Monday, July 27, 2015

July 27, 2015

KINGDOM  PRACTICES 

Hold the door open. Let another in ahead of us.
Enjoy the food and thank the cook or the waitress.
Say, “Hi” to those in the elevator with us.
Give a smile to the driver in the car next to us.
Pick up garbage, wrappers, etc. on the sidewalk.
If there are crayons, and there is paper, draw.
Say to the dog walker, “Nice dog. What kind?”
Give the street musician at least a quarter!
Take the grandkids out for ice cream!
Turn the other cheek. Answer anger with peace.
Go the extra mile - especially for the stuck.
Forgive 70 times 7 times and then some more.
See the good the others do; Miss the mistakes.
Wave! Smile! Greet! Acknowledge others.
Give glasses of cold water.
Say, “Beautiful baby. Wow. Lucky mom and dad.”
“Want a cookie?” "Want a cup of tea?"
Break and share your bread.
Give positive comments about great T-shirts.
Check your baggage - free up the overheads.
Tell others to tell that story about their kid.
If a kid loves chess - ask her to teach you the game.
Pray with others - especially when they are facing a problem.
Call you old coach when you see his name in the paper - especially after a tough loss.
Go to high school musicals and plays - even when your kids are long finished college.
Never stop being like a little child.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015
PRONE  TO  EVIL? 
HOW  PRONE? 


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 17th Monday in Ordinary Time is, “Prone To Evil?  How Prone?”

I take that title and that thought from what Aaron, the brother of Moses, says to him in today’s first reading from Exodus 32: 15-24, 30-34, when Moses comes down from the mountain and all the people are singing, dancing, chanting and worshipping the Golden Calf.

Moses was just up the mountain in ecstasy, in awe, in worship, with God, Yahweh, the presence that brought them out of Egypt and slavery.

How soon they fall into sin!  How soon they drop the invisible God - for a visible God - the Golden Calf.

Aaron says to Moses, “Don’t be angry. You know well enough how prone the people are to evil.”

QUESTIONS THAT COMMENT TRIGGERS?

That comment in Exodus 33:22 triggered for me the following questions:
·       “How prone am I to evil?”
·       “Are we all different in degree when it comes to sinful tendencies?”
·       “If different, what sins am I prone to?”
·       “Have I changed through the years?”
·       “What are my temptations?”

PRONE

Other translations of Exodus 32:22 use the word “bent”.
The New English Bible has Aaron say, “You know they are troubled.”
The King James Version says that the people “are set on mischief.”
The Good News Version goes this way, “you know how determined these people are  to do evil.”
KEY THEME

For a homily thought today, please answer this question for yourselves.
Why do we sin? Why do our kids mess up? Why the horror stories in life?
Why do we hurt ourselves or others?

Another series of questions:

·       Are we predetermined? 
·       Are we born bent out of shape?
·       Is it our parents or TV or friends that give us good or bad example?

I’m serious. We need to reflect deep on this.

Genesis begins by saying, “All is Good. All God makes is Good.” 

Then we have the Adam and Eve and bad fruit story - and we are the ones who choose evil.

Next Cain kills his brother Abel.  In that Hebrew Story in Genesis 4 - we hear about the “Yetzer hara”- a Hebrew term for the evil that lurks at our door and we are the ones who invite evil into our house or tent.

All through the Old Testament we have this question - of why Evil.

In the New Testament Paul’s answer in Romans is, “I don’t know.” I tell myself, today I’m going to do this and I go out and do the opposite. Why? Why?

Why do find ourselves saying on a regular basis after we do a nasty, “Next time less wine, next time less whining, next time less eating, next time less gossip and we do the opposite?”

CONCLUSION

I don’t have a conclusion.

This is the lifetime struggle. Paul will say in Romans - as Augustine read in the garden - that the only person we can turn to is Jesus Christ. [Cf. Book 8 of the Confessions and Romans 13:11-14]

In the meanwhile, be like Moses and find some alone space and listen to the 10 Commandments.

In the meanwhile, follow Jesus, the New Moses, and hear him tell us what he learned on the mountain: the Sermon on the Mount.


Or scream out to the Lord, “Help! Bend me back into shape. Prone me towards you.”

Sunday, July 26, 2015


I  REMEMBER ____
FILL  IN  THE  BLANK

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 17th Sunday in Ordinary Time [B] is, “I Remember ______ Fill In The Blank.”

One of life’s key opening and recurring comments is, “I Remember….”

And then we tell a story, a remembrance….

When we get older - our long term memory seems at times to take over - and sometimes fills the room with a great story or remembrance - and sometimes if we repeat ourselves enough - sometimes it empties the room.

When we get older - sometimes our key sentence, “I remember…” changes to, “I can’t remember…” or “I’m trying to remember…” or, “I’m losing my memory…” or “I forgot….” 

So too the sadness in some - when losing family or faith - and the loss of the sacred - and sadness invades or pervades the soul or the room.

VACATIONS

It’s summer and sometimes people go back home and walk the streets of the place where they grew up - and up come memories - like grass through the cracks on the sidewalk.

I don’t have children - but I picture that it would be a wonderful memory for a kid to have a dad or a mom or grandparent take them through the places they were.

So too soldiers and sailors going back to Vietnam or Korea or San Antonio or San Diego.

So too going back to the schools and playgrounds and the places we used to go to. And the little children laughed and smiled seeing dad sliding down the slide once again - or grandma on the swing of her childhood.

And if you haven’t and if you can, if you see people on the front steps of  your childhood home - go up to them and tell them you used to live here and could you get a guided tour - if possible.

So too the beauty of museums and photo albums. Let your feet or your fingers do the walking - and let your mouth do the talking - if you have an audience.

When I see people standing outside this church and they look like visitors, I like to suggest, “Welcome. The church is open. Check it out. And at times someone says, “I was married here,” or “I went to school here.”

A POEM BY CONRAD AIKEN  (1889-1973)

Talking about memory and remembrance, I spotted a poem by Conrad Aiken - an American poet - of Savannah, Georgia and New England and elsewhere - and a very complex life.  He was big on remembrance and symbolism. I spotted in reading up about him, that he has an autobiography along with his many poems and other writings. I might check that autobiography out.

Listen to this poem by Conrad Aiken.  It will lead me to today’s gospel about Jesus and Bread.

The poem is entitled, “Bread and Music.”

BREAD AND MUSIC
By Conrad Aiken

Music I heard with you was more than music, 
And bread I broke with you was more than bread; 
Now that I am without you, all is desolate; 
All that was once so beautiful is dead. 

Your hands once touched this table and this silver, 
And I have seen your fingers hold this glass. 
These things do not remember you, belovèd, 
And yet your touch upon them will not pass. 

For it was in my heart you moved among them, 
And blessed them with your hands and with your eyes; 
And in my heart they will remember always,―
They knew you once, O beautiful and wise.

Anyone who has lost a loved one - as you move among their stuff gets this poem big time - first time.

The stuff of life is filled with flashbacks - and history - her and his story.

The feel of others is on so many things in a house - especially in the living room. They don’t have to have the words “In memory of” like the stained glass windows here in church. We just have to talk to each other - in the living rooms of our lives.

THE MASS

I have met with various people who have left the church and want to come back. Often - if they are old enough - they discover the Mass has changed - but they were not here to witness and change with the changes.

I don’t listen enough or too well - but I make an effort to listen to what they saw and missed - or didn’t like or what they wondered about as they left.

The bread is the same. The wine is the same. The key words are the same: “This is my body. This is my blood. Do this in memory of me.”

Jesus spoke in Aramaic.

What he said went into Greek - and spread through the Mediterranean Basin - and then into Latin and into the languages of our world.

I like to take people into the sacristy here at St. Mary’s and show them the safe in there where there is the gold and silver cups and plates.

We were brought up not to touch them. That has changed. I ask them to take the chalice and take the gold plate - and feel the Mass in them - the thousands of Masses and more in them.

Sometimes they have engravings in them: “In memory of Luigi and Mary Mellaci.”

I show them the unleavened bread. It’s unleavened like the Passover Bread - which  Israel gobbled down before their run, their exit, their exodus from slavery to freedom - wanting the promised land. Don’t we all?

I tell them the joke a deacon Dave Page at Millersville told Father Harrison, “At Mass we believe that the bread becomes the Body of Christ, but the greater miracle is to believe this is bread.”  There was a post Second Vatican Council statement to try to make the Bread of the Mass to look and taste a lot more like bread.

To feed 500 or 5000 as in today’s gospel, the Church got practical and came up with the round bread, hosts, we use in Catholic Churches in the West. The Eastern Catholic and Orthodox churches use little cubes of leavened bread - and have longer Masses.

In the poem I read we heard about a sad man at a table where he broke bread with his beloved - bread that was more than bread - because of his love for her - and her hands touched a glass where they shared perhaps wine. Memories and moments at the family table.

Give us this day, our daily bread.

To me Conrad Aikens’ poem obviously triggers  Eucharist, Memories, Moments from way back. To me I have met various people who want to come back to the Eucharist - because they need the bread and the wine and the table and the words of Christ. Down deep they don’t miss nostalgia. They miss Christ - the bread of life.  They miss the Word of God.

As you know scriptures mean writings - script.  As you know the 4 gospels didn’t get formalized till after 60 and up till 100 at least for the gospel of John. Before that the followers of Christ met and shared bread and wine and stories of Jesus and someone finally said, “We’re getting old. Our minds are going. We better write down these stories and sayings that Jesus told us. We better write down his story for the next generation - and by the way, here’s a letter that we just received from Paul that is going around. And notice how this story about Jesus feeding 5000 people is like this story in the Book of Kings when Elisha the prophet fed the people with 20 barley loaves - as we heard in today’s first reading.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily is, “I Remember ____ Fill In The Blank.”

We’re here at Mass this Sunday to “Do this in memory of me” - Christ.

We come here because we are like this crowd in today’s gospel. We are hungry. We are thirsty for this table and any table that can bring us together.

Let me fill in that blank after that I remember in my title this way.


“I remember Sundays in my childhood when we went to Sunday Mass and came home and my dad made us grey cooked cereal that was sometimes lumpy and demanded lots of sugar and then we all went to Bliss park - us 4 kids and him - and mom got a break from us - and we came home had a Sunday dinner together  - all around the table and then we went up to the drugstore on 4th avenue and got a gallon of Breyer’s Ice Cream - and all was good and all was wonderful….
July 26, 2015


HURTING

Some hurts hide deep in the bottom
of the human heart. Some haven’t
had enough time to sink down there yet.
They are still too close to our face muscles,
too close to our tears and fears - so one 
stays busy or hides - or wears dark
sunglasses - lest these recent hurts 
provoke those who know us to ask, 
“What’s going on in there? Are you okay?”


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015
Painting: The Human Heart
by Andy Warhol, c 1979

Saturday, July 25, 2015

SIMPLICITY AND SERVICE




INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Feast of St. James is, “Simplicty and Service”.

Today’s two readings for the feast of St. James have great simplicity. They also have truth and depth.

They give us two thoughts for the day.

FIRST READING

Today’s first reading from 2 Corinthians 4: 7-15 has the famous “earthen vessel” text.

When it comes down to it, we are simply earthen vessels.


We’re like a flower pot. Better: We’re like a coffee mug. Once we were brand new, but after many washes and many uses, we get chipped and worn out. Some of us break early and some of us last a long time.

Doesn’t that sound so pessimistic? Yes!

But no! Because Paul adds, because of Jesus, there is risen life - resurrection, hope, a future beyond our death - when we will all celebrate newness of life.

GOSPEL

Today’s gospel has as simple and as clear a message, but it too is a message that is filled with truth and depth.

Our purpose for existence is to serve, not to be served.

The mother of James and John wanted her boys to be the big shots.

Nope, says Jesus. What it’s all about is service.

Life is not to be one of those fine fancy cups kept behind glass -- special -- to be “Wows!” No life is like being a coffee mug, to be used every day -- in service.

In today’s gospel, Jesus says, “Can you drink this cup?” And they say “Yes”. He says “You will!”

Can I get you a cup of coffee?

Can I serve you?

Amen

CONCLUSION

Two simple thoughts for the day.

To be simple and to serve....

Two simple thoughts to think on while you sip a cup of coffee or tea.



Amen.
July 25, 2015


THE  STATE  OF  MARRIAGE 

Going by the Court House,
on Church Circle, I walked
by a couple ready to walk
in on a Friday afternoon
to get married. She was in
a white knee length dress -
a bouquet of flowers in her
hands and a large butterfly
tattoo on her left shoulder.

Going by them - not 5 feet
away - was a guy with a
back pack and a glare in
his eye as he silently faced
a young woman his age.
She with a little boy in hand
yelled at him, “That’s what
I mean. Every time I want
to talk, you back away.”

“Woo! Oops!” I said to myself -
as I kept walking away my way,
heading west on West Street.”


© Andy Costello Reflections 2015
IF  YOU  GOT  A  DREAM, 
SCREAM  IT! 


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 16th Friday in Ordinary Time is, “If You Got a Dream, Scream It.”

In looking up some stuff for a homily for today for the gospel story of The Parable of the Sower, I found a quote from the prophet Jeremiah that I never saw before: “Let the prophet who has a dream, tell the dream....” Jeremiah 23: 28.

Let me basically say some words about that text for a homily for today.

The simplicity of that quote grabbed me. On second thought, for me the word “dream” comes with great baggage. I think of Doctor Martin Luther King Jr’s “I Have a Dream” sermon and Langston Hughes “A Dream Deferred” poem.



“Let the prophet who has a dream, tell the dream....” Jeremiah 23: 28.

So that dream theme text is my homily thought for today.

That text has the possibility for a sermon about the reality that we have our dreams, expectations, and our hopes. 

More dreams - less nightmares.

Nightmares are too much with us. Just watch and listen to the local evening news at 10 PM every night - out of every big city. We notice the first 5 stories are 5 murders, shootings or fires. It’s not the stuff of dreams, but the stuff of nightmares.

I dream that TV stations do more work - crime stories are easy to be had - and tell us the Good News happening in our cities and neighborhoods each day.

THE CONTEXT OF JEREMIAH 23: 28

Jeremiah 23:28 is not today’s first reading, but that was the text that hit me while beginning some research for today’s gospel about the Parable of the Sower.

Next, I looked it up and read the whole verse from Jeremiah where we these words about voicing our dreams are located. They all grab me. Listen carefully to these words from Jeremiah:

“Let the prophet
who has a dream,
tell the dream,
but let him who has my word
speak my word faithfully.
What has straw in common with wheat?
says the Lord” (Jeremiah 23: 28)

I had never remembered hearing those words before - including that last question about, “What has straw in common with wheat?”

I’ve gone through Jeremiah many times in life, but I wondered, “Maybe I’m used to other translations, that don’t use the word, `dream’?”

Surprise! Most translations of Jeremiah 23: 28 use the word “dream”. So I guess I’m like the soil that the seed of the word can’t penetrate. I guess I’m that hard earth that Jesus is talking about in today’s gospel when it comes to seed germinating.

DIFFERENT TRANSLATIONS

Let me hit you with some of the translations of Jeremiah 23: 28.

The Jewish Study Bible puts it this way: "Let the prophet who has a dream tell the dream; and let him who has received My word report my word  faithfully! How can straw be compared to grain? - says the Lord."

The Jerusalem Bible puts it this way: “Let the prophet who has had a dream tell his dream as his own. And let him who receives a word from me, deliver it accurately! What have straw and wheat in common? It is Yahweh who speaks.”

As already indicated, The New American Bible puts it this way: “Let the prophet who has a dream, tell the dream, but let him who has my word speak my word faithfully. What has straw in common with wheat? says the Lord” (Jeremiah 23: 28)

The King James Bible puts it this way: “The prophet that hath a dream, let him tell a dream; and he that hath my word, let him speak my word faithfully. What is chaff to the wheat? saith the Lord.”

The New English Bible puts it this way: “If a prophet has a dream, let him tell his dream; if he has a word, let him speak my word in truth. What has chaff to do with grain? says the Lord.”

The New Revised Standard Version puts it this way, “Let the prophet who has a dream tell the dream, but let the one who has my word speak my word faithfully. What has straw in common with wheat? says the Lord.”

JEREMIAH 23:28b-32

I then noticed that the words that follow after that text have power as well.

The Jerusalem Bible states:"Does not my word burn like fire - it is Yahweh who speaks - is it not like a hammer shattering
a rock?" "So. then, I have a quarrel with the prophets - it is Yahweh who speaks -that steal my words from one other.  I have a quarrel with  the prophets- it is Yahweh who speaks - who have only to move tongues to utter oracles.  I have a quarrel with the prophets who make prophesies out of living."

It goes like this in the King James Bible, “Is not my word like as a fire? saith the Lord; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock into pieces? Therefore, behold I am against the prophets, saith the Lord, that use their tongues and say, He saith. Behold I am against them that prophesy false dreams saith the Lord, and do tell them, and cause my people to err by their lies, and by their lightness; yet I sent them not, nor commanded them; therefore they shall not profit this people at all, saith the Lord.”

The New English Bible goes like this, “Do not my words scorch like fire? Says the Lord. Are they not like a hammer that splinters rock? I am against the prophets, says the Lord, who steal my words from one another for their own use.  I am against the prophets, says the Lord, who concoct words of their own and then say, ‘This is his very word.’ I am against the prophets says the Lord, who dream lies and retell them, misleading my people with wild and reckless falsehoods. It was not I who sent them or commissioned them, and they will do this people no good. This is the very word of the Lord.”

The New Revised Standard Version goes like this, “Is not my word like fire, says the Lord, and like a hammer which breaks a rock in pieces? See, therefore, I am against the prophets, says the Lord, who steal my words from one another. See, I am against the prophets, says the Lord who use their own tongues and say, `Says the Lord.’ See, I am against those who prophesy lying dreams, says the Lord, and who tell them and lead my people astray by their lies and their recklessness, when I did not send them or appoint them; so they do not profit this people at all, says the Lord.”

WHAT DOES THE QUESTION ABOUT STRAW AND WHEAT MEAN?

Next, each time I read the 23:28 text, I  wonder about what that  part of the text mean when it compares wheat and straw?

Before going to a commentary, I got an answer when I read the Good News for Modern Man  translation of this section of Jeremiah. With the addition of a few words it made the whole thing make more sense to me. In the first few translations I thought the word dream was referring to something good. We all have our dreams. Well Good News for Modern Man translates the text as follows:  “The prophet who has had a dream should say it is only a dream, but the prophet who has heard my message should proclaim that message faithfully. What good is straw compared with wheat? My message is like a fire and like a hammer that breaks rocks in pieces. I am against those prophets who take each other’s words and proclaim them as my message. I am also against those prophets who speak their own words and claim they came from me. Listen to what I, the Lord, say! I am against the prophets who tell their dreams that are full of lies. They tell these dreams and lead my people astray with their lies and their boasting. I did not send them or order them to go, and they are of no help at all to the people. I, the Lord, have spoken.”

That made it a whole new ball game - a whole new understanding of the text.  

It was the same with The Way. They put it this way, “Let these false prophets tell their dreams and let my true messengers faithfully proclaim my every word. There is a difference between chaff and wheat! Does not my word burn like fire? asks the Lord. Is it not like a mighty hammer that smashed the rock to pieces? So I stand against  these `prophets’ who get their messages from each other - these smooth-tongued prophets who say, `This message is from God!’ Their made-up dreams are flippant lies that lead my people into sin. I did not send them and they have no message at all for my people, says the Lord.”

JESUS THE PROPHET: JESUS THE DREAMER!

Jesus was a dreamer. Jesus was a prophet. His dreams and his prophecy are not false! And at the age of 30 or so he began to tell his dreams - his dreams for the human race, his dreams about how we can begin to live the dream of God. He had a dream about a Kingdom where all people would be foot washers and all would stop to help their brother along the way. He had a dream of a kingdom where brothers and sisters wouldn’t throw rocks, but would forgive 70 times 7 times.

Boom. He experienced the horror of not being listened to.

But he didn’t give up.

PARABLE OF THE SOWER

So he dreamed up the Parable of the Sower. He wanted his listeners to look at themselves - to see which of the 4 types of people they were.

Early Church dreamers and prophets took that same parable and used it to understand their own loneliness in not being heard or not being followed up.

HERE WE ARE TODAY

We today sit here.

Our brains are like a field - and lots of everyday words and experiences are being thrown at us - as if we were a field.

Today’s gospel challenges me to ask what’s sinking in? What am I hearing? What am I missing? Do I still realize Jesus is dreaming big dreams for me?

We have our everyday patterns - our regular ways of doing things - things we never even think of. Eating, drinking, brushing our teeth, our schedules, our robotic things. 

Part of us is shallow. It looks good, but underneath is rock - rock solid patterns that can’t be penetrated or changed.

Part of us is good soil, so good we got our best stuff going and growing there.

And part of us very good soil, soil that is or can be producing 30, 60 and a hundredfold.

Now in those areas where we are robotic, if there are self-destructive patterns or eating or drinking or scheduling, to change is almost impossible. We need conversion there - changing of roads, stop living by rote, stop being a robot. Instead the call is to change our regular patterns that are us. Our grooves, our ruts, must go, that is if they are self-destructive.

In the areas where we are shallow, obviously, we need to purge ourselves - rip up and move out those big boulders of habit that need to be removed - our stumbling blocks, etc.

In those areas where we are alive, we have to look for any weeds that are flourishing, but detrimental to our well-being.

And in those areas where we can or are producing 30, 60 and a 100fold great. More!

CONCLUSION


Jeremiah said, “Let the prophet who has a dream, tell the dream.” Jesus has a dream, have we heard it yet, or are we stone deaf. Or do we have so many rocks or weeds growing within us that we never have time to uproot them as well as planting in our rich soil.