November 1,  2022

Reflection

BENCH - COUCH - LOVE SEAT

A bench, couch or love seat is certainly different than a single chair.

Just sitting there - each gives a different message.

I'm sure cave men and women sat on single rocks as well as long logs.

Church benches send a message - togetherness - while the priest sits up there in the sanctuary in a single chair - prominent to say the least,

The judge sits there in the courtroom - on his bench - but it's a single chair - as in the supreme court.

The jury sit in single chairs - but they are usually lined up next to each other - often in two single rows.

The witness - and the accused - when they are questioned - are in a single chair.

The audience in the court room are all lined up together - often on benches.                                                                            

What was in like at the Last Supper - not in the painting - but at that last meal together?

What will it be like at the eternal banquet?

I like booths in restaurants.  It seems more together.

Subways and buses have seats together - also plais - but they are a bit different - we might be next to each other - but we might nt talk to each other.

What would it  be like to sit with or next to God?

 November 1, 2022

Thought for Today

"The confessional and the autobiographical modes are paradoxical.  Two things seem to be true:  the more completely personal you are, the more universal your meaning becomes. And the more honest you are, the more mysterious you appear."

Finuala Dowling, 

the Poetry Paper, No. 3,  2006

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ALL  SAINTS  DAY

TWO  OSERVATIONS

 

FIRST OBSERVATION- A BELIEF IN RESURRECTION

 

We Christians believe in the resurrection. We directly say that when we say  in the Nicean creed: “For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate, he suffered death and rose again on the third day in accordance with the Scriptures.” We also say that in Apostles Creed when we say near the end of the creed: “I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy Catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins; the resurrection of the body, and life everlasting. Amen.

 

We’re saying that Christ rose from the dead and the Saints are still alive as well because they too rose from the dead.

 

So that’s the first observation:   we believe in life after death.  Jesus and the Saints are alive for starters. Not everyone believes this.  We do.

 

SECOND OBSERVATION:  THE SAINTS ARE MODELS FOR THE HERE AND NOW – FOR LIFE HERE ON EARTH BEFORE DEATH

 

So we look at Saints as models on how to do life.

 

We look at Saint Joseph as a model to quietly be there to protect each other.

 

We look to Saint Anthony as a model to help others who lose things.

We look to Saint Francis Assisi to become instruments of  peace  to and for each other.

 

We look to Saint Alphonsus – San Alfonso -  as a model on how to use our time well – especially to be there for the poor and neglected.

 

We look to both Teresas to have and to live an inner life.

 

We look to Philip Neri to have a smile on our face and a sense of humor in our lives.

 

We look to Francis de Sales to say to each other – especially the nervous Nellies in our neighborhoods:  “Omnia suaviter” -  translation “Caln down” or “Nice and easy.”

 

We look to Saint Thomas the Apostle to voice our doubts and scream out when we know, “My Lord and My God.”

 

We need St. Luke the Gospel writer to remember and tell each other the parables of Jesus – like the Prodigal Son, the Good Samaritan and Lazarus at our doorway.

 

We need St. Martin of Tours to remind us to give the shirt off our back to the cold and the naked – as we meet them on the roads of life.

 

We need saints like Katherine Drexel to hold babies like John McGowan

 

And especially we need people like the great Andrew the Apostle to bring others to Christ like he did for  his brother Peter.

October 31, 2022

Reflection 

QUESTIONS

I went out to dinner last night with a couple whose marriage I did.

During the dinner the guy says, "I have a question...."

Thinking about that this morning, I wondered, "Does everyone have a question?"

Meaning, "Here's a priest.... Here's a chance to ask a question that I've always wanted to ask."

I have questions I'd like to ask the pope, the president, God for that matter.

For example, "Bishop, when you're at the National Bishops' Conference, is there anyone there who raises their hand and ask about asking Rome to change the annulment process - or who's behind this or what have you? Is there time for questions?"

So yes, I guess people sit there in church and something a priest says triggers something else and we have a question.

I think of Clement Jedrzejewski. He was off on the  articulation of one's questions - refining one's questions - getting to all of one's questions.

He was off on saying, "There are no stupid questions - only stupid answers.

So last night someone asked, "What is the Purgatorian Society?  Is it a group of people?"

Jokingly I said, "Yes. And they wear capes."

Questions?   They are hooks.  We use them to go fishing.

 October 31,  2022

Thought for Today

"What else is there to say but everything?"

Gwendolyn Brooks,

In the Mecca (1968), Stanza 16

 October  30,  2022

Reflections

IT'S  OKAY

Its okay not to like spinach.

Spinach is good - but it's okay if you don't like it.

In my sermon yesterday for the Feast of Christ the King - 2007 - I mentioned  a saying about priests and pastors that I had heard: "1/3 of the people like you; 1/3 don't like you; and 1/3 don't care."

Then I talked about religious art and I mentioned the big cross at St. John Neuman Church.

Well after that Mass, a little old lady stopped to say, "Good bye" to me. Then she added,  "Thank you for saying it's okay not to like the big cross up there in our church."

I didn't exactly say that.  That was not my aim.

Yet she was thanking me for helping her to think about something she didn't like - and it was okay to do that.

The plate is passed around the table and we don't have to take Aunt Martha's leek soup.

Buffet style food gathering places are wonderful for those who like variety - for those with likes and dislikes.

What happens in a family of vegetarians if one kid likes meat?

What happens when "have to's" are forced on those who don't have "want to's"?

I've noticed forced - or attempted have to's - on the part of religious leaders - popes - and church leaders. It's part of wanting uniformity, control, a united front, etc.

Parents must have extra stress when the other parent is too severe or too strict on one of their kids - and it drives the other crazy.

What were the parents like  in the story of priests and nuns who join very uniform driven religious communities?  Were those parents too severe or too lax?

Is it okay to say, "It's okay!"

It's okay.

There I said it.

 October  30,  2022

Thought for Today

"Those who want to write good poems should be reading good poetry, not how to books.  Indeed, every fine poem is a how to manual."

Billy Collins, 

Poets and Writers,

Macrh, April, 1995