Friday, June 30, 2017

June 30, 2017


SISTERS  OBVIOUSLY


But what about sisters?
Obviously,
like brothers, like children,
like parents, sisters are part of
life’s blessings. Obviously ….
Obviously, people
are more important than things.
Obviously, it’s in relationships
where life struggles happen.
Unfortunately, these are those
key things we only deeply know
when another dies before we die.
Bummer! Obviously ….

 © Andy Costello, Reflections  2017




Peggy (in middle) - died November 5, 2013.
She went by the name of Sister St. Monica, IHM
and is buried in Moscow - which is
near Scranton, Pennsylvania.
My older brother died March 21, 1986
and is buried near Washington D.C.
Mary and I are the only two left.
Thank God for sisters.


Thursday, June 29, 2017



BLOG 
10th 
ANNIVERSARY 


I just realized this is the 10th Anniversary of this Blog: Reflections by the Bay.

For about 3 years I thought it would be a good idea to have some reflections on our parish web-site, but it wasn’t happening.

Then - it was 10 years ago - Norm Constantine suggested I put a homily on our web site or something like that.  Norm then jumped to the idea of my having a blog and he would set it up.

He did.

Thank you, Norm.

It started June 17th, 2007. Is that 10 years?  I’m not good in math.

In this blog you’ll find lots of homilies, lots of short reflections, many of which could be labeled “poems” - as well as some quotes and poems by others.  For 4 years [2010-2013] I did a “Quote for the Day” and for another year a “Poem for the Day.” Other than those variations, most of my stuff is original stuff - so they don’t have to pass an editor - who can accept or reject something I have written.

As to published stuff I have 5 books out there - all out of print - and lots of magazine articles and this and that.  Those are the products of many re-writes.  My blog pieces are mostly in need of rewriting. Sorry.  However, this blog has gotten me in the practice of trying to get at least one thing written per day.

As of today there are 4879 blog entries. 

I get about 100 hits or reads per day - more or less.  So far there have been 226,545 hits. The blog tells me that without my having to count. Thank you to those who tell me at times, “I read your blog.”  

My blog gets readers from all over the world. The blog tells me that as well. 

People can make comments, but most don’t. Comments are made. Some are spam - which I dump [I hate that word] and most I publish. It’s a bit of a bother to put in a comment - but there are some 643 comments as of today. You can find them at the bottom of a piece - so comments, agreements or disagreements are welcome.

I consider myself “liberal” if I was to check off a Liberal or Conservative box.  However,  I try to avoid politics and pushing my agenda when it comes to putting a piece on my blog.

I also avoid “Hot Button” topics - because one can find my blog on the St. Mary’s Annapolis web site - and I have to be aware of my being part of the clergy, the parish, the diocese and the Catholic Church.

Catholic is a big net or basket - with all kinds of different fish. I don’t like sharks and piranhas - and when I write that I recall the words of Scripture, “Is it I Lord?”  [Matthew 26:22] 

However, I do hope when you read a piece on this blog, you’ll say at times, “It is I, Lord. This is me! He’s writing about me.”

O-O-O-O-O-O-O


P.S. # 1 Push my blog - if it helps you. It might help someone else.

P.S. # 2  I'm thinking of putting on my blog on Thursdays the three readings for the following Sunday - along with some questions to trigger reflections.  The hope would be that individuals as well as couples and/or families could read the three readings - give some answers and comments on the questions - and when they go to church on Sunday - they will have done a bit of reflection on the Sunday readings.
June 29, 2017



BROTHERS

There are always others,
but as Birthday Cards
for brothers like to put it:
“You’re lucky to be blessed,
if you’re blessed with a brother
like you brother. Thank you!”



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017



Wednesday, June 28, 2017

June 28, 2017






SEEING,  SENSING 
THE  INVISIBLE 

Why this wedding ring is different
from this other wedding ring, even 
though they are identical - is story, history, mystery....

So too a row house, so too an, “I love you!” Same words, same house, 
same ring, but so, so different. 
You know all this, right?



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Tuesday, June 27, 2017


OUR  MOTHER  
OF  PERPETUAL HELP 


INTRODUCTION

As you know this year we Redemptorists are celebrating the 150th anniversary of our promoting the image - the ikon - of Mary under the title of Our Mother of Perpetual Help.

So here are a few thoughts about this picture of Our Mother of Perpetual Help.

HISTORY

Scholars say the image can be traced back to the island of Crete - before 1500. It was stolen from there and brought to Rome. A plaque indicated that it was venerated at a St. Mathew's Church in Rome in 1499.

It remained there till 1798 when it was taken down from a wall - because the French were in the city fighting. In fact, St. Matthew’s [San Mateo's] Church was demolished.

Augustinians - who were in charge of that church -  placed the ikon in the church of St. Eusebius. Then it was take to Santa Maria in Posterula Church.

There are a lot of churches in Rome - all of which have an image of Mary -  and this was just one  image of Mary.

Fast forward to 1855 when the Redemptorsts bought some property on Via Merulana - including the land where Saint Mathew’s was. They built their headquarters there along with a church dedicated to St. Alphonsus their founder.

A pope and others pushed to have the icon of our Mother of Perpetual Help put in that spot once again - where St. Mathew’s had been.

Then in 1866 Pope Pius IX asked Redemptorists to “make her known” throughout the world. We have certainly done that. People have become quite aware of this image of Mary.

So this past year  we have been celebrating 150 years since that happened.

The image here at St. Mary’s in Annapolis is one of the first copies brought to the United States - 1868.

A THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: 4 PRAYERS - 4 HUMAN MESSAGES

I like to say there are 4 human communications we all make on a regular basis: Sorry, Thanks, Help and Wow.

We say those 4 words and make those sentiments to each other - and we also say these 4 sentiments in prayer.

I like to say that they go together. We can’t pray these thoughts - if we can’t make these thoughts to each other.

Take the word “Sorry!” for starters.

We all say things like, “Sorry I hurt you.” “Sorry I scratched your car.”  “Sorry I forgot to call.”  “Sorry I was late.”

Take the word, “Help!”

The movie, My Cousin Vinny was on TV the other night. I’ve seen it at least 10 times now.  Every time I see it, I notice how the movie is very connected. Things that happen in the beginning - will show up near the end.

For example:  In an early scene in the movie, Mona Lisa da Vito and Vinny are in a motel room. The sink is leaking and Vinny complains that she was the last to use it. She should have made sure it wasn’t dripping. Well, we find out that Mona Lisa knows all about sinks  and wrenches - and that this sink is broken. It leaks. That’s telling us she is quite mechanical.

Another example: she keeps asking Vinny, “Can I help?”

And he finds it very difficult as a man to ask for or to accept help.  That’s a key plot in this movie.

Take the theme of thanks. Vinny also finds it very difficult to say “Thanks!”

And lastly take the theme of being able to say, “Wow!” I’m not sure just what word to use here for this sentiment. It’s the fourth of these human skills - being able to go, “Wow!” It’s the ability to be amazed - to see the greatness of another.

These are 4 prayers as well: Sorry, Help, Thanks, and Wow.

In this homily l want to stress the “Help!” message. It’s one of the 4 basic human sentiments for daily communication with God as well.

In the title of of OLPH, we have one of those 4 sentiments: Help.

Why do people pray? Why do people go to Mary? 

One key answer us we all need to ask for “Help!” 

Hopefully we have the other 3 as well.

In the classic spiritual book, The Cloud of Unknowing, the author says that we all know the “Help” prayer.  When the building is on fire we scream out the window  just one word, “Help!”

We don’t give speeches. We say one word: “Help!”

I grew up in OLPH church in Brooklyn. I was not only an altar boy but I was also a candle boy. I noticed thousands and thousands of people asking Mary for help in prayer and in lighting a candle. Help

CONCLUSION

So we celebrate 150 years of telling people the “help” message.

Notice it’s Part 2  of the Hail Mary.

Part 1 is buttering up the other - praising the other - then comes the request for help.
June 27, 2017


DUCT TAPED

It seems at times that God is duct
taped to a chair - and it’s killing God
that He can't do anything to help.

God  knows the feeling of being
nailed down - unable to say -
anything but, “I thirst.”

I thirst for understanding God as I hear
Him say, “Father forgive them because
they don’t know what they are doing?”


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


Monday, June 26, 2017

June 26, 2017


TENTH  SENSE

Having a sense of the situation I'm
in - as it is happening - is the sense
I want to have. I want to keep my 
eye on that one, to be in touch with, 
to hear what’s really happening,
to
taste and smell what’s cooking.

Those first five senses are important - 
but I want more. I also want a sense
of fairness, a sense of guilt, a sense
of outrage, a sense of humor. That's
nine. More! What I really want is a 
10th sense: a sense of knowing what’s 
really going  on at the moment. That’s 
what I want, but most of the time I'm somewhere else and don't know what 
happened till next week and then some. 



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017