Sunday, February 23, 2020


BECOME A FOOL,
SO AS TO BECOME WISE

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time [A] is, “Become a Fool, So As to Become Wise.”

That’s a wisdom statement from Paul in today’s second reading.

Think about it: “Become a Fool, So As to Become Wise.”

TODAY’S THREE READINGS

Today’s three readings tell us to do some foolish things.

Today’s first reading tells us no hatred, no revenge, and cherish no grudge against any of your people.

Today’s second reading presents the message of this homily, “Become a Fool, So As to Become Wise.”

Today’s gospel tells us if someone slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other one to them as well.  If someone takes you to court over your  raincoat, give him your umbrella as well.  If somebody pushes you to walk a mile with them, go two miles. If someone wants to borrow something from you, don’t disappear, let them borrow it from you – even if you’re thinking: “Kiss that baby good bye!”  If  someone hates you, love them back.

There’s some dumb counterintuitive behaviors to try right there.

LENT BEGINS THIS COMING WEDNESDAY

Lent begins this week with Ash Wednesday.  

It’s kind of weird – kind of different  -  kind of dumb to have someone smear some ashes on your forehead and wear them that day till they fade away during the day.

Why would anyone do that – or allow that to happen to them?

Lent is 40 days  - to try some spiritual growth stuff.

How about a good spiritual reading book?

How about an extra drop into this church or some church or some sacred spot – like at the ocean. Walk.  We haven’t had snow yet this winter.  It might yet. In the meanwhile,  walk around Takanassee Lake – 20 minutes – or use the Long Branch or Asbury boardwalks – breathing in some fresh air and stretching your legs once or twice a week for these 40 days of Lent.

How about skipping one lunch – put the 10 or 15 bucks in an unmarked envelope and give it to someone anonymous – on the street – or in the mall – and keep moving – not wondering if they are poor or rich or what have you. Surprise folks with random acts of kindness.

Got a paper calendar. Check off three things you’ll try each day of Lent. Make up your own three: compliment one person behind their back; compliment one person to their face; make a comment to a total stranger  each day. Initial in your calendar box for each day of Lent:  BB for a compliment about someone behind their back; FF for a compliment face to face; and HS – a hello to a stranger.

PROVING FOOLISH THINGS WORK – AND BRING WISDOM

Years ago a heart doctor in California or somewhere suggested the next time you’re on line in a bank or any place where there are lines  - pick the longest line – if that’s the way it works in the bank or in the wherever. Then we’re you’re about 2nd on line, get off the line quietly – and walk to the back and get on the longest line. Do it smoothly – so as not to be noticed.

I thought that was weird when I first read it - but I tried it a bunch of times. The heart specialist – use the time on line – trying to remember say all your classmates in your high school graduating class.  This spiritual exercise can teach you patience – laughter.

It can teach us how to watch. It can teach us how to be calm when stuck in traffic or at long lines in banks, air  ports, movie theaters, etc.

It gave me a high school graduation commencement address which I entitled, “What Ever Happened to What’s His /Her Name?”

CONCLUSION

Lent starts this Wednesday. Do some stupid or foolish things for this Lent and by the time Easter is here you will have risen at least 25%.

And you too will say, “Become a Fool, So As to Become Wise” – smart move.

February  23,  2020

GO FIGURE

Before love,
before caring,
before communication,
before relationships,
before freedom,
comes trust.

Go figure that out.

In fact,
before sin,
before failure,
before mistakes,
before change,
comes trust.

You probably won't figure that out.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020
February  23, 2020

Thought  for  Today



"Preachers at black churches are the last people left in the English-speaking world who know the schemes and tropes of classical rhetoric: parallelism, antithesis, epistrophe, synecdoche, metonymy, periphrasis, litotes - the whole bag of tricks."

P.J. O’Rourke

Saturday, February 22, 2020


CHAIR: 
WHAT ARE YOUR 
THOUGHTS ABOUT CHAIRS?


INTRODUCTION

Today is the feast of the Chair of Saint Peter – a very interesting topic and theme  and image to think about.

So, I entitled my thoughts, “Chair: What Are Your Thoughts About Chairs?”

I began working and thinking about this last night and I came up with 3 pages – so by putting thoughts down on paper – maybe you will do likewise.

I assume that’s one of the purposes of this feast: to get us thinking about it.

THE CHAIR

Whenever  we have a meeting about some issue – or  we form a committee about some local problem – often one of the first steps is to elect a chair – to choose or vote for a person to be in charge.

So that’s a key meaning for this feast: Who’s in charge?  Who’s the chair?

In the gospel for today we have an early Christian text – establishing that Jesus puts Peter in charge of our church.

He’s the chair.  Pope Francis is number 266.

We use terms like chairman, pope, president, boss, leader, shepherd  for the person in charge.  Then depending on the type of group we have – someone is called the chair by that or some other title – and then what follows is a table of organization – rules and regulations – how the group is organized and governed. In the U.S. for government on all levels there are constitutions, legislation, plans and proposals.

CHAIR OBSERVATIONS

At weddings there is often a head table – or a small table for two – up front – often in the center. We’ve all seen variations on the theme.

At board meetings the president is often at the head of a long wooden table – sometimes the only one with arms on his or her chair – or he or she is in the center.

At debates – if there is a crowd - the speakers go to 6, 10 , or 12 podiums. If they are are equal - who stands where?  If they are not, there is agreement ahead of time based of predetermined  or voted on factors. Plus, there might be traditions or precedents.

I remember hearing a story about Cardinal Cooke of New York.  At a dinner in big hall, some lady was standing there talking to him. The Master of Ceremonies announced  3 or 4 times, “We’re about to begin!” However, Cookie was caught and so too were the big shot monsignors who had to wait till he sat down at the big round table. They knew their spot in the pecking order – closer or further away from him.

Priests and others off to side on other tables were already seated and were laughing at the dance these 7 monsignors were dancing. Finally, the lady moved towards the lesser tables. Cardinal Cooke took a seat at the big round head table.  Then the monsignors popped into their places.

Where is the head seat at a round table?

Growing up where did you sit? Where did mom sit? Who was more prominent: mom or dad?  Was there a kids’  table at thanksgiving?

In the gospels we have various instances of this human phenomenon. 

In Matthew 20: 28 the mother of James and John – tries to get her boys top seats next to Jesus - whereas in Mark 10:40 it's the boys who make the request to sit on Jesus’ right and left when he established his kingdom.

At the last supper Jesus is pictured front and center. Was he?  He surprised them all by getting up and washing their feet.

In Mark 10:42 Jesus said that the powerful  make their presence felt – lording it over others.   

How did Jesus make people feel?

Has anyone ever told you: "What are you doing sitting up here?  Go back there."

In the gospel of Luke 14:7-11,  Jesus says take the last seat till someone says, “Come sit higher in the pecking order?”

What’s it like to be pope – in the popemobile – which replaced the old sedia  gestatoria.   I loved it when Pope Francis in April of 2014 had two 5th graders from Perugia ride along with him in the popemobile - as he rode through St. Peter's Square.

CONCLUSION

What have you learned about chairs?  I learned to sit in the back, if at all possible.  I learned not to judge about where people sit in church. 

A lady once told me that she always sits on the side – preferably under the 6th station – Veronica Wipes the Face of Jesus -  because that has been her life experience – learning humility by allowing others to care and do for her. She added something that I could relate to. “I find it very easy to be the one who does the serving, but I find  it difficult to be helped – to be served – to be sick and someone has to help me.”

When my brother was in his last year of life with cancer, he would love to say, “Wait till I become incontinent!?” And his 7 daughters would go, “Ooooooooooh!  Ooooooooh! ”  His two sons-in-law told me that it was an honor for them to take care of him and clean him up in his last two weeks of life.

A man in a retreat house I worked in up in Pennsylvania once said to me, “I guess you’re wondering why I’m always sitting in the last row of the chapel - over in the right hand corner.”

I lied and said, “No.”  But I did see him, but it didn’t bother me. Most were up closer – and he was all by himself in the back row.

But I did say, “Why?” and I’m so glad I did. He said, “I had left the church for about 25 years and that’s where my mother would sit every afternoon praying for me to come back home to God.”

Chairs? What are your thoughts about chairs and where people sit?


February  22,  2020




PANACHE, GUSTO,  
AND ÉLAN VITAL

When God created man and woman
out of the clay of this muddy brown earth,
there’s no mention of it, but it seems
that God didn’t sprinkle into everyone,
enough panache, gusto and élan vital.

When babies are born nowadays – many
of them in hospitals, they give them a needle
of this and a needle of that, and rub in some
sweet smelling oil, but not everyone gets
enough panache, gusto and élan vital.

When I think about today, Lord,
When I think about all I have to do,
When I think about the challenges ahead,
I would like as my gift for today,
more panache, gusto and élan vital. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

February  22,  2020





Thought  for  Today 

“Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly.”


Langston Hughes

Friday, February 21, 2020

February   21,   2020


GRR!


Grumble, grumble, grumble ….
Gripe, gripe, gripe, gripe ….
Grr, grr, grrrrrrrrrrrrrroul….
Grudges, grovel, grouch ....
Groan, grace, gift, God, grab ….
Gruesome, grumpy,  grunt ….
Gross,  grotesque,  greed ….
Gruff,  gloom, grouch, gross ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020