STRAIGHTFOWARD
OR
SIDEWAYS SPEECH?
The title of my homily for this first Monday in Ordinary
Time is, “Straightforward Or Sideways Speech.”
Another title could be, “Direct or Indirect Speech.”
QUESTIONS
Is most communication sideways, indirect, backdoor, giving
the other time to discover or notice or figure out the message?
Is 99% of communication body language and 1% words?
Is most communication unconscious speaking to unconscious -
and we only figure out who the other and what they are saying 25 minutes or 25
days or 25 years later?
How many times have we heard in the past 25 years someone
saying in a sermon the following words attributed to St. Francis of Assisi,
“Preach the gospel; sometimes use words.”
STORIES
Two of my favorite stories are basically the same story.
The first is from The
Fiddler on the Roof when Tevye asks his wife, Golde, if she loves him.”
She gives a list of all the things she’s done for him for 25 years of marriage - cooking, cleaning, but he still asks, “Do you love me?” She won’t give a direct answer - but moves to, “I suppose I do.” Then both sing, “After 25 years it’s nice to know.”
She gives a list of all the things she’s done for him for 25 years of marriage - cooking, cleaning, but he still asks, “Do you love me?” She won’t give a direct answer - but moves to, “I suppose I do.” Then both sing, “After 25 years it’s nice to know.”
The second story is also from Broadway. In a play a little
girl is whining that nobody around here ever tells her that they love her.
Someone says, “You’re wrong. Last night at supper you aunt said that she loves
you.” The girl says, “She did not. When did she say that?” The speaker says,
“She said, ‘Don’t eat too fast.’”
TODAY’S READINGS
Today first reading - Hebrews
1: 1-6 triggered this homily.
The writer says that in the past God spoke in partial
ways. The writer says that God speaks in
partial ways and in various ways. Then he says that God speaks directly through
his Son. The author also uses the word “imprint”. I didn’t get a chance to look
up what the Greek word is - but I’m sure it has the idea that if you see
footprints, someone was there - if you see fingerprints on the glass door,
someone was there. Then the author of Hebrews adds the verb “sustains”. God
sustains all.
If you want to get in touch with that last theme of
“sustaining” - read The Book of Job -
especially The Lord’s Speech - Chapters 38-30. It tells us about how God is
keeping the vast enterprise - this big house going. This is a powerful theme to
keep exploring. This planet is around 4.5 billion years old. There’s a message here
somewhere.
Today’s gospel - Mark 1: 14-20 - is an example of straightforward and direct speech.
Jesus comes up to four fishermen, Peter and Andrew, James and John, and says,
“Come after me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
CONCLUSION
The title of my homily is, “Straight Forward Or Sideways
Speech.”
Today - let’s open our eyes and our ears and see and hear
Jesus’ calls to us - calls that are direct and indirect, straightforward and
sideways.
Today, we’re already saying a lot with our feet by being
here. It’s indirect and sideways - but God understands all languages.
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