Thursday, March 12, 2020

March  12,   2020



LYING  AT  THE  DOOR 
OF THE HUMAN HEART 


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 2nd Thursday in Lent  is, “Lying at the Door of the Human Heart.”

THE READINGS

Today’s two readings have some powerful thoughts.

The first reading has a mysterious text: Jeremiah 17: 9. “More tortuous than all else is the human heart,  beyond remedy; who can understand it?”

Hopefully, our hearts are not beyond redemption – not beyond remedy - that Christ is our brother – and all our brothers and sisters are welcome into our human heart.

They are  at our door invite them in. Welcome them in.

Then the gospel has this powerful parable – this story of Lazarus who  is lying at the doorstep of the rich man.  The rich man never opens up his heart or his house, his table or his chairs to the poor man.

Both die. Lazarus the poor man goes to the bosom of Abraham and the rich man goes to hell.

The rich man does have a change of heart. He begins to worry about others – asking Abraham to warn his 5 brothers to see and care for the poor – something he didn’t do while on earth.

These 2 readings – provide good Lenten reading – that the human heart can be a mixed and messed up center of a human being – especially when a person has closed or never invites  the unnoticed into his or her heart.

REDEMPTORISTS

St. Alphonsus  began the Redemptorists when he found out that priests in the Kingdom of Naples were not interested in the poor – unwashed – unnoticed goat herders – up in the hills and hovels of the Kingdom of Naples.

He was in Naples – working as a regular priest – but was overworking and got sick.  He was told to take a break – get some rest – down on the Amalfi Coast.

While there – someone knowing he was a priest – told him about the poor and neglected goat herders.

And that is how we started – to provide church for those who didn’t  have a church that was interested in them.

As Jesus said, “The poor – you always have them with us!”

But like Lazarus the poor man in today’s gospel, they are the unnoticed.

Last night I was thinking about the many Lenten soup suppers I went to. It was always easy to sit with people I knew or seemed friendly – the crowd sitting together and laughing. I’d get my soup. Now who to sit with. With soup in hand I could look around a hall and always spot the person by themselves or the person everyone avoids.

That was the person I headed for.

I remember preaching a mission in a small parish. On the left – every night – 1/3 back from the front  was “The Cat Woman.”

Nobody sat near her . They stayed 5 to 10 yards away. The whiff of cat and urine and smell was very strong.

I found out that various ladies in the parish tried to get her to shower and use deodorant. No luck. Different people feeling guilty would sit near her, but they would give up. I tried sitting next to her a night I wasn’t preaching.  Sorry to say, two nights later I sat close but far enough not to be gagged by her scent.

CONCLUSION

In the meanwhile, we ought to see who the unnoticed are. We need to give voice to the voiceless.

The truth will set us free.

Lazarus is at our door – or inside our church – or in our groups – or in our family – and we’re not giving them attention.

As Emma Lazarus wrote in her poem that is at the base of the Statue of Liberty, “We’ve got a place for you here in our country.”



As we sing, “All are welcome in this place.”

We’re lying if we don’t welcome all in our places.

If we don’t,  we’re in hell.


If we don’t,  the light in our torches has gone out.






March  12,  2020



TASTE AND SEE


Today, taste and see the goodness 
of the Lord, this day,  Lent to you.

Today,  Lord, this day of Lent,
I’m not going to give anything up.

Today, Lord, I’m going to spot the
morning light and the morning shadows.

Today, I’m going to try to notice and say
“Hi!” to 10 people I’ve gone by most days.

Today, Lord,  I’m doing to taste the salt
on the potato chips and the pretzels.

Today, I’m going to taste the catsup
and the mustard and the cold water.

Today, Lord, I’m going to see the rain or
the sun or whatever kind of day it will be.

Today, I’m going to see the smiles of the
old ladies in the supermarket detergent aisle.

And tonight, Lord, I promise to look into the
night sky and thank you for a beautiful day.





© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March 12, 2020



Thought for Today

 “It’s one of the blessings of old friends that  you  can afford to be stupid with them.”  


Ralph Waldo Emerson

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

March   11,   2020


AT THE OCEAN’S EDGE


I’m now living here on the edge of the
Atlantic Ocean in Long Branch, N.J. –
Within earshot of 10,000 incoming waves.

Did you ever wonder what people are
wondering about when they too are
looking out to sea at the edge of the ocean?

Lately I’m thinking about what my mom was
thinking about as she stood there on the
other side of the Atlantic as a young woman.

Years after she died I finally got to see where
she came from in Ireland right on the edge of
the grey water Bay that led out into the Atlantic.

She wasn’t exaggerating – when she told
us,  “As a kid I could open up our back
door and stick my big toe in Galway Bay.”




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


March  11, 2020

Thought   for   Today 

“They got us surrounded again, the  poor  bastards.” 


General  Creighton  W.  Abrams

Tuesday, March 10, 2020

March 10, 2020



AN  ACT  OF  KINDNESS

Picture yourself doing an act
of kindness. Then you ask,
yourself, “I wonder where that
idea  to do that come from?”

Who’s to say someone in some
church or bus on the way to work,
didn’t say a prayer, “Lord, remind someone
to do something nice for someone today.”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020 





March 10, 2020



Thought for Today

 “Never be limited by other people’s limited imaginations.”

Dr. Mae Jemison,
first African-American
female astronaut

Monday, March 9, 2020

March  9,  2020



IN   THE  SHOWER 
OF   HIS   MERCY 


Next  time  you’re standing in the shower,
feel the water pouring down on your head
and sing this refrain, "And holy is his name ...."

Next time it’s raining, get out  into the rain
and let it  loudly pour down into your face
and sing this refrain, “And holy is his name ….”

Next time it's snowing, get out into the snow,
letting it fall on your face and on your tongue,
and sing this refrain, “And holy is his name ….”

Next time the reality of death hits you, 
picture yourself  walking into heaven while
singing  this refrain, “And holy is his name ....”


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020




March  9,  2020




Thought  for  Today

 “’Stay’ is a charming word in a friend’s vocabulary.”


Louisa May Alcott

Sunday, March 8, 2020






I’VE  BEEN TO  THE _______ 
FILL IN THE BLANK 


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 2nd Sunday in Lent [A] is, “I’ve Been to the _______.  Fill In the Blank.”

We can fill in that blank with all kinds of places,  persons, moments  and experiences.

We can fill in that blank with a mountain – as in, “I’ve been to the mountain”  or the ocean, a movie, a funeral, a cruise, a retreat, a Mass, Lourdes, a concert, a play, a car ride, a sickness, an operation, a novel, a 25th college reunion, a wedding anniversary. Whatever?   We fill the blank in with what filled in our blank and we  were transfigured.

Life 101

Go figure.

OTHER  TRANSFIGURING  MOMENTS

More possible moments and experiences: I’ve been to leaving home  for the first time - going to college;  falling in love; getting married - and wow did the lights go in – slowly or suddenly – or in ways I’ve never expected.

I’ve been to having a baby – and wow did that moment and then that experience - transfigure me  - transform me – change me – set me free – begin me – renew me – made me me.

The umbilical cord is a long, long cord – and it can be tight and it can be loosened. It can be cut in some ways and some ways not – and it can become  knotted.

Life 202.

The title of my homily is, “I’ve Been to the _______.  Fill In the Blank.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel Jesus takes Peter, James and John and led them up a high mountain by themselves. And he was transfigured before them; his face shown  like the sun and his clothes became white as light. [Confer Matthew 17: 1-9.]

And Peter, James and John were changed – transfigured.

And Jesus was changed – transfigured.

He heard words about himself from the cloud, from the shadows: “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him.”

TRANSFIGURATION MOMENTS

Life has its transfiguration moments – in which – from which – during – after which we see ourselves in a new way.

Life has its transfiguration moments – in which – from which –
during which -  after which we see others – God – Spouse – Parents – Children – Others – Life - in a new way.

DISFIGURATION MOMENTS

Life also has its disfiguration moments – unfortunately – in which – from which – during which – we get disfigured – or others get disfigured – or Christ gets disfigured – crucified – abused – divorced – disregarded – dissed – Good Friday.

Lots of people have agony in the garden moments. Lots of people have hanging on the cross moments.

Sometimes they can last a long, long time – hanging on the cross – cancer, depression, kids, grandkids getting into troubled relationships.

Lent is borrowed time – to enter into these stations of the cross.

Lent moves towards Good Friday – but most especially towards resurrection – new life.

Life 303.

A FEW EXAMPLES  OF WHAT CAN FILL IN THE BLANK 

The title of my homily is, “I’ve Been to the _______.  Fill In the Blank.”

I remember  going up the fast, fast, fast elevator to the top of the World Trade Center in New York City. On a clear day you can see forever.  I remember standing there and looking down at the Hudson River on which as kids we went on about 5 boat rides to Bear Mountain and Rye Beach – the Hudson River on which I lived 14 years of my life.  I remember  looking south towards Brooklyn where I was born – and out into the Atlantic on which my parents came to America.

Then all that came tumbling down on a horrible day in September 11, 2001.

We lost a cousin that day – Sean Bowman -  one of the 658 people  from Cantor Fitzgerald on 101 to the 105  Floors –who were killed that day.  His wife was pregnant at the time.

I’ve been to the Grand Canyon and Zion National Park and the Rockies – along with a bunch of smaller mountains in New Hampshire - ascending and descending – rocky dirt paths.

Life 404.

I’ve been to many funerals, weddings, hospitals, baptisms, many of which were transfiguration moments for lots of people.

I became a Redemptorist Priest with the hope of going to Brazil – but it didn’t happen.

But I’ve been a lot of parishes – taking up about 20 years of my life. I’ve been in 3 retreat houses taking up about 20 years of my life.

I was on a high school retreat here at San Alfonso – with some high school senior girls  from Manhattan. Half the class came one month; the other half came the following month. This girl got up on the second retreat and said she had been here a month earlier  and it was a disaster for her. She was on drugs for that whole first retreat.  When she got back she noticed how much that retreat helped some kids – and she realized she need help. She got it and came on the second retreat and stood here in this very spot and told her class her story and I have been getting a Christmas card from her ever since. Married a plumber – her 2 kids have finished college – and all is well.

I’ve been to a retreat – and God filled in my blank.

I was here on an AA retreat once and without me knowing about it till the following year – a guy came here on AA  retreat – and a bunch of guys – including his brother – got him in the corner of that room down the corridor.  It’s now called the heritage room – and “Go figured him.”  They told him every year he would come and when the retreat was over – before leaving the parking lot – he would reach under the front seat of his car and reach for his bottle and continue another year of drunkenness – for him and his family.  They said, “No more!” 

He didn’t use the word “Transfiguration” – but it was the beginning of his “Transfiguration.”

CONCLUSION

Most of the time transfiguration moments and transfiguration years take place in the mountains and the valleys and deserts of our souls.

Be attentive to your soul this Lent as you come down from this experience of retreat.

It took the disciples of Jesus, Peter, James and John,  different amounts of time and space to figure out what the vision of Jesus was all about.

We too.

Go figure.

Go figure out how we have been transfigured by life.

By  Jesus Christ.

March  8,  2020




WHO  AM  I?

Simply put: 
do you know 
who I am? 

Every husband, every wife, 
asks that question every 
day for the rest of their lives. 

God too. Moses too, 
asked that question, 
“Who are you?” 

Simply put: if you don’t make 
that question your first question, 
you’re not going to make it. 

Simply put: if you don't come 
up with answers to that question, 
you're not going to make it. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March  8, 2020




Thought  for  Today

“If  you want to make enemies, try to change something.”  

Woodrow Wilson


Saturday, March 7, 2020

March  7,  2020





THE    WATER’S   RISING

Well, the water is either rising
or the water, it is going down.

Life …. Things are never the same.
That’s what we gotta get used to.

There’s a knock on the door or
there’s a call on the phone.

Or someone is leaving home
for the last time, this time. Woo!

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

Friday, March 6, 2020

March   7, 2020


Thought   for  Today 

“Just because everything is different doesn’t mean anything has changed.”  

Irene Peter

March  6, 2020



I’M  ALIVE 
THANK YOU GOD 

Want a morning,
noon and night prayer?
“Gracias a la vida ….”

Sing it, say it, feel it -
every day and in every
way -  life comes to you.

I’m alive. Thank You God.
"Gracias a la vida ...."
"Efcharistó Theé mou."*

Use your eyes, your ears,
microphones, music, hands,
words, sounds, violins. Sing!

Thank You, God, for those
on stage, those in the crowd
and all those - all around us.

I'm alive.
Gracias Dios 
por el don de la vida.

*Thanks to You, God.
In Greek: Eυχαριστώ Θεέ μου
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020









Lyrics


Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me dio dos luceros que cuando los abro
Perfecto distingo lo negro del blanco
Y en el alto cielo su fondo estrellado
Y en las multitudes el hombre que yo amo

Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me ha dado el oído que en todo su ancho
Cada noche y días
Grillos y canarios, martillos, turbinas
Ladridos, chubascos
Y la voz tan tierna de mi bien amado
Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me ha dado el sonido y el abecedario
Con el las palabras que pienso y declaro
Madre, amigo, hermano y luz alumbrando
La ruta del alma del que estoy amando
Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me ha dado la marcha de mis pies cansados
Con ellos anduve ciudades y charcos
Playas y desiertos, montañas y llanos
Y la casa tuya, tu calle y tu patio
Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me dio el corazón que agita su marco
Cuando miro el fruto del cerebro humano
Cuando miro el bueno tan lejos del malo
Cuando miro el fondo de tus ojos claros
Gracias a la vida que me ha dado tanto
Me ha dado la risa y me ha dado el llanto
Así yo distingo dicha de quebranto
Los dos materiales que forman mi canto
Y el canto de ustedes que es el mismo canto
Y el canto de todos que es mi propio canto
Gracias a la vida
March   6,  2020

Thought  for Today 

“It’s a sick plan that cannot be changed.”

Latin Proverb

Thursday, March 5, 2020

March 5,  2020



WRONGFULNESS

Jesus was right about righteousness.
The Pharisees were wrong about Jesus –
thinking he was wrong about what was right.
Right? Or does that seem wrong?
Practice wrongfulness. Sit in the back seat
when you come to pray. Say few words.
Be like little children. Turn the other cheek
when someone tries to slap you down.
Go the extra mile when someone forces
you to go one mile. Love those who think
you think they’re your enemies. Surprise
them by loving them with your whole heart,
mind, soul and strength. Don’t throw
rocks at people you think are wrong.
Share your bread with the hungry.
Hoarded bread can turn to rock.
Broken bread brings broken people
Into communion with each other.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020






March   5, 2020


Thought   for  Today

“Skepticism has an  important place in critical engagement.  It is part of the apparatus of reflection and discernment.  But skepticism can become a form of bad faith too, a reflexive paradigm of doubt that distorts our perceptions the way cataracts cloud sight.  When you are stalking the miraculous, you need both doubt and faith.”

Theodore Prescott  in an article
Stalking the Miraculous 
in the Wilds of Art, 
page 85 in Image
A Journal of the 
Arts and Religion, 
November 22,  
Winter / Spring 1999, 
Number 22

Wednesday, March 4, 2020


SOMETIMES   JONAH 
CAN  STILL  BE  HEARD


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this First Wednesday in Lent  is, “Sometimes Jonah Can Still Be Heard.”

This morning’s first reading is from the Book of Jonah.

Jonah is a short little book in the Old Testament that’s only 4 short chapters.  We hear from him on just one Sunday – the 3rd Sunday in Ordinary Time – Year B – so that’s only 1 Sunday every 3 years.

We hear from him every other year for 3 days in a row – the 27th Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday – and from one other weekday, today Wednesday in the first week of Lent.

For such a short little book or scroll, that’s not bad – and Jonah is mentioned a few times in the New Testament - like today’s gospel.

FISH STORY

We all know the fish story in the Book of Jonah – that he’s on a boat – running away in the opposite direction from God – and the boat starts having big time storm problems – so the crew figure out it’s he who is the problem – so they toss him overboard.

He ends up being swallowed by a big fish – and is inside the fish’s belly for 3 days – and then is burped out onto the shore he’s supposed to be headed.

It’s a parable. It’s a legend. It’s a made-up story to teach a lesson.

What I get out of it is that I can be a disaster in a sermon – and somehow God catches fish from my babble and blarney.  Every priest finds out in life that someone thanks him for a sermon – telling a lesson he never intended.

SECOND STORY

We all know the second great message in the Book of Jonah.  It’s not in today’s readings – but it’s a great message.  Jonah is hiding out and cooling off under the big leaf of a gourd plant – while waiting and watching for the destruction of Nineveh.  The plant shrivels up and Jonah gets really upset – and God gets really upset with Jonah for worrying about himself and not the 120,000 people in the city who were going to perish – and many animals as well.

We’ve all seen people who have fallen into that trap many a time – worrying about the tiny – and missing the big problems all around them.

FAST, FAST, FAST

And the third message is the message of fasting – probably put here because fasting is one of the regular 3 practices for Lent: fasting, praying and almsgiving.

CONCLUSION

If we read the book of Jonah, we’ll first wonder, “How did this story get in here?” and then we’ll realize: “Okay, now I get it. Amen.”


March 4, 2020


LETTING  GO

Sticks  and  stones 
may break my bones 
and names will often hurt me …. 

So too we have memories 
and deja vue past hurts 
still hurting us.

Letting go is tough going.
There are scars and echoes: 
reminders that won’t go away.

So too the Law of Gravity
is always with us – weighing us
down with stuff we can't let go of.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

March 4,  2020




Thought for Today


"Literacy is the path from slavery to freedom. There are many kinds of slavery and many kinds of freedom. But reading is still the path.” 

Carl Sagan,
The Demon-Haunted
World Science as a
Candle in the Dark

Tuesday, March 3, 2020

March 3, 2020


                                   


SILENCE

Sometimes, 
silence is smart
Sometimes,
it is very smart.
It’s tricky. It often
gives us time to figure out
what another might be really asking –
or it gives them time
to figure out what they are
really saying. Ooooh!
But only sometimes …. 

© Andy Costello,  Reflections



March  3,  2020


Thought  for  Today

"The  future  belongs to young people who know where the  accurate, reliable knowledge is, how to get it, how to think about it, and how to turn it into better work, better products, better lives."  

Rexford Brown,
Educator and Author



March   2,   2020




BRIEFCASE

Every morning – I take 5 minutes
to load my briefcase. I put in there:
10, usually,  10 “Thank you’s!”;
5 “Congratulations!”;
2 jokes;
7 “Sorry’s”;
1 “Ask Joe about his dad.”;
My thin Bible to read one psalm
around 2:30 this afternoon;
1 twenty dollar bill  to give to
a beggar outside my office building.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

Monday, March 2, 2020

March 2, 2020


Thought  for  Today

 "... the  people  can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders.  That  is  easy.  All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger."  

Hermann Goering,
 Nuremberg Trials