Sunday, April 7, 2019


ONE OF YOUR 10


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “One of Your 10!”

When I lived in Pennsylvania I used to go see a Jesuit Priest, Frank Miles, a neat guy, for spiritual direction. I also saw him for a few 8 day directed retreats - which were silent retreats as well.

In a directed retreat, one method is to give the retreatant a single Biblical Text for the day or two days or for a short period of time - and the retreatant would spend a couple of hours of prayer, chewing on and digesting that text.

Well, Frank Miles gave me some wonderful texts - that fit my needs - and what was hitting me on that time of retreat - things I wanted to talk about.

It hit me that he really knew Bible texts in a special way. He owned them. So I asked him, “How many Bible texts do you own?”

He asked what I meant.

I explained.

“Oh,” then he said, “I get what you’re asking.”

Then he said, “I don’t know. Let me think about it.”

The next day he said, “About 75.”

The Bible is this portable library of some 73 different  books or scrolls - and this Jesuit priest said, “75 were his. He owned them.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s gospel has a Bible text - that all of us should own.

It should be part of our spiritual  repertoire and value system.  The text is this. You already know it. I’ve heard you say it at various times in your life. Here it is: “Let the one among you who is without sin  be the first to throw a stone at her.”

That’s John 8:7

Use your rosary and say that text on your beads, 59 times.  Think about it. Pray with it. Make it even more your own.

That’s one text you own.

The title of my homily for today is, “One of Your 10.”

I’m not saying to come up with 75.  I’m suggesting 10.

You  have a couple of texts that you already own and you’ve said those words - that text - that saying from time to time in your life.

I like Galatians 6:2. I own it, “Bear one another’s burdens and in this way you will fulfill the Law of Christ.”  Come up with the best translation of the text that you like,   Galatians 6:2  is also  put this way in English,  “Help one another to carry these heavy loads, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

And I like John 10:10.  Actually John 10:10 B. “I have come that you might have life and that you live it to the full.”

If one of your deepest and best texts is an old translation, take that as a possible sign that this text has been in you for a long time.

So  I’m asking in this homily, “Come up with 10.”

NOW BACK TO THIS NOT THROWING STONES TEXT

The men who dragged this woman to Jesus - actually  were hoping to use his response as an excuse to throw stones at Jesus.

We hear in these Lenten texts especially - Pharisees and other groups wanting to kill Jesus.

Once we catch the power, the lightning, the wisdom, the depth of meaning in a text, it’s then that it can become our own.

SUGGESTION: NATHANIEL HAWTHORNE

If you want to get at this text in John about sin and stone throwing, I suggest reading Nathaniel Hawthorne.

He has two main novels and lots of short stories.

He lived in Massachusetts between 1804 to 1864.

However,  he wrote a lot about the mindset of the Puritans in New England from a much earlier time.  The Scarlett Letter takes place between 1642 and 1649.  Students of Hawthorne thought he wrote best about this earlier period of New England life compared to his time: the 1850’s and 1860.

The Puritans came to New England with the hope of purifying the Church of England.

The Puritans were purists. They were sometimes called, “Precisionists.”

They were stern - strict - and very off on sin.

They were not too happy about having fun.  They didn’t think well about young people dancing - for example around the so called “May Pole.”

Maturity meant sadness and sobriety - strictness and sternness.

You can find this type of person in all religious groups.

The key is to catch ourselves when we are being this type of person.

The woman dragged to Jesus in today’s gospel is caught in Adultery.

Hester Prynne - in The Scarlett Letter - has a child out of wedlock. It’s assumed that her husband was dead: Roger Chillingsworth.  She is tried - condemned - made to wear the scarlet letter A - for adultery - on the front of her robe.

Where is Jesus when he is needed?

Hawthorne was a Christian - but didn’t go to church. His house was his church on Sundays.

He sided with the Puritans a bit - but more with the transcendentalists - for a while.

The Puritans saw sin - the transcendentalists saw light and wisdom.

Hawthorne is complex - and he changed in time discovering more darkness and duplicity in people’s insides than when he was younger. 

Every one of us has to ask that question: as I age am seeing more emptiness and sin or more more love and joy in others?  Am I mellowing and laughing more or am I becoming, “The Scream” painting as I cross the bridges of life.


As I just said, “Hawthorne is complex.”  He also saw that Hester didn’t commit the worse sin in life.  Sexual sins are never that.  Food too. The real sins are the deeper sins.  C.S. Lewis also said that loud and clear. Dante too with his levels of hell.

Hawthorne saw that Hester sinned. But the worst sin, the deeper sin - was the sin of pride in the Puritans who didn’t want to see their own sins - but only others sin.

There are 3 main Characters in Hawthorne’s novel:  The Scarlet Letter, Hester, Arthur Dimmesdale, and Hester’s husband Roger Chillingsworth, Hester Prynne is the least sinful.  Dimmsdale is next. He’s the minister who is the father of Hester’s baby, The minister changes - grows - especially in understanding human beings - but Roger Chillingsworth doesn’t and commits the worst sin: revenge and can’t forgive Dimmsdale - and basically destroys himself in his fury.

As I read up on Hawthorne I heard various specialists say that Hawthorne learned a lot in his writing and studying all of this: that the human heart can be depraved - weak.

Hawthorne is trying to figure out how much we suffer from the attitudes and ways of our great grandparents etc.  His great grandparents were Puritans - and one might have been very much a part of the Salem Witch trials.

Hawthorne had very negative understandings of Catholicism and he thought we Catholics were fluff without depth because of confession and how easy we can sense  forgiveness and receive absolution.


The funny story is that his daughter Rose becomes a Catholic and a famous Dominican nun.

CONCLUSION

Enough.....

April    7, 2019

Thought for today: 


“There is an old legend which tells of a powerful genius who  promised  a beautiful maiden a gift of rare value if she would go through a field of corn and select the largest and ripest ear, and in doing so she was not to pause nor go backward nor wander  hither and thither. The value of the gift was to be in proportion  to the  size and perfection of the ear.  The maiden passed by many fine ears, but so anxious was she to get the largest and most perfect that she kept on without plucking any.  Then the ears began to grow smaller, until finally they became so stunted that she was ashamed to pluck any, and not being allowed to go backward, she came out on the other side without any.  For lack of decision she missed the very gift she coveted.”  

Tesa F. Best

April 7, 2019



WHAT’S YOUR NAME AGAIN?


There’s a man in Tampa,  Florida
who took up cleaning up names
and numbers on tombstones.

The results were astonishing.
Name blotted out by dirt and grime
were cleaned and made as brand new.

Everyone living and dead has the right
to have their name cleared and cleaned,
proclaiming to the world, “I was here!”

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019




Saturday, April 6, 2019

April 6, 2019

EVOLUTION

Will the human thumb be different
in another 50 years - because of
all these cell phones in hand?

Will the human mind be different
in another 50 years - because of
all these cell phones in our ear?

Up till now we walked down the street
alone - talking to others in our mind -
or with others walking next to them.

Now this new thing has happened:
walking down the street talking
to others on our cell phones.

How will this change the shape of the
human hand? How will all this change
the shape of the human mind?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


April    6, 2019 

Thought for today: 


“All cruel people describe themselves as paragons  of  frankness.”   


Tennessee Williams, 
in The Milk Train 
Doesn’t Stop Here 
Anymore, New Directions, 1964

Friday, April 5, 2019


DID YOU EVER WANT 
TO KILL SOMEONE? 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Did You Ever Want  to  Kill  Someone?”

A homily is a  reflection on the readings.

Both readings for today - this 4th Friday in Lent - talk about people wanting to kill people.  So that’s where I got the title of this homily: “Did You Ever Want to Kill Someone?”

I asked myself the question and thought about it and I have to say, “I have never wanted to kill anyone.”

Thank God, obviously.

Don’t call 911 on me.

Then I asked, “Did I ever want someone dead?”

“No.”

Next question: “Did I ever wish someone would disappear - be on the other side of the street from me - or they are taking the down staircase and I’m on the up staircase?”

Answer. I hesitate and then answer, “Probably, yes!”

I heard someone say, “There’s one in every office.”

A what?  I PITA - a person who is dysfunctional - someone who de-energizes everyone.

In hearing that there problem people around us,  I think of the gospel text, that I jokingly use at times, “Is it I, Lord?”

TODAY’S READINGS

If you read the Bible, then you know that prophets, those who challenge us, are often threatened with extermination.

If you read the gospels, especially near the end of Lent, you know that Jesus is often threatened.

And they got him killed!

The person on the cross and the cross are central to Christianity.

MOTIVE

People who correct us or challenge us or get under our skin are people who can anger us.

Is anger the #1 cause of murders.

Combined with booze - that can become a lethal dose of poison for our relationships.


Yesterday we got the news - the verdict - in a murder case in New Jersey. My brother-in-law’s nephew, Richie Doody, was murdered around Thanksgiving 2015, by a guy named Conrad Sipa.

We still don’t know the motive: but by the violence in how Richie was murdered, there was a lot of anger there. Richie was beaten by a golf club, a lamp and his neck was slit with a knife.

Conrad Sipa was out on a million dollar bail for the past 3 years - so the long awaited trial was a source of frustration on the part of the Doody families. Conrad was found guilty of 8 out of 9 charges.

ANGER: SOME SUGGESTIONS

So I would list anger as one of life’s major issues.

Since anger shows up in our neck, our fists, our shoulders, our words, here are a few suggestions - on what to do with our body.

When angry, walk.

Walk out the door and walk about the block.

Stand there or sit down and make a fist or two fists as tight as you can.  Then raise your fists, your hands, as if you have all your anger in your hands - in your grasp - then open your hands, release the anger in  your hands,  as if you’re releasing pigeons into the sky.

Or open your mouth, stick your tongue out.  Now bite your tongue saying, “Enough with the anger.” Or “Enough with the friction.”

Bite your tongue with every prayer and pray, “Help!”

April 5, 2019


FATBURG

I just learned a new word: 
“fatberg”. I had never heard 
about them before. Ugly. 
They are enormous blobs 
of fat that can clog up sewers. 

Unlike icebergs, which are 
made up of clean clear white 
ice and snow, a fatberg is 
made up of  fats, handi-wipes, 
congealed grease and gunk. 

I suspect in years to come 
there will be new words 
like “angerbergs,” “pornbergs,” 
“unfairbergs,” “fakenewsbergs” 
stuff that clogs up our minds. 



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 


April    5, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“Whether the angels play only Bach praising God, I am not quite sure. I am sure, however, that en famille they play Mozart.”  


Karl Barth, recalled 
on his death, 
December 9, 1968




Thursday, April 4, 2019


April 4, 2019


LISTENING  IN? 

If you listened into my very being - as if
I was all music - what would you hear?

Would it be Beethoven’s Ode to Joy
or would it be Mozart’s Requiem?

Would it be a Flash mob or a organ solo?
Would it be at Mass or in the Mall?
  
If you listened into my very being - as if
I was all music - what would you hear?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019





 April    4, 2019 


Thought for today: 

“’Where is the dwelling of God?’”  

"This was the question with which the rabbi  of  Kotzk surprised a number of learned men who happened to be visiting him.  

"They laughed at him: ‘What a thing to ask!  Is not the whole world full of his glory!’  

"Then he answered his own question: 

‘God dwells wherever man lets him in.’” 


Page 183 in The Spirituality of Imperfection
Storytelling and the Search for Meaning,
by Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham.

Wednesday, April 3, 2019

April 3, 2019



THE  GLUE PEOPLE 

Every restaurant, workplace, 
church, family and school 
has to look around  and spot 
the "glue people. " They keep 
the place together. They're 
there. Just open your eyes 
and you'll spot them! Be one! 


© Reflections 2919, Andy Costello

April    3, 2019 




Thought for today:


“The hottest  places  in hell are reserved for those who, in a period of moral crisis, maintain  their neutrality.”  


Dante

Tuesday, April 2, 2019

April 2, 2019


HOW DO I WALK 
DOWN THE STREET? 

Did you ever notice how different people
walk down the street in different ways?

Some seem to be dancing or playing the fiddle.

Others seem to be pall bearers.

Still others seem to be making the Stations of the Cross.

Others seem to be smelling the flowers or spotting the birds.

Others seem to be referees or Pharisees ready to blow the whistle on others.

How do I walk down the street?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019







HEALING  WATERS
  
INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Tuesday in Lent  is, “Healing Waters.”

Both readings for today talk about waters and healing.

Take the time to dip yourself in both readings. Like water let them wash you, refresh you. Drink of the waters. Taste the waters. Experience the waters.

FIRST READING

The first reading from Ezekiel  is refreshing. You can hear the water. You can sense the water flowing from the right side of the temple.  I can picture a museum in Washington D.C. that has water flowing down a wall - with great sound and splash. It’s one of the walls in the museum restaurant.

In this first reading, Ezekiel talks about pools. The water is knee deep. Then it’s up  to his waist. Then he finds himself walking along the bank of a  river - among trees on both sides and the river and the pools are filled with fish. The trees are loaded with fruit - which will serve as food and its leaves will be medicine.

Great slide show. Great power point images - on the screen of our mind.

Come to the waters.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s gospel also features water. The scene is the pool of Siloam at Bethesda in Jerusalem.

It features a man who is lame and crippled. He comes to this pool of water for healing for 38 years.

Being crippled everyone else beats him to the waters - when the waters are bubbling up - and ready for healing.

I was in Israel in the year 2000 and we were shown where this pool was thought to be.  It was across the street from St. Helen’s Church.  But in June of 2004 they found a much larger pool. This pool was 225 feet wide with steps on at least 3 sides. They are still working on excavation there.

King Hezekiah from way back around 700 BC had a tunnel built from outside of the city of Jerusalem  - under the city for about 1750 feet  - so they could have fresh water if attacked.

They now think that’s the healing pool in John 9 when and where Jesus tells the blind man to bathe in - as well as here in the 5th chapter of John where this paralyzed man is healed.

COME TO THE WATERS

We humans often sense the healing powers of water.

Where have you been healed by coming to the waters.

Was it the ocean - a pool - a lake or hot springs.  When is  a good shower? When is a great bath.

I have fond memories of being with my dad soaking his feet in a bucket of water with Epsom Salts after a long day on his feet at work.

I love water coolers - especially if the water is very cold - like the ones down our side corridors here  at St. John Neumann - unlike the one  at St. Mary’s. Horrible.

I’ve been blessed to live my first 13 years of life in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, just above the Narrows - part of the New York Harbor - and we walked down there almost every Sunday.

I lived the next 6 years in North East, Pennsylvania, not too far from Lake Erie.

In our novitiate year we were on the Patapsco River near Ilchester, Maryland. That water was ugly. It was polluted from a box factory - just below us.

I was 14 years of my life on the Hudson River - between Kingston and Poughkeepsie NY

And now I’ve been here in Annapolis - on Spa Creek - leading out to the Chesapeake Bay.

How lucky could one be.

Location, location, location - to be on or near the water.

Is it any wonder Jesus is called, “Living water.”

Is it any wonder the first of the sacraments is Baptism?

Do we see Lent as a moving towards a renewal our Baptismal Vows - in the Living Water called, “Christ”?

April 2, 2019


Thought for today:

"Life is about using the whole box of crayons."

Someone

Monday, April 1, 2019



7  SIGNS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 4th Monday in  Lent  is, “7 SIGNS”.

7 is a neat number - especially for lining up ideas - or thoughts - or learnings or experiences. It's like 3 or 10. Today I'm going with a 7 - as in 7 Signs.

Scripture scholars like to make mention of the 7 Signs of Jesus from the Gospel of John.

In today’s gospel, John writes of the healing of the Royal Official’s Son. Today’s gospel ends this way:  “Now this was the second sign Jesus did when he came to Galilee from Judea.” [Cf. John 4: 54]

The miracle of the water made into wine at the wedding feast of Cana is listed as the first of the signs of Jesus. [Cf. John 2: 1-11]

That’s two. Then scholars add 5 more:

The Healing of the Paralyzed Man the Pool at Bethesda John 5: 1-15

The Feeding of the 5000 in John 6: 5-14.

Jesus walks on  Water in  John 6: 16-24.

Jesus Heals the Blind Man John 9: 1-7.

Jesus raises Lazarus from the Dead John 11: 1-45.

That’s 7.

Other scholars differ. They add  the big catch of fish or the death and resurrection or the cleansing of the temple.

TWO SUGGESTIONS

Go through the 4 gospels and pick your 7 favorite signs.

It might be the healing of the Story of the Woman at the Well or the Return of the Prodigal Son or the Eucharist at the Last Supper.

The second suggestion. This would be more like  homework. People sometimes tell me that they do the  homework that I assign.

Here is my second suggestion.

Pick 7 signs of God’s love for you or 7 signs of your love for God.  

It could be being born - the gift of life - or your meeting your husband or it could be your 50th anniversary or it could be the birth of a child.

Or it could be a child coming back to God or  to the church.

It could be a trip to Rome or the Holy Land, Fatima or Lourdes.

CONCLUSION

That’s it. It’s an easy homily. But it could be tough if you do some homework.  

Jot down 7 signs that you’re alive - or 7 signs that you’re happy or whatever. Go for it.


April    1, 2019 


Thought for today: 


“A fool always finds something to complain about, and a wise  person  always finds something to appreciate.” 


Debasish  Mridha





HOW TO BE A FOOL?

Stop to see the person 
right in front of you.
Open your wallet.
Go the extra mile.
Give the shirt off your back.
Feed the hungry.
Visit the sick.
Water the flowers.
Anonymous is good.

I'm sure you heard all this before

as well as the Nike command,
"Just do it."


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

Sunday, March 31, 2019


SOUNDS

The clink of a spoon 
placed on a plate …. 
The sound of silver 
on porcelain …. 
Sorting out words - 
slices of mind thoughts -   
moments together - 
talking and listening 
to each other with 
a cup of tea or coffee ….
Styrofoam cups with plastic 
stirrers - with ego on our lips - 
just doesn’t do it. 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019