Friday, February 15, 2019

March 3, 2019



MISTAKES

Yep I make mistakes.
More than once ….
How about you?
Which words of Jesus
do you rely upon?
"Father forgive them
for they don't know
what they are doing?"
Or, "Forgive 70 x 7."
I’ll take both.
Jesus was easy and he
wasn't good at math either.

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2019


March   3, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“If  opportunity  doesn’t  knock, build a door.” 

Milton Berle

March 2, 2019







LINGERING CONVERSATIONS

Everyone knows that conversations
last a lot longer than when we walk
out the door.  Hey,  I know a lady who
told me she is still arguing with her mom
who died 14 years ago - and her sister
tells her to, "Let it go" - but she the sister
can’t stop talking about her sister and
how she can’t stop talking about her mom.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


March   2, 2019 - 

Thought for today:

“Good judgement comes from experience, and a lot of  that  comes from bad judgment.” 

Will Rogers

March 1, 2019


A  THOUSAND  BIRDS 
A  THOUSAND  FLOWERS


Jesus - in his teens or in his twenties -
took a long walk into the hills near
Nazareth - and surprise - he saw 
the sudden of a thousand birds and 
the slow and the silence of a thousand flowers - and all alone, he stood there 
and said to the whole  world, 
“You have to see this to believe
what's behind all this. Do you?"



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 






March   1, 2019 - 

Thought for today: 

“Kindness has converted more sinners than zeal, eloquence and learning.”  

Frederick W. Faber

February 28, 2019



GREAT  TATTOO


We don’t know this but God
puts a tattoo on every person.

It’s in the shape of a package and
it has 2 words on it, “Care Package.”

And God sends them around the
world every day - for those in need.

You’re kidding?  Nope! What do you
want something longer, like  “I am
my brother and my sister’s keeper.”



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


February   28, 2019 




Black History Month Thought for Today: 

All of us have moments in our childhood where we come alive for the first time. And we go back to those moments and think, This is when I became myself.”  


Rita Dove
Picture of Rita Dove 
at her 4th Birthday,
August 28, 1956


February 27, 2019





WHAT DOES IT TAKE
TO GET THE GOLDEN RULE?

What does it take for someone
to learn the Golden Rule?

Do we  have to get burnt or do we
need to see ourselves on video?

Does it take good parents or good
grandparents - to give us good example?

What does it take for someone to learn
or to experience the Golden Rule?



                                                                                         © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019






February   27, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

I carry a notebook with me everywhere. But that's only the first step.” 

Rita Dove

February 26, 2019

INTRIGUING WORDS

Smorgasbord, keepsake, curmudgeon,
moss, squeaky-clean, mucilage, laminate,
steamfitter, heirloom, G-man, minestrone,
seaweed, ramification, pink, slice, jar, jaw,
trumpet, sycamore, synthesis, nickel,
minimalist, tortoise, incognito, kayak, gill,
flax, elixir, dolly, grease, sesquipedalion,…



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


February   26, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

Life is short, and it is up to you to make it sweet. “ 


Sarah L. Delany

February 25, 2019


BUCKET

It’s good to see a bucket
now and then and again.

As basic as a knife  - as
old as cows - a necessary.

There are too many ads for
new gadgets and machines.

A bucket - holds milk and
sand  and water. Basic ….

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



February   25, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

It is not the intelligent woman v. the ignorant woman; nor the white woman v. the black, the brown, and the red, it is not even the cause of woman v. man. Nay, tis woman's strongest vindication for speaking that the world needs to hear her voice."

 Anna Julia Cooper  [1858-1964],  Ph.D.

February 24, 2019
MEASURING  GENEROSITY
  
INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 7th Sunday in Ordinary Time - Year C - is, “Meauring Generosity.”

It’s a theme right there at the end of today’s gospel: Luke 6: 27-38.

So I would like to reflect upon the theme of generosity - being generous. I believe that’s what today’s gospel is calling us to be - to be generous, copious - prodigal in our love for each other.

Today’s gospel ends with the words, “The measure you use is the measure God will use.”

What are your standards? What does being generous mean to you? Do you have a limit when it comes to begin generous with your stuff, your time, your forgiveness?

Some people’s standard is this big: stretch out your arms about one foot.  Now with those same arms stretch out your arms about two fee. Which is more you when it comes to love and forgiveness?

What is your standard? I believe Jesus is saying that we are called to be this generous (360 degrees) becoming a circle, without beginning and without end - being like God - whose image we are created in. It will break our back to be that generous. We will be crucified. So what else is new? It will drive the other crazy when we turn the other cheek, go the extra mile, give them the shirt off our back.

Remember Oscar Wilde's Quote: "Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much."

$1.00 FOR ICE CREAM


When we were kids my dad used to give us a $1.00 every Sunday night to go over to the corner drug store on 61st and 4th Avenue in Brooklyn to get ice cream. I used to love it: Breyers ice cream -  Chocolate, vanilla and strawberry.

You would walk in the drug store. Every thing on the right side was for  old people or big people. That would be prescriptions and ace bandages and canes. My goal was straight ahead  to the soda counter. We would get up on the round twirly stools and spin around till the druggist came.

He once said, “Loose or brick?” I thought that was a type of ice cream. My brother and two sisters  killed me for that question.

Brick was the prepackaged ice cream.  We wanted loose of course.

We would sit there and watched the druggist packing ice cream into a while box. He would pack it in with one of those heavy duty steel spoons or shovels and we would watch hoping he would put in extra.

A couple of times we would say, “More” and it often worked.

Those days are gone. It’s brick now. But no. You can still get ice cream in Baskin Robbins and cone places and it’s up to the server to give you the amount they are going to give you.

My brother Billy taught us, “When you go into Baskin-Robins, always go to the big girl.” He was right. I’ve quoted my brother and people came back and told me, “Your brother was right. The big girls give more.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel Jesus uses an moment from the market place. The the seller would shake the bag 4 times, so that you saw yourself getting a good deal. He would shake it. He would cone it. He would shake it. He would shake it again. And each time he would get more into the bag or garment.

That’s the image that Jesus asks us to keep in mind when it comes to being generous.

Turn the other cheek. Go the extra mile. Give the shirt off your back. Forgive and you will change the world.

The world’s standards are and eye for an eye. Strike while the iron is hot. Get the sucker. Get yours first. Win! That’s what Paul is getting at in that middle reading.

FIRST READING

I think the first reading is put here to get across the point that David could have killed Saul but didn’t. So too us, so many times. Choice.

CONCLUSION

That’s enough.

So the call is to be generous with time and energy. To give ourselves to the others, to the community, etc.

February 24, 2019


TEEN  YEARS


Life,
takes time to unfold.
Wait!  Watch!
Don’t judge yet.
Alone ….
Then competition ….
Then comparisons ….
Then things start to jell
with others - differences
blend - and all make some
mighty music together.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

February   24, 2019

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

I constantly felt (as I suppose many an ambitious girl  has  felt)  a thumping from within unanswered by any beckoning from without.” 

Anna Julia Cooper [1858-1964], Ph.D.

February 23, 2019


HOME  IMPROVEMENT


Sometimes I don’t get out of bed, well
not yet, because I figured out a different 
way to do living: asking new questions, 
and seeing things on the other side of the 
bed - from the other side of the other person.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019








February   23, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

Agnosticism has nothing to impart. Its sermons are the exhortations of one who convinces you he stands on nothing and urges you to stand there too.” 

Anna Julia Cooper  [1858-1964], Ph.D.

February 22, 2019

WAITING

Life has a lot of waiting ….
The red light to turn green ….
The mail truck to come up the street ….
The waitress to come back with ….
The bathroom door to open ….
The 24 year old to move out ….
The sermon to make a point ….
Spring …. Summer …. Autumn …

Winter … Spring to arrive again ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019






February   22, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today: 

One needs occasionally to stand aside from the hum and rush of human interests and passions to hear the voices of God.”   

Anna Julia Cooper [1858-1964], Ph.D.

February 21, 2019

HINGE

He didn’t like his job -
compared to his brother,
back home in another place ….
He …. Changing light bulbs,
cleaning toilets,
mopping marble
floors after midnight ….
Then one night
all alone  as he
was polishing a metal hinge -
he realized this was good:
his four kids were in good schools;
his wife greeted him with a rich smile
and a great hello when he got home
at 4 in the morning; and he was a
bronze shining hinge between
two cultures, countries, languages,
even though some wanted a wall
instead of a door.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019




February   21, 2019 


Black History Month Thought for Today:  Choose your leaders with wisdom and forethought. To be led by a coward is to be controlled by all that the coward fears. To be led by a fool is to be led by the opportunists who control the fool. To be led by a thief is to offer up your most precious treasures to be stolen. To be led by a liar is to ask to be lied to. To be led by a tyrant is to sell yourself and those you love into slavery.”  

Octavia E. Butler

February 20, 2019

THE  POWER OF WORDS

“Yes” ….
“No” ….
“I’m sorry” ….
“Help!” ….
“Will you marry me?” ….
“I don’t know” ….
“”Give me three more days?” ….
“Translation?” ….
“I love you!” ….
“I want out!” ….
“Oh my God!” ….
“You win!” ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

February   20, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  


Writing is one of the few professions in which you can  psychoanalyse yourself, get rid of hostilities and frustrations in public, and get paid for it.”   


 Octavia E. Butler

February 19, 2019

ZIGZAG

Life is zigzag.
We all know that.
We don’t want it that way,
but that’s the way it goes.
We want straight, clean cut,
lines - no veering off course.
We say things like that when
there is a rejection, a divorce,
bad weather, or the crazies.
We forget to marvel when the
zigzag has scenic overviews,
surprising people and the brand new -
especially moments of grace.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

 February   19, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today: 


As you get older, you find that often the wheat, disentangling itself from the chaff, comes out to meet you.”   

Gweldolyn Brooks


EULOGY

If I could write my own eulogy,

what would I write? 

If I was sitting there hearing my eulogy,

what would the eulogist say?

If I was hearing my eulogy would I say

the old jokes? You're talking about someone else.

If I was hearing my own eulogy, 

what would I hope is not said?

Is the eulogy and the words at the wake,

the real final judgment?

If God gave my eulogy,

what would God say? 

Is there a final judgment?




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
February   18, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  


"Poetry is life distilled.”  

Gweldolyn Brooks



DEAD TREE  -  LIVE  TREE


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 6 Sunday in Ordinary Time is, “Dead Tree - Live Tree.”

When a preacher starts to work on a homily or a sermon he or she likes to come up with an opening story or an opening image - that everyone can picture - something everyone can feel and sense.

Today’s first reading from Jeremiah gives two diverse images: that of the dead tree and a live tree.

All of us have seen both - dead flowers,  dead bushes, dead branches, and dead trees - as well as their opposites.  Jeremiah describes a bush out there in the desert,  dead,  infertile, no longer producing life.

PSALM 1 AND JEREMIAH 17

Today’s Psalm has the same image: live tree near running water and dead leaves, blowing in the wind. It's from Psalm One - the first of all the psalms.

Jeremiah says to the people that  we have two choices in life: do you want to be a dead bush or a live tree? The choice is always ours?

Listen to these words again from Jeremiah:

“Cursed is the man who trusts in human beings,
who seeks his strength in flesh,
whose heart turns from the Lord.
He is like a barren bush in the desert
that enjoys no change of season,
But stands in a lava waste,
a salt and empty earth.

Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord,
          whose hope is the Lord.
He is like a tree planted beside the waters
that stretches out its roots to the stream:
It fears not the heat when it comes,
its leaves stay green;
In the year of drought it shows no distress,
but still bears fruit.”

Which would you rather be? Obviously, we would all choose to be the living tree. We want 4 seasons? We want life? Who wants to be a deadbeat? The choice is always yours.

Jeremiah then, like any good preacher, gives the secret, the way to be the tree and the way not to be the dead bush.

The secret is basic: it’s trust. Down deep at the bottom of me, at the lowest levels of the soil of my soul, I have to ask myself, “What do put my trust in?” Or better, “Who do I put my trust in?” Is it God or others or stuff? So we have to do is to examine where we put our trust. What do I put my trust in?  Obviously, it’s in God - the Living God - who is living water - flowing deep within me.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s gospel uses a basic human experience: that of blessing something or someone or cursing something or someone. We are very familiar with each. We bless and curse every day.

It's Luke's version of the Beatitudes - but he only gives 4, but then he adds 4 Badattudes as well.

Blessing and Cursing are 2 very basic human behaviors. We praise the other person -  or we curse him or her. We praise a day or we curse a day. We praise a meal or we curse a meal. We praise a movie or we curse a movie. We dread or rejoice. We curse the other driver for crawling along in the left lane or not using their blinker or we praise them for letting us out into traffic in front of us.

CONCLUSION: SECOND READING

The title and theme of my homily is, "Dead Tree - Live Tree."

The Good News is found in today's second reading from 1 Corinthians 15:12, 16 - 20.

Even if we're dead, we can come back to life.

February 17,  2019




 GOING TO COMMUNION 
IN THE DARK OF NIGHT

Sometimes when I’m at church
I look at the backs of heads - and
wonder about what’s going on
inside the dark of another’s mind.

Sometimes when I’m at church
I look at faces - as another comes
back down the aisle - after receiving
Holy Communion - union with Christ.

Sometimes when I wake up at
two-thirty in the morning, I walk
down to the back porch and look
out into the dark night - past the stars.

Sometimes if it’s cold in the dark
night I get out of bed and walk into
my inner room - close the door -
and enter into deep communion.

Sometimes in these moments of
Holy Communion,  I know you know,
what’s inside my mind and behind
the smile on my face in the dark.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

February 17, 2019

Black History Month Thought for Today:  

Reading is important — read between the lines. Don't swallow everything.”  


Gweldolyn Brooks 

February 16, 2019



HISTORY

His story - her story - surrounds us.
Family history is all around us. 
Statues, gravestones, markers. 
mementos, scratches on furniture,
scars on skin,  glued vases all sit there.

Everything has a story and is part of one.
So the key questions are: "What happened?"
"Why here?" "Who were the key characters?"
"What impact did this have on your life?
"Did anyone write what happened here?"


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



February   16, 2019 

Black History Month Thought for Today:  


People don't follow titles, they follow courage.”  



William Wells Brown