Thursday, September 14, 2017

September  14, 2017


THE WAY OF THE CROSS

My way, the high way,
at least that’s the way,
I expected today to go ....
But once again I forgot,
life and others have other plans ….
So the stations of the cross
that hang on the side walls
of every church now hung
in my center aisle. So where’s
my Simon, where’s my Veronica,
where’s our Mary to help me?




© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
September 14: the Feast of
the Exaltation of the Holy Cross





Wednesday, September 13, 2017

September 13, 2017


SALT  SHAKER  

God - like a simple, regular,
inexpensive salt shaker - shakes
grains of salt on everything.

Taste, appreciate, savor,
grains of God in and on all
of creation. “Oooh Good!”*



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
* Genesis 1: 10, 21, 25, 31.



WHICH  OF  THESE  3 
BLACK  AND  WHITE 
 POSTERS  CATCH  
YOUR  BRAIN  THE  MOST? 







Tuesday, September 12, 2017


SEEKING  TO  TOUCH  CHRIST


 INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 23 Tuesday in Ordinary Time  is, “Seeking To Touch Christ.”

That comes from a sentence in today’s gospel, “Everyone in the crowd sought to touch him because power came forth from him and healed them all.” [Cf. Luke 6: 12-19.]

If we read the gospels carefully, we often see and hear about people reaching out trying to touch Jesus or Jesus reaching out and touching people.
Jesus touched eyes, ears and mouths.



Remember the woman who said to herself, “If I just touch the hem of his garment, I’ll be healed.”



And Jesus said, “Who touched me.”  The disciples said at that, “We’re surrounded by this crowd and you ask, ‘Who touched you.’” They didn’t now, but he knew power went out of him.

EACH OTHER

Did you ever notice how much people want to touch others or be touched by them?

Little children cling to their parents.

I’ve walked through nursing homes and there’s an old person sitting there in the corridor - in a wheel chair - and spotting me they reach out their hand to touch me.

Lately, have you seen people doing this new practice of fist bumping? It’s quicker than handshakes. For men who don’t like to handshake, it’s more masculine: a fist!

In 1957 - I think it was 1957 - I was in Washington D.C. and my brother says to me, “Do you want to go over to see the Hoffa hearings?”



We went and stood there in the back. I spotted Bobby Kennedy and Jack Kennedy up front - great tans - and when they came down the aisle after a break was announced  I reached out my hand and touched  the sleeve of Bobby Kennedy’s jacket near his wrist. Power did not go out from them - but something happened.

QUESTION

Did you ever reach out to touch someone who was great: like the pope, or a famous athlete - or a famous movie actor or what have you - or  Bobby Kennedy like I did?

If it felt different, why was that?

After all these years, I still remember the Bobby Kennedy moment. Why was that?

CATHOLIC SACRAMENTS ARE TOUCHY FEELING

Have you noticed that Catholic Church faith practices use touch?

Yesterday afternoon I was on duty and I went up to Heritage Harbor to give some lady named Joan the sacrament of the sick. Her daughter had called - saying her mom was dying. I walked in and shook hands with her husband - great smile. I put my hand on his shoulder in support and said, “I hope you are okay.” He was up there in age - but I sensed he was feeling the possible closeness of his wife’s death. I shook hands with the care giver. This lady named Joan was out of it - unconscious - yet the Church wanted to anoint her on her forehead and hands in the name of Christ. I did.

On Saturday I anointed a baby at a baptism at 11 A.M. and another kid at 6:15 Saturday evening  I anointed both of them in the neck here with sacred oil before the baptism and then on their forehead after the baptism.

Touch. At the two masses I had Sunday - and at the picnic - I got to reach out and touch well over 1000 people.

If you talk to priests, you know how sensitive we are about touch - especially because of the child abuse stories in people’s minds.

At Baptisms  I like it to  ask everyone in the baptismal party to reach out and touch the baby’s forehead and give him or her a blessing - a thumb sign of the cross on their forehead.

Sacred touch - healing touch - a sign of peace is not just for Mass - but the sign of peace moment at Mass has certainly evolved. The percentage of people against that sign - I would think by observing - is under 10%.

CONCLUSION

Life can be touching.

Life can be a hands on experience.

Life gives us the opportunity to have a Sistine Chapel ceiling moment. We all know the painting of Michelangelo on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel - Adam and God’s index finger almost touching each other.  In fact, if you want a good night prayer or anytime prayer - close your eyes and reach your index finger to the skies and touch God. Say, pray, “God, just keeping in touch.”












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Painting on top: 
Ron DiCianni, Divine Healing

Monday, September 11, 2017

September 12, 2017


REVELATIONS

A spider web with rain on it….
A baby’s smallest toe….
An orange skin  and an elephant’s skin….
An icicle being transparent ….
A mother horse nudging its colt ….
A dog looking up - then down - with no sound ….
A zebra looking at a football ref puzzled….
A leaf feeling “uh oh!” - fall is coming ….
A fallen ice cream cone feeding 100 ants ….
A rock having no clues about tears ….
A wave hitting shore and falling apart …. “No!”


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


September 11, 2017



THE PURPOSE OF COMMUNITY:
BRIDGE BUILDING

Next time you go across a bridge

turn off your radio or iPhone and
reflect on all the people who worked
together to build this bridge. 

Next time you go across a bridge

realize a bridge is a metaphor for
the purpose of community - building
bridges to bring us together.

Next time you go across a bridge
ask yourself, "Am I a bridge builder?
Am I weaving my way to others? Am I thankful for those reaching out to me?

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

SHAWN  BOWMAN,  28, FATHER, 

CANTOR  FITZGERALD  EMPLOYEE

By Frank Donnelly
Staten Island Advance
 staff writer

Friday, 09/28/2001



Date of Death 9/11/2001

STATEN ISLAND, N.Y. — Shawn Edward Bowman Jr. wasn't an early riser by nature, but each morning he got up before dawn to shower and dress his 16-month-old son, Liam Edward.

The 5 a.m. wake-up call gave the Sunnyside resident precious time with Liam before work and let his wife, Jennifer, sleep a few more minutes. Mrs. Bowman is pregnant with the couple's second child.

Mr. Bowman, 28, a human resources information specialist for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 104th floor of Tower 1, is among the missing in the Sept. 11 terrorist attack.

"He was a very devoted father and husband," said his mother-in-law, Jacqueline Davitt. "And as a mother-in-law I could not have asked for anyone to be nicer to my daughter."

A lifelong Staten Islander, Mr. Bowman was a model employee who reported to work an hour early each day. Among his duties, he trained colleagues in the use of special software.

"He wanted to make sure everything he did, he did well," Mrs. Davitt said. As dedicated as he was to his job, which required frequent travel to Europe, Mr. Bowman was even more devoted to his family.

He was little Liam's special playmate. He devoted Saturdays to treks to McDonald's for pancakes and walks in Clove Lakes Park. Weeknights were reserved for romps on the floor.

"His son was everything," Mrs. Davitt said.

The day before the attack, Mr. Bowman left work early to bring Liam to the doctor's office. He and his wife were planning a trip to the Bronx Zoo with Liam to celebrate Mr. Bowman's 29th birthday on Sept. 16.

"He will live through my daughter, but it's a shame his children will never know how wonderful their father was," said Mrs. Davitt. "He will be sorely missed and our lives will never be the same."

Mrs. Bowman is due to give birth in January. The child will be named Jack, after a character in Tom Clancy novels that Mr. Bowman enjoyed reading.
Mr. Bowman was especially fond of mysteries and political accounts and devoured every copy of the New York Times and Barron's newspapers.
He also enjoyed cooking and was an Eagle Scout. He was active with Pouch Camp, Sea View, and with Troop 43 of St. John's Episcopal Church, Rosebank.
Born in New Dorp, Mr. Bowman moved to Arden Heights in 1999. In April, he and his wife moved into his mother-in-law's Sunnyside residence while they awaited construction of a new home in Columbus, N.J.

He was a graduate of Monsignor Farrell High School and the State University of New York at Albany, where he received bachelor's and master's degrees in business administration.

Following graduation, Mr. Bowman worked as a human resources information specialist for Morgan Stanley Dean Witter in Manhattan. He often traveled to the company's overseas offices to train colleagues in special software use. Mr. Bowman was a parishioner of Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church, Tompkinsville, where he was married on April 17, 1999.

Surviving in addition to his wife, the former Jennifer Davitt, and his son, Liam Edward, are his parents, Carol and Shawn E. Sr.; a brother, James, and his maternal grandmother, Anne Barbieri.

There will be a memorial mass tomorrow at noon in Our Lady of Good Counsel Church. The Rev. Joseph Mostardi, the former pastor, will officiate, wearing vestments Mr. Bowman's family purchased for him.

The Harmon Home for Funerals, West Brighton, is handling the arrangements.

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Shawn Bowman was the grandson of my godfather, Ernest Bowman - so I want to mention him on this September 11 and I ask you to say a prayer for his family.