Monday, February 6, 2017

February 6, 2017

LIKE A MOUSE

If I had to give you a nickname
it would be, “The Mouse.” Why?
Well, you’re quiet. You sneak
along the wall - when nobody’s
around. You don't seem to be
interested in anything I'm 
interested in. It seems you can't
be caught. Now I don't want 
to be catty - so I'm quiet too.
Besides all this, I have no clue as 
to what kind of cheese you want.
What are you after in all these
scamperings all over the place?




© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Sunday, February 5, 2017

FAITH  SWITCH 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time [A] is, “Faith Switch.”      

What’s a “Faith Switch.”

Well, it’s like a light switch. In fact it looks like a light switch - with the possibility of an up or down movement. [Gesture up and down.] And it has two words on it: “On” and “Off”.

Some older people - like grandparents know that everyone has a faith switch on the wall of their soul - or as Jesus calls it, “One’s inner room.”

Some older people - sorry to say - don’t know about that faith switch. Maybe it was turned off in their soul a long time ago - unfortunately - and they are now in the dark when it comes to God and faith - and life. They are unable to show - or bring up faith ideas and issues and images - to themselves or their kids or grandkids. Their faith switch has been in the “OFF” position for years now - so how can they tell others about faith?

When that happens, well -  that’s an, “Uh oh! A Bummer!”

Now, this is tricky stuff - and it can get us into judging others - and that can get us a bit nervous. We’ve all heard the Native American saying about, “Unless you’ve walked in another’s moccasins - you don’t know where another has walked or what they have gone through.”

And we know Jesus’ thoughts about this same issue, “Unless you’ve walked in another’s sins, don’t throw stones.”

So not having been in another’s inner room or soul, some folks think the best wait - when it comes to that inner faith switch - is to let another be the one to one to discover some of this stuff.

As priest, I’ve heard many people ask about this stuff - especially folks over 70 - who have sons and daughters and grandkids - who have dropped out of church and faith. The same kind of wonderings come up about someone who is drinking too much - or messing up too much.

Is the best move to let others - especially those younger than us - to find out about that faith switch for themselves.

Does one have to be in the dark, and bump into enough suitcases - and trip and fall enough times - hit bottom,  before they start searching - before they feel the need for more understandings about what life is all about.

In other words, I don’t want to make things worse - hear, “Mind your own business!” or what have you.

So in this homily - I’m taking a chance - to say out loud that we all have a faith switch on the wall of our soul - and maybe it’s not the best move to hit another’s button.

I remember being stationed and every morning, early morning, we sat there eating breakfast with very few lights on. It was easier on the eyes.  Well, this guy would come in every time, turn all the lights on full blast, and say, “Let’s put a little light on the subject.”

And everyone with coffee cup in hand or Cheerios on the spoon - would moan, “Oh no!”

And Larry never got it.

People like to eat breakfast the way they like to eat breakfast - with just enough lights on.

For the sake of transparency, I like breakfast with natural light - with the light switches on “Off”.

The title of my homily is, “Faith Switch.”

Pause during this mass - and feel for that switch. Like a little kid discovering a light switch, turn it on and off - on and off - on and off - up and down - up and down a few times.

THE BABY THAT DIED

The faith switch in Judith and Jim got turned off when they lost their first and only baby. They found out it was going to be a boy and they named it Justin - while he was still within his mom. He came out early and still born.

Judith and Jim, had tried everything to have a baby - but nothing worked - till finally - sure enough - Judith was pregnant. She took it slow, nice and easy, but two months before  the baby was due - Justin was born - dead.

They became silent with God. They became angry with God. They became silent to each other - with God mentioning’s.

Their faith switch was turned off.

ABUSE AND ABORTION

Of course abuse and abortion are deadly and wrong - horrible - hitting faith buttons - so when they became a combo  - in a parish - a bunch of people had their faith switch turned off. Father So and So was off on abortion - every sermon - every Sunday - seeming to be without sympathy for people sitting there who had been through that horror - and healing and forgiveness can be slow - for some lifetime slow.  So when Father So and got caught doing the wrong thing, abuse, it hit the papers. It hit the hearts and minds of a bunch of people - and their faith switch went off. Sorry.

McDONALDS

For Sarah it was a bunch of little things that got her to push that faith switch upwards - and the light went on.

First it was McDonalds. She was sitting there. She liked to go there every once and a while. Hey - a dollar day - not bad - but she also loved to get their creamy ice cream - as well.

As she was sitting there one Saturday around 2 PM - in came a family - and they got their orders and sat down - just across from her table. They sat there - heads down for a  moment - held hands - made the sign of the cross - and said, “Grace”. It was in a mumble from a moment - but Sarah’s hearing was going.

But Sarah saw a faith moment. It became a Normal Rockwell type picture in her brain - and at supper that night - by herself - she made a sign of the cross for her food - but especially, she thanked God for that family she saw in McDonalds.

Next she was watching TV - in her Lazy Girl chair -  but she fell asleep. It was late, really late, and some sports announcers were on the screen and they woke up her up with their chatter. They were talking about the Super Bowl - which Sarah knew nothing about - or when it was played. They talked about an Irish Quarterback who did very well. Someone asked someone why some players point skywards after a great catch - and the other announcer. “They are giving God the glory” not themselves. “Nice” said the questioner.  I wish my team got into the Super Bowl and I wish they made some great plays and gave God and my team some glory.

Next it was going by a church - and the light was red and Sarah saw three ladies in the cold in running shorts - running down the street and going by a church and making the sign of the cross as they did.

That brought back memories of her mother - making the sign of the cross on her and her brothers and sisters when they were kids - when they went by a church - and sure enough Sarah went back to church - making the sign of the cross as she entered - just like she saw that family in McDonalds - giving God the glory.

And the light switch - her faith switch went on.

THE FUNERAL

For Tom it was going home to Arkansas for the funeral of his wife’s brother. He had a sudden heart attack. The funeral was in a small rural Catholic Church - and he found out - all that his brother-in-law did for people. The priest described him as the salt of the earth and the light of the town - the bread winner for so many hungry people. Tom had never heard those words of Jesus before.

And Tom and his wife went back to church when they back home.

Their faith switch was turned on - in Arkansas.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily is “Faith Switch.”

Like a little kid at a light switch- turn your faith switch on and off, on and off, up and down during this mass.

What does it look like? What does it feel like? 
February 5, 2017

DICTIONARY

The curtain opened - a lone man stood
in the middle of the stage and held up a
big dictionary. He then opened it up. He
tapped the big book. Out fell dozens and
dozens of words. Out fell dozens and
dozens of people dressed as words and
shaped as what they were: pizza, mouse,
hammer, clarinet, knife, fork, spoon,
frog, fish, alligator, bear, poodle, a yoyo,
and they spilled off the stage and into the
audience. The slice of pizza yelled loudly
from halfway up the main aisle, “Love me!”
A six foot mouse - ran across the stage
and up the side aisle - then stopped to rub
against the hammer and the spoon.
Well, for that audience that night - a
dictionary was never the same again.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
February 4, 2017

RIBBON

A red ribbon got caught
in the empty branches
of a winter naked tree -
and remained there high
above everything in
ice and snow, wind and
shivering shake - all winter.

Ribbons tossed with
Christmas wrappings
in garbage cans were
envious - so too ribbons
in girls' hairs. Little did
they know that the caught
ribbon wished she was them.


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
February 3, 2017

OPENING KYRIE

Mozart and the Mass and so many
beginning words when we meet each
other are a Kyrie. We know inadequacy,
we know sin, we know we fail each
other too, too often - so for starters,
we know the Mass.  Now let’s move
on to Glory. Let’s move on to promises
to give our body and blood to each
other - in Holy Communion - then 
we can move into the night, to service,
to what's next. Amen.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Friday, February 3, 2017


RUBBING  OUR  THROAT 


INTROUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Rubbing Our Throat.”

Today, on this feast of St. Blaise, throats are blessed.

Supposedly St. Blaise helped a kid who had a fishbone stuck in his throat.  Maybe he did the Heimlich maneuver method long, long before Henry Heimlich.  I thought I read that Henry Heimlich only used his method once - and that was near the end of his life - but it’s estimated that at least 100,000 people were helped with his method in his lifetime: February 3, 1920 Wilmington, Delaware to Dec. 17, 2016.

So I thought for a homily to say a few ideas about the throat - touching and rubbing our throat.

So do some thinking about the throat during this  mass and then at the end accept the blessing - at large or one to one - and hopefully, you’ll have some key thoughts about your throat for this mass. 

BODY LANGUAGE

How many times in a given day, do we put our hand to our throat?

In sign language, besides using fingers for letters, some folks short cut with regular signals. Like cup of tea is [cup] with one hand and move one’s other hand up and down, as if one is trying to get the t-bag to do its job in the hot water. Or rubbing one’s chin - is a sign language symbol for professor. That fits. We can see a teacher - a professor - rubbing his chin before giving a profound answer.

So is there a meaning in sign language for rubbing one’s Adam’s or Eve’s apple? Do people who are deaf pick up body language much better than those of us who can hear?

SIGNIFICANT PART OF OUR BODY

I would assume that one’s neck - the Adam’s apple area to be specific - is more important than the skin on the back of our knee or under our big toe.

The neck is very significant. It’s a key major highway - a key passage way.

Food and drink pass through our neck.

Air passes through our neck.

Words work with our throat and sound system.

Coughs come jumping out of our chest - up through our throat - and out through our mouth. It’s winter time and we all know this very well.

When someone gets a throat tickle, they say, “I might be coming down with a sore throat.”

Blood goes to our brain through our neck.

The thyroid gland is in here - and there is more and more information on how key the thyroid gland is to people.

It can affect our metabolism, hormones. Specialists have to do tests to see how our endocrine system is working.

We get stiff necks when we’re nervous or up tight.

Paul talked about fellow Jews who were stiff necked [Cf. Acts 7:51.]

Detectives when questioning people and asking questions notice neck swallows. Parents when they think kids are lying,  watching their Adam’s apple as well. They want to know if they should swallow what the other is saying.

Sometimes someone is a pain in the neck.

So when communicating with someone, calmly keep your eye on the other person’s hand - and see what questions get them to rub their neck.

Body language experts say the other is comforting their nerves down - when they are rubbing their necks - or pausing to gather their thoughts - so they don’t say something stupid.  

I was wondering why the first anointing in baptism is to put oil on the other person’s Adam’s apple - or the top of their chest. Why that anointing - and why there?

CONCLUSION

Enough words out of the mouth.


Chew on some of this - rub your neck - digest some thoughts and when you get the Saint Blaise blessing at the end of the Mass, you’ll have specifics to pray for.

Thursday, February 2, 2017

February 2, 2017



 NOTIONS

I have notions, assumptions, echoes
about life, about people, about God,
as they move across the floor and wall -
like shadows - in a room - on a February
late afternoon - but like Paul, Christ has
set me free. I’m no longer chained to a wall
in a deep dark cave. I have learned to  know
the difference between shadows and reality.
Okay,  sometimes, I find myself wanting
to return to the fixed security of that cave -
those chains - those dark shadows - to be like
Plato in his rocking chair looking at the walls
of his cave - but Christ - the risen Christ -
the Easter Christ - the fire, the dawn has
dawned. The rock has been rolled back.
The mouth of the cave screams, “Come out.
Come out. Come out! Come follow me!”


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017