Monday, December 25, 2017

December 25, 2017



BRAGGING RIGHTS



Do chairs - airplane seats - ball point pens -
bathrooms - staircases - elevators - escalators -
brag who sat in them or used them. Do they?

How about mangers, cribs, with animal teeth

marks on their wood.  Did one  ever say: "Hey 
I held hay - but I also held the Lord Jesus?"

How about hands and tongues and teeth and

sweet and sour breath, do they realize they
chew and touch the Lord Jesus in Communion?


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017





Sunday, December 24, 2017



WHO’S  AFRAID?

 INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Sunday in Advent [B]  is, “Who’s Afraid?”

This is a homily -  that I basically came up with while walking home last night. Then I typed it up this morning.

Being afraid - being fearful - being scared - is a theme that shows up in everyone’s life.

Who’s afraid?

We hear it from our parents - who want us to fall asleep - sleep in our own bed - as they say, “Don’t be afraid of the dark!” so “Go to sleep!” - so we can relax and watch NCIS or NCAA basketball or what have you.

We hear it in children’s literature, “Who’s Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf?” And we hear it in adult literature and plays and movies, “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Wolfe?”

We hear it all through scriptures: Adam and Eve were afraid and hid from God. So too Abraham, Moses, Joseph, the Prophets. 

Now,  today in our gospel, the angel Gabriel says to Mary, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.”

Who’s afraid?

EVERY ONE

Last night I walked back from the Annapolis Maritime Museum. I   was at a wedding reception after a wedding I had here at St. Mary’s at 3 PM.  The Annapolis Maritime Museum is at the other end of the Maritime Republic of Eastport. It's about a 20  minute walk from St. Mary’s to there. I wanted to get in my 10,000 plus steps on my Fitbit. I got 12,000 steps yesterday.

Back to my story. 

It was dark - walking back - through the streets of Eastport.

I was thinking while walking - that I need to get back here and finish my homily for this morning. After reading the gospel yesterday after noon, I had decided that I wanted to think  out loud about,  “Who’s Afraid?”

I asked myself while walking, “Are you afraid of the dark?”

It was dark. I was all by myself. There was not that much light. I haven’t heard about robberies at night in Eastport. Was I afraid?

Nope. But I was afraid of stepping into a big puddle of water in the dark.

And as I walked up Severn Avenue  I was afraid - for a moment there - of cars - because I had to walk in the street in two spots because of some big puddles. It had rained heavy. Moreover, it was Saturday night and there are a lot of restaurants on Severn Avenue and people drink. So I was careful. I didn’t want to be splashed or hit by a car while walking. That’s a fear - but not a big one.

So there are fears: big fears and little fears.

As I walked along  I was thinking of that Charlie Brown cartoon that talked about different types of phobias: potaphobia, fear of drink - not of getting a pot - but that can happen Then there is  elevatoraphobia, fear of elevators or  agoraphobia, fear of crowds or the marketplace. Well, then to top everyone, Charlie Brown says he has Pantaphobia. “What’s that?”, Lucy or someone asks.  He answers, “Fear of everything.”

QUESTIONS

Here are some questions for all of us on this question of being afraid or being filled with fear. 

What are your phobias, fears? What are you afraid of?

Fluaphobia, Icyroadsaphobia, canceraphobia, Traffictieupaphobia, deathaphobia, governamentaphobia, nuclearwarphobia?

The title of my homily is, “Who’s Afraid?”

Is everyone afraid of something?

Is everyone afraid of someone - some specific person?

Is it all relative?

I remember a lady - someone in some other assignment - at a coffee break or during an after church conversation - telling me, “Whenever it hits July 4th - yes July 4th - I feel myself getting nervous?"

"Why?"

"Why?  Well, because Christmas is coming and we have to see my husband’s mother in California. every Christmas.”

As I was walking home last night - back here to St. Mary’s - I said, "That's stuff is about others. What about you, Andrew. What are your fears?"

As I walked I began thinking. Then I remembered something that happened to me every year in January of 1984 to 1993.

I would get a nasty pain in the back - above my right cheek - just below my belt -  every year near the end of January.

I’m slow, but it took me 5 or 6 years - probably by 1990 - to realize what was causing this pain in the butt.

I had a job called “Novice Master” - and I would have around 10 to 12 novices for a year and a day. I did that 9 years for 9 classes. It went August to August. Well, January was the mid-point and I had to screen these future Redemptorists. That meant I might have to cut some folks.

It took me 5 or 6 years to realize how tough that is - dealing with the future of someone’s life. I used to hear when I went through the seminary system that this was God’s will. I didn’t believe that. I still don’t. I don’t want to - or pretend to - know or be God’s will.

I had to make the decision - along with an assistant - but I was the main guy - whether this other guy goes on or not.

I was dealing with another’s life….

Looking back further - in our 4th year of college - our second year of philosophy - in Ethics class - we were given topics for debates. We were paired up with one other guy. One was to be pro and the other con on an ethical issue. Myself and a guy name Ray were given Capital Punishment. He was told to be pro - for - Capital Punishment - and I was to be con - against - Capital Punishment. I spent a good 3 weeks reading all I could about Capital Punishment - pro’s and con’s  - facts and figures.  We had the debate. I lost big. The professor was all for Capital Punishment.

Looking back I realize I lucked out being given the assignment to be against Capital Punishment - because that’s me. I don’t want to play God. I’d be afraid of being part of the taking of a person’s life - and who knows? Mistakes can be made. People can repent. Etc. Etc. Etc.

CONCLUSION

I’m not in a debate here in this sermon.

I’m simply in this homily addressing the question and issue of being afraid.

I’m asking, “Who’s afraid?”

I’m asking all of us to look at what we  are afraid of?

If you’re scared of dark streets, call a Uber - unless you have Uberaphobia or go in your own car - or tell people you can’t make the reception that night. Sorry.

If you’re afraid, do what Mary does in today’s gospel, “Ask questions” and then when satisfied, say what Mary said, “Behold I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.”

And ooops, I better add a very important closing comment here - which you don’t have agree on - and from my experience - some of you will not agree upon. Life - a lot of life - is very much up for debate.

I believe that phrase, “according to your word” - does not mean - what a lot of people thinks it means - that God has a specific plan for all of us - what we are to do that day - detail by detail.  I see “according to  your word” to mean that God’s plan for all of us each day is to love the Lord our God, with our whole heart, mind, soul and strength and to love our neighbor as ourselves today - and then watch and see what unfolds. Amen.



December 24, 2017


SLOW  LEARNER 

The shepherds knew….
The Innkeeper didn’t.
The donkey, the ox,
the sheep and the lamb,
sensed something was different.
This night …. It was different….
The Magi figured and followed ….
Herod knew enough to plot and kill….
Jesus and Mary were okay up to now….
Me? It’s been years now.
I still don’t know if I slowly getting it.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017






Saturday, December 23, 2017



CHRISTMAS GREETINGS



December 23, 2017




SOMETIMES  GOD

Sometimes God winks through
a morning cloud in the east  - in
a shaft of light - dawn, “Here I am.”

Sometimes God waves to us with a baby’s
hand and a smile from a shopping cart
in the bread aisle at the supermarket.

Sometimes God seems to be hiding
in the hospital waiting room or in the
dark night of my soul - way past midnight.

Sometimes God, I doubt your presence,
that is, till I kneel there at the Christmas
crib and it dawns on me: you are… I am.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017



Friday, December 22, 2017

December 22, 2017

EVERY TABLE


Salt and pepper on every table….
Better: love, talk about the day …
and bread and wine becoming
the Body and Blood of Christ  -
at every meal - every  table -
in every marriage - every family.
Amen. Come Lord Jesus.


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017



Thursday, December 21, 2017

December 21, 2017


CONSEQUENCES

Everything has consequences:
a scratched match, side alley gossip,
promises made with a drink in the
blood, a lie we know to be untrue,
a prayer, a curse, a question,
and a key vote at a crucial meeting.


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
Painting: Degas, In a Cafe


Wednesday, December 20, 2017

December 20, 2017


EDGES

Rocks, water, woods, walkways,
along the edges of our lives -
remind us that there are limits.
Fences, walls, rules and regulations,
signs, saying “Closed” or  “Dead End,”
tell us there are edges beyond
which we cannot go.  Not yet ….

Yet our eyes and our minds see
what's on the other side of fences 
and the beyond - beyond our boundaries.
It’s then we know we are made  
in your image and likeness, O God.
It’s then we know these are only the
edges of endings which never end.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Tuesday, December 19, 2017


HEROES


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for December 19th  is, “Heroes.”

“Heroes.”

Today’s two readings give us two big bible heroes: Samson and John the Baptist.

They are placed together here in our readings for today, because both have similar stories.

Both readings begin with moms who were barren - without a child - and then there is a promise of a child. After their birth, the story of Samson and John the Baptist growing up have incidents of surprise and strange patterns of eating.

And if you put both readings side by side you can see Luke knew the story of Samson in the Book of Judges.  For example Samson’s mom is told to be careful and take no wine or strong drink and to eat nothing unclean. John the Baptist in turn is described as drinking neither wine nor strong drink.

Then we read in the Book of Judges and the gospel of Luke what made them heroes.

QUESTIONS

Do we all have heroes?

In growing up do we all need heroes?

Who have been our heroes?

Then the big question: have we ever done anything heroic?

HEROES

The bible presents us with some amazing heroes.

Our Catholic church presents us with many heroes, especially the saints.

Our sports world and our world history provides us with outstanding examples of presidents like Abraham Lincoln and Nelson Mandela.

Of course there are degrees  and disagreements about heroes.

Heroes are big sandwiches with the right ingredients: integrity, leadership, security, saving others, giving hope to others.

Heroes  provide support, hope,  victory, and courage. They give us nerve. They   embolden  us. They help us to be unafraid.

They are givers not takers. 

They are movers and they are shakers.

They teach us how to live and how to die.

MOVING TOWARDS A CONCLUSION

The title of my homily is, “Heroes.”

It used to be a title just for men - and heroines for women. Now the title, "heroes" works for both men and women.

Thanks for listening. I want to do some more thinking about the topic - especially the question, “Who have been my heroes?”

I grew up as the youngest and my brother was the oldest of us four. Like most younger brothers I lived in my brother’s shadow - but it wasn’t till his cancer - which began with a doctor giving him the news - ironically - on a Good Friday, “You have 18 months to live at the most.” I asked him then and there, “How are you going to deal with this?”  His answer: “I’ll let you know.”

It was how he dealt with death and his cancer treatments that I realized he was a hero to me. Near his death, he said to me, “You asked me how I would deal with this. Well, thank God for mom and dad who gave us faith.” Then he added, “Besides faith, I tried humor. I tried to think only of others. Also I did my exercise and whatever the doctors told me to do.”

CONCLUSION

So give the idea of heroes some thought.

Check out Davie Bowie’s song, “Heroes” as well as Bette Midler’s song, “Wing beneath my wings.


December 19, 2017


HINGE

Lord, please be a hinge ….
A secure hinge - with tightened screws -
holding up the door - firmly - the door
that opens and closes between us.
“Knock, knock!” “Who’s there?” “Me!”
“Will you please open up to me right now?”

©  Andy Costello, Reflections  2017







Monday, December 18, 2017


BETHLEHEM

INTRODUCTION

The title of my reflection for today is, “Bethlehem.”

Bethlehem is a Christmas word. It’s the traditional place where Jesus is born.

SOME DATA

Mathew and Luke have the so called infancy narratives and that’s where we find mention of Bethlehem.

Bethlehem is also the traditional place where David was born 1000 years before Christ.

The distance between Jerusalem and Bethlehem is more or less 5.52 miles.

The distance from Nazareth to Bethlehem  is 68 Miles.

Bethlehem has  been a place of pilgrimage down through the centuries.

It has been a place of looting, burning, and violence down through the centuries. Right now at this time there have been some shooting and protesting - like the burning of signs of Vice  President  Pence.

The Christian community keeps getting smaller - because of push back.

Jews, Christians and Muslims inhabit the place.

When I was there in the year 2000 the bus had to park in a big bus depot up a bit from where the so called birthplace of Jesus is.


You walk from the bus depot  a few streets and then you can  enter the so called birthplace through a low door entrance - built that way to block horses from  entering - or carts for looting. Poets would say it’s to stress humility. In fact it's called, "The Door of Humility."  Tour guides like to mention the meaning of  having to bend down - to have access to the place of Jesus’ birth.

There’s a silver star on a spot  where they say Jesus was born.  St. Jerome didn’t like it - and said the reality of the place was rich without the need for silver.

Jerome settled in Bethlehem and did some of his writings there and translations of the Bible into Latin.

Its population today is about 25 thousand people.

There are 3 big celebrations around this time: December 25 for some Christians; January 6th, for some Christians  - the epiphany; - and January 19th for Armenian Christians.

MEDITATION  POINTS

Make sure you meditate and pray at this holy time - by stopping at the crib in every church you enter during the Christmas season. Bring the kids to the crèche in your  church. Say a prayer and take a piece of straw.

Have a crib under your tree. I hear people complaining about others blocking Christmas crèche in city spots. I respond: it’s reality. Not everyone is a Christian. Have one in your home or front or back yard or wherever.

Have an opinion - but think first - about public messages about bringing Christmas back.  One person in the news is implying that Christmas has been disappearing and we need to bring it back.  Another person in the news, is saying, “Christmas has never gone away.”  How do you see it?

I like to meditate on the word background  of the word “Bethlehem”.   Beth is the second letter of the alphBETH. The letter B is formed in the image of a house.  In Hebrew, Bethlehem means house of Bread. Lehem is the word for bread. In Arabic, it's Beth lahem. House of meat.  Lahem means meat. So Christ is the bread  and Christ is the meat. Christ is the lamb sacrificed. Christ sits at our table - breaking bread with us - hoping to be in communion with us.  
December 18, 2017


FOUND  KEY

I spotted a key on the sidewalk.
Just a key - with a hole in it, but
no key chain, no nothing on it.

Is someone searching right now
for a lost key or saying a prayer to
Saint Anthony or are they locked out?

I’m still looking for the key to God
and how to be happy and how to
not be a pain in the butt to others.

How about you? Have you lost any keys?
What have you figured out so far in life? 
What's your number one key to ______?
you lost?



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


Sunday, December 17, 2017


DOWN SYNDROME
DANCE

INTRODUCTION

For a homily today and for a reflection, I would  like to use a homily that I heard on the radio by a Rev. Rosemary Wakeland. She preached it for this Sunday -- the third Sunday in Advent.

DOWN SYNDROME

She began her homily this way.

She once worked with young people who were handicapped: mentally, physically, etc. She said that every Saturday night they would have a social: games and dances - barn dances, group dancing, etc.

And she said that the kids with Down Syndrome had a good sense of rhythm and enjoyed the beat. They were good dancers and really enjoyed the dancing.

And she said that every once and a while in the midst of the dance, when she was dancing with the kids, in the midst of the joy, and the celebration, the rejoicing, a wave of sadness would come over her. It would wipe her out, because she would begin to think about these kids. Wouldn’t it be great if they were normal? Wouldn’t it be great if they could be out there on the dance floor enjoying life like normal kids? Wouldn’t that be great? If only that one chromosome or whatever it was, was okay. As well as the other handicapped kids. Why do they have to suffer this hell? Couldn’t they be out there enjoying a normal life? That would be heaven.

SECOND THOUGHTS

And then another thing would hit her, perhaps later on in the evening, when she was alone. She would begin to think about people who have everything, especially people who lord it over other people, who step on people, who make life miserable for other people. Then she would say to herself, “You know someday they are going to have to face judgment and they are going to get their hell.” They are going to be judged. Just as these kids will get their heaven. When all will be right. Everything will be righted someday in heaven, while there will be judgment on us.

THIRD THOUGHTS

And then it would hit her, Me? What about me? Look at the ways I cause hell for other people. And there will be judgment on me.

FOURTH THOUGHTS

And she said that at that point it would become too much for her. She would then fall into prayer because she knew she wasn’t right. She knew she couldn’t make things right by herself or straighten out the hell and the hurt she had caused in others. Only God could make things right. Only God could save her.

She was feeling and thinking about some powerful thoughts and feelings there.

Well, what she said really hit me.

THIRD SUNDAY OF ADVENT

Then Rosemary tied her thoughts and feelings into today’s readings.

Today is John the Baptist Sunday. She said that John the Baptist saw hell all around him. And he began to proclaim heaven. He wanted to make things right. He preached judgment on his people, the Israelites.  He preached hell and judgment against the Romans. They were living on occupied land. He preached that someone was going to come and make things right. Someone was going to come and make things right. The Messiah.

Then he added, that he, John the Baptist, was not the Messiah. And we’re going to hear the readings this week about John the Baptist, He points to Jesus. That Jesus is the one. He’s the one who is going to redeem Israel and save us.

Wow.

A few months later John is in prison and everything has gone wrong. And in prison he hears about Jesus and Jesus is not living up to his (John’s) expectations. So he sends messengers to Jesus, “Are you the one to come or should we expect someone else?” Someone else who will make it all right.  And we know what Jesus tells the delegates.

Aren’t we like John the Baptist? We want things right now. And in our mind we know the way that things should be. It’s our vision, our scenario, our plan, our model, our dream. That’s the way things should be.

And we think that someone out there can come in here and make things right. If only we had the right person, the right people, we could make this the right community.

What we are doing is picturing the solution to be out there. The messiah is out there, the answer is out there, the plan is out there, the secret is out there.

Rosemary says that if that is our vision and our way then Advent is still taking place for us. Christmas has not taken place yet.

Christmas can have happened already.

Christ was a baby a long time ago.

The kingdom of God has already come.

Heaven is already here.

The kingdom of God is here. The kingdom of God is in our midst. It’s within.

In our minds.

And Jesus and the whole body of Christ, can make things right according to the plan of Jesus. Not with the love of power, but with the power of love. Not with a power from outside that will come in and make things right, all straightened out with power, no, but with the power of love, which is a horse of a different color. It takes in patience, understanding, hope, prayer, all. The kingdom of heaven is here.

TODAY’S READINGS

Looking at today’s readings, we are the lowly whom Jesus brings glad tidings to. We are the broken hearted whom Jesus heals. We are the captives who hear the proclamation of liberty.  We are prisoners who are being released. And this year, this moment is a year of favor from the Lord. And when we realize we’re it  Jesus way is it,  then make things right to bring about heaven where there is hell.

Then we can begin to rejoice heartily in the Lord, because God, like Mary, said is the Joy of our soul. And he is clothed us with the robe of salvation wrapped in a mantle of justice. We’re like a bridegroom and bride adorned with jewels and this earth will bring forth its plants and this place here is the garden, springing up and the Lord’s justice and peace will spring up here before all the nations, that we’ll rejoice in the Lord always as Paul says in today’s second reading, without ceasing. We’ll make this real because it’s taking place now. Heaven is here.

ORIGINAL SIN

So to return to the original story, when Rev. Rosemary in a moment of joy saw sorrow, so too we in the moment of sadness, can see joy. Heaven in hell. In moments of wanting power, to straighten it all out there to see Jesus in the dance, the dirge, of hell, glimpses of God in the sadness, the Kingdom of God is here. The one who can make it right is here. His way not our way.

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Here is her homily:

CHRIST’S WAY,
NOT JOHN’S,
NOT OUR’S

3 Sunday Advent B


Some years ago I worked with mentally handicapped young people.

Once a week we had a social evening. We shared, friends and staff, with the young people. It was great fun. We played games, but mainly we danced: country dances, group dances, square dances, and barn dancing.

A lot of young people had Down Syndrome. They usually loved music and had a good sense of rhythm. So it was good to dance with them.

I had my favorite partners and got to know some of them fairly well, especially in the dancing when they often or not were knocking me in the knee.

Sometimes, when I looked at them, I would get a certain vision of what it would be like if they had not had that extra chromosome.

It used to make me catch my breath and fall away in anger.

They should be so disfigured.

But that was usually followed by an irrational thought that one day it would be all right. They would appear as they should be.

I suppose I was caught up in the common human experience of believing that something better is coming, that one day wrongs will be righted, that there is some sort of justice at the heart of things.

My hope of seeing them as they should be was all mixed up with thoughts of heaven, a belief in a time or an another world when all ills will be healed and at last we shall be whole.

And mixed up with that is the hope that people who deliberately make other people live in hell should at least be caught up with and that is when it starts to get uncomfortable, because I knew that there had been times when I’ve made life hell for other people.

And if there is justice for them, there will be for me too.

JOHN THE BAPTIST SUNDAY

This is the Sunday in Advent when we remember John the Baptist.

The Jews believed that tomorrow could be different.

It was not just wishful thinking, but firmly based in the promises of God.

And the promises included the coming of a special person, who would establish God’s rule of righteousness on earth.

John came to get things ready for the coming of this special person, who was going to get life right, the way as God meant it to be.

John was quite uncompromising.

Everyone had gotten it wrong.

Everyone must repent or it was going to be the worst for them.

The coming one was coming in judgment with God’s full authority to sort the good from the bad.

So the expectation was high.

The trespassers, like the Roman occupying force, were going to get their come uppance.

And there was  a general drive to get one’s house in order to escape the coming judgment.

So it all seemed a bit odd that it was only a few months after Jesus had appeared on the scene and John had recognized him as God’s special person that John is in prison.

Shortly to be executed and he is sending messages to Jesus asking him if he really was the right one.

The problem was that Jesus had not come up to expectations.

Those people hoped for someone who would reestablish Jewish sovereignty and get rid of the Romans.

John possibly had in mind a high profile judgmental person, who would wade into sinful humanity, stamping out sin and promoting the righteous.

Instead they got Jesus who had his own ideas.

He certainly had no doubt that things could be better, that the sick could be healed, that the prisoners could be released, that sins could be forgiven, that the sinner could start again.

And that all this was not some far off day, but now. God’s kingdom was already happening right there in an occupied territory of the Roman empire without a sword being drawn.

The new kingdom was not about the love of power but the power of love.

Human behavior and reactions have not changed much through the centuries. Millions pay lip service to the Gospel of Jesus,  but actually trusting the power of love and risking the suffering that might follow is too risky. Usually we prefer the bomb and the bullet. Trusting the power of love means being vulnerable. That’s hard. People in Jesus day couldn’t cope with it any more than we can today.

Plenty have risked it individually and in groups but never at institutional level. The gospel story is the end of the beginning. The kingdom is within you. If not, Advent is still the time of hope.