Friday, March 2, 2012

TALKING  BEHIND
YOUR  BACK 


March 2,  2012

Quote for Today

"What people
say behind your back 
is your standing in the community 
in which you live."

Edgar Watson Howe,  Sinner Sermons, 1926


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Questions:

Have you ever accidentally overheard someone talking about you? What did they say?  Was it positive or negative stuff?

What will your eulogy sound like?  What will be the three key things someone will say about you?
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2)
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Thursday, March 1, 2012




ON  READING  SHAKESPEARE 
ON HIS WAY HOME FROM WORK

He struck out three times
in the State Championship game -
some 27 years ago….

He took up the harmonica at age 8,
the trombone at 10 and the guitar at
13  - and never lasted at any one of
them for more than a month ….

The first girl he really fell in love with
dropped him for another guy - and it
ruined the second half of his senior year
of high school even though every girl
in the school paused as he walked
into the cafeteria at lunchtime ….

He went to two different colleges and one
community college - but never finished
any one of them …. even though ….

He lost  two jobs. He was cut. They kept
others but didn’t keep him. So sometimes
bus rides home from a job he didn’t like were
tough - and he wasn’t getting any younger ….

He put on weight ….

Yet that dark night - in an aisle seat -
with a dim small light overhead - on a 
cold commuter bus - which was 
crawling along because of a winter 
accident just ahead on the road - 
he was picturing his wife and 
his four kids at home - waiting for him -
especially his youngest daughter - and he
laughed semi-out loud while others growled
out loud…. Now he knew first hand the
meaning of Shakespeare’s Sonnet 2 …. And 
he started reading his book again - thinking,
"Now let me see what Sonnet 3 is getting at ...."

© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2012


STRONG   SELF 
ASSURANCE

March 1,  2012

Quote for Today

"If you're afraid of being lonely,  
don't try to be right."

Jules Renard [1864-1910]

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Questions:

Have you ever expressed your opinion - because you knew you were right - and you got slammed and you said, "I'll never speak up again." And you felt all alone - and then lonely?

Have you ever seen someone who wasn't scared to express her opinion and she seemed strong and not afraid of being all alone on a position?

Have you ever shut up - because you didn't want to feel all alone on some position?

Wednesday, February 29, 2012



UNLIKE THAT DAY 
A  LONG TIME AGO

The tree 
didn’t scream
the day it died, when
the farmer chain sawed it -
slicing it close to the ground -
a clean cut - compared to
what his father felt that day
he was axed - and fell dead -
after many, many hacks.
The pain of winters - cold
cold winters - the standing there
in the sun of so many summers - 
hot hot summers which prepared 
him for this day - the day he died - 
but he knew it was nothing 
compared to those who died 
hung on trees
and to that day the nails were
driven into his hands -
and into his feet - and the spit
remained on his left leg 
till it dried along with his blood
and then he too died,
but then again
there is Spring.

© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2012
Déjà Vu 


February  29,  2012

Quote for Today - The Twenty-Ninth and Last Day of Black History Month

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." 


George Santayana [1863-1952], The Life of Reason, Volume 1, 1905

George also said, "A country without a memory is a country of madmen."

What's your take on Black History Month. I put a quote for each day as well as some YouTube pieces to stimulate thought and talk on Black History Month.

And I'll add the following YouTube piece on February being Black History month in Canada as well.  It seems that having a Black History Month in Europe is catching on here and there. England has had a Black History Month (October) since 1987.  Germany has one in February. From Google pieces, it seems that the movement varies and is being considered.







Tuesday, February 28, 2012




NEXT TIME IT RAINS,
TASTE THE RAIN

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Next Time It Rains, Taste the Rain.”

Next time it rains, stick your tongue out and taste the drops.

Next time it snows, stick your tongue out and taste the flakes.

We’ve seen kids stick their tongues out to taste a rain drop or a snow flake. When was the last time you saw an adult do that?  Better: be that adult. Best: teach your kids and grandkids to do just that.

I don’t drink carbonated drinks any more, but I used to love to pour ginger ale or seven up into a glass and quickly put my chin into the glass just above the soda line and feel the carbonated bubbles hit my chin. Great sensation. Try it. And if caught, smile!

I also hope I never forget to taste the rain and the snow flakes from heaven - and never stop to look at a clear night sky - like the last two nights.

TODAY’S FIRST READING

Today’s first reading from Isaiah 55 triggers these thoughts. He talks about rain and snow falling from the sky - watering the earth - helping things grow and blossom - to work with wheat that becomes bread and grapes that become wine.

Then he makes the leap from rain and snow - to words falling from God to us. Taste the words falling on your tongue - your ears - your being. Let them become you. Let them become the bread and the wine, the body and the blood called you.

Then go forth and change the world - like Jesus changes the world. Communion and transubstantiation go together all the time.

A SPEECH STORY

As I listened to today’s first reading - as I tasted it - as I let it fall on me last night - I remembered a tiny story from our seminary days - a story we used to practice to be better speakers. I went in search of it and found it. Because we said it out loud in practice so many times in the seminary, I remember it many, many, many times when it rains. It has gotten me to put my face out to feel the rain - and to taste rain drops. The story is entitled, “The Little Queen” and goes like this.

Once upon a time there was a king who failed to please his subjects and was in consequence in instant peril.  Hurriedly collecting such treasures as he could, he and his young queen crossed the frontier one night with a few faithful retainers and settled in a secluded castle in a friendly country.

On the first wet day, the queen was missing. High and low the retainers searched for her, and at last she was discovered in the middle of an open space in the forest, holding up her face to the rain.

Horror-stricken, they hurried to her aid; but she waved them back.

“Do let me stay a little longer,” she pleaded. “All my life I have longed to feel the rain and I was never allowed to.” “All my life there have been coaches and umbrellas.”

And again, the little queen held up her face to the drops.

MOVING TOWARDS A CONCLUSION

Questions: we all have our questions. How to live? How to pray? How to read the scriptures? How to forgive? How to receive communion?

Answer: Let the word of God soak into you like the rain - let it fall on you like the snow. For example, in today’s gospel Jesus is teaching his disciples how to pray. He says, “Don’t babble words.” To me that means don’t pray as in a rain storm. Pray softly the Our Father - feel the words - let them soak in - wanting daily bread for all -  as well as learning how to forgive trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. 

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Picture on top taken from Internet - by Zandy
ONE'S  LIFE  WORK



February  28,  2012

Quote for Today - Twenty-Eighth Day in Black History Month


“What we play is life, my whole life, my whole soul, my whole spirit is to blow that horn,” he told a doctor a few months before he died in 1971. No, he wouldn't cancel an upcoming date at the Waldorf-Astoria. “The people are waiting for me, I got to do it, Doc, I got to do it.” 

Louis Armstrong - 1901-1971