THE LETTER
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this Tuesday after the
Epiphany is, “The Letter.”
Have you ever received
a love letter - which knocked you over - because of the person who sent
it?
You believed the words. The words moved you and you knew
you were loved. Tears came to your eyes …. A warm glow filled your heart and
mind.
After you put that letter down - you realize that this is
what you needed - this was what you wanted - this is what you longed for.
Another person told you they love you.
IT ALL DEPENDS
Today, a lot more people say, “I love you” than 50 years
ago.
Is that true? I
don’t know, but that’s my perception.
However, like hugs, they can be shallow throw a way’s or they can be depth charges
that blow us up.
In other words, it’s my opinion that today’s “I love you's”
are often throw away comments that often lack depth.
SAMMY DAVIS JR.
I remember from years and years ago a moment on Johnny
Carson’s night time TV show. Johnny
Carson had as a guest Sammy Davis Jr. He
was interviewing Sammy and Johnny asked him, “How come you tell everyone, ‘I
love you!’ more than a lot of people?”
And Sammy Davis paused and said, “I’ll tell you why. I had a friend in high school, a buddy, whom
I really liked and I often wanted to tell him. ‘I appreciate you. I love you.’ But
I didn’t and then he died suddenly in a car accident - and I resolved at that
time to say to anyone I love, ‘I love you.’”
THE MOVIE: THE LETTER
It was time to go to bed.
Joe left. I got the wondering: “What
movie is on TCM - channel 36 - Turner Classic Movies?”
The movie was from November 1940. It was an old black and white movie that
I never heard of before. It was entitled The
Letter. It stared Bette Davis and Herbert Marshall and some old time big
time actors.
Bette Davis - plays the part of Leslie Crosbie. I missed
2/3 of the movie. I looked it up afterwards for more of the plot. Leslie cheats
on her husband. She falls in love with another man. He is also married
and loves his wife. she is just a moment.
Discovering this enrages Betty Davis. Out of rage and anger, she kills this guy -
shooting him 5 times - feeling she was lied to by this guy.
Her husband doesn’t know about the affair. He gets a
great lawyer who gets her off in a trial on the grounds of self-defense.
After the trial, her husband finds out about all
this. He also finds out about The Letter. Her lawyer and Bette have to
go to the wife of the man she killed to buy that letter - for $10,000. The Letter could be used to convict
Bette.
I only saw some of the movie the other night, but I’ll try
to catch the whole movie some time.
Without ruining the movie, near the end it had some powerful lines and
scenes.
One is this: Bette Davis’ husband - after finding out
what had happened - says, “It’s amazing. You can be married to someone for 10 years and you find
out you do not know hardly anything about them.”
Another is this: Bette Davis’ husband says, “I could
forgive you, but I have to know if you really love me.”
She says it. Then
she takes it back. She falls apart and
says how much she loved the man she murdered - and still loves him - and doesn’t
love her husband.
CONCLUSION
When I read today’s two readings, the thoughts of this
homily hit me.
In the first reading from the First Letter to John, we
hear how much God loves us. We hear that God is love. [Cf. 1
John 4: 7-10]
In today’s gospel from Mark we find out how far God will
go for us - to feed us - to love us - to heal us - to watch over us. [Cf. Mark 6; 34-44]
Recalling the line from the movie, I believe God could
say what Bette Davis’ husband says, “It’s
strange how people can be with God for
years without knowing how much God loves them.”
Has God’s love overwhelmed you yet? Amen.
Recommendation: Want to read a love letter to you? Read the letter, called the First Letter of
John, over and over again.