Saturday, February 10, 2018

February 10, 2018



COMEDY  OR  TRAGEDY?


Do I write my life script or is it handed to me?
Do I have the lead or do I play a bit part?
Can I change the scenes to A Far Country?
Can I decide when to open or close the curtain?
Can I be or not to be?
Am I Macbeth, King Lear, Romeo or Juliette,
or Stella looking for A Street Car Named Desire?
Is my life a Midsummer’s Night Dream
or a Long Day's Journey Into Night?
Is it Much Ado About Nothing
Is it All’s Well That Ends Well?
Or am I going to Look Back in Anger?
Will God or Godot be waiting for me?
My life: Is it a comedy or a tragedy?



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


Friday, February 9, 2018

February 9, 2018


LOVE  ONE  ANOTHER  
AS  I  HAVE  LOVED  YOU.

To be a good human being,
you have to be perfect - no mistakes.
To be a good Christian,
you can make mistakes
like the rest of us. There’s always
forgiveness. But you have to go
the extra mile when it comes to love
and try to make life sweeter for each other.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


February 9, 2018

Black History Month Thought for today: 


“Darkness  cannot  drive out darkness;  only light can do  that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” 

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Thursday, February 8, 2018

February 8, 2018

ICE

They told me to watch out for ice - 
on the steps, the streets, the roads 
today. I did and I didn’t slip. 

They didn’t warn me to watch out for 
ice in some people - so I slipped on the 
steps, the streets and the roads today.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018







February 8, 2018

Black History Month Thought for today: 





“The  outside  world told black kids when I was growing up that we weren’t worth anything. But our parents said it wasn’t so, and our churches and our schoolteachers said it wasn’t so. They believed in us, and we, therefore, believed in ourselves.” 

Marian Wright Edelman

Wednesday, February 7, 2018

February 7, 2018


OUR  FATHER, 
FORGIVE  US  OUR  TRESPASSES 

Okay, I dropped your coffee mug.
It broke big and you forgave me big.

I didn’t want to play baseball
and all the other dads were
bragging about their sons -
you let me play lacrosse instead.

I didn’t want to go to college.
I wanted to be do car repairs
and work in a body shop - and
dad you said, not at first, but
you said, “Okay, son. Go for it.”

I married her. I knew she wasn’t
the one you hoped for, but our
5 daughters made you one big
wonderful mushy grandfather.

When your younger son messed
up - disappeared - and finally
came back begging, you took him
in immediately. It took the rest of us
a while, but thanks for the good example.

Dad, there are 70 times 7 more times
and examples and episodes of forgiveness
that you showed us. Thanks for those
lessons and a lot more. I just hope
I live up to all you taught me.
  
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


WHO  DO  YOU 
THINK  YOU  ARE? 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 5th Wednesday in Ordinary Time is, “Who Do You Think You Are?”

That’s a question that is often asked of others - especially when they seem to be uppity.

It’s a good question.

It can also be a nasty question - when it’s a dig against someone else.

It’s  a great question when we ask it of ourselves - especially when we bring it to prayer - and in communion with God.

How would you answer that question: “Who do you think you are?”

FIRST READING

Today’s first reading from 1 Kings begins with the words, “The queen of Sheba....”

When I read that, it triggered the comment I’ve heard of others: “Who does she think she is: the queen of Sheba?”

Here in the 1st Book of Kings, the queen of Sheba is a queen who comes to see the famous king of Israel, Solomon.

She comes with a lot of servants  - probably also with guards and soldiers - as well as a whole herd or caravan  or flock or train of camels - carrying gold, jewels and spices. 

This is what people do when visiting heads of state. A friend of mine, Anthony Dragonetti, worked on the two Boehm birds - porcelain swans - the Birds of Peace, which President Richard Nixon in 1972, brought to China - for  Mao Tse-tung. Instead they were presented to Premier Zhou Enlai.

He told me it was valued at $150,000 when a similar pair were sold in London 5 years later.

We can picture that scene - as well as the Queen of Sheba scene - arriving at Solomon’s house. We’ve seen that in lots of movies - with similar scenes.

This queen Sheba is important. The reference books say she might have come 1200 miles. She might have been from Yemen or then again from Ethiopia. Her real agenda might have been trade - and not the quest for wisdom.

For my purposes, all this doesn’t make much difference. I just want to put her on a pedestal. Then I would like to contrast her and Solomon with a picture of Jesus as the total opposite. Jesus was a servant - kneeling on the floor washing feet  - a criminal who dies on the cross - pictured wearing only a loin cloth.

Come to think about all this, in a way, my using the Queen of Sheba as uppity is not fair. I have no clue in the world, what her personality was like.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel Jesus says what’s important is not what the externals are like - but what our heart is like.

We’ve all heard wisdom teachers poke fun of folks who think their you know what is different and smells differently  than everyone else’s. I heard an old Italian lady talking about a stuffy priest - describing him as thinking out of him came ice cream and Pepsi Cola.

Don’t be surprised with that commment. That’s exactly what Jesus is saying in today’s gospel.  Notice the word “latrine”.

HUMILITY

Jesus modeled humility - a word that comes from humus - earth - from which we were sculpted by God - right there at the beginning of the Book of Genesis.

If there is one issue that hit Jesus’ button, it was show offs - especially when it comes to putting others down.

As kids, if we were being uppity, my mother used to say, “Who do you think you are, Lord Killanin?” Translated: don’t think you’re the Queen of Sheba or King Solomon. Be real. Be humble.

Lord Killanin was an Irishman who was made head of the OCI - Olympic Committee International. I never found out how my mother knew of him.  He wasn’t rich. In his Olympic job he had to ask for money. Those who had that job before him - were quite rich. He wasn't.

We never knew who Lord Killanin was, but in checking this out for this homily, I found out that my mom was wrong about Lord Killanin.

Lord Killanin was wanted by some of those in the Olympic committees because some of those in the Olympic movement  wanted Apartheid to be broken. They wanted Taiwan included in the Olympics and not just China. There was a story that Lord Killanin was sitting on a bench in South Africa with a dark skinned person and the police came over and said, “You’re not allowed to sit together.”

I don’t know what happened next, but I assume Lord Killanin said, “Watch me.”

To be fair to my mom, she was only referring to him as a big shot and that we kids should not act like big shots with our noses up in the air.

OPTICS

The word that is uppity lately is “Optics.”

When people see you - whom do they see? How do they see you?

A test would be how we treat the waiter or waitress.

A test would be for us to ask ourselves how we see ourselves?

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily was, “Who Do You Think You Are?
My message was: don’t be uppity.

My message was change some of those LOVE commands in the New Testament to SERVE commands.