Thursday, July 18, 2013


IMPRESSIONISTIC PAINTING

Sitting here all alone - gazing down at two 
tall, thin, glazed glasses, with light pink
and blue straws – each straw slanting
the other way - away from me ….
Did I do something wrong?
Summer coolers … just sitting there -
one on a paper napkin with lipstick on it ….
I’m watching ice cubes melting ….
I’m seeing  thin streams of water crawling
down the outsides of the glasses ….
Strawberry – lime – orange –
cool summer drinks - just sitting there
on a bright white table cloth - covering
a heavy black metal clumsy, clunky table …
the kind that makes hard to move sounds …
grunts - when pulled along heavily
on the concrete ground. I’m  watching
the whole scene as if -  as if it was being
painted  - and this whole scene was a canvas - 
and I’m in the painting  - sitting here all alone
in the upper wrong side corner - all by myself?
Did I do something wrong?
My eyes followed a rich green grass lawn
that  lead down to the dock. Oh ….
I didn’t tell you. That’s where everyone was -
down there by the sail boat that just arrived -
carrying the newly wed couple back home
to see some of the family - some of the
old friends back here - back home -  those
who couldn’t make the wedding. It was
the scene - the painting I always pictured
would be mine with her. But, he isn’t me.
Did I do something wrong?


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2013

THE HEART 
OF THE  MATTER 

The air conditioner is letting me know
it’s working. It’s pushing, pushing.
It’s keeping me cool on this muggy
hot, humid day. It’s not quiet.

The car motor is letting me know
it’s running. It’s turning, turning.
It’s keeping me moving on this trip
back home. It’s not quiet.

However, my heart is not letting me know
it’s working. Yet it’s pumping - pumping.
It’s keeping me going this day so far.
Thanks God. But both of you are quiet….


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2013

IN THIS HOUSE 

Quote for Today - July 18, 2013


IN THIS HOUSE …
WE DO REAL
WE DO MISTAKES
WE DO I’M SORRY
WE DO SECOND CHANCE
WE DO FUN
WE DO HUG
WE DO FORGIVENESS
WE DO REALLY LOUD
WE DO FAMILY
WE DO LOVE


Comment: 

I spotted the above words painted right on a wall in a house here in Annapolis yesterday. 

Mary Joan Foley, one of our Eucharistic Ministers, and I were visiting one of our parishioners to bring her communion and the sacrament of the sick. 

As I was sitting there "I saw the handwriting on the wall." 

Actually they were printed. 

I don't know the author's name - or the history of the comment - because the lady was losing it. 

It was all in capital letters with some words bigger than others. 

That last word LOVE might have been the biggest - but words like REAL, FUN, HUGS and HAPPY were also bigger. 

I didn't have a camera with me and I don't have a cellphone, so I took out a piece of paper and wrote down the words - the old fashioned way. 

This morning I looked up on Google, "Wall Sayings" and there it was - not the house I was in - but on a wall in some house somewhere.

Go for it.


GREAT! 

Go for them.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

PERFECT CHURCH

Quote for Today - July 17, 2013

"Why look for a perfect church?  We would feel out of place in it."

Anonymous

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

A CRY 
CAN BE THE BEGINNING 
OF REDEMPTION



INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “A Cry Can Be the Beginning of Redemption.”

When was the last time I cried?

Ooops! I’ll be talking here about the cries of sadness - loneliness - aloneness - hurt - being trapped - feeling stuck - caught - rejected - in the need of redemption - in the need of being saved - in the need of being delivered from a horror or harm. A cry that is a scream for “Help!”

FIRST READINGS

Yesterday and today’s first reading from the Book of Exodus triggers these thoughts. Yesterday we heard in the last sentence: “Pharaoh then commanded all his subjects, ‘Throw into the river every boy that is born to the Hebrews, but you may let all the girls live.’” [2:22]

Today we heard about Moses - 3 months old - no longer being able to be hid - being put in a basket - made of papyrus and pitch and bitumen. And Moses is put into the waters …. In Hebrew the word used for basket or container is TEVA. It’s a  box - coated in clay.

Avivah Gottlieb Zornberg - a daughter of a Rabbi - a teacher of the Torah - in her book, Reflections on Exodus - says the basket is in the form of a clay brick - and pharaoh’s daughter - sees the floating box, basket, ark, brick, and opens it. Inside is a baby and the baby cries.

And the author of Exodus gives the profound message: “On opening it, she looked, and lo, there was a baby boy, crying! She was moved with pity for him …. “

The title of my homily is, “A Cry Can Be the Beginning of Redemption.”

The baby’s cry got to her. She knew it was a Hebrew baby boy. She knew the edict - let the kid die - but she was moved with pity for him - and immediately set in motion a way to save Moses.

The rest is history.

EVERY PERSON

Every person is a box - a basket - a baby in a clay brick - floating on the waters of life  - and once opened - we cry.

In fact, if we don’t scream for help, we are not going to be saved.

How many times have we heard the Bible words, “The Lord hears the cries of the poor”?

How many times have we heard Psalm 130, “Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord”?

De Profundis….

In that Psalm we Redemptorists have our motto and our reason for being Redemptorists: “With him there is fullness of Redemption.” Our goal is to hear the cries of the poor - the screams of the stuck.

Prayer is that scream.

Ministry is hearing that scream - listening to it - being with the screamer.

Therapy is that scream. It is attempts to spell it out and spit it out.

The Human News: open up any person or every person - and there is a scream. It’s in us - from the womb to the tomb. It’s the ultra sound. It’s the Primal Scream in each of us.

What are your sounds - your deepest screams - your hurting hurts?

When was the last time you cried/

A parent left us at 11. A teacher or a priest or someone abused us at 7 or 13. A person whom we thought loved us - rejected us. Down deep that scream, that cry, has many sounds and forms.

In the middle of the tears you often hear the word, “unfair”. Or I thought things were going to go this way and they went that way.

The Pharaohs in our lives aborted us - hurt us - wanted us to disappear.

There is a Spanish proverb: Quien bien te quiere te hara llorar. [Whoever really loves you will make you cry.”

A cry can save us. A cry to God is prayer. A cry to  another whom we trust can be what saves us.

MOSES

Moses had a horrible scream - and as we continue with the book of Exodus we’ll find out that he had a horrible voice and speech pattern - and yet God called him - and he knew it - yet he knew how to scream - cry to God for help - but his words were hard to grasp.

The beginning of Redemption in any slavery  - addiction, drugs, alcohol, sex, pornography, gambling, anger, laziness is that first step: the cry for help. It’s the beginning of redemption.

CONCLUSION

Tennyson in his poem, In Memoriam [1850], writes,

      I AM A CRY

“But what am I?
An infant crying in the night:
An infant crying in the night:
And with no language but a cry?”

Cry for help. Run for help.

Jesus hears the cries of the woman at the edge of the crowd who touches the edge of his garment.  Jesus hears the cries to Pharisees whom he challenges. Jesus hears the cries of widow who lost her only son. Jesus hears the cries of Lazarus in the graves.


We Redemptorists like to stress Mary is a symbol of Perpetual Help - which pictures Jesus scared and running to Mary - this same woman also called Our Lady of Mount Carmel - today’s feast - also Our Lady of Mercy. We know her message in the Gospel of John. Go to Jesus - the new Moses. Reach for Jesus floating on the waters to us as a baby - open him up. Hear his cries. Voice your cries. Grow old with him - moving from being a baby to becoming an adult. Amen.
HANDCUFFS



Quote for Today - July 16, 2013

“In every cry of every man, 
In every infant’s cry of fear,
In every voice, in every ban,
The mind forged manacles I hear.” 

William Blake, London

London

Monday, July 15, 2013

FOOTPRINTS



INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Footprints!”

Today - July 15th -  is the feast of St. Bonaventure. I’ve always liked his message about the footprints of God as a way to discover God. So that’s what I would like to preach about today: footprints.

Last week I was at lunch with a group of priests and someone mentioned St. Bonaventure’s feast was coming up next Monday.  That’s today. This one guy mentioned that what grabbed him most about St. Bonaventure was the “What if’s....” God knows the “what if’s of our life” - the things that didn’t happen. What if I married so and so instead of so and so?  What if so and so didn’t die - and lived? What would have happened for the rest of history because of that person  - and on and on and on? What if…..?

I didn’t remember hearing that when we were taught the theology of St. Bonaventure. I've never really thought about that. So it will have to go into my future homework to be done file.

FOOTPRINTS

What stands out for me about Bonaventure is his writings about footprints.

In his book, Journey of the Mind to God, he has 3 ways one journeys to God. The first way is the footprints. They tell us that someone was on the beach. Well creation is God's footprint! The second way is us human beings. We have a mind and we can reason. We are different from the animals. This can lead us to realize we are created in the image and likeness of God - because we can reason and figure. The third way is abstract. It’s going beyond the physical - to metaPHYSICAL - to the being of God.

I like #1. It’s the most obvious. I was never good in logic or metaphysics or the abstract. I’ve seen footprints.

If there are footprints in the snow or the sand, I know someone was there.

If there is a heart carved into a tree with the initials J.L loves B.K. then we know someone was there.

If there is graffiti on a  highway overpass, someone with a spray paint can was there.

It there is trouble, there are people around - as we heard in today’s first reading from Exodus 1: 8-14, 22 - as well as in today’s gospel from Matthew 10: 34-11, 1, with the family anger in the lives of peoplel in the early church when people became Christians - causing fights in the family.

So we see effects. They tell us that something caused them. St. Bonaventure says we are surrounded by the footprints of God. 

To me, the two most famous footprint stories are that of Robinson Crusoe and that of Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin landing on the moon.

So if anyone has doubts about God - or doesn’t believe in God - point to the Moon or the stars and if they don’t believe in God as a creator then don’t bother arguing or discussing this with them. It’s tough putting graffiti on a highway overpass, but people do it. Who put the stars up there - as well as a moon to land on?

What I like about the Robinson Crusoe story is that Daniel Defoe points out how Robinson changed as a result of that footprint. First it was fear - big time fear - making his castle stronger.  He meditates on fear and hope, love and hate, life. Then his life changes when he brings another person into his life - Friday - even though he treats him as an inferior.

CONCLUSION

To me people change when another - a spouse - a child - children - enters into one's life.

God’s fingerprints, footprints, markings are everywhere.  We can bring this God into our story - into our life. 

This could cause panic. Maybe people intuitively reject allowing God into their way of seeing life, because they think He’s going to be a downer when it comes to life. They are right in that God can bring change and new life.

If you are into the babysitting world or caring for children, tell them about God - and go by way of footprints - that God is here.

Talk to kids. Point out the beauty of sunsets, sunrises, waves and lakes and rivers and monarch butterflies - eagles and owls - nests and mountain caves - they all tell us of the wonder of God.

Pray: Open up our eyes O Lord - to see your footsteps everywhere.
BOREDOM




Quote for Today - July, 15, 2013

"Somebody's boring me; I think it's me." 

Dylan Thomas [1914-1953]


Sunday, July 14, 2013

THE GREAT RIP OFF


A funny thing happened at St. Mary’s Church - Annapolis Maryland - on July 14, 2013.

It happened at the 12:30 and 5:30 Sunday Masses. People opened up the Breaking Bread Missalettes in the benches only to notice the readings for the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time were missing. Someone ripped out pages 193 to 196 - actually 2 pages - print on both sides.

“That’s funny!” or “That’s strange!” or “What happened here?” went through the different minds of the different people at the different Masses in the different benches that Sunday.

“Well,” different people thought, “I might as well listen to the readings since they’re not in the books.”

But as they did that, they noticed that different people were looking around - especially at people next to them - or in front of them - or even right behind them - because it seemed everyone was trying to figure out what happened. By the end of the first reading, it was quite a distraction.

Some people just shrugged their shoulders. Some people stiffened their shoulders. Some people cursed inwardly - like getting a library book and one discovers someone ripped out a few pages - and the story was really getting interesting - or someone marked up a book. Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. Ugly. And in Church mind you!

Well, as a result, sorry to say, some people found it difficult to pray that Sunday Mass.

What happened? Who did this? What’s going on?

Engineers and logical types - carefully examined the missalette they were holding - and if possible any other book still on a bench or in the book holders below the benches - to see if other books were altered. It was obviously a rip off or a rip out.

After Mass - on the way out, many people reported to the priest who had the Mass, “Father someone ripped out the pages of today’s readings from the Missalette.”

The priests for those two Sunday Masses at St. Mary’s at first were confused. “What?”

People repeated themselves, “Someone ripped out the pages for today’s readings in the missalettes .”

By the twentieth person the priest said, “Call the pastor!” - one of whom was the Pastor. He’s smart.

Different people called the pastor, but being Sunday - they only got the parish answering machine - which led to more frustration. Some found his e-mail address on line - and reported, “The Great Rip Off.”

Word got around the parish by Tuesday - even though it was summertime - what had happened.

Now for the rest of the story….

The priest - an old guy in his 70’s - who had the 10:30 Mass said that if you grasp the 3 readings for today - you have it all.

He pointed out that the first reading from Deuteronomy 30: 10 to 14 said that Moses said, “It’s not that complicated. God’s command is not mysterious or remote.  It’s not something you have to go up into the clouds or across the sea to discover. It’s right here - already in your hearts and minds - you just have to do it.” “Just do it!”

He pointed out that the second reading from Paul to the Colossians said that God is invisible, but Christ is the image of the invisible God - and you’ll find everything in him. He holds everything together. Get Christ and get him big.”

He pointed out that the scholar of the Law in today’s gospel from Luke  wanted to know the secret of inheriting eternal life. Don’t we all? So Jesus  threw a question back to him. “What’s written in the Law? How do you read it?” 

And the scholar answered, “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”

And Jesus told him, “You have answered correctly; do this and you will live.”

The old priest then said, “Well, the scholar knew Jesus was correct - but he also knew how difficult Part B was -  loving one’s neighbor as we love ourselves - so he hit Jesus with a what if - as if to say, “Do you have any idea who my neighbor is - and what he or she is like? In other words, he tried to justify himself - and get out the Part B obligation - loving one’s neighbor.”

“Thank God the scholar in the story did that,” the old priest said, “because as a result the world got the great Good Samaritan Parable.”

“How many people,” the old priest said, “have been helped down through the ages - thanks to the scholar of the Law asking Jesus, “Well, who is my neighbor?”

“How many people down through the ages changed their plans, opened their wallets, stopped their carts or cars, to help a person who was stuck?”

The old priest also told a funny example. He said, “You’re not going to believe this - but last Monday I was up in New Jersey for a picnic at our retreat house there. Well, there was also a group of young priests - mainly diocesan priests - making a workshop there at the same time.”

He continued, “Well on the dinner line the night before, I found himself next to a priest who looked familiar. I introduced myself to him saying, ‘I met you somewhere.’ And the young priest, ‘Yes, you look familiar. Maybe it was here. I was here two years ago for another workshop.’”

The old priest said, “The next day, Tuesday, I was on the lunch line this time and I heard this same priest talking to someone about a trip he took to the Holy Land in the year 2000.” 

The old priest continued, “Ten minutes later I realized that’s where I met this guy. I was on that same trip with him. It was a Priest Retreat - run by Father Steven Doyle - a Franciscan - and the young priest was with me on the bus. I think he was from the mid-west.”

“Now, here’s where it really gets interesting,” the old priest said. “We were in the bus  on that same road from  Jerusalem to Jericho. It was    the opposite way from today’s gospel. We were going from Jericho to Jerusalem. Well the young guy said to me that he was stuck for money - buying too many souvenirs for the folks back home. Would it be possible to lend me some money and I’ll pay you back when I get back  to the states?’ So I gave him a hundred dollars.”

And the old priest laughed. He said, “God, you have a great sense of humor and a great sense of timing.  It’s the story of the Good Samaritan again - who gave the Inn Keeper two silver coins and told him - if it’s costs more - I’ll will cover your costs the next time I come this way.”

“Obviously, as to the young priest, I let it slide about the money. That was a long time ago, and not wanting to embarrass him, I didn’t go over to  the young guy to tell him  where I remembered him from.

Then the old priest concluded, “These 3 readings contain it all. If we had these 3 readings in our wallets and read them from time to time - what a difference our lives would be.”



Well, evidently, many people discreetly ripped those 2 pages out of the missalette at that 10:30 Mass - thinking nobody would notice The Great Rip Off.



* Painting on top: Vincent Van Gogh, 1899, The Good Samaritan after Delacroix [1849] painting - below.






WELCOME

Quote for Today - July 14,  2013

"If we want the perfect host to take us into his eternal home when we come to knock at his door, he has told us himself what we have to do: we must  be ready to open our own door to the earthly guests who come our way."

Jean Danielou, The Lord of History, [1958]


Comment: Read this quote in the context of today's gospel from Luke 10:25-37 - especially the opening question from the scholar of the law: "Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?"

Saturday, July 13, 2013


FEEDING  
THE  FIRE WITHIN

Quote for Today - July 13, 2013

"To burn always 
with this hard gem-like flame.
To maintain this ecstasy, 
is success in life."

Walter Pater [1839-1894] in The Renaissance [1873], Conclusion




Friday, July 12, 2013


BREAK THE 
SELF BUBBLE

Quote for the Day - July 12,  2013

"The entire population of the universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others."

John Andrew Holmes

Thursday, July 11, 2013

PLEASE  STAY


Quote for Today  - July 11,  2013

"'Stay,' is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary."

Louisa May Alcott  [1832-1888]

Wednesday, July 10, 2013


HERE COMES THE JUDGE!

Quote for Today - July 10, 2013

"It is much more difficult to judge oneself than to judge others."  

Antoine de Saint-Exupere [1900-1944] in  The Little Prince [1943] Chapter 10


Question: Was Jesus getting at this with his many comments about judging others?  For example, Matthew 7:1; Luke 6:37; Luke 12: 14?

Monday, July 8, 2013

TWO FACED

Quote for Today - July 9, 2013

"I detest that one who hides one thing in the depth of his heart and speaks forth another."

Homer [c. 700 B.C.] in the Iliad 
HYPOCRITE

Quote for Today - July  8, 2013

"A hypocrite is a person who ... but who isn't?"

Don Marquis, quoted by Frederick B. Wilcox in A Little Book of Aphorisms


Sunday, July 7, 2013


WHAT’S THE PLAN?

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C, is, “What’s the Plan?”

My homily is the question - more than the answer.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel from Luke 10: 1-12, 17-20, we have this interesting incident of the 72 others whom Jesus appointed. It’s the only place in the Gospels where we hear about this particular plan of Jesus to send 72 people - 2 by 2, ahead of him - to places where he planned to visit.

Questions hit me as I read that.

How did he pick the 72? Did Jesus have a meeting? Did he line up the 72? Did he do the pairing? Did they get sort of  a packet that listed the points they were to cover - when they visited different towns - and different homes in a town? I don’t think so. I picture them telling folks about Jesus - that he was coming soon to their town - and this is what he told us and this is what he’ll do for you.

What’s the plan?

In today’s gospel we hear Jesus give an entrance strategy. Enter a town. Find peaceful people there. Say to them, “Peace to this household…. If they greet you and invite you into their homes - stay there. Eat and drink what they offer. Don’t switch homes. Cure the sick. Tell the people that the Kingdom of God is at hand for you.”

Except for that last part - curing and proclaiming the Kingdom of God - it sounds like the Navy Academy’s Sponsor Family program for the Middies.

In today’s gospel we also hear Jesus give an exit strategy. If that town rejects you, “Shake the dust of that town off your feet and move on.”  Then there is the scary message: if they reject you it will be more tolerable for Sodom on that day than on that town.

I also found that an intriguing comment - because just Sunday in this same  gospel from Luke, he chides James and John for wanting to call down fire from heaven to burn down a Samaritan town for not welcoming them.

Well, the 72 went 2 by 2 and did that. Then they came back rejoicing. They told  Jesus how well it went. Jesus said he saw Satan, serpents and scorpions destroyed as a result of their mission.  Then he added, “Do not rejoice because the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice because your names are written in heaven.”

WHAT’S YOUR PLAN

So when I read all this, I heard the “What’s The Plan?” question.

How many times do we hear that question in our lifetime?

Fourth of July just happened. How many times were we asked, “What’s your plan for the Fourth of July?”

It’s summer time. How many times were we asked, “Are you going anywhere this summer?”

It’s the weekend. “What’s your plan?”

Today: any plans?

A kid comes finishes college - comes home - is just sitting around. A parent asks,  “What’s your plan?”

One’s life: what’s the plan?

MY LIFE - WHAT’S  MY  PLAN?

My life plan was to become a priest and go to Brazil. A priest from our parish in Brooklyn N.Y. came into our grammar school classroom when we were kids - told us about his work in Brazil. It sounded great and exciting. Then he asked if anyone here wants to be a priest when they grow up - and go to  Brazil. I raised my hand.  What did I know?

Great plan - it worked so many times in the past.

Years later I read an autobiography of Father Andrew Greeley - who died at the end of May. He wrote about that same thing happening to him in the 3rd grade or so. Then he added: “I never took down my hand.”

Most of those whom I went to the seminary with, left, but they tried it - but some of us - this has been our life.

I’m sure all of us here sat in classrooms, churches, stadiums, saw the Blue Angels, remember them, and said, “When I grow up I’m going to be a ________.” Fill in the blank.

And you know the saying, “Life is what happens when we are making other plans.”

I remember giving a nuns’ retreat one summer to some nuns in Cleveland. One evening we were sitting around in the dining room. This nun with a beer in hand told us her story. She was originally from Ireland. She said that her order sent two nuns every year to Ireland. They would go to different towns and ask the heads of schools: “What gals here would make great nuns?”  Then they would talk to the school kids - with those girls in mind - and in sight.

Then she paused: “Well, that’s how I got here. That’s me.” She told the story of going with her dad by train to Cork. They checked in her suitcase at the boat. There was still  3 hours till boarding. So the  - two of them went to a pub across the street and had a great lunch together - plus her first beer. They clinked their glasses. Then she said she was off to Texas and a new life.

She added, “It has been good” but  then with tears in her eyes she said, “That was the last time I saw my dad.”  Pause: “Then she said that has been the story of so many of us.” Pause: “Then with a great smile: “and it has been a wonderful life.”

That moment triggered for me stories about my dad. He too was from Ireland. My mom told he wrote love letters to her for ten years when she was in Boston and he was in New York. The last letter said, “If you don’t marry me I’m going to become an Irish Christian Brother.” It worked. Thank God she finally said, “Yes!”  otherwise - fill in the blank. He had 3 sisters who joined the Sisters of Mercy in Portland, Maine - and that was their life. Two died very early. I never met them - but I went with my dad as a teenager to their graves - along with his sister, Sister Mary Patrick who lived up in Maine and served as a sister of Mercy for over 50 years.  I also remember going there with my mom and my sister Peggy who is a nun - years later - after my dad had died - to visit the graves of all 3 sisters.

What’s the plan?

What has been the plan of your life?

School? Work? Marriage? Family? See your kids get schooling, work, marriage, family?  Seeing your kids having kids and on and on and on.

What’s the plan?

Isn’t  it the message we heard in today’s first reading from Isaiah 66: 10-14 - to find our Jerusalem - our dream city, our dream place, our dream situation, and suck fully the milk of that abundant breast? Isn’t it that place where our heart will rejoice and our bodies flourish like the grass as Isaiah describes all this in the first reading.

Isn’t it also the reality we hear in today’s second reading from Paul’s Letter to the Galatians 6: 14-18? Isn’t life Christ? Isn’t our plan  to experience in our being his peace and his mercy - to bring about new creations in our life - even though it means at times that we bear the marks of Jesus on our body in a long life of service to each other?

CONCLUSION: WORK AND RELATIONSHIPS

I once heard a talk by John Shea, who like Father Andrew Greeley, was a priest from Chicago. Both did a lot of writing. He said that he had heard a talk by Greg Pierce who said that the two key issues in life were work and relationships. Pierce said: that’s where people spend their lives. Then he added something like, “And you preachers rarely focus on those two areas in your homilies.”

Having heard that I had a plan. Those are the two big areas I have focused on in the past 15 years. I never got to Brazil, but I got to get into a lot of lives in my lifetime.

Like everyone, I wonder if I have made a difference with my life. I don’t say that to get cookies. I say that and all this that you look into your life today - and ask yourself: “What’s my plan?”

What’s my life work?

And whom am I doing it with. Most people get married - and go two by two - and we enter the lives and homes of lots of people.

What’s our plan? What’s our life work?


We didn’t get a packet from Jesus what to say - except to bring peace and care and curing for each other - and help folks with their snakes and scorpions - and then move on - not with dust on our feet - in some grave - but with the marks of Christ on our lives and resurrection in the air. 
WORK

Quote for Today -  July 7,  2013


"Work: The significance of the individual."

Jean Paul Sartre [1905-1980]

Saturday, July 6, 2013


SAY OUR FEW WORDS

Quote for Today - July 6,  2013

"I want no more than to speak simply, 
to  be granted that grace ...
and it's time to say our few words
because tomorrow the soul sets sail."

George Seferis [1900-1971] 

An Old Man of the River Bank [1942]

Question:  If you want to say one thing before you die, what is it?


Friday, July 5, 2013


OLD  AGE

Quote for Today - July 5,  2013

"There's no such thing as old age; there is only sorrow."

Edith Wharton [1862-1937], A Backward Glance [1934], A First Word.

Thursday, July 4, 2013

MERTON 
ON  A  DEEPER 
FREEDOM 




Quote for the Day -  July 4, 2013

FREEDOM

"A superficial freedom to wander  aimlessly here or there, to taste this or that, to make a choice of distractions (in Pascal's sense) is simply a sham. It claims to be a freedom of 'choice' when it has evaded the basic task of discovering who it is that chooses."

Thomas Merton [1915-1968], Love and Living, 1979






Wednesday, July 3, 2013

A COMMITTEE

Quote for Today - July 3, 2013

"A committee should consist of three men, two of whom are absent."

Herbert Beerbohm Tree.

Comment: This quote was in the bridge column in the Annapolis Capital - which often has great quotes. So it's from "Win At Bridge," by Philip Alder, Annapolis Capital, Monday, July 1, 2013, page B7. It describes Herbert Beerbohm  Tree this way: "an English actor and theater manager who died in 1917...."

Tuesday, July 2, 2013


DON’T LOOK BACK

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 13 Tuesday in Ordinary Time  is, “Don’t Look Back!”

When I read today’s first reading, I heard - loud and clear - that simple imperative command: “Don’t Look Back!”

I would guess many  homilies for today’s readings  will stress that theme - because it’s worth thinking about - and we’ve heard it 100 times.

Okay, some preachers will go with the gospel and stress having faith in Jesus - to be able to ride out the storms of life.

LOT’S WIFE

I’m sure every other year when we have this first reading from Genesis, I think about this story of  Lot’s wife - who looked backwards and as a result she was turned into a pillar of salt.

I read somewhere that there are pillars of salt in various desert areas that look like people - and I’m sure this story came out of someone’s imagination - as well as life experience - and like the other great stories in Genesis, this story has one of life’s great messages: Don’t get stuck in the past.

I’ve been in several car situations when a back seat driver started giving orders to the driver - not to worry about the person who is on your back - or on your tail. Don’t look back and let him get you antsy and angry. Pay attention to the traffic in front of you.

We can get stuck in the rear view mirror - in the past - and as a result it effects our present moments as well as our future.

LOTS OF PEOPLE - NOT JUST LOT’S WIFE

Before I came to Annapolis, I spent 8 ½ years preaching parish missions - mostly in Ohio. I’ll never forget the woman a pastor and an associate in some parish - asked me to visit in a nursing home. It wasn’t confession. In fact, I wish it could have been that - and Christ would forgiver her of something she had done I guess in her life.  She was stuck in a tape recording - she was going to hell. She said that 50 times in a 30 minute visit. I tried to tell her God does not have a pitchfork and when we die, he pitchforks lots of folks into hell. That night at supper they asked how I did. I said, “No luck!” They said: Sorry it looks like nothing can help her. Woo. I wished when she got her dementia big time, she got stuck on a forgiving and loving God - instead of an angry God.

So it’s lots of people - not just Lot’s wife - who look back  - and keep looking back - and they get stuck in their past - especially past mistakes.

Today’s gospel has folks in a boat and they are filled with fear - and they don’t trust in Jesus. It takes faith to accept forgiveness and move on to the future.

When we make a mistake - say or do the wrong thing - we can get stuck in our mistake. It  can affect our ability to listen - to be aware of what’s going on in the present moment.

We’ve all heard Satchel Paige’s comment: “Don’t look back. Something may be gaining on you.”  It’s from his book, How to Keep Young  [1953].

Don Baylor, another baseball player - and then a manager, said,  “In baseball you can’t let losing carry over to the next day. You’ve got to flip the page.”

CONCLUSION

At coffee breaks, at cocktail parties, as well as hors d’oeuvres time, people tend to walk away from those who are old story tellers - especially if we’ve heard the stories 1,000 times - or they are exaggerations.

While at the same time, there are of course story tellers who are interesting.

And of course it’s important to be in touch with our past.  After all, these very scriptures are filled with stories - and they give us a common memory. Aren’t we here at Mass - doing all this - in memory of Jesus?


However, the Lot’s wife’s story give us the warning or not getting stuck in our memories - instead of living our lives forwards. 
THE PAST CONTINUES




Quote for Today - July 2, 2013


“The past is not dead. In fact, it’s not even past.” 


William Faulkner  [1897-1962]