Sunday, October 18, 2015

POWER


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily and thoughts for this 29th  Sunday in Ordinary Time [B] is: “Power.”

James and John, the sons of Zebedee, want power.

Question: are they everyone?  Is that you? Is that me? Do I want power?

Answer: “Well, ah, ah, ah, yes, of course! But it all depends about what?”

BUREAU   OF  INDIAN  AFFAIRS

There was a time there that I was interested in studying about American Indians. Today they are called, Native Americans or the First Nation People or we name them by tribes, Mohawk, Sioux, Algonquin, Coyote people, etc., etc., etc.

I’m in Washington D.C. and I decide to go down to the Bureau of Indian Affairs. I go up to the front desk and ask a woman there, “I’m doing some studies about American Indians, is there anybody I can talk to with some of my questions.”

It must have been a slow day because she gets on  the phone - says a few things - and then hands me a piece of paper with what room to go to and what person to see.

The guy was the top guy or next to the top guy and he brings me into his inner office and I start asking questions about Native American rituals, symbols,  dances, religions, etc.,  etc., etc.

I was asking him the why of what I was reading - the “What’s going on?” with these folks.

And he says to me, “Power! It’s all about power. People want power over nature, over life, over what’s happening.”  “Men want power over other men.” “Men want power over women.” “Hunters want power over animals.”

The guy was an anthropologist - had an American Indian background and lineage - and had lived and served and worked in South Dakota on a reservation.  Since I was a priest he said the Jesuits did fabulous work. He said, “Too bad they got bounced out of some places where they were working.”

I walked out wondering about power.

Is that the main issue in life - in the church - in a parish - in a family?

Is the main prayer in life, “My will be done on earth as it is in heaven”?

JAMES AND JOHN AGAIN

In today’s gospel they ask Jesus directly, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you?”

How’s that for a major life question?

Hey, other person, “Do what I want you to do.” “Be the way I want you to be.”

Jesus replies, “What do you wish me to do for you?”

They reply, “Grant that in your glory we may sit one at your right and the other at your left.”

Interesting request!

This is the gospel of Mark - written earlier than Matthew. In Matthew 20: 20 it’s the  mother of James and John who comes up to Jesus and makes that request. Did James and John slip Matthew a silver coin to blame their mother for their embarrassing question - especially when Jesus gives his answer - that it’s all about service, serving and not being served?

IS THIS THE HISTORY OF THE CHURCH OR THE CLERGY?

Is this the history of the Church or the clergy - this desire for top seats and top billing?

Is this the history of the world - the desire to Lord it over others?

Is this where comedians laugh and celebrate, because here is the spot for lots of humor.

“You want it when?”

Be careful of slipping on that banana skin.

I love the story a bishop from Brazil told us.  There was this really pompous bishop - in charge of everything - so at a major bishop’s meeting they put a whoopee cushion under his cushion and all  waited till he sat. He didn’t laugh.

I used to love reading a Catholic magazine called, Critic, because it had great cartoons about churchy stuff. I hope the priests and bishops were able to laugh at themselves in the cartoons - with pot bellies and bishops with big pointed hats.

I’ve always thought that political cartoons in the papers was a very important part of Freedom of the Press. The Church certainly needs cartoons as well.

If you’ve been listening to the stuff about Pope Francis. He’s basically saying to bishops and priests, it’s about service guys. It’s all about service not selfies. It’s not about titles and garb and great seats.

In his recent visit to the United States, being in the Fiat flanked by big SUV’s was not by accident. I’m sure the cartoonists loved the material Pope Francis’ mannerisms and style. It’s easy to draw the  pope mobile.

It’s about service - so enough with the robes and the glitter and the glamor.

And this pope - like any pope - has to be ever aware of Lord Acton’s quote, “All power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely.”

I’ve noticed he calls himself the Bishop of Rome - not supreme pontiff - and this does not go unnoticed by the Greek Orthodox Church - as well as the Russian Orthodox church - and maybe the Anglicans as well.

Vatican II moved us away from the pyramid model - a top down management style - to a circle model - that is a round table approach. I’ve been hearing church commentators saying in the last 40 years there was movement back to the top down pyramid model.

I’m hearing that Pope Francis is pushing for decentralization once again. Right now I’m reading his encyclical on the environment and ecology and I’m  noticing him saying, ”The bishops of Mexico or Japan or the United States or Germany or Paraguay say ….” We have the synod of the family going on in Rome right now - and we’ll see what that brings. It has some new voices - different voices - and different powers that be.

I remember hearing a story about Cardinal Cook of New York. He was at a big banquet and some lady had him button hooked and the monsignori who were to sit at the head table with him were quite frustrated - because they didn’t know where to sit on a round table - when the top guy hasn’t sat down yet. He finally sat down and the boys quickly jumped into their proper seats.

WHO CARES?

I sense Jesus would say, “Laugh. Smile. Sit down and enjoy the chicken.”

Better grab the waiters and waitresses and you feed them - or at least see them as the key folks in the room. Wash their feet. Know their names. Ask about their moms.

I love a story I heard Benedict Groeschel telling us in a course he was giving that I was taking. Benedict died a while back - he could be quite conservative - especially in his later years - but he was real and real funny - and could poke good fun at everyone.

He was doing some work at a mental hospital - and he was sitting at a round table with some of the psychologists and psychiatrists in the place. Benedict asked them, “I’m sure you know who’s the most important person here in this psychiatric hospital?”

Silence.

And Benedict points to this black woman behind the counter serving food to all on her line and laughing and commenting to everyone. Benedict then said he said, “Come on now, you all go to her for suggestions and advice, to vent and to complain.”

And all were silent.

CONCLUSION

In the meanwhile we use our tricks to prove to the world, “We’re great.” 

But underneath we feel our weaknesses - our lack of control - over each other and the weather and conversations and being understood. Hey we heard in today's second reading Jesus can sympathize with our weaknesses in all things but sin. [Cf. Hebrews 4:14-16]

Laugh at every time another cuts us off in the middle of a story we’re telling because we triggered a similiar story in them. Or we’re cut off by a dog entering the scene or someone just ups and leaves us because they have to go to the bathroom and we never seem to be able to finish our stories.



Enjoy having to work with each other as we get sweaty in the arm pits or have spinach or that gunky white stuff stuck in our teeth.
October 18, 2015


THAT IS, IF YOU 
REALLY WANT TO 

If you’re happy, as they say,
tell your face.

If you want to stop the gossip,
tell your mouth.

If you want to listen,
tell your ears.

If you want to serve,
tell your feet.

If you want to be generous,
tell your wallet.

If you want to make peace,
tell your hands to 
put down the rocks and 
pick up your phone.


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015

Saturday, October 17, 2015

October 17, 2015

GOD

Don’t tattoo “God” on the skin
of your arm. Tattoo His name
on your soul. Then close your 
eyes and see the One - and be 
with the One who is keeping 
you and everyone in existence 
for ever and ever. Amen.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015

Friday, October 16, 2015

October 16, 2015

CONSEQUENCES

If you’re going to get a tattoo,
make it “CONSEQUENCES”,
and pinch your skin at that spot
each moment you’re about
to make a critical decision.


Andy Costello, Reflections 2015
October 15, 2015


TERESA  OF  AVILA 

Patron saint of what?
Prayer, with God? Yes.
Humor with God? Yes.
"Let nothing disturb you."
However, to me the best 
message from her life
is this: great things 
happen when I decide
to stop being invisible!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015
Painting of St. Teresa of Avila,
1612-1614
 by Peter Paul Rubens, 
October 14th,  2015



BLUE  MARBLE  EARTH

Gravity keeps us from flying off this
great big blue marble earth - so we
don't have to hang on for the ride. 
Instead we can stop to see the scenery,
the great blue waters - the plain plains -
the great grey granite mountains - and people, people everywhere. Check those noses and facial types. See those sizes - and shapes and height - and bellies and wrinkles. Notice those bugs and birds and beasts of all sizes, shapes and colors.
More: we have time to ponder and pray
and wonder about all these mysteries
around us - surrounding us - and then 
there are the questions: why God, why? Why did You make hippos and birds just sitting there on their backs - and all those different types of trees and leaves? Then there are the hundred, billion, trillion bits
of little stuff - invisible to the normal eye -
what's with taking care of all that? What
are You - some kind of super dooper engineer - or juggler extraordinaire?  

(c) 

Tuesday, October 13, 2015


WHY CAN’T  GOD 
BE  DIFFERENT 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Why Can’t God Be Different?”

I think that’s a thought a lot of people have.

We started the Letter to the Romans yesterday and we will have it as our first reading at almost every weekday Mass for the next 4 weeks.

I’m looking forward to hearing Paul’s Letter to the Romans and see what it will says to me in these 4 weeks to come. I assume I’m in a different place than I was 2 years ago when we went through Romans for those readings. I’m interested in hearing what hits me in the next four weeks.

FAITH

So last night I went through today’s first reading from Romans. Chapter 1 verses sixteen to twenty five  - reading and wondering what would hit me.

I noticed right there after today’s text begins, one of the main themes of Paul’s Letter to the Romans. It’s faith.

And Paul gives us his insight into faith. Faith is accepting God as God is - not as we want God to be - or how we picture God to be.

Let me repeat that. Faith is accepting God as God is - not as we want God to be.

Sound familiar. It’s the same act of acceptance we need to make in every relationship - because in every relationship the other person is the way the other person is - not the way we think they are - not the way we want them to be - but the person is who they actually are.

Want peace? Get that.  Want peace? Accept that. Want an easier life? De-imagine who we imagine the other to be.  This should lead to listening - stepping back - asking questions - checking things out - and slowly learning how the other operates.

Get this and we make one key step towards family and marriage happiness.

Deal with each other the way the other is.

Sorry. That’s the way it is.

I’ve often think and come back to a statement I heard many years ago: “The greatest sin is our inability to accept the otherness of the other person.”

We want other people to be other than they are. I live with all these other priests here at St. Mary’s. Of course I often want them to be different than they are and I assume they want me to be different than I am.

GOD

We do the same thing with God.

Paul learned that faith is faith in the God, God is.

In today’s first reading he talks about all these other things we make God out to be - all of which are not God.  They are lesser than God. Our minds become clouded and darkened and we end up messed up - floating around following false Gods.

SONG BY PATSY CLINE

I recently listened to a CD of Patsy Cline’s country Western songs. I like her twang and sound and how she puts her whole self into a song. Plus I understand the lyrics - loud and clear. This afternoon I’m going on a 4 day high school retreat and Ginny and the kids play a lot of songs - the words of which I do not get in the slightest.

And I wonder about Patsy Cline - when will  kids discover your songs?

There it is, the human wanting of people to be different than they are.

I do it all the time.

Patsy Cline seems to have a broken heart in a lot of her songs - but they still give a lot to think about.

When I was preparing this homily I thought of her song, “Why Can’t He Be You.” The thought that hit me is quite complex and I don’t know if I can explain what I mean,   but let me try.

In this song she finds herself broken up with someone she wishes he didn’t break up with her. She’s now with someone new. This new guy brings her to the places she used to go with the first guy and she sings, “Why can’t he be you?”  This new guy brings her flowers, calls by the hour, nice, but she sings, “Why can’t he be you?” This new guy tells her he loves her so, but she sings, “Why can’t he be you?” Her friends tell her this new guy talks about how wonderful she is, behind her back, but she sings, “Why can’t he be you?”

She also sings that the first guy didn’t do any of these nice things - but she still loves him so.

She wants different. In fact, she wants both men to be different than they are.

Don’t we all?

I suspect a lot of people have a list of all the nice things they want from God and how they want God to act. Down deep, their prayer is: “My will be done.”

We see  others and the nice things they do, but it seems God doesn’t do these things we want.  So we sing, “Why can’t God be like I expect God to be?”

CONCLUSION


In Paul’s Letter to Romans God is God and God does as God does, and happiness is accepting God as God is. Amen.