Saturday, December 31, 2022

 



MATTERNICH

 

I’ve never been in a western stage coach or a 17th century traveling coach.

 

This traveling coach had two 15 foot in diameter wheels. Big. Strong. Solid. Enormous.

 

These wheels were in the back of the wooden coach – holding up most of the wagon.  The two wheels in front were much smaller – maybe 5 feet in diameter.

 

His wife and sister-in-law weren’t interested in looking at a very old traveling coach – in this main first floor room of the museum. You could see that in 30 seconds. They preferred going through the rest of this dusty museum in Matternich, Germany – to see what else they had. They liked looking at ornate gowns and everyday clothing from the 16th, 17th  18th  and 19th centuries. That could take an interesting two hours.

 

He stayed in that main room. He sat on a tan wooden bench – watching the room – watching people coming and going – mostly stopping to point out and talk about the very ornate well carved wooden 16th century traveling coach – in the center of the room.

 

Nobody noticed the wooden shepherds walking stick next to the wall – before heading into the rest of the museum.

 

He’d get up from time to time and try to read and study the drawings and texts around the room, They showed pictures of several  inns and a small stable next to the town tavern and inn. He figured out it was the Christmas stable – because it featured the Christmas scene of Mary and Joseph – and the child Jesus, It showed drawings of hundreds and hundreds of people on paths – moving towards the Christmas crib. He didn’t know German – so he really didn’t know about the coach and this room.

 

He guessed it was a Christmas crib – from way back in the 16th or 17th centuries.

 

Finally he heard someone speaking English. He looked like a museum guide.

 

So he got up and headed over to the museum guide.

 

“It sounds like you speak English.”

 

“Ya!”

 

"What is this coach and what is this place all about?”

 

The guide said, “You heard of Oberammergau?”

 

“Yes.”

 

“Well, in that town starting back in 1634  during Holy Week, they began reenactments of the Passion and Death of Jesus Christ. Well that’s been going on every 10 years or so ever since. Of course there were times it was cancelled because of wars and plagues – and this and that.

 

Then the guide with a great sense of pride said, “Here in Matternich since the 1500’s – we had a Christmas reenactment. Townsfolks played the parts of the shepherds and kings, Mary and Joseph, the inn keeper, Herod and townsfolks.  A new born baby was the star of the show.

 

It was so successful that in the following century Oberammergau started their  Passion Play. They  stole our idea. Then sorry to say the Christmas Nativity reenactment died out here in Matternich in the early 18 hundreds.”

 

“What about the wagon?” the man asked the guide.

 

“Oh, that. Well they found this old coach which would bring one of the 3 kings to see the new born baby. They cleaned it up. They fixed it up. They elaborated it up and put it here as the main feature left from the Matternich Christmas Play”

 

“Oh, okay!,” said the man to the guide.

 

Then he asked the guide about the shepherd’s staff in the corner.  It had signs telling what it was – but the message was in German.

 

“Oh, that, you noticed that.”

 

“Ya!”

 

The guide laughed – saying – “You’re learning German!”?”

 

“Danka …. Thanks” said the man. “But what about the Shepherd’s staff?”

 

“Well, it says on the sign next to it. The chief shepherd at the end of the play, would put down his staff and pick up the baby. He would hold it up for all to see and say. ‘Behold the Lamb of God who has come to save our world.’ And everyone would then clap and sing a great Christmas hymn.”

 

“Oh, nice!” said the visitor.

 

Then he went back to his seat thinking about all this – wondering when his wife and sister-in-law would return.

 

For the next 14 years of his life – remembering that moment – he wondered if he was more the staff or more the wagon?

 

[This is a totally fictitious story. A priest, Father John Duffy, whom I was stationed with, would write a Christmas story every year for his niece. He was a horrible typist, so I typed a few of them out – and that’s how I learned about his Christmas stories. I have 8 of them. 


Well, Duff died on December 24th 1993.  That Christmas – I was stationed in Lima, Ohio, so I decided to write a Christmas story in memory of Duff – for my Christmas Sermon.  I ended up doing that every Christmas till two years ago – when I got stationed here at San Alfonso Retreat House – and there was no Christmas public mass.

 

Ooops, it hit me yesterday to do a new one. This is Number 27. For some reason – I don’t know why – I made up the name of a non-existence place in Germany – Matternich – and gave my story that title. Amen.

 

December 31, 2022


Reflection 

 December 31, 2022


Thought for Today




"Form ever follows function."


Louis Henri Sullivan [1856-1924]

The Tall Office Building Artistically Considered 

From Lippincott's Magazine [March 1896]

Friday, December 30, 2022

 December 30,  2022


Reflection

 December 30, 2022


Thought for Today



"There are two tragedies in life.  One is to lose your heart's desire. The other is to gain it."


George Bernard Shaw [1856-1950]

Man and Superman [1903]

Thursday, December 29, 2022

 December 29, 2022


Reflection

December 29,  2022


Thought for Today





"Religion ... is a man's total reaction upon life."


William James [1842-1910]

The Varieties of Religious Experience

Lecture 2 

Wednesday, December 28, 2022

December 28, 2022


Reflections 

December 28, 2022




Thought for Today


"I myself believe that the evidence for God lies primarily in inner personal experiences."


William James [1842-1910]

Pragmatism  [1907]

Lecture 3 

Tuesday, December 27, 2022

 December 27,  2022


Reflection

December 27, 2022


Thought for Today




"I like the silent church before the service begins."


Ralph  Waldo Emerson [1802-1882]

Self Reliance  

Monday, December 26, 2022

December 26, 2022


Thought for Today 




"Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world, she walks into mine."


 Casablanca  [screeenplay] 1943, 

spoken by Humphrey bogart

 December 26, 2022


Reflection

 December 25, 2022


Reflection

 December 25, 2022





Thought for Today


"I know that nothing stranger

had ever happened.


Elizabeth Bishop

In the Waiting Room [1976]

Saturday, December 24, 2022

 December 24, 2022


Reflection

 December 24, 2022





Thought for Today


"We cannot tear out a single page of our life,  but we can throw the whole book in the fire."


George Sand 1804-1876]. 

Mauprat [1837]

Friday, December 23, 2022

 December 23,  2022


Reflection

 December 23, 2022


Thought for Today





"There lives more faith in honest doubt,

Believe me, than in half the creeds."


Alfred, Lord Tennyson



Thursday, December 22, 2022

December 22, 2022



Reflection 

 December 22, 2022


Thought for Today




                      "The great world's altar stairs,

That slope through darkness up  to God."


Alfred Lord Tennyson [1809-1892]

Wednesday, December 21, 2022

 December  21, 2022



Reflection

 December 21,  20222


Thought for Today



"I believe in the incomprehensibility of God."



Honore de Balzac [1799-1850]

Letter to Eveline Hanska [1837]



Tuesday, December 20, 2022

December 20,  2022


Reflection 

 December 20,  2022



Thought for Today


"Growth is the only evidence of life."


John Henry Cardinal Newman [1801-1890]    

Apologia pro Vitas Sua [1864]

Monday, December 19, 2022

 December 19, 2022


Reflection

 December 19, 2022


Thought for Today





"One is never satisfied with a portrait of a person that one knows."


Johann Wolfgang von Goethe  [1749-1832]

Elective Affinities [1808]

Book II, 2


Sunday, December 18, 2022

 December 18,  2022


Reflection

 December 18, 2022


Thought for Today




"There is always one moment in childhood when the door opens and lets the future in."


Graham Green [1904-1991]

The Power and the Glory [1940], ch. 1



Saturday, December 17, 2022

 ecember 17, 2022


Reflection

 December 17, 2022


Thought for Today




"People, people who need people

Are the luckiest people in the world."


Bob Merrill [1922-1998]

People [1963]



Friday, December 16, 2022

 December 16, 2022


Reflection

December 16.  2022


Thought for Today




"I slept and dreamed that life was beauty.                    I woke - and found life was duty."


Ellen Sturgis Hooper [1816-1841]

Beauty and Duty 

Thursday, December 15, 2022

 December 15, 2022


Reflection

December 15, 2022

Thought for Today




"The best headline I ever wrote contained eighteen words: At Sixty Miles an Hour the Loudest Noise in the New Rolls-Royce comes from the electric clock."

David Ogilvy  [1911-]
Confessions of an Advertising Man  [1963], chapter 6

Wednesday, December 14, 2022

 December 14,  2022


Reflection

 December  14,  2022


Thought for Today




"The struggle to reach the top is itself enough to fulfil the heart of man. One must believe that Sisyphus is happy."


Albert Camus [1913-1960]

The Myth of Sisyphus 

[Le Mythe de Sisyphus [1942]

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

 December 13, 2022




Thought for Today



"The attempt to force human beings to despise themselves ... is what I call hell."




Andre Malraux  [1901-1976]

La Condition Humaine, sec. 2



December 13, 2022


Reflection 

Monday, December 12, 2022

December 12, 2022


Reflection

 December 12,  2922


Thought for  Today





"If I'd known I was going to live this long, I'd have taken better care of myself." 


Eubie (James Herbert Wake [1883-1983]

Sunday, December 11, 2022

 December 11, 2022


Reflection

December 11, 2022


Thought for Today



"We never know, believe me. when we have succeeded best."

 Miguel de Unamuno [1864-1936]

Essays and Soliloquies

 

Saturday, December 10, 2022

 December 10,  2022


Reflection

 December 10, 2022


Thought for Today








Aristotle in his Politics, chapter 25, said, Sophocles said he  drew  men as they ought to be, and Euripides as they were."
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December 9,  2022


Reflection



HONOR  SHAME - SOCIETY


I first heard about Honor-Shame in Society in the Bruce Malina and Rossbach's books on the world of the Mediterranean Basin in the First Century, The term was "Honor Shame Society" or something like that.


It's now 8 to 10 years later and I still really do no understand it.


Jack Kingsbury just came back from a workshop he attended in Minnesota.  He said this topic came up. He said he now understands it. I said, "Well someday you have to explain it to me."


Well, let me try to do that right now for myself.


In a given village, people try to become the elite.  They want to have the better house, the better garden. They want to be the better family.


Some jobs have more prestige than other jobs. The mayor is higher than the garbage collector. The owner of the estate is better than servants at that estate.


Today a degree from Harvard is thought belter than a degree from Appalachian State or Anne Arundel Community College.


When asked, "Where are you going to go to college?" it sounds better if you say, "Princeton" than saying you're going to Delaware State College.


So some cars, salary, degrees, jobs, titles, are pushed as better than others.


That's honor.


Shame is the reverse.   "Oh I never did graduate from high school."


"Shame shame on you."


"I have a skin disease."


"My daughter had a baby out of wedlock."


"Shame shame on you."


"Throw stones at her."


"Jesus ate with sinners. He dined with them."


"That's a no, no.  You just don't do that."


In Philippians 2: 5-11 we hear that Jesus came to become one of us - but he took an even lower place. He became the servant of all.


Is that it?  Does that explain honor-shame in society?









December 9,  2022






Thought for Today

"Late on the third day, at the very moment when at sunset, we were making our way through a herd of hippopotamuses, there flashed upon my mind, unforseen and unsought, the phrase, 'Reverence for Life.'"




Albert Schweitzer [1875-1963]

Out of My Life and Thought [1949]

 December 8,  2022


Thought for Today



'Where love rules, there is no will to power; and where power predominates, there love is lacking.  The one is the shadow of the other."


Carl Gustav Jung [1873-1961]

From Psychological Reflections: A Jung Anthology [1953] 

page 87, vol 7, The Psychology of the Unconscious, [1943]

 December 7,  2022



Reflection



BEING EVANGELIZED BY THE POOR


For the last 30, 40, 50 years, I've been hearing the phrase, "Being evangelized by the poor."


For the last 15 to 20 years I've tried at times - not professionally - to understand what that phrase means - but I still don't.


The poor beggar ... the drug addict ... those who seem lost to me - I don't know how to learn from them or to figure out what they are saying?

At times I hear people saying we ought to bring Larry the Loser in to give us a talk "Put Homeless Harry in the pulpit."  I sense they don't understand what being taught by the poor means - so they joke about the whole idea.


I know that Jesus fed the poor and healed the rejected - and spent time with the non accepted.


I know that Jesus praised the lady who who donated her 2 coins to the poor - and Jesus said she gave more than all the rest.


I know we're not supposed to get caught up in the rat race for success - or money - or to be in first place, but ....


And at times I get to the conclusion that I am poor - stupid - and I need too admit I am poor.


When I see someone in the nursing  home dribbling, or moaning, and tied down - I don't ask  their economic status - just that they know the love of God and others for them.


I have to be open to them and aware of them and love them.


I am poor and don't know what to do - other than to love - while at the same time I can know what I am going through, but I have not heard the story - what others are going through.

 December 8, 2022


Reflection



REDEMPTION


You would think being a Redemptorist since 1960 - growing up in a Redemptorist parish - going to Redemptorist seminaries - hearing Redemptorist sermons on Redemption, I would know what Redemption means.


But here is is July 24, 2008 - still pondering  - Thursday after the feast of the Most Holy Redeemer - that I chose redemption as the final reflection in this book.


What is the heart of the matter when it comes to understanding redemption?


First answer: I am not God.


That means I have an end coming.


Will that mean that's the end of me?


If I want to get beyond death, that means I need a Redeemer.


I  need a Messiah, a Savior, God who can wake me up on the other side of death.  I need someone to take me across the sea of death. I need someone who will call to me with breakfast on the beach - in the morning of  Resurrection.


Up till my death I thought at times I could go it alone - without God, without religion, without others, but just like I needed parents to get started, I need someone greater than myself to start again after I end.


At 68 I faced the death question


At 58 I didn't face it as much.


At 48 I was more into the here and now.


At 38, it was all work.


At 20 Jesus did come to me - in prayer - late into many , many nights - in Esopus, New York, slowly and gradually. I was realizing Jesus was the one I could connect with - for life.


At some point in my early 20's, I heard St. Alphonsus' words, "The meaning of life, the whole ball of wax, is the practice of the love of Jesus Christ."


That was it.After that I needed to remember: "I know my Redmerlives."


The Redemptorists, besides St. Alphonsus, F.X. Durwell and Paul Hitz, helped me to get to know Jesus Christ.


Bottom line: I am not alone. I will not be alone forever.  Jesus will always be here, now and always with and waiting for me.

 December 7,  2022

Thought for Today


"A man lives not  only his personal life, as an individual, but also, consciously or unconsciously,  the life of his epoch and his contemporaries."


Thomas Mann [1875-1955]


The Magic Mountain
[1924]

Chapter 2




 December 6, 2022


Thought for Today




"Autobiographies ought to begin with Chapter Two."


Ellery Sedgwick [1872-1960]

The Happy Profession [1946] Chapter 1

 December 6, 2022


Reflection



MY WILL BE DONE


Is the most basic prayer these 4 words: "My will be done?"


The little baby does what it does: eats, poops, cries, smiles, wants, wants, wants.


It keeps reaching out.


I try to get the baby to smile. 


She just stares at me.


I do my little tricks.


There is no reaction - no reaching.  She looks elsewhere.  Then she yawns or yanks.


Then she looks elsewhere.


I get nowhere.


The teenager gets yelled at - warned - disciplined - pressured.


Still she won't budge.


We say behind her back, "Wow is she stubborn."  Or, "She has a will of her own."


The  young couple struggle - each wanting what they want - each give trade-offs - so as to get what they want.

 

Marriage is a covenant - the blending of wills - and wants- and needs.


Then somewhere along the line, we discover, we are not able to control the universe - life - others - drivers - our own children


Death - sickness - the teacher - the boss - traffic - a noisy neighbor - a pushy mother-in-law - a crafty fellow worker - a manipulator - whoever - wherever it happens - forces us to our knees - to the tightening of our fists - and jaw  and we have to mutter, "I'm not God, I guess I'm not in control."


Maybe we add, "Maybe you aren't either.


Like those rodeo horses, life is breaking me.


At some point I run into the reality of God and I say, "God you have a will of your own, don't you?"


At some  point, we finally realize I guess this is what it means to say, "Thy will be done."


[July 23, 2008]






 December 5, 2022


Thought for Today




"She was one of the people who say: 'I don't know anything about music really, but I know what I like,'"


Sir Max Beerbohm [1872-1956]

Zuleika Dobson [1911] Chapter 9



 December 5, 2022

 December 4, 2022




Thought for Today


"The greater the ignorance the greater the dogmatism."


Sir William Osler [1849-1919]  

Montreal Medical Journal [1902]

 December 4, 2022

Saturday, December 3, 2022

 December 3, 2022


Reflections

 December 3, 2022


Thought for Today



"Wherever they burn books they will also, in the end,  burn human beings."




Heinrich Heine [1797-1856]

Admansor: A Tragedy [1823]

Friday, December 2, 2022

 December 2, 2022


Reflections



TRANSFERENCE


How much does one transfer onto others - what one experiences - from another relationship?


What goes on in second marriages?


When we call God "Our Father" - how much are the ways and likeness of God -  the ways and likenesses of our dad?


When we see someone with a statoscope and a doctor's jacket, do we interact with them as we think we should interact with a doctor?


What about police, priests, Protestant ministers, judges, politicians, waiters, waitresses?


Counselors, psychologists, are taught about transference - to use it for the other person's benefit - not their hurt,  They are taught to try to be aware of what's going on in the present situation.


Or they use the word, "counter-transference" in this game as well.


Does Jesus get put on his shoulders all the anger, hate frustration, people have with God, with people who are seen as Goody Two Shoes, etc.


Why do people rejoice with the good guy, the Holy Man, when they step on or slip on the banana peel.


 December 2, 2022


Thought for Today




"The cruelest lies are often told in silence."


Rovert Louis Stevenson [1850-1894]

Virginibus Puerisque [1881]

Truth of Intersession, 4




Thursday, December 1, 2022

 December 1, 2022


Reflection




PARENTS


When it comes to parents and parenting, I have a lot of questions.


My




 December 1, 2022


Thought for Today




"Every man's work, whether it be literature or music or pictures  or architecture or anything else, is always a portrait of himself."


Samuel Butler [1835-1902]

The Way of all Flesh [1903] ch, 14

Wednesday, November 30, 2022

 




ANDREW


I prefer the story of Andrew in the Gospel of John to the story of Andrew in the other gospels.


In John - Andrew is standing there with this other guy and Jesus walks by.  John the Baptist says, "Look! There is the Lamb of God!"


The two heard this and follow after Jesus.


Jesus turns around and asks, "What are you looking for?"


They answer, "Rabbi where do you stay."


Jesus says, "Come and see."


So they went and stayed with Jesus. 


It was about 4 in the afternoon.


They experienced Jesus.


Andrew goes and finds his brother and says, "We have found the Messiah - the Anointed One."


He brings his brother Peter to Jesus - who looks at him and says, "You are Simon. Son of John. Your name shall be Cephas - which means Peter."


In Luke Jesus stands there at the Sea of Galilee - with a big crowd - spots Peter in his boat and says, "Launch out into the deep waters and lower your nets for a catch."


The carpenter is telling the fisherman what to do.


Peter says to the stranger, "Master we have been fishing all night long and caught nothing - but if that's what you want, okay!"


Their nets were full. They were almost breaking. They called to their buddies who came in another boat - and both boats were filled."


At this Peter fell at the knees of Jesus and said, "Leave me alone Jesus. I am a sinful man."


Jesus says, "Don't be afraid Simon. From now on you'll be catching men."


With that they brought their boats to land - left everything - and became his followers.


Mark simplifies the story even more.  Jesus just walks along the shore and calls Peter and Andrew.  Then  he proceeds a short distance and calls two more brothers, James and John.


And all 4 follow Jesus.


Matthew tells the story - almost the same as Mark.


As I said, "I like John's version the best." 


It's probably because my name is Andrew -but I also  like the way Andrew discovers Jesus and then goes and tells his brother about Jesus.


Neat.  May all those who meet Jesus tell their brothers and sisters about him. 




 November 30, 2022


Reflection



ANGER


Anger begets anger.


Rage begets rage.


Frustration begets frustration.


Loud begets loud.


Yelling begets yelling.


Tension begets tension.


She came up to me and pointed her finger at me and said, "You can tell the pastor I'm furious at him for having a 12:10 Mass  this Firsts Friday.





 November 30, 2022


Thought for Today



"What is life? It is the flash of a firefly in the night. It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime. It is the little shadow which runs across the grass and loses itself in the sunset."


Crowfooot [1821-1890]

Last words [1890]

Tuesday, November 29, 2022

 November 29, 2022


Reflection



HOW  I


How I look?

How I think?

How I feel?

How I am?

How I listen?

How I speak?

How I appear?

How I act?

How I reach?

How I approach?

How I eat?

How I spend my time?

How I spend my money?

How I treat strangers?

How I pray?

How I interact?

How I sleep?

How I see the poor?

How I see the rich?

How I treat the poor?

How I treat the rich?

How I treat the environment?

How I drive/

How I dance?

How I sing?

How I win?

How I deal with loss?

How I deal with vacation?

How I spend my Sundays?

How I answer, "How to" questions?


 November 29, 2022


Thought for Today



"Lafayette, we are here."


Charles E. Stanton

Address at the tomb of Lafayette, 

Picpus Cemetery, Paris, [July 4, 1917]

"The remark has also been attributed to 

General John Joseph Pershing [18601948]; 

in My Experiences in the World War [1931]. 

Pershing denied having said  'anything so splendid.'"

Monday, November 28, 2022

 November 28, 2022


Reflection



ESCAPES


I watched a movie last night.


The title was Wetherby - a 1985 British film. 


The  only actresses or actors in it that I recognized were Vanessa Redgrave and Judy Dench.


The last scene in the movie took place in a bar [Cf. video above]. It's a British pub or restaurant. A guy is sitting at a wall seat. A little table is in front of him. Jean Travers - a schoolteacher - played by Vanessa Redgrave - is sitting next to him at the same table. Both are facing out from a wall.


A waitress is pouring wine. She's younger - much younger than Vanessa. He is looking at her - but it seems like he is thinking about something else.


Vanessa asks the man how his wife is doing. There is small talk.  


The movie is about loneliness - and small talk - and faking it - and the decisions we all make. It's about hurt and confusion and trying to figure out another's motives.


The plot centers around John Morgan -  a character who commits suicide - by shooting himself in front of Jean Travers. The police are investigating the why.


This meeting with the man who kills himself triggers all kind of memories in Jean [Vanessa Redgrave.]


Vanessa is living a life with the experience of the man she loved.  He had gone off to Mandalay for 7 years.  They went to get married when he gets back or was it if he can get an apartment there for them?


He is killed - when a buddy of his and he go to a place to gamble.   His throat is slit. You see the plane flying the body home.


The police detectives send a young girl - who was connected to John Morgan - but snubbed him - to see Vanessa who is an odd duck. The detectives are  trying to figure out the dynamics of what happened.


The line in the movie that grabbed me was right at the end when they toast each other and the guy says, "To all our escapes."


I wondered: What are mine?

 November  28. 2022


Thought for Today



"God Almighty first planted a garden."


Francis Bacon [1561-1626]

Of Gardens

Sunday, November 27, 2022

November 27, 2022

Reflections



PROCRASTINATION


I put off what I don't like to do.


I put off what I don't really know how to do something  - usually.


I put off what I feel I'm being forced or manipulated to do.


I put off what I feel will hurt another - or trap another somewhere down the line.


I put off hard work because I'm lazy and I like my time and comfort.  Sorry if I caused you inconvenience.


I put off the big stuff.


I put off the little stuff


I put off a lot of stuff.


I put off having to tell someone "bad news" - so they can't do something the church won't allow - at present - or I'd like to be able to do it - but I just can't do it.


I put of making the decision or the practice of eating better.


I put off doing things - that if I did them - I wouldn't really know what I'm doing.


I put off doing difficult things.


I put off doing things for people whom I feel are simply using me.


I don't like  to address my procrastination habits.




 November 27, 2022


Thought for Today



"Philosophy is written in this grand book - I mean the universe - which stands continually open to our gaze, but it cannot be understood unless one first learns to comprehend the language and interpret the characters in which it is written. It is written in the language of mathematics, and its characters are triangles, circles, and other geometric figures, without which it is humanly impossible to understand a single word of it; without these, one is wandering about in a dark labyrinth."

Galileo Galilei [1564-1642]

Il Saggiatore [1643]

The Asssayer in The Controversy on the Comets of 1618 [1960], 

translated by Stillman Darke and C.D. O'Malley.


Friday, November 18, 2022

 November 26, 2022 


Reflection



COMPLAINTS   BEGET  COMPLAINTS


Yesterday was June 19, 2008.


We were a parish get together.


A lady read a section from the book The Marian Movement for Priests.  It was by a priest named Father Gobbi. Thousands and thousands were sent through the mail.  


It was fine - in my opinion - till he started to complain about sacrilegious communions.


The reader  finished.


Someone asked, "Any comments?"


A series of comments - complaints were voiced by different ladies at this meeting of this Parish Group. 


We were at Hank and Mary Lee's place.


First comment: "There are people who go to communion who are not Catholics."


Next comment: "There are people who go to communion who have no clue where they are."


"There is a priest in Georgetown who invites everyone to communion."


"There was a little kid who received communion - or went up and took communion and was walking away with the communion in the palm of his hand - and someone said to him, 'You have to eat it.'"


After a series of comments and complaints they asked  my thoughts about all this.


I paused and thought inwardly, "I'm not going here or there."


I said, "There are rules and regulations - guidelines - in the Missalette."


Afterwards - I'm an afterwards thinker - I got thinking, "This is not my experience in giving out communion."


There are pickers - picking communion right out of your hand - definitely different than those who receive Jesus in the palm of their hand - as if in a throne.


There are those who we joke about behind their back: "A few people who made their First Communion today. That might be at a wedding or a funeral."


Sorry to those who want rules announced right before communion!


It's my experience and desire to show respect, sacredness, calm - when receiving the Body of Christ - and I like to pray to and at every person receiving, "The Body of Christ!"


It hit me driving home from that meeting yesterday: Complaints beget complaints. Gripes beget gripes. Negativity brings forth negativity. Niceness begets niceness.


I'm glad I went where I went when I went there.








 November 26,  2022


Saturday Thought for Today




"When you send a clerk on business to  a distant  province, a man of rigid morals is not your best choice."


Ihara Saikaku  (1642-1693)

The Japanese Family Storehouse;

or Millionaires' Gospel, bk. II, chapter 5

 November 25, 2022


Reflection



SPEAKING IN TONGUES


I have been asked at various times about "Speaking in Tongues."


I usually pause when I hear this question.


I hesitate.


I don't use my tongue in answering some questions too quickly.


I wonder if the person asking about speaking in tongues is puzzled about this phenomenon - or whether they think it's funny - weird - crazy - or what have you.


Or maybe the person asking this thinks they have the gift or want this gift or someone they know has this gift.


Maybe they want me to try to praise God for what has happened.


Keep still my tongue.


When I hear about speaking in tongues - two personal experiences- show up in my memory.


The first happened years ago in a Bible Study Week in Mundelein Seminary - that I was at just outside of Chicago. One of the main speakers was Father Joseph Fitzmyer, a world famous expert on the Bible.  He was asked in a Q. and A. session about speaking and praying in tongues.


I didn't tape him - or what have you - but he didn't think what was going on here and there in the church back then - was what was happening today. He was that direct.  He simply said he didn't see what was happening in the Acts of the Apostles to be the same as what was happening in different charismatic groups and individuals today


He was not loud, but to me he was definitive.


The second experience happened in Long Island. Someone invited two of us to a prayer experience.  Someone started speaking in a language that I didn't get.  It was taped.  Then there was a short break. 


Then a man with a tape recorder played that speaking in tongues. He hit the stop button. Then he said, "The Holy Spirit is saying, 'So and so should break up with his wife and move on.'"


I thought to myself, "No way! Let's get out of here!"


We said nothing - but left as soon as this was over.


Surprise.


This morning I'm reading in the Prayer of Christians something from a sermon by St. Anthony of Padua. It went this way, "The man who is filled with the Holy Spirit speaks in different languages. These different  languages are different ways of witnessing to Christ, such as humility, poverty,  patience and obedience;  we speak in those languages  when we reveal in ourselves these virtues to others. Actions speak louder than words - let you words teach and your actions speak.[Page 1470, Volume III.]