Thursday, May 14, 2020



CEMETERY  MOMENT

 [Sort of a poem, sort of a story,  sort of a homily for today's feast of Saint Matthias]

One spring morning, a lone figure came
walking up a cemetery path – looking like -
he was looking for - a grave – obviously.

About 30 or 40 yards away – under a tree
were two women,  also visiting their dead –
looking to see where the stranger was heading

The two women had never seen him here
before. The stranger was looking around,
but finally found the grave he was looking for.

The stranger – it was me – was at an almost
empty cemetery in Portland, Maine. I sat
down on the  green grass – at that grave.

Time ticked on – till the two women walked
over to talk to the stranger. “Family? Friend?
We’ve never seen anyone visit this spot before?”

I said, “She’s my dad’s sister. I visited here -
maybe 30 years ago – and finally got back.
I’m on a cruise and our ship is in the harbor.”

One woman read out loud the name and
the numbers on the grey granite tombstone.
“Sister M Matthias Costello 1884 – 1913.”

I said, “She died long before I was born. I
never knew her. I don’t know anything about
her – other than she died of TB at 29.”

Silence …. Then I added, “She was like
Saint Matthias.  All we know is he chose
Christ and Christ chose him. That’s it.”

I told the two women my dad’s two sisters
are buried here – also nuns – and together
we found their graves – and his brother as well.

Then they took me to their husband’s graves,
who had died recently,  We said some prayers.
Then they took me  down to the harbor and my boat.





May  14,   2020




MY  CEMETERY


It’s not a fenced in green – filled
with grey granite gravestones,  
or green Styrofoam discarded 
wreathes and dead flowers.

It’s this mahogany wooden box –
filled with hundreds of memorial cards.

And instead of walking among the stones,
I let my fingers - my mind and my prayers -  
do the walking through the cards and the 
lives of the people I have known and met.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

May  14,  2020



May 14,  2020

Thought for today:

"Everyone, deep down within, 
carries a small cemetery of 
those  he  has  loved." 

Romain  Rolland

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

May  13,   2020




CURVE


Up ahead, the road sign
said, “CURVE AHEAD”.
They usually do, don’t they?

Okay I saw several roads
when I lived in Ohio  that
kept straight forever and ever.

But back east it was always
something – another road –
an old building – a curve.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


May  13, 2020




Thought  for  Today

“Distrust  all  in whom the impulse to punish is powerful.”  



Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche [1844-1900]







Tuesday, May 12, 2020

May  12,  2020




ST.  PANCRAS  LONDON


Today, May 12th, is the feast of Saint Pancras.

Talk to enough people and you find out folks
have places they hope to visit before they die. 
Mine was St. Paul’s Cathedral in London.

Reason: when we were practicing public speaking
there was one exercise that began: “Finding myself
before St. Paul’s, I went in. I mounted to the dome ….”

This was all before I got to St. Pancras in London.
For starters it’s one of the oldest places of worship
In England – going back perhaps the 4th century.




Then I saw the red brick St. Pancras Train Station
and International Hotel. Different folks wanted it torndown – that is till John Betjeman, the poet, screamed.

Then I checked out the history of the church there. It’s
the place of dozens of parishes, churches going up and
churches going down – built and rebuilt - through the ages.

Then I read about the cemetery there – the names
associated with that place: for example the burial
place of Johann Christian Bach – the 18th son of Bach.

It's also the burial place - listen to this - of Ben Franklin's
illegitimate son - as well as the place where Percy Bysshe
Shelley planned his elopement with Mary at his mom's grave.

Then there’s mention of Dickens mentioning it in
The Tale of Two Cities - the Beatles promoting, 

"Hey Jude" and on and on and on and on.




So check it out: put St. Pancras on your list of must see -
especially the train station - and by the way, St. Pancras
- is a by the way - a 14 year old kid killed for his faith.


 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2020






May 12, 2020



Thought  for  Today 


“You  take  delight not in a city's seven or  seventy wonders, but in the answer it gives to a question of  yours.”

Italo Calvino, Invisible Cities