Monday, November 30, 2020

 


BROTHERS

 

The title of my homily is “Brothers.”
 
I thought that would be an appropriate topic and theme for Andrew on his feast day – the brother of Peter.
 
When we hear the word “brother” – obviously we have many thoughts – especially if are not an only child – and if we are a brother and / or if we have a brother or two or more.
 
Brothers ….
 
If we go into the greeting card section of a pharmacy or Hallmark store we won’t find as many cards for brothers as others:  Mothers – Dads – grandparents, nieces – sisters – Wife ----- but brother’s less.  That’s my observation.   
 
If we go into the Bible we’ll find a good variety of brothers.
 
There is Cain and Abel, Esau and Jacob,  Joseph and his brothers in Genesis.  Then there is Moses and Aaron in Exodus.  David had 19 sons – that’s a lot of brothers. In the Gospels we have Peter and Andrew, James and John, and then there is the Prodigal Son and his Older Brother – who won’t forgive him once – which is a very far distance from 7 times 7 times.
 
What’s your thoughts about brothers.
 
I just happened to be in my brother’s house in Laurel Maryland on Good Friday, April 20th, 1984 – the day he found out he had cancer – and I asked him, “How are you going to handle this?”  And he said, “I’ll let you know.”
 
And just before he died in 1986 he said, “Remember when you asked me how I would be able to handle this” well he continued, “I learned 3 things. “Think of others, have a sense of humor, and thank God mom and dad gave us the gift of faith.”
 
Andrew the Apostle in the Gospel of John brought his brother to Jesus.  I would think it was my parents who brought us to Jesus and to faith.
 
Andrew in the gospels brought the bread from some kid for Jesus to help feed the hungry crowds.  My brother used to love to make bread and then give it to neighbors. I got bread and great chocolate chip cookies from him. He also taught kids how to bake.
 
There is not much more in the gospels about Andrew – and his relationship to his brother.
 
Hopefully we know a lot more about our brothers – and we are thankful for their gift to our life.
 
FIVE  QUOTES IN CASE NOTHING IN MY HOMILY GRABBED YOU!
 
“ Being his real brother I could feel I live in his shadows, but I never have and I do not now.      I live in his glow.” – Michael Morpurgo
 
 Help your brother’s boat across, and your own will reach the shore.” – Hindu Proverb
 
“The highlight of my childhood was making my brother laugh so hard that food came out his nose.” – Garrison Keillor
 
“ My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, “You’re tearing up the grass.” “We’re not raising grass,” Dad would reply. “We’re raising boys.”” – Harmon Kellebrew
 
We are not only our brother's keeper; in countless large and small ways, we are our brother's maker.  Bonaro Overstreet

 November  30,  2020



SO,  YOU ALWAYS WANTED

TO BE A POET?   RIGHT?

  

Grab a ball point pen and some
junk mail paper and start jotting
down comments to these questions.
 
Name an emotion – any emotion.
Sad, glad, mad, joyful, joyful, joyful …
wow, wow, bark, bark, woof, woof ….
 
Grab a dictionary and just flip through it.
Pick out words that are interesting:
caramel, footbridge, hoopla, phoebe ….
 
Jot down the names of different objects
that you can see: refrigerator, couch,
soup spoon, foot stool, book case, rug.
 
Now you have on paper a few words
that express feelings and you have a
few words that sound or look interesting.
 
Next – if you have a computer – read some
poems. Pick short ones.  Read them out loud.
Can you spot a feeling or an interesting word?
 
Or next time you’re near a library enter and
find the poetry section. Read some poems.
Hope you find one or two poems with a grab.
 
Next using old envelopes or empty space
on junk mail write down some short poems
of your own. Don’t say, “I can’t do this!”
 
Forget about rhyme or reason. Just jot
down words – poets love words – till you
have what looks like a poem. Sculpt words.
 
Next time you’re in a supermarket –
go to the aisle that has stationary and buy
yourself a small spiral pad – 9 ½ x 6 inches.
 
They are usually 108 or 150 pages.
Put your first poem in there – and then
your second and third and keep going.
 
Keep reading other people’s poems.
Keep writing your own poems.
Slowly fill up your spiral pad.
 
Don’t throw away your poems, but
keep crossing out – and rewriting
your poems. I rewrite at least 18 times.
 
If you have a computer – type out
your poems. If you have the money
self-publish your best 108 poems.

 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

 


November 30, 2020


 

Thought for Today


“The passing years makes youngsters ponder why Dad gets grayer and Mom gets blonder.”

Sunday, November 29, 2020

November 29,  2020


 

HEADING IN A NEW DIRECTION

 

We’ve all seen a movie scene
when someone sneaks onto
a railroad track and switches
the tracks at a junction - so an
oncoming train will go in a new
direction – and end up elsewhere.
 
So too in a relationship, a marriage,
or a family, sometimes someone
switches a switch without telling
the other or others and surprise
there is a train wreck or the
relationships end up elsewhere.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


November 29, 2020

 




Thought for Today

 

 “An optimist laughs to forget;  the pessimist forgets to laugh.”

Saturday, November 28, 2020

 November  28,, 2020

 



PLANTING AND PICKING FRUIT

He spent six months buying and then
planting cherry, apple, pear  and plum
trees – all around the property he had
recently bought – after coming home
from 5 long years fighting in a foreign land.

 
It was what kept him alive in battle and in
terror – seeing trees growing, blossoming,
reaching for  the blue skies – seeing pies
and jams and hands holding delicious
cherries, apples, pears and plums.

Life: an orchard, a wife and kids, family
at the kitchen table, at work, with dirt on
hands and the scent of fruit on flannel
shirts and blue jeans – and God enough to
wipe away the scent of those he killed in battle.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

November 28, 2020

 





Thought for Today

 

“If you can laugh at your mistakes,  you’ll be much happier.”