Wednesday, October 19, 2016

October 19, 2016

MISTAKE

It was the wrong thing to say ….

But….

Nope, it was the wrong thing to say….

I feel so stupid, so dumb….

Nope, I won’t say next time ….

But….

I’ll ask, “What is the lesson here?

What’s the learning here?

My buttons? My inability to walk away?

It’s also forgiveness … starting with the other….

Then it’s forgiveness - forgiving myself….

It’s understanding: we all make mistakes.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
October 18, 2016

HEY, I’M _________

I am _____________

What is my first answer to that question?

What does that say about me?

How do others describe me?

Someone said, “Give 25 answers
to the question, “Who am I?” and
somewhere around 18 you’ll start
to really get to who you are?

Who am I?

I am ____________



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
October 17, 2016

MOMENTS


There are moments,
and then there are moments -
moments we didn’t see coming
at that moment - but I gave it
all to you and now looking back
that moment changed my life.

There are moments,
too many moments - that slipped
through my hands like water -
flowing from the faucet and
I was looking in the mirror - looking
only at myself and I missed you.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
STAYING POWER

INTRODUCTION

Today I’d like to reflect on the theme of “Staying Power” or “sticktoitiveness” or "fidelity" “persistence” or “perseverance” or “capacity for faithfulness” - or to  "have a super glue" way of doing life. 

The title of my homily is, "Staying Power."

So use any word or words that will get across the quality of perseverance in getting things done that are important.

Today’s three readings - for this 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time [C] bring out that much needed virtue - especially in this day of instant this and instant that - and broken commitments, and escapisms, etc.

I don’t know about you, but my issue is procrastination - and the solution is another word beginning in "p": perseverance.

FIRST READING

In the first reading Moses stands on top of hill praying for Joshua and his men who are fighting Amalek in battle below. This story, which is quite well known by most preachers, is a dramatic example of staying power. Moses keeps his arms up like Christ on the cross, but as soon as his arms start to slip, the Israelites fighting below start to lose the battle, so Moses asks Aaron and Hur to help him keep his arms up and finally to put rocks under his arms to keep them from falling. Now that’s fidelity.

We can relate to this story.

When we were in school, we all had to use “tooth picks” to keep our eyes open to get a term paper or to use coffee to stay awake or to go outside to get some cold air, so that we can finish that term paper.

We all know people who visit family members - like every day - when they are in a nursing home.

We all known what it is to be on an all night vigil at a hospital supporting someone who is dying or in need of our presence.

SECOND READING

In the second reading we have Paul talking about how important this virtue of persistence is with regards Scripture. Every preacher knows that it takes lots of dedication to learn the sacred scripture. It takes lots of study, lots of courses, lots of papers. To be trained in holiness through the scriptures, we need to spend many hours in prayer - so that we may become fully competent and equipped for every good work.

Then Paul tells us that our job is to preach the word - staying with this task whether it’s convenient or inconvenient, correcting, reproving, appealing - constantly teaching and never losing patience.

So it takes a lot of fidelity to prepare decent sermons Sunday after Sunday after Sunday. It takes a lot of prayer and reflection, over and over and over again, so as not to give people leftovers.

And it’s especially difficult because sermons deal with invisible stuff. In the hard work of putting together meal after meal after meal, at least we can see leftovers.

GOSPEL

And today’s gospel pushes this theme par excellance. The widow wears down the judge by her “staying power”.

Jesus tells us that this is how we are to pray - to be like the widow - to keep on nagging God. And if an unjust judge can be broken, how much easier it is to wear down a just judge like our God?

Commentators tell us that the judge was probably a crook who was hoping for a bribe. Since it was a case that called for just one judge, it was probably a case that had to do with money. An interesting note is the word “hypopiazein” which in the NAB is translated as “by doing me violence”. It means “to hit under the eye” or “to get a black eye”. It’s a term taken from boxing. So the judge acts out of fear. Our God acts out of love.

EXAMPLES

So the message that I am pushing today is that we all look at our “staying power.” It’s certainly a quality that is needed in this life.

People who are Pro Life need staying power. It’s going to be a long battle. It has been and will be for years to come. They need to keep their arms up like Moses and they need each other to walk arm in arm.

People who are protesting and staging sit-in’s against nuclear arms, also need staying power.

Or if we are working on personal issues like pride, jealousy, laziness, overeating, overdrinking, oversleeping, lust, bitching, whatever, then we need this virtue of patience and persistence.

We need staying power.

And we can’t forget that that we are not doing it alone. If we keep on praying for a gift, we’ll find ourselves working to have that virtue and gift. Prayer, as in communication in any relationship, will eventually force one of us to break and change.

There was a homily by George McCauley, years ago in America homily on these readings.  He faced the question of chastity.  He said that if keep praying for chastity, we’ll eventually see ourselves changing. First, it will be a growth in honesty. Next, it will a change in our attitude towards how we treat others. Next, we’ll see the ramifications of chastity in the energy levels of our life and on and on and on.

Jesus told this story with the theme of prayer as his main goal. He challenges us to be like that widow. Pray. Prey on the judge. “Could you not watch one hour with me.” So I keep this woman in mind here who nags and nags and nags, hoping that you will make a judgement in favor of taking time out each day for prayer.

Life calls for staying power - in any situation in any job.

It could be doing an honest day’s work for an honest day’s pay.

It could be taking care of our health - getting enough exercise and flossing our teeth.

It could be making sure our car is running well - and we have an eye on its maintenance.

CONCLUSION

Hopefully we hear Jesus’ message.
It can be summed up in one word: nag.

Or three words, “Nag, nag, nag.”
October 16, 2016

DUST

Floating in a quiet room,
dust ……………………........
…………………………..........
…………………………..........
planets moving till they
find a resting place ……..
………………………............
…………………………..........
Do they gather here and there
so they can tell each other where
they’ve been  since the beginning
of the universe?...........
………………………………………
………………………………………
Who said History is boring?



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
October 15, 2016

TATTOOS

Ink on skin…. When our ballpoint pen
leaks,  we try to wash the stain away.

Tattoos - ink on skin…. Why would
anyone want to do that deliberately?

Yet school kids write ballpoint pen
messages on their skin all the time.

Tattoos - mechanically inked into skin,
flowers, crosses, knives and names....

They remain - like forever - so too hurts,
words, memories inked into our forever.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
October 14, 2016


PICKING  CUTS 

Why do I pick my cuts?
Why do I edge my finger nails
under my scabs - the hard
blood healing of my cuts?

Why do I do this every time -
down through the years, all
my life - not allowing healing -
the healing of my cuts to happen?

Why as priest, have I found out
people do this on the skin of their
soul - much worse, much more?
“Scab”, “Scar” not romantic words.




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016