Saturday, August 31, 2019

August 31, 2019 
ACHE

She saw his ache …. It was in his face ….
Mothers often spot their child’s pain.
They know when something’s not
going right in their life. They know
when something is going wrong in
their marriage - like lately ….
She has watched her daughter-in-law’s
eyes scanning - another man - his
shoulders - his car - his house - his wallet ….
What’s wrong with my son? Have you
forgotten your vows and your dreams?
What about the impact of divorce
and division on my grandkids?
Have your forgotten  the old wisdom
about the color of grass in another’s yard?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



August  31, 2019,  

Thought for today: 

“Should we all confess our sins to one another we would all laugh at one another for our lack of originality.” 


Kahil Gibran, Sand and Foam, 1927

Friday, August 30, 2019



BUT  HE  CAN’T

I know someone who always wants
the remote - the clicker - so he
can change the channel whenever
he wants - to whatever he wants.
I watch his face. I can tell he wishes
he could mute me - change my
channels - shut me off - but he can’t.
I really don't know about him or his other
channels, but I don't want to be remote.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


August  30, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“To my mind the most poignant mystical exhortation ever written is ‘Be still and know that I am God.’”  

Arnold Bennet, 
Journals, 
December 1929. 
[From Psalm 46:10.] 

Thursday, August 29, 2019


OFF   WITH  THEIR  HEADS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Off With Their Heads.”

Today - August 29th - we look at the beheading of St. John the Baptist.

Oooooh,  Messy.  Horrible.

Shakespeare in several of his plays has someone say, “Off With Their Heads.”

Shakespeare  was historically accurate - because that’s what happened many times in British history. Many people had their heads chopped off and stuck on bridge spikes for all to see.

Two of Henry the Eight’s six wives  were beheaded: Anne Boleyn and Catherine Howard.

So too many other people in many other places. 

So too in France - especially with the French Revolution when many were guillitoned. King Louie XVI lost his head on January 21st, 1793 and Marie Antoinette faced down at the guillotine on October 16, 1793.  The number I read last night who were killed in the French Revolution was 40,000.

Off with their heads.

Capital Punishment is the phrase for all kinds of official killings by those in charge - for all kinds of reasons. Capital has that Latin word “caput” in it.  It’s the word for “head”.  And the slang word  “Kaput” - means finished, worn out, dead, broken, the end.  It’s often pronounced with a hand to the                       neck as if a knife is cutting one’s head off.

SILENCED

The idea is to silence - put an end to what we don’t like - especially if it’s another. Want silence: cut off the voice box - mouth and all.

“Beheading”: how did that word evolve.

“Off with their head” and that means their mouth - their words - that means to silence another.

Alice in Wonderland in Lewis Carrol’s famous book screams out: “Off with their heads.”

We read it here in our scriptures - with John the Baptist being silenced - because Herodius harbored a grudge -  as Mark 6: 17-29 - tells us in the gospel for this Mass.

Grudges - held onto bad moments and memories from another seems to be one of the main reasons people are beheaded.

Silence - shut them up - off with their heads.

MODERN TIMES

Horror continues.

Terrorists use television and video clips of beheadings to horrify us.

I think of the horrible silencing that took place in the Bosnia-Herzagovina’s war - when libraries were burned - when town records of birth certificates and property ownership  were destroyed.

The Serbs and then those who reacted and retaliated in kind knew that if you want to destroy a people - if you want to silence a people   -  burn their birth certificates. Burn their deeds.  Destroy their books. Make them non-existant.

HOW DO WE SILENCE THOSE WHO’S VOICES WE DON’T WANT TO HEAR.

We look at our watches.

We yawn.

We cut them out of our conversations.

We cut them with stabbing comments.

We ignore them.

We destroy their capital.

CONCLUSION: THE OPPOSITE

How do we build relationships? How do we build community? How do we receive communion with Christ and each other? It’s with our heads - our capital - our brain center. It’s through our mouth and our   words and our ears with our eyes - all processed in our skull. 

So instead of beheading - hopefully we behold each other - will big time respect for one’s head. Hopefully we spend time seeing each other eye to eye -  and hearing each other All part of our heads - eye to eye - talking heads.



August 29, 2019

SOMETIMES

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to get to where we want to get.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to figure out what we really want.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
for another to figure out we love them.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to say what we really want to say.

Sometimes it take a lot of  times 
to hear what another is trying to tell us.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to know there is a God who knows us.

Sometimes it takes a lot of  times 
to write what we really want to write.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


August  29, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“To the puritan all things are impure.” 

D. H. Lawrence, 
Etruscan Places, 1927