Thursday, February 5, 2015

February 5, 2015


SAVE  THE  DATE

We get them from time:
a “Save The Date” notice.
It’s usually an announcement
for an upcoming wedding.

The more we talk to people
the more we discover we all
have several dates we save –
saved joyfully with love and memory.

But then there are the dates we save -
sorrowfully with tears and stabs
in the heart, jabs of hurt and pain.
These are the dates on which 
we lost  a child or a spouse, 
a mom or a dad, brother or sister.
We can’t plan them, we can only 
endure them circled on the calendar, 
like a crucifix, on the wall of our mind.



© Andy Costello, Reflections on the Bay 2015

1 comment:

Mary joan said...

Amen .