Saturday, June 13, 2020

June 13, 2020


INTEREVIEWED


Have  you ever been  interviewed? 

What’s one question you’d like to be asked?  

What’s one question, you’d say, “No comment”? 

Your life?  What’s  it  been like? 

Where have you been? 

Regrets? 

Accomplishments?   Give me three or five? 

Learnings?  Give me the main one? 

What would you like them to say, when you’re gone? 

What’s been your biggest learning so far? 

Who has been significant?

What’s your take on God?

What’s God’s take on you?

Anything you think they got wrong about you?

What would you scream at your funeral?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020













June 13, 2020



Thought  for  Today

 “Plain   women  know  more  about  men  than beautiful  ones  do.”

Katharine  Hepburn

Friday, June 12, 2020



SOMETIMES   GOD   WHISPERS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily  for this 12th Friday in Ordinary Time  is, “Sometimes God Whispers.”

TODAY'S FIRST READING: 1 kINGS 19: 9A, 11-16

I would like to reflect  on a few whispers that  I heard  coming out of today’s first reading.

Those who give directed retreats would certainly love  to ask people to pray today’s well known first reading: 1 Kings 19: 9-16. It could help bring some people to sense  where they are.

Elijah is on the run from Ahab. Elijah is hiding out in a cave  - inside – in the dark - in the mountains.  Then Elijah  hears God telling him to go outside – into the great outdoors. He hears the command:  “Stand on the mountain and the Lord will be passing by.”

And God is not in the storm, the heavy winds. We heard the powerful thunder from the heavens yesterday.  And God is not in the earthquake. And God is not in the fire.

But God is in the tiny whisper – and Elijah hides his face in his cloak – till  a voice says, “Elijah, why are you here?”  That’s the Elijah question!

Now that’s a retreat question.  Now that’s a lifetime question.

It can bring the person retreating from the rushes of life to many places.

It sounds like the beginning of the Gospel of John when Andrew meets Christ for the first time and Andrew asks Jesus a very similar question: the Andrew question: “Rabbi! Where do you live?”

It can bring us to come out of our inner mountain hiding places – out of our inner caves –  out of our inner  man caves.  Where do women hide?

Today’s first reading – also  brings me to Plato’s cave – found in the Republic. A good reflection could be to compare Elijah, Socrates, Christ.

Elijah leaves the cave and experiences what many experience: God in the storm, God in the earthquake, God in the fire, but it’s the whisper that is the prayer. It’s the whispers of God in prayer where we can hear God.  These other experiences of God don’t last compared to the soft  whispers of God.

Socrates and Plato – in the allegory of the cave tell us – that most people prefer to stay in the cave – in the dark – chained to their illusions – only seeing the power points of their shadows. They spend their lives – facing their walls – with their backs to their entrances – with their backs to the possible exits out  of the cave. They want to believe the shadows are reality. They don’t accept  the one man – who breaks his chains – leaves the cave - goes out into the light – discovers the real world – and then comes back to tell what he learned – but s rejected.

Christ is executed on the cross – challenging us  to not adulterate ourselves with our Jezebels – and the sins of our eyes and our hearts. [Cf today's gospel: Matthew  5:  27-32]

Socrates was asked to take the hemlock poison – as his sentence to death – for challenging the Greeks with the truth.

Elijah is called to stop running – in spite of his fears – and he hears the words, “Go, take the road back to the desert near Damascus and do what I want you to do.” Isn’t that what God whispers to every one of us!  Go!

CONCLUSION

It would be a good retreat to travel with Elijah. We’ll experience our escapes, our hiding places, our caves. We’ll taste and see  bread, fire, water, the altar, whispers and calls.

I think also – here in this retreat house – not on a mountain – with its caves – but with its seats facing the ocean.  

I look at the water and I think of Herman Melville’s Moby Dick and Captain Ahab and the whales we’re chasing as well as Hemingway and The Old Man and the Sea

I think of this big picture – as well as an Elijahesque  quote by Hemingway: “Try to learn to breathe deeply, really to taste food when you eat, and when you sleep, really to sleep. Try as much as possible to be wholly alive with all your might, and when you laugh, laugh like hell. And when you get angry, get good and angry. Try to be alive. You will be dead soon enough.” Have a good retreat.

June  12,  2020


PICTURES   ALL  
AROUND  THE  ROOM 

Pictures on the walls, on the shelves,
and on the little tables –  all around the room ….
Each Thanksgiving, each time they came
back home, he silently noticed he still didn’t
make the hall of fame. Being the fifth of six
didn’t help – plus being a bit clumsy and
awkward – so bottom line, no pictures.
It became a family joke sort of – in his
family – and his kids made sure they had
plenty of pictures of dad in their house.

Now every story has a happy ending ….
Right?  His second son was a high school
English teacher and had a son and he
dropped a note to his dad. “You made
it sort of.  I was back east and my son’s
picture is on grandmother’s refrigerator.
I now have a new understanding of  a
line in Shakespeare’s Second Sonnet:
'This  fair  child of mine shall sum my
count and make [up for your] old excuses.'”

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020




June  12,   2020




Thought  for  Today 



“Most  ball  games are lost,  not won.”  


Casey Stengel



Thursday, June 11, 2020

June   11, 2020


TRUTH

When truth is not thought out, 
when truth is not seen with its 
consequences, when truth is 
seen as  tissue thin, when truth 
is rose petal soft, when truth is 
made of broken branches – then 
it can be further snapped, further 
unsapped, then it becomes even 
more disconnected with  what is 
necessary for life together –
for commerce and  communication -
then that person doesn’t care if
he or she lies or steals or doesn’t
keep commitments – or their word,
but if truth is  made of metal –
steel or titanium – hammered out –
forged fired – then you’re dealing
with someone you can down deep trust.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020



June   11,  2020





Thought  for  Today 


“As  long as one keeps searching, the answers come.”

Joan  Baez