Friday, December 6, 2019

December  5, 2019

ECHOES FROM THE PAST


If we echo our parents all our lives
without realizing it 99 % of the time,
then when we get together with our brothers
and our sisters for a funeral or a wedding,
we ought to be listening to our parents,
maybe hearing them for the first time.


                                                                                             © Andy Costello, Reflections 


ROCK:
A  MEDITATION ON ROCK


 INTRODUCTION

The title of my reflection for today is, “Rock: A Meditation on Rock.”

Since today’s two readings give rock a prominent place - as I was preparing some thoughts for  this morning - I said, “Why not put together a short meditation on rock?”

READINGS

The first reading – Isaiah 26: 1-6 - describes the Lord as an eternal rock.

Isaiah says that after saying, “Trust in the Lord forever.”

Okay, I get that.  Isaiah throws in a curve - the opposite.  Beware of being too lofty and overbearing like a mountain. You might be humbled as you tumble down to the ground.   Remember dust is disintegrated rock. Think about it:  you might end up as road - trampled underfoot by the needy -  stepped on by the footsteps of the poor.

Hear that comment: “… the footsteps of the poor.”  That’s 5  words that  I need to do some thinking about - but not now. Today I’m meditating on rock.

And today’s gospel – Matthew 7: 21-27 - has Jesus saying to build your house on rock - not on sand - so that  - when the wind and storms of life - hit your house - you will stand - because you’re built on rock.

TODAY - PICK UP A ROCK AND MEDITATE ON IT

 Walk around your house and find a stone.

I mean inside your house.  You could do this outside, but for starters, try inside your house.

Surprise you spot a small stone on a book shelf.  You ask, “What’s with this stone? What’s the  story about this stone?

It could be a rock from a vacation - or a rock with writing on it - given to you as a gift or a souvenir.



Think of Simon and Garfunkel’s song, “I Am a Rock …. I am an Island.”

Yeah, sometimes people are too cold, too alone, too unfeeling. In those experiences being a rock is negative.  Then there are people who are our rocks - our strength - like the Lord in today’s first reading.

I’ve been to Gibraltar.  If you ever are on a Mediterranean Cruise and Gibraltar is an option - go for it - outside or in.  On the outside, beware of the monkeys – they grab cameras, pocketbooks, packs and food.  On the inside see if you can get down into at least the middle level cave.

It represents security - hence Gibraltar being a symbol for an insurance company.

Contrast rock with opposite objects - like paper and scissors - in that wonderful game: “Rock, Paper, Scissors.”

Think of all the people who have had stones, gossip, words, thrown at them.

Words – hard words – hard sounding air – can hurt.

Picture the lady in the gospel – John 8: 1-11 – who was caught in adultery.

Did she hear the words, “Adulterer!  Sinner!” “This woman was caught in the very act of adultery!” for the rest of her life in that village?

Or did she stay with Jesus words, “Let him without sin cast the first stone”? Or “I don’t condemn you. Go and sin no more.”

Or the story about words that are like bloody rocks are in the gospel story of the guy in the cemetery who was bashing himself with stones. Did he spend his life hitting himself for mistakes or regrets from years past all his life? {[Cf. Mark 5: 5.]

CONCLUSION

So that’s a few ideas to trigger a few ideas inside your head.

That’s what a preacher tries to do.

Let me close with the old joke we used to tell as kids: “Was Goliath, the giant in the bible, surprised when David hit him in the head and killed him with a stone?”

Answer: “Yes! Such a thing had never entered his head before.”

Thursday, December 5, 2019


December 5, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 


“Comparisons  are  often  at the heart of hurt.”  


Someone.
What do you think?
Agree or disagree?

Wednesday, December 4, 2019

December 4, 2019





WHICH ONE AM I? 

Would anyone of us want to be
pictured as a sledge hammer
or a bulldozer - “Grrrr! Grrrr!”
or a tank  - “Boom! Boom!
or a bullwhip, "Swish! Slash"?

No! I hope not. Wouldn’t we
rather be seen as a waitress
cleaning our table and then
saying, “Now what can I get for
you wonderful folks this evening?”

Or to be seen as a shepherd
who looks for lost sheep or a
pruner of grape vines or a farmer
of wheat who wants to put delicious
bread and wine on our table?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

December 4, 2019

Thought for today:


“The  worst  thing  that can happen to a priest is that God gives him what he wants.”  


Father John Monaghan, 
page 126 in Monsignor 
George A. Kelly’s book, 
Inside My Father’s House, 
Doubleday 1989


HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO US
THAT WE KNOW THAT SOMEONE KNOWS WE EXIST AND EXISTED?

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this First Wednesday in Advent is a question, “How Important Is It to Us that We Know that Someone Knows We Exist and Existed?”

I got that question not from today’s readings, but from the Give Us This Day booklet that I know you all have.

On page 56 for this December 4th, there is a short biography of someone I never heard of before: Sister Anuarite  Nengapeta - a Congolese nun and Martyr - dates 1939 to 1964.

Then a few pages later - also for today, December 4th, they have a reflection on the Trappist monks of Tibhirine in Algeria who were part of the 19 Algerian martyrs - men and women - who were killed in the 1990’s.

MAGNIFICAT AND GIVE US THIS DAY

I don’t know how many of this type of booklets there are around the world - booklets that give the readings of the day - some prayers and some reflections.

I’m familiar with the Magnificat and this one, Give Us This Day.

Magnificat has lots of beautiful religious art - maybe expensive paper - and features stuff from ancient saints more than modern ones. 

Give Us This Day has more modern cartoonish type art - perhaps cheaper paper  - and the lives of modern Christian heroes.

I used Magnificat for years and now I’ve been using Give Us This Day the last few years.  I don’t know if there is an article somewhere telling the history, the niche, the audience for each of these two booklets.

For December 4th, Give Us This Day triggered the question that hit me last night as I read the two descriptions of people like Sister Anuarite Nengapeta and the Algerian Martyrs.

I found more on the internet  about who these people were. That’s when several questions hit me: “Who Knows I Exist?”;  “How Important Is That to My Psyche and to Who and How I Am?”; and then the title and question of my homily came: “How Important Is It to Us that we Know Someone Knows We Exist and Existed?”

FOR STARTERS:  GOD KNOWS I EXIST

That is a basic teaching in Christian spirituality?

But at times we wonder: “God Do You Know I Exist?”

Did Mother Teresa ask that question during the 50 years she said she felt she was in the dark - and had doubts - most of the time?

Yet we wouldn’t be here in this chapel this morning if we didn’t have the faith to believe God knows I exist.

At a red light the other day - while driving -  I saw a squirrel dash across the street - and not get hit by a car.  At times I’ve said to God as I see a bird or a squirrel or a tree, “I believe you are totally aware of every bird, squirrel, tree, blade of grass, dead leaf on the street under a car tire.”

HOW ABOUT OTHERS?

The question that hit me for this homily is, “How Important Is It to Us that We Know that Someone Knows We Exist and Existed?”

All of us are from somewhere else.  Will someone on the planet wonder how we are doing today?  Did those 19 people who were murdered and martyred in Algeria get birthday cards?   Did their friends and those they served  know they existed?

Is the reason why some people leave religious life and marriages  because the other - the others - don’t give us a moment’s attention and the hope is that someone else out there will?

Can that need be measured, talked about, considered with each other?

MR ROGERS

I just saw the movie, “A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood” - that featured Mr. Roger’s, who was on TV from 1968- 2001. He helped kids see that they exist and feel their feelings and know that they are important.

CONCLUSION

Today’s two readings feature crowds. We’re part of the over 7.5 billion people on the planet.

I was with my brother’s family for Thanksgiving week and I watched how everyone held, spent time with, touched a new born baby - the only baby at a meal for 43 people.  I was looking forward since Joey was born 7 months ago - to see him and hold him. I watched how everyone embraced him. I wondered what  was it  like when I first arrived. I wondered about the other 42 people in the room. Did they still feel loved, noticed, embraced, known, worried about - cared about?

Even if in time everyone in the room saw that we are  like the people climbing the mountain for food in today’s first reading from Isaiah 25: 6-10 or like the crowd in today’s gospel from Matthew 15: 29-37 - that some  of us are lame, some of us are blind, some of us can’t really tell others about how we feel and think - and yet we can touch Jesus - be in communion with him and be lovable and known and loved.

Today see and know the people you see and don’t know.

Tuesday, December 3, 2019

December 3, 2019


THE FIRST MOMENT IN PRAYER

In the deep night
I kneel and ask,
“Who are You, God”
and You answer every time,
“And who are you?”

In the deep night
is that where prayer begins?
Is that the first moment in prayer
every time? Me and You?
Who are we?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 3, 2019 

Thought for today: 


“Every  good  lawyer  should  be pessimistic.” 


Edward Bennet Williams

Monday, December 2, 2019



FLOWERS 5 DAYS LATER

The child saw the flowers - 
a dozen red roses - and screamed 
a smile of jubilation. 

5 days later she saw the
dead flowers and screamed
a scream of desolation.

She didn’t know it then
but this was to happen
again and again and again.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 2, 2019 - 


Thought for today: 

In  Edward  Albee’s  play,  A  Delicate  Balance, mother says that we sleep “to let the demons out.”

Sunday, December 1, 2019


ADVENT:  4  MESSAGES 


INTRODUCTION

Today - as we begin Advent 2019 - I would like to preach on “Advent: 4 Messages.”

I would like  to touch on 4 points that come out of today’s readings.

I hope they  are right to the point as we begin the season of Advent.

                    1) Wake up.
                    2) Put off.
                    3) Put on.
                    4) They are a Beginnings that Becomes an Ongoing.

1) FIRST POINT: WAKE UP

We all know what it means to hear a knock on our door and we hear the words, “Wake up!”

We all know what it feels like to want to stay in bed, to snuggle up under the covers, especially on a cold morning like this morning and go back to sleep.

We all know what it means to give up, to say inwardly to ourselves, “The hell with it. What’s the use? I’m hiding here or I’m getting out of here and going home and going to go to bed.”

Well, Paul, uses that feeling, that reality, as a metaphor for a basic  teaching in today’s first reading. He simply says to us: “Wake up!”

He says, “It’s time for you to wake up from your sleep!”

We tend to be like the people we heard about in the Book of Genesis - in the time of Noah - that Jesus talks about in today’s gospel - they are unaware that a flood is coming.  They are unaware that they are being robbed of a better life every day.  [Cf. Matthew 24: 37-44.]

George Gurdjieff - the Armenian - Greek - mystic and spiritual teacher often talked about  most of the human race be sleeping. We are all sleepwalkers. We are sleep takers.


He - said humans can keep developing- evolving - from Human # 1 to Human # 7.


Saint Augustine was converted through this second reading for today from St. Paul to the Romans 13: 11-14.

Augustine heard the words, “Take and read.” and he picked up the letter to the Romans and read these words from Paul.

“It is now the hour for you to wake from sleep.”

I once had a job called, “Novice Master.”

Looking back now - years later - I realize my job was to give wake up calls.

I’ve wondered from time to time novices who  were sleep walkers.

Some slept the whole year I had them.  Looking back from a distance, I feel bad that I didn’t challenge them enough.

Eventually most left. And I heard from time to time about some who are still asleep.

So the first big message for advent is simply: “Wake up!”

SECOND MESSAGE: PUT OFF

The second message for Advent is to put off.

We know what it means to put off clothes, put off pajamas or whatever.

Well Paul says, Wake up and put off deeds of darkness. Put off darkness. Put off worrying about the desires of the flesh.

Put off lust, jealousy, quarreling, bickering.

Put it all off.

Let go.

Change.

It’s he purgative way - the Purgative Stage in spirituality.

Empty out.

THIRD MESSAGE: PUT ON

The third point is to put on.

It’s the taking on a new way of doing life.

It’s the Illuminative Stage in spirituality.

It’s the climbing a new mountain as Isaiah tells us in today’s first reading. [Confer Isaiah 3: 1-5]

It’s walking in new paths.

It’s taking on new instructions.

It’s turning in our swords into plowshares and spears into pruning hooks.

It’s peacemaking  - not war making.

It’s putting on the Lord Jesus Christ and clothing ourselves in light -  clothing ourselves in the Lord Jesus and making no provision for the desires of the flesh.

FOURTH POINT: BEGINNINGS ARE TO BECOME ONGOINGS

Beginnings are easy. It’s the on goings that are tough.

Stick-to-it-tive-ness is sticky, tough stuff.

I don’t know about you, but I find it easy to begin a project.

It’s the conclusions I find tough.

Coming up with a topic and then a title for a sermon is easy - compared to coming up with a sermon - coming up with substance - meat - beef- and then an ending.

We’ve all seen scenes of someone starting a letter or an essay or a story and tossing page after page on the floor.

But to stick to the idea, the paper, the sermon, to the end, to complete the project, now that’s work.

I have had a million and one ideas for sermons. I have less than 10,000 sermons on my computer.

Advent is a time of new beginnings, fresh starts - but it’s only one day - and today is the start of only one new Advent.

But the job is to continue ...

To keep it up..

To finish the task.

JOE DONDERS

In a sermon for the first Sunday of Advent, Joseph Donders gives a good example about all this.

He  went home to Holland. It was Christmas time. He was at this big church. The church was packed for Christmas. An old priest - at this parish said to Joe, “Isn’t it great. They still have faith. Here they are at church.”

Off to the side was an  old sacristan who said, “Yes, great, but four weeks from now, the church will be empty again.”

Beginnings are easy.
And Joe Donders thought about that. He was right. The sacristan was right. He remembered a time when a group of parish workers came to him in Africa.

They said to him, “Hey, we have programs for those who are to be baptized, those who are to make first confession, those who are to make first communion, those who are to make confirmation, those who are to be married, but what about something for those in the middle?”

CONCLUSION

So 4 points today:

1) Wake up.

2) Put off past: sin

3) Put on Christ as our future.

4) Make a beginning and then continue.


December 1, 2019



OUTSIDER?

Outsider?  Sometimes ….
Insider? Sometimes ….
But most of the time
I don’t stop to ask ….

But when I do, when
I stop to ask if I know
what’s going on - I have
to admit I don’t know ….

But  then - when - I do this,
when I go into my past, I begin
to see  I’ve been here before -
I’m an insider to all that has been.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


December 1, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 


“A group of  both  high-school seniors and a group of couples who had been married more than twenty years found that both groups had a more romantic, passionate view of love than couples who had been married less than five years.  The researchers concluded that high-school seniors had not given up their romantic view of love, and the older couples were enjoying ‘boomerang passion’ as a result of their long-term investment in tending their marriage.”  


Erich Fromm

Sunday, November 24, 2019

November 30,  2019



SPINNING OR CENTERED?

Am I the spinning rim
or am I at the center still?

Can I stop in the middle
of it all and still know?

Am I the button or the thread,
the needle  or the hole?

Can I know the answers to my
questions or do I need another?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


November 30, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 


“There  is  hardly  any enterprise which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love.”  



Erich Fromm, 
in The Art of Loving.

November 29,  2019



DIDN’T  READ  THE  SCRIPT

I didn't know there was a program ....
I didn't know there were steps ....
I didn’t read the script …
In fact I didn’t even know
it was in my top drawer ….
I just thought all was paradise …
I had my genesis - family, parents,
grandparents - spouse - children -
fruit trees - delicious - days with
red, red juicy apples. I didn’t know
there was forbidden fruit.
I didn’t read that part of the story.
I woke up from time to time
on the other side of paradise.
It was then that I refused grace.
I was hearing the banging
of garbage cans on hard sidewalks,
when I wanted to hear only music.
I found myself going down wrong roads
with fields of anxiety on both sides of me.
I didn’t know if I was in May or November ….
Then I found amazing grace ….
Then I found my exodus.
Then I realized there was a third volume
and a fourth and who knows how many more?
Then I realized there were others
who knew my story - because it was theirs.
It was then I began my recovery.
More ….



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019








        
        
November 29, 2019 -


Thought for today: 


“Who dares, who can, preach, knowing what preaching is?”  


Karl Barth

November 28, 2019



“THANK  YOU”

It’s nice to hear those two words.
Easy does it: just slide them out -
like a “God bless you” when another
sneezes - and the other says back,
“Thank you!” Oh we have so much
to be thankful for: “Thank You God.”


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019




November 28, 2019



Thought for today:  


“I confess that sometimes I wish they weren’t listening.  I can tell you, as a preacher, that I bear a terrible burden when people listen, really listen, from the depths of their souls.”  


William H. Willimon, 
What’s Right With The 
Church,  page 107, Harper, 
San Francisco, 1985

November  27,  2019

INNER  ROOM

My inner room isn’t that great.
I wish it was, but it just isn’t.

I’m not that neat out here,
and inwardly I’m worse.

I go in there from time to time,
to read, to pray, to think, to cry.

It’s not a garden. It’s not a temple.
It’s not a cave. It’s not a cathedral.
It’s not a mountain top. It’s not

calvary. It’s me - the deepest me.

So here I am from time to time.
Reading…. Praying …. Thinking…. Laughing….


©  Reflections  Andrew Costello

November 27, 2019 - 


Thought for today: 


“In His will is our peace: it is the peace into which all currents and streams empty themselves, for all eternity.” 

Dante
November 26, 2019


DRIFTWOOD

“driftwood” - I would never have put
those two words together - till I saw
a piece of driftwood - that had drifted
onto shore - all alone after - well I don’t
know how long you have had drifted out to sea.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

November 26, 2019 





Thought for today:

“We dance round in a ring and suppose, / 
But the Secret sits in the middle and knows.”  



Robert Frost 
November 25, 2019


DROP  OUT

[Luke 15: 11-32
The Story of the
Prodigal Son]


Looking back now, 
it was the best thing
that ever happened to me.

But back then,
it was a disaster.
Didn’t you ever fall on your face?

Wandering the streets
alone … puzzled …
rejected … a drop out.

Then the decision
to get out of the Pig Pen
and go back home ….

It was a selfish move.
It was a survival move.
It was a smart move.

My brother …. now he has
another story. Some day I hope
he’ll make my move to come home.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



November 25, 2019 


Thought for today: 


“When we understand, we are at the center of the circle, and there we sit while YES and NO chase each other around the circumference.”  


Chuang-Tzu [c. 369-286 BCE]