Sunday, September 9, 2018

September 9, 2018

Reflections




LETTING GO

Each night,
to let go,
to lose control,
to fall asleep,
perchance not
to wake up in the morning.

Now,
if that
doesn’t cause fear -
this putting all
into unknown nothingness
or into God’s hands,
what does?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


September 9, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“People are,  if  anything,  more touchy about being thought silly than they are about being  thought  unjust.” 



E. B. White

Saturday, September 8, 2018

September 8,  2018

HIDDEN  CHAPELS

There are countless chapels -
not known as chapels or churches -
anonymous holy places - here and
there and everywhere - all over our world.

I have walked into them - by accident
or happenstance - only to be surprised
by God within. Most of the time I have
been alone - but not always - and
there is God waiting for me, “Hello!”

The older I get, the more I see these
countless chapels of radiance:
a baby’s hand, a marriage bed,
ice cream cones - in every hand of a
laughing family on a hot summer evening.

Then there was this old lady - saying
her rosary in a wheelchair just inside
the front door in a nursing home - and
there I am a month later kneeling at her
body in her casket in a funeral home
saying one “Hail Mary” on that same rosary.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018







September 8, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“I have a secret  passion for mercy … but justice is what keeps happening to people.”  

Ross Macdonald


September 7, 2018


THE  OLD  AND  THE  NEW



INTRODUCTION

The title of my  homily for this 22 Friday in Ordinary Time is, “The Old and the New.”

We have those 2 basic 3 letter words - old and new -  in the 2 parables or examples  in today’s gospel: old cloth and new cloth; old wine and new wine in old and new wineskins.

So this homily will be about the old and the new.

WE KNOW BOTH THESE REALITIES

These 2 concepts - the old and the new - are basic to life.

Both are valuable - both are “It all depends”.

An old penny could be worth a penny or also a $9000.  It all depends.

If we go to the city dump, we can find lots of old stuff worth nothing. We might also find something old that is worth a lot.

I went with my sister yesterday to buy a new TV set.

The old one was fading - something had gone wrong - all the faces were blue and green and purple. She bought a new one. I never read directions, but this time I installed it - with fears - but got it done.

She doesn’t believe in cable so we bought a new antenna. It didn’t work as well as the old antenna -  so I took the new one off and put the old antenna on the new TV and it worked fine.

NEW WINE OLD WINE

We know all about old and new wine - even without drinking.
Jesus knew about old and new wine - as we hear in today’s gospel..

When 2000 - New Year’s Eve arrived my niece’s husband George opened up a bottle of wine from 1900.  It was more valuable than new wine. But like cloth, if it opens up a bit, it could turn to vinegar.

Wine was kept in jars as well as leather leather bags.

HUMAN BEINGS

Human beings can dry up as well and complain their lives away.

People can die at 45 - but they are buried at 75.

Some people don’t think or read or learn or change or question or reconsider and become crochety.

Some people haven’t had a new idea in a half century.

Some people want the old Latin Mass - and drive liberals like me crazy. I say, “Well, why don’t you go back further and say the Mass in Aramaic?”

I don’t know about you, but my skin near my elbow is all wrinkled.

I can wish I was young again or I can thank my skin for giving me a good container for over 78  years now.

CONCLUSIONS: SUGGESTION

I think a good reflection on old age - is a smart move.

I think reflection on wrinkles is a good idea.

I think writing our autobiography is a great idea.



September 7, 2018



THE ONE AND THE MANY

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “The One and the Many.”

Here we are at the beginning of a new school year. I was wondering about what to say today. What do we need at this first high school Mass? Father Tizio said: make it short. It’s hot today.  So for starters, I thought it would be a good idea to say a few words about each one of us as well as all of us: the one and the many.

GESTURES

Take your index finger and put the tip of that finger right here in the center of your forehead and say, “I’m one!”

Now take that same finger and like a windshield wiper point that finger back and forth to everyone here and say, “We are the many. [Do it yourself.]

The title of my homily is, “The One and the Many.”

Get that and you got my homily.

SOMETIMES

Sometimes we’re the one; sometimes we’re the many.

Sometimes we’re an individual, Josh or Tina,  and sometimes we’re students at St. Mary’s.

Sometimes we’re the one and sometimes we’re the many.

Sometimes we’re Mr. Healy and sometimes we’re the teachers and staff at St. Mary’s.

Sometimes we’re the one and sometimes we’re the many.

Sometimes we’re the quarterback and  sometimes we’re the defensive line or  we’re the people in the stands.

Sometimes we’re the coach and sometimes we’re the referees.

Sometimes we’re the manager at Burger King on West Street and sometimes we’re the young people and adults working behind the counter and the customers in the place.

AT THE END OF THE DAY

At the end of the day, why not ask ourselves, “How’d did I do as one person on the planet today? Was it a great day? Did I serve my brothers and sisters well - whether we are a teacher, a member of COSA, a freshman or a senior or  a mom or grandparent talking us to or from school today.

At the end of the day, how’d we do as part of the Many? What are the groups I’m in?  Whom do we picture as part of the many manys I’m in each day. That would include our family, our class or after school?  How many “thank you’s” did I say today?

How was I as a one? How was I as a many?

Many is spelled “M A N Y” -  but being a Dodger fan, the word “many” triggers the other “Manny” - on the Dodgers - thanks to the Orioles. The Manny is doing well for us, but we just fell out  of first place again - thanks to the dang Mets - Father Tiz’s team - and this one priest, our pastor,  was rubbing it in to this one me.

The we called the Dodgers are going to have to step it up - in the coming September run and rush for the World Series and do it as a many. We almost did it last year - losing right at the end.

I’m one of many priests on the planet doing my life - and we’ve had some bad publicity lately because some ones in our midst messed up - mostly in the past - but bad news, sin, bad behavior has consequences for the Many.

REFLECTION

We reflect on life as a someone.

How do we see ourselves as part of the many?

What do I offer the different groups I am part of?

What are my unique gifts?

St. Paul in one of his letters  said we’re like a human body. Some of us are good listeners - all ears. Some of us are handy.  Some of us are good as “goers” and “getters”. We’re good on our feet. Some of us are all heart. Some of us are brainy - future engineers and teachers.  Some of us are great see-ers - asking questions about what’s missing or what could be improved.

Our theme for the year is a prayer to the Lord: “Open my eyes, Lord.”

Looking at myself - what is this one called me - good at?  Am I then a doer or a don’t er - and if I’m a don’ter, then am I complainer?

How do I see myself?

One of the purposes of a school is to learn about working together as a many - a team, a play, a class - as well as shining as a one.

We come together and rub shoulders and ideas and jokes and healthy digs and share laughter as a many - and then we reflect upon what’s happening inside this one mind and one personality called me.

We are in families - a many - but we’re also a one in that same family: the oldest, the youngest, the one, the dog bringer outer, the dish washer, the comedian, the saint, the trouble maker, the forgiver, the suggester.

PLAY GROUND

Look for a metaphor for a school - I thought of a playground. We have one just at the bottom of the street across the street from us. I haven’t been in a playground in a while, but one can learn as much as we can wherever we’re playing.  Sometimes life is a slide. Sometimes life is a climbing up and down experience.  Sometimes we’re on a see saw, up and down, up and down, balancing life with another.  Sometimes we’re in a sandpit digging away - building and knocking down and building up again.

We’re one; we’re many in the playgrounds of life. How do I see school? How do I see life? How do I see my role on this planet?

SCHOOL

Life is a school - we learn life one by one - with the many.

Hopefully we learn respect - which has the word spect in it - that we learn to respect the one’s around us - one by one.

Hopefully we learn the golden rule - do to others what we would like for ourselves. And don’t do to others the things that bug us from others.

Hopefully we learn the magic short, short sentences of life: I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I forgive you. Thank you. Nice smile. Nice move. Help? Can I do anything? How’s it going? You go first.

The more each one learns the good stuff as an individual - then the more the  many benefits.

CONCLUSION

I think that’s enough as a starter for this new year. These are the thoughts of one person - to you the many. Amen.


Friday, September 7, 2018

September 7, 2018

VOW  OF  OBEDIENCE 


Years ago I took a vow of obedience.
It was August 2, 1960 to be exact.

I didn’t know what I was getting into,
but it was part of the package.

Oh they gave hints: to serve where
the community wanted me to go….

I was hoping for and planning on being
stationed in Campo Grande, Brazil.

Instead, I ended up on the Lower East
Side of Mahattan - in the East Village.

In time I learned it simply meant to listen
to  God and others in the here and now.

And let me tell you loud and clear:
God and others are in the here and now.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018