Monday, March 28, 2016

March 28, 2016

DRIED  TEARS

Sometimes the salt in tears
sear the skin just around
the eyes or is it from the
rubbing with the side of
our  hand - nature’s tissue?

The phone rings. We hear
in our ear and then our tears
that she died from the overdose.

Or we hear in our ear that a
daughter’s marriage is breaking up
and “What about the kids? Yeah!
What about the kids? Is either
of them thinking about them?”

And what about the consequences
that cause  more pain and more
tears - many of which never dry up?”

Or does resurrection happen any more?


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2016




Sunday, March 27, 2016

March 27, 2016



EASTER IN THE 
SOUTHERN HEMISPHERE 

How do they do Easter in the
Southern Hemisphere? How
do they do Christmas for that
matter as well?  Do all the
images and metaphors come
across as strange? Easter is
Spring and budding trees and
flowers - and the return of the
birds on the wings. Winter is
over - so how do they do Easter
in the Southern Hemisphere?
How does resurrection from
the dead look when trees are
losing their leaves? How does 
God show up as a baby in the
summer time? Does everyone 
down there look up at the night 
sky stars and wonder and 
ponder the Southern Cross?




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
Picture taken today
 by John Yackus
at 36,000 feet just
north of Anandyr,
Far Eastern Siberia,
Easter Sunday morning
March 27, 2016
EASTER
DAWNING ON US


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Easter: Dawning on Us.”

East - obviously - the direction of the sun rising.

East - where we first see the dawn - the morning light.

East? When was the last time we took the time to attend the liturgy of the rising sun? At the beach? Out our bathroom window? When?

Easter? What has dawned on us about the meaning of this faith belief?

CENTERPIECE

Easter:  the central feast of Christianity.

As St. Paul put it in First Corinthians 15:  if Christ did rise from the dead, our preaching is useless. What are we doing here in church this morning? Let’s head for the doors. If Christ did not rise from the dead, we’re liars. We’re committing perjury. We’re saying something - that is, that there is life after death - and it didn’t happen for Christ. If Christ did not rise from the dead, we’re still stuck in our sins. “And what is more serious, all who have died in Christ, have perished.”

In other words, if Christ did not rise from the dead, we won’t either.

It’s like one of my favorite sayings - from Groucho Marx, “If our parents didn’t have any kids, chances are, we won’t either.”

The human world anthem will be Peggy Lee’s song: “Is that all there is … and if that is all there is, my friend, then let’s keep dancing.”


Easter. It’s the central belief in Christianity.

LOTS OF ROCKS

I read somewhere that one of the key moments in human development was when pre-historic migrants moving across the hills somewhere stopped to bury their dead. Before that the body would be tossed off a path and folks kept moving on. Moving on. But for some person who died, the person was buried  under some rocks and a marker marked the spot - so that it could be spotted when that family group came along that path in the future.

I am reading right now an interesting book,  A History of Religion in 5 ½  Objects - by S. Brent Plate.   One of the 5 ½ objects is stones.

He gives example after example of the significance of stones when it comes to spirituality. The little girl goes camping with her family for the first time and has a great time. She picks up a stone that last day and brings it home with her and keeps it on her bureau as a reminder of a great time. Then she keeps it in her significant life stuff box as a memory. Millions and millions of people have done that before and after. Gift shops at the shore and T-Shirt stores with crab magnets  in Annapolis have made their living on that human quirk and quest. We want solid reminders of where we’ve been. Memories. Stones - the solid - lasts.

Israel has its mountains and its Wailing Wall of hundreds of huge stones - with the dome of the rock of Islam just above it. Islam has its square stone quadrant in Mecca.

I have a piece of the Berlin Wall on a shelf in my room.

Christianity has its stone marble altars - but it also had its stone that locked in the dead body of Christ - in his borrowed tomb and in today’s gospel we hear the words that the stone has been rolled away and Christ is not there.

Our graves are everywhere. Christ’s grave is nowhere.

Christ has died. Christ has risen. Christ will come again and again and again - but he’s not locked in some stone tomb.

The stone has been rolled away.

Christ is in the bread and the wine. Christ is in his followers. Christ is in his words. Christ is with Our Father and all those who have gone before us in Christ. Christ is everywhere. Christ is all time: the alpha and the omega.

Take and eat,  this is my body. Take and drink, this is my blood. Listen and hear my words. Close your eyes and  feel my Spirit.

The Spirit of God is in the wind and in the fire. The risen Christ is everywhere.

Easter us, O Lord. Dawn upon us. Let your light shine upon us and we shall be saved.

ST. ALPHONSUS

The priests in this parish are members of a religious order called the Redemptorists. We’re around 6,000 members - all around the world. We’re getting older here in our Baltimore Province. We are much younger and growing in India and Vietnam, Poland and Brazil, Paraguay and Africa. 

Our founder, St. Alphonsus de Liguori, 1696-1787, wrote over 100 books - but he didn’t write a book on the Resurrection.

He wrote big time about the Suffering Jesus Christ being the meaning of our faith - our hope - and our charity.

The other day I was talking to Father Mickey Martinez - from Paraguay - a member of our Community here in Annapolis. He  does much of the Latino, the Spanish, ministry here in St. Mary’s. He mentioned that Good Friday has much more meaning for Latinos than Easter Sunday. He added, “Just look around….” Then he added, “They have a lot more struggle in their lives.”

That hit me.

St. Alphonsus wrote over and over again about the cross and the struggles and the sufferings of Jesus Christ. He has a whole book on the Passion and Death of Jesus Christ. He wrote a small booklet, The Stations of the Cross, which is still used almost everywhere - especially during Lent.

Up till 1950 in the Catholic Church,  Good Friday was the big moment in Lent. Easter Sunday was celebrated. People dressed up. Flowers were central - but in theology it was still the Suffering Christ of Good Friday.

In 1950 out came a book by a Redemptorist F.X. Durwell. It was entitled, “Resurrection”. The horror of World War II was over.

The Catholic Church made a leap in its theology and the meaning of Easter around that time.  The Easter Vigil became prominent . The RCIA became prominent - when thousands and thousands of people on Holy Saturday evening became Catholic.

CONCLUSION

Becoming Catholic ….

The title of my homily is, “Easter Dawning on Us.”

Becoming Catholic….

We’re all still becoming Catholic. We’ll renew our baptismal vows today - in a moment.

What has dawned on us - so far - about what it means to be a Catholic?

If we are still having babies and raising them, Christ, Christmas, still means a lot to us.

If we are having struggles, sickness, family problems, Christ on the Cross, means a lot to us.

If - if - if  - what __________ fill in the blank what it takes to be  going through, for Easter, for the Risen Christ to mean a lot more to us.

Is the meaning of Easter - dawning on us - in a new way?

Has that stone been rolled back and the dead Christ risen in a new way in our life?

Hopefully our answer is, “Oh yeah. Oh yeah!” 

Saturday, March 26, 2016

March 26, 2016


PASSOVER   MOON 

Bright white light in a dark monstrance sky….
Jesus was in the garden - just two nights
ago or so. It was after the Passover Meal.
Praying - he was hoping they would pray
with him - but no, they were sleeping.
Then came the arrest - because of Judas’
betrayal - money and a kiss. Jesus was
arrested - mocked - put on trial - dragged
and killed on a hill - on a cross that Friday
afternoon. He was buried in a borrowed
tomb. Then the Father pulls him out of
that stone tomb tabernacle - to rise, to
proclaim:  hope, peace, new life, resurrection
to those in locked upper rooms - brains in
stubborn skulls - minds that were Thomas
sure that there was no more. But there was 
more at Galilee’s shore - bread - full nets
of caught fish  - breakfast with Jesus on
the beach of the future - still going -
2000 years later. Looking at the
Passover Moon, does anyone have 
Thomas doubts that there won’t be 
more - much, much, more - to come?







© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Friday, March 25, 2016


LAST  WORDS

The title of my reflections for this Good Friday Mass tonight is, “Last Words.”

On the death bed of our cross - what will be our last words?

On Good Friday - down through the years -  it’s been a tradition - to reflect on one or two or all of the traditional 7 Last Words of Jesus.

Actually they are seven  sayings or statements of Jesus - like, “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.” Or “Father, into your hands I place my spirit.” Or “I thirst.” Or, the words which Jesus said  to the Good Thief on the other cross, “Today you’ll be with me in Paradise.”

Someone wasn’t under the cross with a tape recorder or a Cross Ball Point pen jotting down these last words of Jesus.

But in time to help us, they were written down in Greek in the Gospels - and we find three of them in Luke and three of them in John. And the other statement, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” we find in both Matthew and Mark.

What will be our last words?  I would say that we can’t plan on what we’re going to say when we’re dying. In books of quotes we find various death bed words from famous people - and some are apocryphal like Lincoln saying to his wife, “I told you - I didn’t want to go to - a damn play.”

I remember reading -  that Goethe’s last words were, “More light.”

This afternoon in writing this homily to get some light - I looked up on Google, “Death Bed Words” and found some interesting comments.

One woman said, “My mom's last words to me were 'You have to learn the difference between Chinese and Japanese people, because they don't like it when you mix them up.' I wish I was joking. Those were my mom’s last words.”


Another lady said, “I was a health care aide on a geriatric ward - when a woman - so old and frail - she looked dead already - motioned to me to come to her. I put my ear next to her mouth and she quietly said, 'I just wanted to say 'goodbye' to someone.' It broke my heart. She died a few days later….”

Another person said, “When I first started as a 911 dispatcher - I had a call come in - and all that the person said was 'Tell them I'm sorry,' and hung up….’ “I knew right away what we were going to find when we got there. It was the worst feeling. I just felt so dirty that I was the last one to talk to this guy, and no matter how fast we sent help it didn't matter - it was just too late. So I guess he was confessing, but it just made me feel icky.”

“In nursing school a lady in her mid-40s came in after a car accident.” “She needed surgery, and before she went in - she made me promise to tell her husband that she had a child before she met him and put it up for adoption and should her son ever come looking for her to let him know she was sorry and loved him every day.” Then this nurse said, “She lived and I hope she got to tell him that herself.”

Frank Sinatra died after saying, “I’m losing it.”

William Henry Seward, architect of the Alaska Purchase, was asked if he had any final words. He replied, “Nothing, only ‘love one another.’”

Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, who wrote the Sherlock Holmes stories, died at age 71 in his garden. He turned to his wife and said, “You are wonderful,” then clutched his chest and died.

As he was dying, Alfred Hitchcock said, “One never knows the ending. One has to die to know exactly what happens after death, although Catholics have their hopes.”

Father Tizio would love this one. Former baseball player “Moe” Berg’s last words: “How did the Mets do today?”

The night before my brother was to have major surgery in the Washington Hospital Center on his brain cancer,  I talked to him on phone from New York and my last words to him were, “I love you.” And his last words to me were, “I love you too.” I got down to D.C. the next day - but he didn’t make it.

I have my last words with my mom on a tape recorder - 45 minutes’ worth of wonderful words. I got the thought to get her story on tape. She was still very healthy and still working - at the age of 82. So I set up a small tape recorder and asked her about her life. After a while she got tired and said, “The moo is out of me.”  She then said, “Next time we’ll get the rest of the story.”  

She was killed in a hit and run accident two weeks later - so that tape is very precious - very, very precious.  

And I got the moo part of her comment when years later we visited a family graveyard not too far from where my mom was from in Galway,  Ireland. To get into the graveyard, they had like a turnstile to keep cows out. I was with my two sisters and my brother-in-law. Wow was my sister Peggy the nun surprised when she stepped in you know what. Evidently the cows had an Easy Pass Path in some other way.

Nope what she said was not her last words. I got to hear a few of them in a last chance conversation with her in Scranton, Pennsylvania before she died.

The title of my reflection for tonight is, “Last words.”

Jesus had some wonderful words on the wooden death bed of the cross. The one I like the best and have said 1,000 times is, “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.”

I would like and love to add something my classmate Larry told me. He had had a sort of fight or disagreement with his mom over something as he was going back to Brazil where he was stationed - and he gets back and gets a call a short time afterwards that his mom had died.

He flew back to Brooklyn but before going over to the funeral parlor he dropped into church and had a great prayer talk with his mom - that was filled with forgiveness - and then he was able to face her in the casket.



We Christians have Easter. We have our great faith gift that there is life after this - and we only have metaphors and hopes what heaven is like - but my hope and my faith tell me - we can all love one another for all eternity and say the things we always wanted to say - the “I’m sorry’s” - the “I love you’s” - the saying, “With you and God I am in paradise.”
March 25, 2016

GOOD  FRIDAY  

It was bad till Jesus made it good.
That’s the message. It’s as simple
as a plain gold or wooden cross.
How? Forgiveness. Reaching out.
Thinking of those around our death
bed. Putting all into God’s hands,
even when we’re feeling forsaken.

P.S. It doesn’t have to be just Fridays.
We can make any day in the week
a Good Sunday, Monday, Tuesday,
Wednesday, Thursday or Saturday.





© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Thursday, March 24, 2016

March 24, 2016

YEAR  OF  MERCY 

This is the year of mercy,
forgiveness, and understanding.

All three knocked on my door!

I said to the knock, knock:
“Who’s there? Who’s there?”

And God said, “We are Mercy,
Forgiveness and Understanding.”

And I said, “Go away! I don’t
know You by those names.
You are judgment, justice
and punishment. And I am
sin, selfishness and guilt.”

And sad to say, God walked 
away that day - hoping 
someday I’ll show mercy, 
forgiveness and understanding 
to someone else as well as
to myself and that will be 
the day I’ll hear God 
standing at my door once again
knocking, knocking, knocking
and this time I'll let God in.[1]


Note:
[1] Revelation 3:20; John 20:19-21
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016