Sunday, November 21, 2010


CHRIST THE KING:

JUST A SHORT VISIT


[Instead of a regular homily for this Feast of Christ the King, yesterday I decided to write a story homily. Sometimes I do this as a change of pace – especially when I have written a dozen or two homilies on a feast. I also like to do this every once and a while, because I’m interested in hearing the story myself – to see where my imagination will take me – if I put something old with something new or something different – putting things together that weren’t together before. So here goes, a story entitled, “Christ the King: Just a Short Visit.” Hopefully, this will touch on a few key reminders or issues for this feast – and not just be something cute or all fluff and no stuff.]

Once upon a thought in eternity, I can’t say, “Once upon a time” as most stories begin, because eternity is outside of time, Christ decided to pay a visit to some place in the world.

It was not to be the End of the World visit – with earthquakes and eruptions – disruptions and death shrieks – the one they thought was going to happen in the First Century in the time of the Early Church.

And obviously, it couldn’t be like the first visit – the Christmas story – being born in a stable – with Mary and Joseph, animals, angels, shepherds and Wise Men.

No, it would be just a change of pace visit by Jesus to get away from the regular ongoing stuff in eternity. Seeing the pope and presidents making visits here and there probably triggered this thought in Jesus.

But where to go? He didn’t know.

So he asked various people up in heaven, “Where would be the best place on earth for me to visit?”

Answers and reasons, suggestions and possibilities, were many: Moscow, Beijing, China, Mumbai, India, Seoul, Korea, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, London, Boston, Los Angeles, Mexico City, Rio de Janeiro, were suggested – all big cities, all big crowds.

Others suggested beautiful places like the Amalfi Coast, the Alps, Machu Picchu, the Blue Ridge Mountains or Tahiti.

He considered all – pluses and minuses – and he decided on a place where there would be people – but in a smaller type city.

After a bit more consideration, he picked Annapolis, Maryland – of all places. Surprise. And wow was the Mayor of Annapolis surprised when he got a call. He couldn’t believe it – but as he heard Jesus give the details – he believed it.

Jesus said that he didn’t need any police protection or barriers or all that. So there would be no cost to the taxpayers, etc. etc. etc. Jesus said he would just quietly walk around town – sort of in secret – maybe walk through the Naval Academy, St. John’s College – see the Harbor, Ego Alley, the Marketplace, the restaurants, the red bricks, lots of red bricks, maybe walk over the Eastport Bridge or check out Bay Ridge or Quiet Waters Park. The Mayor told him about the Eastport Bridge going up or down on the half hour – but it’s not that long a delay.

And Jesus gave him a time and a date and that this time he wouldn’t be on a donkey or anything like that. No processions or marching. Just a meandering around town – incognito. That was it. That was all.

Well, the next morning the Mayor met with his council and told them about the call from Jesus and he convinced them that this was going to happen on the day Jesus told him, the last Sunday in November, November 28, 2010 – just 6 days away.

Well, this was news. Right after the council meeting, someone immediately called The Capital and The Capital put the story on page 1 that afternoon. There wasn’t too much happening in Annapolis that day.

Well, within 2 hours the story went around the world – and then back again – which caused some anxiety and agita and “Uh oh’s!”

Tickets on all airplanes on all airlines to BWI were gobbled up in 4 hours. Hotel space in Annapolis, Baltimore, Washington were taken in 5 hours. People in Annapolis, who hadn’t heard from certain relatives and family members in years got calls – wondering if they had extra space for a visit next weekend – the weekend after Thanksgiving Day.

Jesus wasn’t planning on causing disruption on a massive scale – the kind that might happen when he makes his end of the world visit. However, this one started looking like it was going to be one big traffic jam, one big massive arrival of people from all over the world to tiny little Annapolis, Maryland.

And that’s what somewhat happened that weekend leading up to Sunday, November 28, 2010.

The parking lot at St. Mary’s was packed – not by people going to the various Masses – but by people in campers and RV’s who had arrived by Thursday. By Friday it was difficult to move around or to come in or out of Annapolis – a lot more than it is on some Fridays and Saturdays and Sundays.

Restaurants, stores, food, everything was sold out by Friday – and shipments of more food and drink and stuff had trouble, lots of trouble, getting into town. T-shirts were gobbled up by Saturday – especially a T-Shirt that said on the back, “I Saw Jesus in Annapolis, Maryland and he almost touched the edge of this T-shirt.”

The different pastors and churches in the Annapolis area wondered if Jesus would by any chance go to their church that Sunday. The pastor of St. Mary’s obviously figured Jesus would go to the Catholic Church – and collections would be booming. The pastors in the other Christian Churches had the same thought. All pastors must think alike.

The Mayor and the police got very nervous, because they realized if someone announced that Jesus was walking around on West Street or he was down by the Alex Haley statue near the harbor, people might push and shove and crush each other – in their attempt to see Jesus.

TV cameras – reporters – famous people – knowns and unknowns were to be seen everywhere.

Well, around 7 o’clock on Sunday Morning, November 28, 2010, Jesus was sitting there in Chick and Ruth’s Delicatessen on Main Street in Annapolis, Maryland, in a jacket that had no messages on it. He was warned that if he wore a Ravens’ or a Redskins’ jacket or jersey or shirt, it would cause a distraction or possible division – but Jesus said, “Wouldn’t it be a good disguise? I just want a simple visit.” So there he was a plain jacket, tan trousers and Annapolis deck shoes.

He just sat there and listened to people. Everyone was giving their take on Jesus – what he would look like – where he would appear in Annapolis – and all that. The waitress thought he was a great customer – treating her with a few person to person comments – and chit chat – not interrupting her – but finding out her name. It was Martha. He found out how much she makes an hour and how much she makes on tips – and who was who in her family – and surprise their chit chat went rather fast. She had work to do and lots of customers to serve. At first Jesus didn’t get what “Hon” meant.

He started talking to an old man at a table next to his. His name was Nick. He too, like Jesus, was also sitting by himself – there in Chick and Ruth’s. In about two minutes, the man said, “Mind if I sit with you?”

Jesus said, “Sure!”

The restaurant was crowded – but there was still some room, because even at 7 AM in the morning, the crowds were out in the streets hoping to see Jesus.

The man asked Jesus if he was from around here and if he came to see Jesus and Jesus said, “I am he.”

At that the man gasped and gulped and almost spilled his coffee – but at that, the man also realized in a moment, that yes, this was Jesus. And the two of them began talking about life and this man’s life in particular.

This man, Nick, was to tell people for the rest of his life, “I met Jesus Christ in Chick and Ruth’s Delly that day” but for the rest of his life, nobody believed him. But it didn’t make any difference to the man. He knew.

And that’s what Jesus did that day. He met people.

He met 12 people one to one that Sunday. Jesus still loved one to one meetings.

He also dropped into 7 homes and met 2 couples whose children were grown and gone. The other 5 had families still at home. He also dropped in on two families who were in trailers in Saint Mary’s parking lot. One trailer was from South Carolina and the other was from West Virginia. He also worked his way through the crowd and could see wonder and hope in people’s faces.

Nobody recognized him. He was a blur in a crowd. That is till Jesus stopped and talked to a person.

As he walked around Jesus realized he still loved to see the birds of the sky – not all had flown south – as well as flowers in people’s gardens. Leaves – well November leaves in Annapolis – were everywhere. This was a new experience for him. He wondered, “There’s a parable in these leaves. There’s a parable here in these leaves. What is it? What is it?”

Afterwards back in heaven when he pondered about his day in Annapolis, Maryland, he thought that the people seemed pretty much like the people in his day – when he grew up in Nazareth and moved to Capernaum – and then walked the streets and roads of Israel. Once more he talked about loving God, Our Father, and one’s neighbor with all one’s heart, soul and strength. Once more he saw poor people others were not seeing. Once more he visited a few sick people and blessed them.

That Sunday afternoon around 4 PM - before he headed back to heaven, Jesus found the Mayor of Annapolis downtown near the Christmas tree and came up and asked him, “Can I talk to you?”

The mayor – frustrated that Jesus didn’t seem to appear in Annapolis as promised – or to walk around town – was shocked when Jesus introduced himself.

Jesus began, “Mayor forgive me, for I didn’t know what I was doing. The next time I pick a city, there will be no announcements. I’ll just do what I did all day today – walk around and walk into people’s lives. I’m sorry for all the obvious inconvenience I caused – all the traffic jams – all the frustrated anticipations – all these people disappointed. The same thing happened off and on 2,000 years ago – when I did this the first time – but I forgot and I realize this is different.”

The mayor was stunned – silent – surprised – out of his voice – hearing what Jesus was voicing – and not knowing what to say back to Jesus.

Then the Mayor spotted a Discover Annapolis Tours trolley bus and said to Jesus, “Would you be willing to get in there and just ride up Main Street and then go up West Street and wave to everybody? I’m sure that would ease some of the frustration – if you just waved as we just drove you through town.”

Jesus said, “Gladly!”

And that’s what Jesus did.

People on both sides of Main Street came to a standstill as the bus went up Main Street and then West Street and then back down West Street to Church Circle and then down Duke of Gloucester and across the bridge to Eastport. Jesus like a waving pope or politician was waving to everyone. People couldn’t believe it: this is Jesus in tan pants and a simple jacket – and a T-shirt without any writing on it. Some thought what a missed opportunity.

Some believed that it was Jesus; some didn’t.

Jesus said a few times to the Mayor as he was waving to the crowds, “I really don’t like doing this. I still prefer one to one meetings with people. The last time I did the crowd scene I was on a donkey. It was Palm Sunday and everyone was cheering and by Friday they were screaming, “Crucify. Crucify him! Moments like this bring back memories, you know.”

The Mayor wasn’t hearing any of this – just going, “Phew! This might save the day – all these people spending all this money to come to Annapolis to see Jesus – and now they are finally seeing him.”

Later on the Mayor was to tell the city council, “There were more people in Annapolis that Sunday than there were in 100 Boat Shows combined and we’re now on the map even more. Thank You, Jesus, thank You.”

It took a couple of weeks before things got back to normal – and besides that it was December and people were getting ready for Christmas - the first coming of Jesus.

Without knowing it, that Christmas was to be a very different Christmas for some folks in Annapolis. Folks that Christmas began wondering about the impact of Jesus on his first visit to Earth – and some began reading the Gospels with that in mind – comparing the stories of people in gospels with folks from around town who had met Jesus one to one that Sunday in Chick and Ruth’s and here and there around Annapolis – before his bus ride that Sunday afternoon.

And Jesus like this story, wasn’t sure what should come next. He thought, “Maybe next time I’ll go to Palermo in Sicily. I always wanted to try out my Italian. But this time I won’t give any warnings. I’ll just as I read on a T-Shirt someone in Annapolis was wearing, “Nike. Just do it.”

WHAT'S THE WORST 
THING THAT 
COULD HAPPEN TO YOU?



Quote for Today - November 21,  2010



"Egyptian Proverb: The worst things:

To be in bed and sleep not,
to want for one who comes not.
To try to please and please not."



Francis Scott Fitzgerald [1896-1940], Notebooks

Picture on top: Mount Vesuvius - mostly dormant.

Saturday, November 20, 2010

IMPATIENCE 
AND LAZINESS





Quote for the Day - November 20, 2010


"There are two cardinal sins from which all the others spring: impatience and laziness."


Franz Kafka [1884-1924], Letters, Quoted in Max Brod.

Friday, November 19, 2010

TWO KNOW
MORE THAN ONE






Quote for Today November 18, 2010


"The pope and a peasant know more than the pope alone."

Old Italian Saying

Thursday, November 18, 2010


BOTH THE POPE 
AND THE SACRISTAN
DIED.




Quote for Today - November 18, 2010



"The corpse of the pope takes up no more ground than the sacristan's."


Miguel de Cervantes [1547-1616] in Don Quixote de La Mancha [1605-1615]



Tomb of Pope Gregory the Great

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

DON'T   TELL 
ME WHAT YOU 
THINK!
SHOW ME!




Quote for Today - November 17, 2010


"We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions."


Isaac Bashevis Singer [1904-1991], in Issac Bashevis Singer Talks ... About Everything, interview with Richard Burgin in the New York Times Magazine - November26, 1978

Tuesday, November 16, 2010


THE REAL PRESENCE
OF THE LITTLE GUY

AND THE LITTLE GAL


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 33 Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “The Real Presence of the Little Guy and The Little Gal.”

We had today’s gospel – Luke’s story of Zaccheus – just a few Sunday’s back – and I don’t remember what I preached on.

Last night when I read this gospel story – the story of Jesus spotting the little guy, Zaccheus, up in the tree – the thought that hit me was Jesus’ awareness of being in the presence of people other people didn’t notice.

He spots Zaccheus up a tree and he invites himself into Zaccheus’ life and home. Then some complain that Jesus’ stays at the house of a sinner.

If there is one thing Luke tells us about Jesus – it’s his uncanny ability to spot people – especially the Little Guy – as well as the Little Gal.

He felt the touch of the woman in the crowd who had blood hemorrhaging problems for 12 years when she touched the hem of his garment in chapter 8.

He begins with the call of the unknown young woman in the tiny hamlet of Nazareth: Mary. In the Magnificat she describes herself as "God's lowly handmaid."

He talks about shepherds as the first to see the new born baby in the stable when Jesus was born. There is no mention of the Magi – that was Matthew. Then he talks about the old man and the old woman in the temple: Simeon and Anna.

His first disciples are fishermen. He reaches out to the blind and those with leprosy. He heals the Centurion’s servant and the widow of Nain’s son.

This is vintage Luke – aware of the Little Guy and the Little Gal.

THE CATHOLIC CHURCH

This is the Catholic Church – hopefully always aware of the little guy and the little gal. We are a mass of people – all around the world – most of us: The Great Unknown.

Last night I was down at Holy Family in Davidsonville – where a mission is going on. I got there for the sermon before hearing confessions. I enjoyed it because I had the chance to sit in the back and be the little guy and be part of the crowd.

During his sermon, the speaker didn’t seem to mind it when people were getting up – heading for the bathroom or somewhere else and then coming back – little people, kids, and men and women. Up and down, up and down, back and forth, back and forth.

This is vintage Church – to be in the presence of the whole human family – crying babies and old men with having to go to the bathroom problems – or maybe answer cell phone calls for this or that.

I know some priests and some people don’t like crying babies. I always like to tell the story of a baptism of little baby who was born and then died after about an hour at Ann Arundel Medical Center on an early Sunday morning. I got the phone call around 5:30 A.M. The parents of the baby were a couple were here from Western Canada – because the guy was trying out for the Capitals. I left the hospital around 7:15 because I had the 7:30 at St. John Neumann. During Mass I asked if anyone had a baby, please pinch your kid and get him or her to cry – because I was just with a baby that never got a chance to cry.

Or I love a drawing by Rembrandt that I saw – where Jesus is preaching – and this little kid is playing on the floor with some toys – totally oblivious to Jesus – who is up front preaching. It was real. Rembrandt was aware of the real presence of little children on the floor in churches or crowds.

I like to look at faces of folks paintings. I think the paintings by Brueghel are wonderful for this.

Or I like to look at the faces of the background folks in Stations of the Cross. These images of background people – like all the people in the background of our every day. I assume that Jesus was really present to them. He heard the women who are crying in the 8th station and says to them, “Weep not for me but for your children.” What were those soldiers in the 11th Station thinking who nailed his hands to a cross? Were they aware of a person – or was this just a job – a job they had done too many times – and no longer saw a person?

What do toll collectors on the Bay Bridge going east think about all day? I always like to try to make that moment of moment of “Hello! How’s it going today?”

Every day is a day to meet everyday people.

Fascinating – and I hope that all of us who come here to Mass on a daily basis and experience the real presence – the body of Christ in communion – will be really present to the whole body of Christ every day. I pray that all of us who pray to Jesus in the Real Presence in Eucharistic Adoration – that we don’t just see the presence of Jesus in the bread but in the whole body of Christ around this round Eucharistic world.

CONCLUSION

If the real presence of Jesus does not get us to be really present to each other, then we will not spot the little guy and the little guy – people who feel like they are stuck up a tree without a paddle.

We haven’t heard Jesus knocking on our door as we heard in today’s first reading from Revelation [Revelation 3:20].

We haven’t even gotten to the First Station of the Cross yet.

We’re not in communion with the great Mass of humanity yet.

We’re still locked in the upper room – filled with fear or shame – and the Holy Spirit and the Risen Christ has not come through our closed doors and windows yet.

We haven’t hit the road yet with the Risen Lord.

We haven’t heard what Paul discovered on the road to Damascus: The Body of Christ is us. Amen.
THE GREAT TEMPTATION, 
THE GREAT SORROW 




Quote for the Day - November 16, 2010

"Some day, in years to come,
you will be wrestling
with the great temptation,
or trembling
under the great sorrow of your life.
But the real struggle is here,
now in these quiet weeks."


Phillips Brooks [1835-1893], Perennials

OOOOO

Questions:

What has been the great temptation or trembling of your life?

What has been the great sorrow of your life?

Where do you find quiet?

Who helps you with the great sorrows, tremblings and temptations of  your life?

Monday, November 15, 2010


WHAT DO YOU WANT ME
TO DO FOR YOU?


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 33 Monday in Ordinary Time is, “What Do You Want Me To Do For You?”

TWO KINDS OF PEOPLE

There are two kinds of people: those who go into a store and love it when a salesperson comes over to them and asks, “What can I do for you?” and then there are those who go into a store and hate it when someone comes over and asks, “What can I do for you?”

There are two kinds of people: those who go through life and love it when they spot people who can teach them something or from whom they can benefit or pick their brains and those who like to learn everything on their own.

I can make these statements because I don’t like it when salespeople come over and ask, “Can I help you?” I tend to try to do and pick up things on my own.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel a blind man wants help. He's the first type of person. He hears a crowd going by him and he asks, “What’s happening? What’s going on?” [Cf. Luke 18:35-43]

And someone yells to him, “Jesus of Nazareth is passing by!”

So the blind man starts yelling, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.”

The people walking by tell him to shut up – to stop yelling, but he yells even louder, “Son of David, have pity on me.”

Jesus hears him. Jesus stops and says, “Bring him to me.”

As the blind man got closer Jesus says, “What do you want me to do for you?”

He said loudly and clearly, “Lord, please let me see?”

And Jesus says, “Have sight; your faith has saved you.”

And today’s gospel text from Luke says, “He immediately received his sight and followed Jesus – giving glory to God.”

And today’s gospel ends, “When the people saw this, they gave praise to God.”

10 EXAMPLES OF BLINDNESS

Let me give 10 basic examples of blindness. I'm keeping in mind that you are in high school.

1) A teacher expects a brother or sister of a student he or she had two years ago to be exactly like their brother or sister.

2) A mom is always complaining about other drivers – including her husband’s driving. “You’re too close to the car in front of you. Slow down!” “You’re too close to the center!” “You’re too close to the shoulder!”– and her kids laugh and talk about her behind her back – because they consider her a worse driver than their dad.

3) Someone never plastic bagged their dog droppings – every morning, every evening, when they took their dog out to do his duty – that is till the morning came and they stepped in dog gifts from some other dog – in their brand new Nike foot coverings.

4) A LAX player doesn’t start – jumps to another high school – doesn’t start – jumps to another high school and doesn’t start – and bad mouths all three schools – goes to college – and the same thing happens when he tries to make the soccer team – he does the same thing on his first, second and third job – with regards promotions – and he screams all his life about favoritism – and he never looks in the mirror. As a result he never sees himself.

5) A parent is in a car with 2 kids and his wife – and they are coming out of the Macaroni Grill parking lot and dad scrapes another car and the father speeds up his car which is in reverse. Then he shoots out of there – yelling and screaming that the driver of the car he scraped doesn’t know how to park – and a kid in the back seat sees that the other car was parked perfectly – and he says nothing – because he’s seen his dad do the same thing – in many other circumstances.

6) A kid doesn’t study – doesn’t do his homework – and doesn’t make the National Honor Society and his sister sees all this and hears him tell his parents that the teachers are out to get him.

7) A girl flirts with a guy – tempts him – excites him – loves to bump into him - dumps him and then brags to the other girls that he’s a chump – and an easy target.

8) A guy does the same thing with a girl – and then tells the other guys what a dimbo she is.

9) This kid could always find the exact button – the exact nerve – to push – in others – whatever it is. It might be that the other kid is too short or too tall – or too skinny or too fat. It might be that the other kid dropped the key pass or allowed the key goal in a big game. All changed when a new school year started. There was this new kid who was better than he was on picking on others – and he got picked upon for his nose and then his acne – and then his walk and he didn’t know why he hated this new kid – but two kids in his class could see that he was looking in the mirror and seeing himself without knowing himself – because he was all steam.

10) A person every time they walk into a room – takes over the conversation – immediately – and centers it on themselves - and they never noticed that other people walk into a room – remain quiet – and listen to what the current conversation was about.

MOVING INTO SELF – LOOKING IN THE MIRROR

We all have blind spots. We see the blind spots in others – and often are blind to our own – but sometimes others see our blind spots – the ones we don’t see.

A person hears this sermon and they see they are #4 or #10 or some other number when it comes to being blind and they scream inwardly to Jesus, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.”

And Jesus seems to do nothing – so their prayer, their inward scream becomes even louder, “Jesus, Son of David, have pity on me.”

And Jesus says, “What do you want me to do for you?”

And the person says, “Lord, please let me see.”

CONCLUSION

And Jesus gives that person one insight.

Then they get another insight a year from now.

Then they get another insight two years from now – then another good one after they finish college and they are at their first job.

And life goes on and this person’s family and friends know that this person is one insightful dude or duchess – and they love being with him or her – because he’s wise but he’s still learning.



[This homily was for our St. Mary's high school today - Nov. 15, 2010.]
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Quote for Today - November 15, 2010


"A pebble and a diamond are alike to a blind man."


Anonymous

Sunday, November 14, 2010


GIVING A VOICE
TO THE OBSERVANT SELF


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Giving A Voice To The Observant Self.”

LAST EVENING

Last evening I was giving a talk on the Mass to about 40 Middies from the Naval Academy. They were making a weekend retreat at Camp Letts down in Edgewater – at the YMCA camp there. There were some Catholics and some who were in the RCIA program to become Catholics.

In an informal Question and Answer period after my talk a young man voiced a question, “How do priests or preachers come up with what they are going to talk about?”

Now that's a regular question that folks ask. I answered that I spoke about the Mass this evening because that was the topic one of you called up and gave me. On Sundays, I read the readings, say a prayer, see what they are challenging me with – and then I begin to try to come up with possible themes or ideas. Then I think about them. Sometimes I say to myself, “No, that won’t fly.” Or, “That’s not practical.” Then I might pray another, “Come Holy Spirit.” Then I hope for a practical possible homily theme.

Then he followed up with another question on the same question, so I was missing something.

Afterwards, only afterwards, while driving back here to St. Mary’s – to get to the auction – and make an appearance there – I was thinking, “What was that young man asking?” Then I said to myself, “You should have used your old line, “Are you asking [or saying] what you are asking [or saying] or are you asking [or saying] something else?”

This talking to myself and listening and becoming aware of what I talking to myself about is, “Giving A Voice to My Observant Self.”

If I began really listening to this young man, I might have found out that this guy was saying, “Sermons don’t grab me. You guys are not being practical or helpful. You are not helping me in my life with God and as a young person at the Naval Academy.” Or, “I go to Mass – but I wonder how this priest got this out of this.”

Unfortunately, I didn’t find out - because I didn't figure this out till afterwards.

But I did say that a guy named Greg Pierce out in Chicago told us priests: “I check homilies and spiritual reading books and articles and very few talk about the two main areas where most people spend most of their lives: work and relationships.”

I would add “sleep” – and that sometimes happens during a homily.

GIVING A VOICE TO MY OBSERVANT SELF

The title of my homily is, “Giving A Voice To My Observant Self.”

A voice ….

Finding one’s voice….

A little child starts to get their voice – screaming, laughing, crying, pointing, banging a spoon. Sometimes it’s cute; sometimes it’s not – especially at 2 AM.

But we want a child to talk: “Ma Ma, Da Da, dog, cat, meow.”

In high school sometimes some kid says something out of the blue in class and all the other kids are amazed that this kid who always seemed to be in the clouds or was drawing in his text books or was in Zombie Land – had a profound thought.

Now that kid might have been thinking all along about what he or she was observing – and this might have been the first time they voiced their observations out loud in school – or it might have been the first time they voiced an observation out loud and they observed their own observation.

Finding one’s voice … especially in afterthoughts.

Using that phrase, “finding one’s voice,” is something we say of singers, writers, preachers, public speakers, teachers, etc. etc. etc.

Have you found your voice yet?

Have you voiced your voice to yourself yet?

Have you spoken out yet with your voice?

Do you know your values, your comforts, what makes you angry, what makes you sad, what you love, and what you hate?

Can you voice them?

N. P. R. RADIO

So last evening while driving back here to St. Mary's, I observed my thoughts and voiced them in a car to myself. I didn’t turn on the radio or anything else – just my inner voices.

However, driving down to Camp Letts was a different experience.

It was 4:15 in the afternoon and I turned on NPR from WAMU at American University in Washington and caught a program entitled, “The State We're In” - from Radio Netherlands.

With hindsight, more than today's readings, it was those two pieces that triggered this homily.

The first story on this program was about a woman in Northern Ireland named Eimear O’Callaghan. She’s married and has 3 kids – and she said she is someone who never throws anything away – so she has lots of stuff in her house. Recently while stuffing a paper flyer from a program in a packed leather pouch, she came upon her diaries from when she was a teenager.

She began reading her observations about life in Derry, Ireland – especially at the time of Bloody Sunday back in 1972. She talked about the vast chasm between Catholics and Protestants – and the fighting going on back then. She read a few excerpts out loud on the radio. In the same paragraph in one entry, she talked about getting free ice cream and a British solider who was just killed. In another entry she talked about going to a dance and about the violence in the streets coming home from the dance.

The reporter on the radio asked if she is sharing her diaries with her kids and she said, “Just one kid. The other 2 are not interested.”

She also told about the tears and the celebration in Northern Ireland when David Cameron, the British Prime Minister, recently said we the British Government were wrong. We committed an injustice back in 1972. She told about how a vast crowd in the streets of Derry were watching the Prime Minister's speech on a big screen and then screamed for joy.

I found myself in the car crying as well – with my Irish roots and having parents both of whom came to American from Galway because of poverty.

This lady, Eimear O’Callaghan, could read and listen to her voice and her observations from nearly 40 years ago – the voice of what a teenage girl was observing. She added, “And I expect to find several more diaries from my younger years somewhere in the house.”

This story was followed up with a story about a philosopher, Theodore Zeldin, in England who has what is called, “Feast With Strangers” once a year in Hyde Park in London. It’s advertised and you show up and look at the menu: food for thought. If you want to talk about travels and trips, here’s the spot to sit and talk. If you’re interested in “Family,” here’s the spot to sit and talk. If you’re interested in “My prejudices” here’s the spot to sit and talk – and on and on and on.

People would find one part of the menu boring or not tasty and move onto another. One lady observed, “This was the first time in two years that I had a decent conversation. The last time was a talk I had with my brother two years ago.”

That’s the observant self talking. That’s giving voice to the observant self.

WEDDING RECEPTION


While listening to this in the car yesterday evening, a moment at a wedding reception I was at came back to me. I was at a table with people whom I never met before. They are not from around here. The music in the background was rather loud. My observant self said, “It’s great to be on this table in the back – far from the music.” The girl to my right was texting much of the meal. Her brother next to her was also texting much of the meal. His brother next to him was playing games with a small something the whole meal. His mother next to him was on the cell phone – from time to time. Their dad was out in the lobby talking with other men. The young couple on my left were talking to themselves and the older couple next to them were too far away to talk or listen to.

I was screaming inwardly. “Help! Get me out of here.”

I heard that voice – a voice inside me – because I‘ve heard that scream many times before.

I've seen a group of teenage boys coming into a get together or a dance, check out the territory and head for the door.

Well, here I was trapped – in unknown territory. I found myself making the best of it by saying to myself, “There’s a homily here somewhere.”

How many people in church, in meetings, in marriages, in jobs, are screaming inwardly, “Help! Get me out of here!”?

TODAY’S READINGS

Before you scream that – or in case you are already screaming that, I want to make a few observations about today’s readings and head for the rest of the Mass.

The readings at Mass are voices from the past….

Today’s first reading is from an anonymous someone from after 515 B.C. because it mentions the temple. Imagine if we just found this document like a found diary? We would have in hand a voice from the past. What did this Malachi – a name which simply means “My Messenger” – observe and voice. He didn’t like the priests of his time because they were doing a horrible job. He would be for the second collection – the restoration and maintenance fund – because he calls for the congregation to help expenses and pay for those who care for the temple. He spoke up for wives who were dumped. He told those who doubted God’s love for them – that God does love you. And he warns – as we heard in today’s reading - those who are evil doers, you’re going to be burned like stubble – leaving “neither root nor branch.”

Today’s second reading from Second Thessalonians is from between 51 and 100 A.D. It gives Paul’s voice saying that in spite of comments, we’re paying our dues. We’re not freeloading. When we were with you, we were trying to give good example – so as to model how Christ wants us to work and live – so enough with your complaining.

Today’s gospel gives Luke’s voice from some point after the City of Jerusalem had been destroyed by the Romans – wiped out. It looks like the world is going to end. Luke is dated from around 80 A.D. He gives voice to anyone ever since – who thinks their world has been destroyed – by a hurricane – a fire – a broken marriage – or what have you. It isn’t. Not yet. Have hope.

CONCLUSION

These are other people’s voices. Observing voices is the theme I’m pushing in this homily and it’s twofold.

First what am I observing and can I voice what I’m picking up to myself – inwardly or in a diary or journal or talking with someone? I guarantee that your observations will be far more valuable, deep, than the 1 zillion texts and twitters flying around this church space and this world this very moment.

Secondly, am I listening and observing what those around me are voicing? As that lady in London said, “I haven’t had a conversation like this with anyone in the last two years.” This week have at least one memorable conversation.
EXTREMISTS






Quote for Today - November 14,  2010


"Extremists think 'communication' means agreeing with them."


Leo Rosten [1908-1997]

Saturday, November 13, 2010

DOOMSDAY PREDICTORS
WILL ALWAYS BE AROUND.
THAT'S MY PREDICTION!




Quote for Today - November 13, 2010


"I 'd be astonished if this planet is still going by fifty years from now. I don't think we will reach 2000. It would be miraculous."


Alistair Cooke [1908-2004] British / American Journalist. Well, it looks like he made it - and we're still here. However, get your stuff in order - because the next doomsday prediction is, December 21, 2012. See you at Christmas 2012 - and Happy New Year 2013.

Friday, November 12, 2010

IMPROVING YOUR STORY






Quote for Today  November 12, 2010


"The older they get the better they were when they were younger."


Jim Bouton [1939- ] - Played for the dreaded Yankees and author of Ball Four, etc.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

WHAT'S REALLY 
BUGGING YOU?





Quote for Today - November 11, 2010


"A problem well stated is a problem half solved."


Charles F. Kettering [1876-1958]

Wednesday, November 10, 2010


PAUSE

To pause,
to hear silence,
and then the sound of a truck
shifting gears, backing up,
somewhere in the morning distance,
to see a smile
or the whole face of a grandmother babysitting,
to hold the silver spoon still
so as to look at what I'm eating,
the chocolate chip ice cream
or the Cheerios, in spite of
the desire to eat too fast,
or to taste the morning coffee,
to cross out or delete a word
for a better or just the right word
in a love note or a simple e-mail,
to not reach
for the orchestra sounding cell phone,
because the live persons around the table
are far more important,
to pause, to second guess
what I was about to do or say,
and then to say or do something better,
to pause, better to realize
at a pause, I'm in a choice moment,
and I can choose otherwise,
now that is what makes me human.



© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2010

TEMPTATION



The sign said, “DO NOT ENTER!!”
And it had two, two exclamation points.
Now that’s a temptation – like the
cake on the counter – but “Kids, you first
have to eat the vegetables on the table.”
Closet doors are to be opened.
Curtains are to be closed.
Wrapping is to be unwrapped.
Just a peek, Just one. Just this once.
Nobody will ever notice. Temptation
comes with the wrapping on the gift.
Temptation slips and slides and hides
in every good – because every good
somehow attracts the static cling of evil.
No wonder the ancient wisdom:
temptation sneaks like a snake in the grass.
It’s a voice coming out
of the mouth of forbidden fruit.
“Touch me! Taste me! Take me! Tempt me.”
God, I’m so slow. Sin always seems so original.
And then with that first bite
comes the ugly aftertaste: the truth that
it’s good fruit but it's me who's rotting.
And then we find ourselves
outside the garden gate – with the want to
worm ourselves back into paradise.




© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2010

IT’S ABOUT TIME


Time – time – ticking – ticking –
not as loud as in the days
with big grandfather clocks
in the vestibule – or bells ringing
in church towers every hour or so,
but time keeps ticking and kicking me
reminding me to keep moving,
“Get it done! Finish it! Come on now.
Hurry up. Hurry up. Quick now.
We only have so much time.”


Then the other side of me roars;
the lazy side of me, the Sabbath side
of me, says, “Hey slow down. Enough
already. Give me a break. It’s about time
I realize life is more than work, work, work.
I need some time to walk and nap and relax
before the clock stops for me.”
And God, You’re outside time.
You're in eternity! How did You
ever come up with this idea of time?
Interesting reality! Did You send Your Son
to grasp its pull and push and limitation
or did You learn about it from watching us?

© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2010
THANK YOUR PARENTS
FOR HAVING YOU!



Quote for Today - November 10, 2010


"Whenever I hear people discussing birth control, I always remember that I was the the fifth."


Clarence Darrow [1857-1938]


P.S. Thank you mom and dad for having a fourth!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010




SOMETIMES THERE’S MORE
THAN MEETS THE EYE


The title of my homily or reflection for this interesting feast of the Dedication of the Lateran Basilica is, “Sometimes There’s More Than Meets the Eye.”

There’s a difference between a wedding ring in a jewelry store window or display case than a wedding ring on the ring finger of someone who is married 43 years.

There’s a difference between a dozen roses in a galvinized metal bucket in a florist shop than a dozen roses handed to a daughter who was in a play after the play has ended.

From time to time a couple drop into St. Mary’s or any church and they try to find someone whom they can tell, “We were married here in this church 26 years ago today or this week.”

From time to time someone coming over the Eastport Bridge looks up and sees the tall steeple of St. Mary’s – with the cross shining – with glistening gold – overlooking Annapolis – and their faith is lifted. “Here our kids were baptized. Here we had a funeral Mass for mom. Here I came back to the faith.”

Sometimes there’s more than meets the eye.

Sometimes some churches are more important than other churches – because they have a story that not everyone knows – but once someone hears it – or has a similar experience – then that church has more than meets the eye.

Today we celebrate the feast of the Dedication of the church of St. John Lateran in Rome. It’s just one more feast day in the Church – an odd one at that – but it became special to me – because I visited it 9 times when I was in Rome in 1984 for 4 weeks. I read its history – how it was the church in Rome – as St. Peter’s is today. From 324 till St. Peter’s was begun in 1506 and was finished in 1626 – St. John Lateran was the Pope’s main church. It still is, but St. Peter’s is the place everyone goes. Yet St. John’s in Rome is the Pope’s church and the home parish for the Church. I don’t know if he’s registered in either one of them.

St. John Lateran was sacked by 2 times: by Alaric and Genseric in the 400’s. It was destroyed almost completely by an earthquake in 896. It had fires in 1308 and 1360. On July 27, 1992 there was a bomb explosion – which did some damage. It was assumed to be the work of the Italian Mafia as a warning to Pope John Paul II for speaking out against the Mafia. It has been neglected as well as restored from time to time and they don’t have a second collection for that – but they had special collections. 5 ecumenical councils took place in it.

So once you hear a church’s history – once you visit its space and hear its story – that space becomes a place where there is more than meets the eye.

Every day of the year is not the same for everyone. Some days are different than other days - for example: Ash Wednesday, St. Patty’s Day, Good Friday, Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas – as well as those anniversary days in our lives – marriages, births, deaths, this and that days.

Today November 9th is a special day for Redemptorists. Since the original name of St. John Lateran was the Church of Our Savior – St. Alphonsus began the Redemptorists this day in 1732 in Scala, Italy above Amalfi. He chose to call us the Congregation of Our Savior – and we might have ended up being called Salvationists – but that name was taken when a Father Villani went to Rome in 1749 to get our approval. So someone in the Vatican gave us the name, “Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer,” “Congregatio Santissimi Redemptoris” or CSSR for short.

Not every day is the same as any other day – some days are different than other days. What are your different days? What are your different places? What triggers what for you?

“Sometimes There’s More Than Meets the Eye.”