Sunday, October 18, 2020

 October  16,  2020


Thought for Today

 

“I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure – which is,  “Try to please everybody.”   


Herbert Swope


 October 15,  2020

BECAUSE?

 

“They are talking about him behind his back.
But nobody is taking to him. Why not?
Why won’t they come right out and tell him?”
 
“Because?”
 
“Well,  because you just can’t go right up to
a person  and say, ‘You can’t do what you’re
doing. You can’t be the way you are?’”
 
“Because?”
 
“Well, because – you know – you just can’t
be that way. Besides, what would it be it be like
if everyone did whatever they wanted to do?”

“Because?”
 
“Well, I don’t know. It just causes stress.
It makes things queasy and uneasy. It allows
agita to be sitting in every seat in the room.”
 
“Because?”
 
”Because!” “Because!” “Because!”
You keep saying, “Because. Because!
Why do you keep doing that?”
 
“Because …."

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 October  15,  2020


Thought for Today

 

“Words can destroy.  What we call each other ultimately becomes what we think of each other, and it matters.” 

 

Jean Kirkpatrick, 1982, Speech


 October  14, 2020




             LONELINESS

 

 Loneliness, it hides in back seats
of buses – or in school yards when
someone makes fun of us for acne
or being fat.  It has friends – but
they are  not people but feelings –
feelings of jealousy – or dismissal –
or nobody is really listening to us.
Loneliness – the cure is eye and
ear contact with another – who is
on the same dark bus with us
as we travel through the night.

  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


October 13, 2020

 

MISTAKES


The mistake is not to accept - there are mistakes.

The mistake is not to learn from mistakes.

The mistake is not to grow in understanding.

The mistake is not to become patient with each other.

The mistake is not to realize trees are crooked.

The mistake is to accept that sidewalks crack.

The mistake is to know that cars get dents.

The mistake is to learn to laugh at oneself.

The mistake is to not accept leakage and crooked legs and arthritic hands.

The mistake is to forget to say, “Sorry. Next time I’ll try to give you a better me and mean it."

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


 October  14, 2020


Thought for Today

 

“A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.”

 

Jessamyn  West,

The Life I really Lived,

1979

 


October 12, 2020

 

NOW THAT’S A  GOOD  QUESTION

 

Question:  “How do I know when I’m praying?”

 
It’s when we don’t ask that question.
It’s when there is only one present –
and it’s both God and you.  What?
 
I repeat: It’s when you don’t ask 
that question. It's when your two 
hands are one and you don't know
which hand is which: right or left?

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020