and thank God they were not flying solo. A person in the tower guides the other person, a passenger who went along for the ride and now they have to land the plane safely.

As scripture says, “It’s not good to be alone.” We need spouse, family, friends, acquaintances, co-pilots, people along for the ride, etc. We need community. We need group. We need church. We need each other.

Those who go alone on the road from Jerusalem to Jericho might get mugged.

Those who go together on the road from Jerusalem to Emmaus  might meet Jesus and discover him in the breaking of the word and the breaking of the bread.

So that’s the first point: the importance of not going it alone. We  heard in our training and formation in becoming priests, the old Latin saying,  “Vae soli ....”  “Beware of going alone!”

2) CONVERSION

But mere presence is not enough. We need to appear at the party in a new garment. As Jesus pointed out, we are invited to the party, but please wash up. Please show up in glad attire.

And later he’ll point out, “Change your hearts, not your  garments.”

Conversion is necessary! Welcoming another is not enough.

STORY OF SOLO

When I was reflecting on all this, I remembered a story that I saw on Discovery Channel. I am not sure if I’m merging two films or two stories together, but I think the name of the film was either “Solo” or “The Wild Dogs of Africa.

Maybe when I heard myself saying, “Don’t go it alone. Don’t fly solo” I thought of this.

A film team did a study on a pack of wild dogs of Africa. What I saw, really triggered some heavy feelings in me—about community—about how we humans can treat one another at times.

This male dog was king of the pack. He was the strongest dog and he had whatever he wanted. Well, he got this female dog, his dog pregnant. She was Queen, that is, till another female dog took over. She then drove the other queen away and became the Queen. She too got pregnant by the king.

The old queen had her litter of pups. I think it was 6 pups. Then a short time later, the new queen had her litter. Then the new queen went and stomped the old queen’s  pups to death—that is - all but one. The camera crew ended up calling her “Solo.”

The new queen also drove the old queen away—without “Solo.” She kept her in the pack, but every time “Solo” went for food, no can get. The new queen prevented  Solo from eating.  As a result, “Solo” grew up stunted. Then as the pack moved on for newer feeding grounds, Solo with shorter stunted legs couldn’t keep up with the pack. Eventually, she was nabbed by some other predator.

I never forgot that film. I think of it when I see human beings bullying other human beings.  We allow people in our communities, but sometimes we stunt them. We don’t feed them. We don’t let them grow and get nourished.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel – Matthew 3: 1-12 -  the Pharisees show up for baptism, but they are not willing to change. They are doing it out of fear tactics. Putting on the garment is not enough. Change of heart is called for. The ax of conversion has to get to the root of things. That’s where we have to change.

TODAY’S FIRST READING

In today’s first reading from Isaiah 11: 1-10 - we have the same message. Mere appearances are not enough. If I were a lamb, I would not invite the wolf to dinner—unless I knew he changed his attitudes. Otherwise I might be the dinner. If I were the calf, I wouldn’t invite the lion to visit me, unless I knew he too changed his mannerisms. So too the cow with the bear and the child with cobra.

Unless we take the first step—the conversion step—and are willing to take all the following steps, we won’t have what Isaiah is calling us to.

The Gentiles won’t enter our home unless we change. Then they might appear at our doorstep looking for welcome and for life.

And when we change, when we get to the root of things, then shoots of new life will sprout from the stump. Then buds will blossom.

CONCLUSION

Those are some reflections from today’s readings. They could use some fixing up. I know that. I always find out what I am trying to say, when I have an audience. When I go it alone -  I usually crash more than this. Thanks for listening.

In conclusion, then, my message then is about community. We need to welcome each other because it’s not good to fly or go it solo. But once we are together we need to do some growing together. Amen. Come Lord Jesus!

December 8, 2019


NOW  I KNOW


Looking back,
now, I know.  But back then
there  was no looking back,
because I knew everything.

Back then
was back then.
Now is now  and now
I know:  older is wiser.

But, for the sake
of transparency
now I am old.
Hey, it has to have some benefits.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 8, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 


“I lost it Maggie – the most important thing – the desire to begin again.”  


George Eliot, The Mill and the Floss.

Saturday, December 7, 2019


A  HA MOMENTS:
NAME THREE?




INTRODUCTION

The  title  of my homily for this first Saturday in Advent   is, “A Ha Moments: Name Three”?

I think that’s a good question:  “A Ha Moments: Name Three!”?

And if you talk life with a spouse or a family member or a good friend or friends, do that question of naming 3 “A Ha Moments” Come up with your answers. Then share your moments and your memories  with each other.

“A Ha Moments: Name Three”?

PROCESS

A suggested process could go like this: look at your life – jot down major learning moments – a ha moments -  name lots of them – there are many - and then pick your top 3 from your list.

That’s not a bad way to do this.  And you can keep on working on it – changing it, developing it - especially if doing this becomes an “A ha!”  moment in itself – or as you listen to the “Ah Hah!” moments of  others.

TODAY’S GOSPLE GIVES ONE FOR ME

Somewhere along the time line of my life I heard someone say that Jesus Christ’s main concern was not to establish a church – but to bring about the kingdom.

The speaker was saying: Jesus established the Church to bring about the kingdom.

This is the means and end question. It’s the which is which question.  Is the church the end or the means or is the church the way to the kingdom?

As Jesus says in today’s gospel, “Go to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.  As you go, make this proclamation: ‘The Kingdom of heaven is at hand.” [ Cf. Matthew 10: 7.]

I was brought up with the stress on the Church. At some point, “A ha,”  I was being asked to wonder what is this kingdom and how do I help to make it happen? 

Wait a minute!  You’re a priest you’re supposed to make the Church happen. Nope, I’m a human. I’m a Christian and I want to be one of those who are salt and light and help the kingdom to show up in kitchens, work places, parks, family gatherings and church benches and halls.

The kingdom of God is at hand!

This makes the little people as big as the big people, the poor as important as all people and on and on and on.

It takes away the stress on pomp and circumstance, titles and seats of honor, rules and regulations,  and all that.

ST. AMBROSE

Did you notice that today is the feast of St. Ambrose?

The bishop of Milan dies and uproar and division happen. Ambrose the  provincial  governor goes to the basilica and asks for a peaceful solution. Someone screams out, “Ambrose for bishop.”

Everyone chants that scream and Ambrose – who is not baptized is baptized in a week – then confirmed that same week – and ordained that week and consecrated  bishop of Milan – all in a week.

How’s that for process?

And Ambrose  becomes a great bishop and saint – and did a lot of church things to make Milan a wonderful diocese.

Of course, this was before Canon Law as we know it. This was around the year 375 – and Ambrose  lasts till Good Friday – April 4, 397.

So a first  good “A hah” moment for me was when I heard someone say that the church is a means to building the Kingdom of God!

MY SECOND  A HA MOMENT – POLITICS FROM THE PULPIT

I learned this year – in a great a ha moment – in the big parish I was in down in Annapolis Maryland, that no matter what one says in the pulpit, the people in the benches hear what they hear in their way – and rightly so.

In a sermon I didn’t mention the president by name – but I was critical of him – because of the way he described the homes of people in the islands and in Africa.  I said I was not being political. I said I was talking morally – and we should not describe people’s homes the way the president  was  describing them.

Uh oh!  After Mass there was uproar and letters.  Some folks said I was talking politics from the pulpit. I said I wasn’t.  It doesn’t matter – some folks saw it all as politics.

I am very interested to find out what will happen in Catholic Parishes in the United States this Sunday if any priest or deacon stands up for Nancy Pelosi for saying, “I am a Catholic and I was taught not to hate.”  Then she said she prays for the president.


Up roar.

My a ha learning was that I said loud and clear that I was speaking morally and not politically – but I learned people take what they take – from their viewpoint.

Even saying what I just said can cause uproar.

I’m 80 – and a long time ago I found myself not worrying  about church stuff when I’m preaching. The call is to worry about human stuff and our church is around to speak up for human beings and their day to day life on the planet.

My second a ha moment – was that I can think what I think – but people think what they think.

THIRD A HA MOMENT

My third A Ha Moment has to do with Isaiah.

Someone said that Isaiah only gradually was beginning to see that God was more than a God of the Israelites.

I was hearing that theology and ideology can be gradual and evolutionary and developmental for folks.

So for me the goal is to evolve – to get beyond being  Catholic, Jewish, Moslem, Hindu, Atheistic, or whatever and  to be concerned about helping everyone to know and to hear that God is with us in our development - whether we believe in him or not.

Today’s first reading has Isaiah saying that God  is gracious to us and spacious to us.

CONCLUSION

That’s some homework. Come up with 3 A Ha moments and share them with your one to one connections.




December 7, 2019



THE  FRAME

The painting didn’t grab me
like a few paintings have ….
But the frame – it was unique,
dust collecting inlaid wood ….
So did the framer know - what
women and dapper guys know?
If you don’t have it, then it better
be the shirt or the skirt or the
beard or the do that does it.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 7, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 


“To  lie  about  a  foreign  country  is  easy.”  


Amharic [Ethiopian] Proverb

Friday, December 6, 2019

December 6, 2019

LEFT SHOULDER


Life -  at times - I wish this wasn’t true,
but too many times - it’s about reactions.
I say blue; you say purple.  I see the way
your eye sees the way I shrug my left
shoulder when you walk into a room –
but I say nothing – just judging from what 
I think you’re thinking - from what you said
and how you reacted 7 years ago - to what
I did just now. Hey my left shoulder has
picked up some arthritis at work or it's 
been raining and I feel in my bones
an old injury  from wrestling when I
was in high school so many years ago.
We could talk – but let’s be honest –
we rather react than actually ask.
We rather judge than speak to each
other. Why do we do that? Why?

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 6, 2019 - 


Thought for today: 


“… out  of the  quarrel  with ourselves we make poetry.”  


W. Butler Yeats