Tuesday, June 26, 2018


June 26, 2018 

Thought for today: 

“After the first death,  there is no other.” 


Dylan Thomas 1914-1953, 
in Death and Entrances (1946) 
in, “A Refusal to Mourn the death, 
by Fire, of a Child in London.” 
It was on this day, June 26, 1970 
that my father died in Moses 
Maimonides Hospital 
in Brooklyn, New York

Monday, June 25, 2018



WRONG  BUZZZZZZZZZZZ


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 12 Monday in Ordinary time is, “Wrong Buzzzzzzzzzzz!”

I would like to say a few words about an issue we are all very aware of: Judging!  And it triggers that “I don’ like it when I do this.”

We are all aware of this. We all confess this.  We all have had at least 263 instances in our life - when we judged someone and we were wrong!

Wrong!

IMAGINARY RED BUTTON

Purchase an imaginary red button. It doesn’t cost anything. And buy the large size red one. Keep it right here on your - right side - hip high - if you’re a righty or hip high - on your left side - if you’re a lefty.

Right here about 12 inches from your side - and whenever you judge someone - hit that button - and make it give off a loud obnoxious buzzzzzz!

Hit it - every time you judge someone.  Of course keep it in mute mode,  That is: you hear the buzzzzzzz - but nobody else  does it.

However, every once and a while, someone might spot you hitting that imaginary red button - just off your side - hip high - and they ask you what you’re doing. If it’s the right time - and if it’s the right friend - you might tell them your practice and they might say, “Great idea” or they might call, Shepherd Pratt.

HAVE YOUR LIST

Have your list. Make it more than imaginary. Keep it in your wallet. And put on your list - in abbreviated form - ever judgment you make about someone and you find our you were completely and totally wrong about - big time.

Someone - well it looks like it - has just put on 25 pounds at least - and you make comments about it - not knowing they are taking steroids for the cancer they have.

Someone is walking funny - this happened to a gal I know - and had just been stopped by the police for weaving while driving - and then made to walk a straight line on the sidewalk. The police said she was drinking - till they tried the breathalyzer - 0 results.  This lead to telling her doctor about this - because she felt like she was weaving while walking - only to find out - after tests - she had the beginning signs of MS.  And her sister got tested and she had the same thing - and their father was in a wheelchair for this.

So and so gets up every time he’s at the edge of the bench - at Sunday Mass -  and lets people in - but he wants that aisle seat.  Surprise - by accident - down by the bathroom after Mass - a person who judges this guy for being selfish and wanting his way hears this guy say to another old guy, “Dang prostate - well at least you get to know where the bathrooms in the county are.

A guy told me at a retreat house I worked at in the Poconos,  “I bet you are wondering why I sit in the back seat - off to the side - in chapel - while everyone else is sort of up front. I said, “No, I didn’t notice that.” “Oh,” he said, “Well I do that in honor of my mom who always sat in that seat every afternoon for about 25 years - praying for me to come back to church. It finally worked.”

Every time Father So and So walked into a room, so and so walked out of that room. Well, so and so noticed that and thought it was impolite - till she found out so and so’s kid was abused by Father So and So years and years ago - and it all came out last year.

CONCLUSION

Jesus was a carpenter and he knew about rulers and measuring sticks and so one day he said, “The measure you measure with you’ll be measured with” - so when you’re getting into heaven, don’t judge so and so for getting in much easier than you.  Maybe they were easy going with people that drive you nuts - especially when you’re driving.

Jesus was a carpenter, so he knew about tiny splinters getting into people’s eye or hand - and the difference between them and gigantic wooden beams. And he must have listened to people complaining about other people when he said, “Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye and you don’t see the wooden beam in your own eye?”

June 25, 2018


OPENING  DOORS

We open a lot of doors each day.
Maybe we should count them.
Maybe we should pause. We don’t.
We just open a door - front, back -
work, restaurant - church or store -
and then comes the surprise -
the other isn’t there or sometimes
the other is there, but they are
a closed door. Nobody’s home.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018












June 25, 2018 


Thought for today: 


“Millions of workers live in a clock-eyed world.” 


Anonymous

Sunday, June 24, 2018


WHAT  WILL THIS  CHILD BE?

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this feast of the Birth of John the Baptist  is, “What Will This Child Be?”

It’s a question asked right there in today’s gospel about  this new born baby who was named, “John.” [Cf. Luke 1: 57-66, 80]

It was a surprise name. The neighbors and the relatives said when they heard that he would be called, “John”, "There is no one among your relatives who has this name."

Zechariah, Elizabeth’s husband,  said, “His name is John.”

Today’s feast of the Birth of Saint John the Baptist can trigger lots of key life points.

FIRST KEY LIFE POINT: OUR NAME

Well, actually an earlier question is, “Boy or Girl?”

Then the name - what to name the child - is asked?

Question for all of us: Am I happy with my name?

Further question: Why did I get the name I got? 

I just found out about two months ago from my sister, Mary, that my name was to be John - but then my dad switched to Andrew - almost at the last minute. For starters, it was probably because I was born on the feast day of St. Andrew Avellino - an Italian saint.

Then he was dropped off the Church calendar and replaced with Leo.

I am glad I got Andrew - because of my middle name: Jackson. I was named after a saint and a president.

I was told by an uncle in my mid thirties - after my father had died -  the possible reason for my dad’s choice of Andrew Jackson.  In Ireland, in pushing young men to think about becoming a priest and then going to the United States as a missionary from Ireland, priests would say from the pulpit, if there were more Catholic priests in the United States in the south, the president of the United States, Andrew Jackson, of Scotch Irish roots might have been Catholic. Then they would add:  “Many Irish Catholics switched to different Protestant groups because of the lack of priests and churches.”

Nice history.  How about you? Where did you get your name? Why? Is there any history in your middle name? History. History. History.

I never got to name a child, but if I did, I would try to give a kid history. I would also want the name to sound great - that it has a ring to it - in case he or she ran for president some day. And above all, I would not give a kid a name that for the rest of the kid’s life, he or she would be asked, “How do you spell that?” Or it will be mis-spelled every time.

I have 4 baptisms this afternoon. I didn’t look at their names. And I would never make comments about a name.  I’ve heard enough stories about priests way back  when -  who refused a name because it wasn’t a saint’s name.

But I do like to ask in the beginning of the ceremony the why of a name.

NCIS the other night gave the story about how one of McGee’s twins got her name, Morgan.  It sounded neat: Morgan McGee. She was named after the cop down in waiting room who was shot and killed helping McGee.

WHAT WILL THIS CHILD BE?

The title of my homily is, “What Will This Child Be?”

I began by saying that question is right there in today’s gospel.

It’s also a question people at a birth and a baptism wonder about.

It’s the stuff of made up stories about great people that someone said at their birth or baptism, “This child will be a saint or great hero.”

This is a life time question - we all ask of kids growing up: “What are you going to be when you grow up?”

Friday afternoon and then again Friday evening I got sick calls to visit people who were dying. I stood there with a family and with a wife and mom who was dying. Both were in hospice.

I anointed both of them. One was almost 72 and the other lady was 85.

I asked and wondered about the questions we ask about babies and the beginning of life. What are the questions we ask at the other end of life?

Did you enjoy your life? Did you do all the things you wanted to do?

John the Baptist became a prophet and the one who announced Jesus in our midst.

John the Baptist - in his early 30’s - was beheaded for proclaiming Jesus - and for proclaiming what was right and what was wrong.

Today’s first reading from Isaiah was picked because John the Baptist was a sharp sword and a polished arrow.

Yep that was John: direct and to the point.

I have met people who are just that: direct and to the point.

Of course we need that type person - if ever our country needed that type person, it’s right now.

How are you doing with your biggest hope and dream for your life?

Put yourself at the beginning of your life and at the end of your life - and name your main dream - your major hope - what you wanted your life to be.

I think this is an excellent “take away” from today’s feast.

James Barrie described life as, “A long lesson in humility.”

James Barrie also wrote, “The life of everyone is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another, and his humblest  hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it.”

CONCLUSION

So the first chapter and the last chapter of our life is important to read - the urge of this homily.

To look at birth and to look at death: very important.

But let me pick another moment - I assume nobody is having a baby at Mass here this morning and I assume nobody is dying. I don’t hear 911 at the door.

So what about all those moments in between - called our life -  called the dash between the two numbers on our tombstone.

I found this other moment mentioned in a quote from the Spanish writer, Jorge Borges. He said, “Any life … is made up of a single moment - the moment in which a man finds out … who he is.”

I’ve had that moment from time to time - sometimes in a mistake - sometimes in a question mark - for example  I once was giving a few talks in Washington D.C. once to about 150 DRE’s - Directors of Religious Education from all over the country  - and at the first coffee break - a woman came up to me and asked, “Do you know what you’re doing?” I became silent for about 10 seconds and looked this lady in the eye and said, “Yes.”  I had to think for a moment. And sometimes that moment and is a glorious moment - like being  half asleep - being a priest - driving fast to the ER at  Anne Arundel Medical Center - at 2 AM - or standing here in this pulpit a few years back preaching at my 50th anniversary Mass.

Yes it’s taken a lot of life - but I know who I am - and I thank God for that. Amen. How about  you?

June 24, 2018

A  PLAN


He asked, “Do you have a plan?”
Do you have any idea - how
you would like this to go?”

I said, “To be honest, I don’t know.”

It was then I realized this was the
story of my life - to let things happen -
as they happened  - without any plan.

Then, I blurted out, “So I have a plan!
It’s not to have a plan - so you have every
right to be angry with me most of the time.”

“So to be honest. I do know.”


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018




June 24, 2018 


Thought for today: 

“My mind is made up, don’t confuse me with the facts.” 


Anonymous