July 16, 2022
Thought For Today
"Why waste money on psychotherapy when you can listen to the B Minor Mass?"
Michael Torke
in Observer,
September 23 1990
'Sayings of the Week'
Saturday, July 16, 2022
Friday, July 15, 2022
JULY 15, 2022
Reflection
PRONOUNS
He kills pronouns when he speaks them.
When he reads, he keeps on putting a heavy emphasis when he speaks HIS pronouns: his, she, they, our, us ....
Why?
We're not born that way.
Everybody doesn't do this.
So why the emphasis on pronouns?
I was wondering if there might be a tape recording around somewhere - say from 35 years ago - when he is speaking? We could check that and listen to him there and listen to his pronouns.
You never know. There he is saying a few words at a wedding or a funeral. Check out his pronouns.
So, has he always been doing this? What about other people way back when?
I don't know.
Can he change? Should he change? Does he have to change?
Is my way of thinking and assuming how pronouns should be sounding corrrect? Is there a correct way? Is there a standard?
Isn't the beauty of language its varities - accents, regional pronouncements - etc.?
I don't know.
Is all this simply my opinion?
To me he reads like a little child reading at a school ceremony. In fact, I think most kids read better than he reads.
Why does this bother me?
Maybe that question is the question.
Does it bother anyone else?
Is the real issue: my wanting my way - my wanting to control the world? Is it my wanting to play God?
Should I be thinking of everyone who is speaking - saying and praying of and for them, "THY will be done" not "MY willl be done"?
Thursday, July 14, 2022
July 14, 2022
Reflection
HASN'T GOT A CLUE
Some people don't have a clue.
They are so wrapped up in themselves that they miss much of what is going on around them.
And at times they say things like, "I missed that. When did that happen?"
And you feel like saying, "You're out of the loop. You're never around. You're always absent."
But we don't say things like that - because we figure the other won't change - and why antagonize them?
But people do talk about them behind their backs.
Sad.
And the person gets worse.
Sad.
And the person goes further and further from the center and more and more out of the loop
And the person gets stranger and stranger - and eventually they become a stranger in our midst.
And he or she hasn't a clue - because they aren't around.
I guess these words "loop" - "vicious circle" - "clue" came about when people get together - and - some wake up - don't remain strangers - but catch the clues and they see the light.
July 14, 2022
Thought for Today
Father John McGowan was sitting there reading the New York Daily News this morning after breakfast. He was reading an article on page 16 and he says to me, "Listen to this story about Tony Sirico - fellow Brooklynite."
And then he reads to me the closing story from that article. Here's the whole article.
FAREWELL, 'PAULIE'
Actor Sirico laid to rest in Brooklyn
By Kate Feldman
New York Daily News
Tony Sirico was given a final farewell in the neighborhood he grew up in.
The "Sorpranos" star, who died last week at age 79. was laid to rest Wednesday at the Basilica of Regina Pacis in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn.
The solemn affair was overseen by his brother, Father Robert Sirico.
"The most obvious thing about my brother was the crusty, tough exterior that everyone saw and that he made a living off of. I've likened him to a good loaf of Italian bread," Sirico said. "There were a lot of reasons for that intense bravado that I need not go into now; it's sufficient to say only that it was there for protection."
Tony Siraico, who was arrested 28 times and went to prison twice before finding success as an actor, was best known for his role as New Jersey gangster Paulie Walnuts in "The Sopranos," the hilarious, no-nonsense right-hand man to James Gandolfini's Tony Soprano.
Charges against Sirico mostly involved weapons and small-time crimes and he was only convicted twice, once on a weapons charge and once for armed robbery.
"As many of the professional actors who are here know, people often confusse the actor with the act," Sirico added. "But you look beneath that tough, offensive armor ... you begin to see a softer, gentler interior. My brother had a deep capacity for interior reflection, even if it was coated with that tough protective shell." Sirico's acting roles often stayed in the same vein as his "Sopranos" part, including those in "Goodfellas," "Mob Queen" and "Gotti."
"Given certtain decisions he made especially early in his life and in the roles he would play in a professional capacity, many will be surprised to hear me say that my brother had a moral compass," Father Sirico said, telling a story about the first Mass he gave at the Basilica of Regina Pacis, during which the actor refused to go to Communion because he had not done his confession yet.
"A few weeks ago, I saw my brother for the last time when I visited him in Florida, where he lived close to his faithful daughter, who tended to his every need in his last days," the actor's brother said. "I sensed that the end was coming, so as we sat in a private location, I pulled out a confesional stole from my pocket and I looked into his eyes and I said, "How about that confession?" My brother agreed and I did one of the most significant things that a priest can ever do for another human being: I absolved him of his sins."
New York Daily News, Thursday, July 14, 2022, page 16
Wednesday, July 13, 2022
July 13, 2022
Reflection
AT WHAT MIGHT
HAVE BEENS ....
I sat next to this lady at a posh get together.
She says - hand sort of half covering her mouth - in a whisper, "Yeah, he dated my daughter for a while."
The he had just come to our table. He made a sort of joke to her for throwing him off her porch - when he was just a kid. Then he added, "You kept me away from your daughter."
I didn't know any of this. Then she told me which of her daughters he was interested in.
I wasn't interested, but I said an, "Oh."
Then she added, "He always said that I would have had a couple of lawyers for grandkids if I hadn't thrown him off the porch."
I said another, "Oh."
"Maybe you're luckier" came the comment from another at our table.
In small towns - in close neighborhoods - when everybody knows everybody - there seems to be lots of what might have beens.
At parish or civic celebrations - at all kinds of get togethers - people who dated people they know - pass by each other alll the time.
I never knew this to that moment on a porch.
The might have beens ....
The "I wonder ifs ...."
I left home early. I have been in many different places. I don't have too many bump into's - so this was a new experience.
The might have been's ....
"Oh" I said to myself. I need to do more thinking and talking about all of this.
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