HAPPY NEW
YEAR,
OPEN DOOR POLICY
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily is, “Happy New Year, Open Door Policy.”
It’s 2016.
It’s a new year.
We said and will say 50 or 100 or 500 times, the message: “Happy New
Year” - to those around us last night, today and this week. And they will respond with a "Happy New Year!" in return.
“Happy New Year.”
It works. I took my daily walk yesterday to get my 10,000
daily steps in on my Fitbit - and I said to all kinds of people while walking
along downtown and then through the Naval Academy, “Happy New Year.”
Most people said it back, “Happy New Year.”
SECRETS -
INGREDIENTS - KEYS TO HAPPINESS
We’re wishing each other a good year ahead - 2016 - free
of sickness and problems, peace and joy.
And most of us - if challenged - could give a few keys to
happiness that we have discovered.
Question: What are your 2 or 3 or 5 or
7 or 10 keys? Pick a number and pick out what
you see as key ingredients, secrets, best practices - for happiness. We used to
call these New Year’s Resolutions.
It could be a year of listening, no grudges, no gossip,
volunteering, giving, forgiving, respect.
It could be a year of reading one good book per month. It could be a
year of spirituality, prayer, church, walking, exercising, cleaning up our
clutter or our language. It could be a year of taking one day at a time. It could be a year
of giving our energy, time, expertise, our best at work. It could be a year of more time with the family - more looking in
the eye - less looking at TV - eating better, etc. etc. etc.
HERE’S 2
Here’s a possible 2. There are a lot more.
You can find various suggestions from others in the papers at this time - as well as on line. It’s something we do on
New Year’s Day. We make plans resolutions, dreams, for a better New Year of
life.
FIRST: OPEN
DOOR POLICY
Pope Francis declared this year a Year of Mercy. He used
the symbol of the door - that opens and closes at St. Peter’s in the Vatican. He asked dioceses around the world to select different parishes to do
likewise. St. Mary's has been chosen - so let's hope our church feels like a welcoming church this year of mercy.
Better may all of us in this parish take a look at the doors of our lives - those places we enter into and go out of each day.
We’ve all heard people say, “Don’t go there.” Or “I wouldn’t open that door.”
We’ve all seen scenes in movies of a room or a cellar or
cave filled with snakes. "Hiss! Hiss!"
"Oooh!" we say as we steo back or slide and slither in our chair. "Oooh!"
That scene is worse than the image of opening a can of worms.
We keep some doors shut - because we were in the room
with so and so and it was messy.
Yet Pope Francis opened up some doors and asked the
church to do likewise. I’m waiting to see how far he and we are going to open
up various doors.
Divorce and remarriage and communion are being looked at
- as you probably heard during the synod on the family in Rome last fall. We’ve heard his call for non judgmental comments about
people who are gay - or whoever and wherever.
I’m sure all of us have done some thinking about those
who are transgender and those who are different from us.
I remember an old priest saying, “I’d give that woman a
wide berth.” Meaning: whenever she came into the room or into a circle he was
in, he would step back because she would bring a hornet’s nest or a pit bull with her into that room.
When docking a boat or
parking a car, some people need a wide berth.
I have a theory that strange rangers become stranger because people avoid them because they are strange - and this makes them even stranger.
Some circles can be vicious.
Maybe some people are a bull in a china shop because
everyone has given them a wide berth and just avoided them.
Hopefully this will be a year of mercy and change - peace and conversion - surprises of grace - and more people will open more doors that were closed.
Maybe if we took a chance with someone who spoke with
sandpaper covered words - in time they might began to talk with silk covered
words.
I know our Redemptorist Congregation was founded to go to people whom
nobody else really wanted to go to. With
that in mind, I know in life, I’ve tried, but sometimes I’ve failed.
I remember being in a church in Kingston New York once. I went there to hear a speaker giving a lecture one evening. I walked down the aisle and saw someone sitting all by herself. My belly said, "Uh oh!" because the church was packed except for this one section. It was like the church had a ball spot.
So I walked into her pew. Soon, I discovered why nobody was sitting near her.
I found out afterwards that they called her, “The Cat Lady” because she had a lot of cats and
seemed never to have showered or bathed.
As I sat there I didn’t hear one word the speaker said, but I heard a
lot of inner chatter in my brain about this whole issue of opening doors to
those who have doors closed on them or slammed on them.
I did hear later on that some ladies in the parish approached her about bathing, etc. but she didn't listen.
I remember having the Wednesday night talk while giving
parish missions out in the Midwest for 8 and a half years before coming here to Annapolis. That talk was about
forgiveness - reconciliation - opening the door of the confessional - but also looking
at family problems.
After doing that for 3 years I learned to say, “Sometimes it’s better to let
sleeping dogs lie.” Sometimes it’s
better to keep some doors closed. Sorry to say, “Sometimes people reached out
and the situation got worse.”
So - study your doors. See which ones are open and which ones have rattle snakes inside. There are consequences. And sometimes
it’s better not to look under the hood.
SECOND KEY OR SECRET FOR HAPPINESS - OUR LADY OF
PERPETUAL HELP
This year we Redemptorists are relooking at the picture
or ikon of Our Mother or our Lady of Perpetual Help. 150 years ago the pope at that time told us
to promote this image of Mary.
So this year, stop and kneel at the ikon of Mary and see
what the picture will say to you.
An ikon is like a window. You open it up. This year, we’ll say it’s like a door, open
it up.
Knock on that door.
I don't know if you heard about Pope Francis' favorite picture of Mary. It's called, "Our Lady of the Knots."
He has reflected on, "What are the knots in my life that need to opened."
Well, I'm saying here: "Look at the ikon or picture of Our Mother of Perpetual Help and ask your self, "What are the issues in your life which cause you to scream, 'Help!' What are
your lifetime struggles, issues, where you need help?"
Today’s a good day to go there. This year is a good year to go there.
I went to that picture and I had a surprise.
I started looking at the image and heard myself wondering about something new.
The angel Gabriel - the angel holding the Greek Cross - is in the picture -
along with Michael - also an angel and an archangel. Well, Gabriel is the one
who brought the revelation of Jesus to Mary. Surprise - in Islam - it’s Gabriel
who brought the revelation called “Islam” to Mohammed.
I need to explore that - and see if I can finally get a grasp on Islam. I’ve read the Koran and studied Islam. Still
don’t get it. But I better.
CONCLUSION
Happy New Year.
Stand at the door of 2016 and knock on 2 or 3 key doors.
