Friday, March 15, 2019

March 15, 2015

THE  PIER

The feel of wood on the soles of
my bare feet as I stand still here
on a pier - with the licking, lapping
sound of water just below....
I love being on a wooden pier.
What a great place for wood -
better than a casket but - but wouldn’t
it be nice if  wood in the forest
still growing - still alive - had a
say in their future: table, desk,
cradle, rocking chair, pier platform,
then again there is the horror
of a forest fire that wipes away
700 miles of woodland in a single day.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 

March 15, 2019


Thought for today: 

“A child becomes an adult when he realizes he has a right  not only to be right but also to be wrong.” 


Thomas Szasz,  
The Second Sin (1973) 
Childhood”

Thursday, March 14, 2019


March     14, 2019 


Thought for today:

“If you can’t pray - at least  say  your  prayers.” 

Georges Bernanos [1888-1948]

March 14, 2019


BRICKS,  STONES



Who were the first
to build homes out
of bricks and stones?

Was it because they
decided that this was the
place to settle and to stay?

Was this the way we
became who we are:
home builders and city folk?

Did schools, temples,
stores, follow - and
culture became us?

But did the urge to move
on push folks to gather their stuff
and scatter to the four winds?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

Wednesday, March 13, 2019

March 13,  2019


HELL, NO!

He told me
quite definitely,
“There is no
such place as hell.
I just can’t believe
in such a fairy tale.”

But he knew
and I knew
that there was
a marriage or a job 
or a future situation
that will be hell!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

March  13, 2019


Thought for today: 

“Le desir de la priere est deja une priere.”  

“The wish for prayer is a prayer in itself.” 


Georges Bernanos [1888-1948] 
Journal d’un cure de campagne 
[Diary of a Country priest, 1936] Chapter 2.

Tuesday, March 12, 2019

WORDS  LAST


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Tuesday in the First Week of Lent  is, “Words Last.”

Well, not all, but some - and we never know - which words and why some words - last.

e.e. cummings once wrote these words, “be of love a little more careful than anything.”

I read those words a long time ago - and for some reason - I remember them for this long time.

As I remember them I think about them.  Of course, life is  about loving one another as Jesus taught us. Moreover, be careful in how we are with and how we treat one another.

Last night because of Jesus and Isaiah’s words for today, I wondered  if we can jump from e.e. cummings words to also saying,  “be of words, a little more careful than anything.”

In fact, I sense that this switch in words has more grab for me than, “be of love a little more careful than anything”.

Words last - so we should be careful of them. Am I talking about positive - complimentary words - or negative words?

Maybe I’m thinking or wondering more about negative comments - hurting words - that rattle around in our brain and our memory and last for 50 - 60 - 70 years.

WORDS LAST

The title of this homily is, “Words  Last.”

The words we hear today from Isaiah 55:10-11 have been around - perhaps for 2500 years and they have a  wonderful shelf life.

Isaiah 55 says that God’s word is like seed  - planted in the field. In time they become flour and food - wheat and bread.

Like bread, we eat our words - and they become us. They educate us. They feed us.

As we say the words of the Our Father - which we hear in today’s gospel, we can also  pray, “Give us  each day our daily words - good - loving - life giving - like good bread - words."

We are what our parents said to us - our teachers said to us - our children’s books said to us.

Isn’t that how we learned our vocabulary. We listen, we hear each other. We read our books and  newspapers and magazines. We have our conversations?

We speak the language of our parents - and others.

My niece Jeannie married a guy named David - from Milan, Italy and I’ve heard that he didn’t speak till he was 4 - and out of his mouth came 4 languages all at once: Italian, English, Spanish and French. His dad was Italian, but taught Spanish. His mom was from England and they had a French Nanny.

Hopefully, we heard lots of, “I love you’s” in all kinds of languages from family and the relationships of our lives.

Hopefully those words like seed sank into us - grew - and they became us - and we became devoted servants.

LAST NIGHT

Last night we heard at our parish mission good words from Father Phil Dabney and Father Jim Wallace.

Some of their words were planted in our minds and hearts.

We heard and then saw poems by Jessica Powers and Mary Oliver - on the screen up here behind our altar.

Words Last.... 

I think about a moment I was walking along and my nephew around 30 says to me how much a letter I wrote to him when he was 16 - became part of his life.

I think of all the people we have talked to in our lives and how those thoughts and sentiments became us.

CONCLUSIONS

Obviously words become flesh.

Obviously, we need to say loving words, to others - who hear our words and they are moved.


Obviously, we need to say forgiving words, to others - who might be talking to themselves about something we did that they did not like or we hurt them.